{"id":3335,"date":"2026-06-04T12:22:43","date_gmt":"2026-06-04T12:22:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3335"},"modified":"2026-06-04T12:22:46","modified_gmt":"2026-06-04T12:22:46","slug":"gadijuma-iepazisanas-ka-kristiesiem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/casual-dating-as-christians\/","title":{"rendered":"Gad\u012bjuma iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem: K\u0101 m\u0113s varam no t\u0101 izvair\u012bties?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Vai kristie\u0161u gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i - vai tas visp\u0101r ir iesp\u0113jams? V\u0113l svar\u012bg\u0101k, vai tas ir gudri? Es dom\u0101ju, ka vispirms mums ir j\u0101defin\u0113, kas ir gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i. Parasti vairums kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo satiekas ar nol\u016bku nosl\u0113gt laul\u012bbu k\u0101 gala m\u0113r\u0137i. Vi\u0146i necen\u0161as t\u0113r\u0113t savu vai otra cilv\u0113ka laiku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0101tad, ja k\u0101ds to nedara, vi\u0146\u0161 satiekas tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, lai satikotos. Vi\u0146iem nav gala m\u0113r\u0137a. Vi\u0146i vai nu satiekas no vientul\u012bbas, vai no garlaic\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejau\u0161us randi\u0146us var uzskat\u012bt ar\u012b par vienk\u0101r\u0161u satik\u0161anos ar pret\u0113jo dzimumu, lai iejustos pret\u0113j\u0101 dzimuma p\u0101rst\u0101vju sabiedr\u012bb\u0101. Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir k\u013cuvusi tik sare\u017e\u0123\u012bta, ka liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca v\u012brie\u0161u un sievie\u0161u vairs pat nezina, k\u0101 vienam ar otru sarun\u0101ties. T\u0101p\u0113c da\u017ei izv\u0113las doties uz randi\u0146iem tikai t\u0101d\u0113\u013c, lai atg\u016btu pa\u0161p\u0101rliecin\u0101t\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vai kristie\u0161iem visp\u0101r vajadz\u0113tu izvair\u012bties no gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146iem?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Manupr\u0101t, viss ir atkar\u012bgs no mot\u012bviem. Ja neesat gatavs nopietn\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m, pazi\u0146ojiet par to cilv\u0113kam, ar kuru tiekaties, lai vi\u0146a cer\u012bbas b\u016btu re\u0101las. Ja tu satiekies garlaic\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c vai lai sp\u0113l\u0113tos ar cilv\u0113ku sird\u012bm tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tev pat\u012bk uzman\u012bba, tas ir nepareizs mot\u012bvs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apskat\u012bsim piecus iemeslus, k\u0101p\u0113c gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem var\u0113tu kait\u0113t tavai pastaigai ar Kristu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Gad\u012bjuma maldina skaidr\u012bbu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Tas j\u016bs m\u0101ca samierin\u0101ties<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Tas nov\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu no m\u0113r\u0137a<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Joproj\u0101m saista emocion\u0101l\u0101s saites<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Tas blo\u0137\u0113 Dieva laiku<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Neaizmirs\u012bsim, ka cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 s\u0113\u017e jums pret\u012b uz randi\u0146a, ir rad\u012bts p\u0113c Dieva t\u0113la un l\u012bdz\u012bbas. Vi\u0146u sirdis nav dom\u0101tas tam, lai ar t\u0101m klai\u0146otu vai manipul\u0113tu. Vai j\u016bs v\u0113l\u0113tos, lai pret jums iztur\u0113tos t\u0101pat, ja lomas b\u016btu apmain\u012btas? Ko dar\u012bt, ja k\u0101ds pret jums iztur\u0113tos t\u0101, it k\u0101 neb\u016btu nopietni, bet iztur\u0113tos t\u0101? B\u016bdami kristie\u0161i singles, lab\u0101k cent\u012bsimies iztur\u0113ties pret citiem t\u0101, k\u0101 m\u0113s v\u0113lamies, lai izturas pret mums - pat randi\u0146u laik\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. Neformalit\u0101te mulsina skaidr\u012bbu<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Kas m\u0113s esam? Kurp m\u0113s dodamies? Gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem reti sniedz atbildes uz \u0161iem jaut\u0101jumiem. T\u0101 viet\u0101 t\u0101s rada emocion\u0101lu miglu, kur viena sirds cer, bet otra dreif\u0113. Dieva pl\u0101ns m\u012blest\u012bbai ietver skaidr\u012bbu, nevis apjukumu (1. Korintie\u0161iem 14:33). J\u016bs neesat rad\u012bti, lai dz\u012bvotu nezi\u0146\u0101. Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai tev ir 25 vai 55 gadi, tava sirds ir peln\u012bjusi virzienu. Viss, kas j\u016bs p\u0101r\u0101k ilgi tur neskaidr\u012bb\u0101, iesp\u0113jams, nav Dieva s\u016bt\u012bts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Skaidr\u012bba ir svar\u012bga, jo t\u0101 aizsarg\u0101 j\u016bsu sirdi. Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s 4:23 ir teikts: \u201cP\u0101ri visam, sarg\u0101 savu sirdi<\/a>, jo viss, ko tu dari, izriet no t\u0101.\u201d Ja m\u0113s pret attiec\u012bb\u0101m izturamies pavir\u0161i, m\u0113s galu gal\u0101 varam atst\u0101t savas sirds gabali\u0146us pie cilv\u0113kiem, kuriem nekad nav bijis lemts tos nest. Un, jo vair\u0101k m\u016bsu sirdis ir apjuku\u0161as, jo gr\u016bt\u0101k k\u013c\u016bst skaidri sadzird\u0113t Dievu par to, kas paties\u012bb\u0101 Vi\u0146am ir ar mums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Es atceros p\u0113d\u0113jo v\u012brieti, ar kuru run\u0101ju pirms tik\u0161an\u0101s ar v\u012bru. Vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b vi\u0146\u0161 man teica, ka nev\u0113las b\u016bt t\u0101lvad\u012bb\u0101, lai gan m\u016bs \u0161\u0137\u012bra tikai \u010detrdesmit piecas min\u016btes. Tom\u0113r n\u0101kamos da\u017eus m\u0113ne\u0161us vi\u0146\u0161 mani vilt\u012bgi pavad\u012bja, liekot man dom\u0101t, ka mums ir kaut kas daudzsolo\u0161s. Tas mani tikai mulsin\u0101ja, it k\u0101 es b\u016btu iestr\u0113gusi gaid\u012b\u0161anas re\u017e\u012bm\u0101. Atskatoties atpaka\u013c, man vajadz\u0113ja noteikt skaidras robe\u017eas un atz\u012bt, ka nav vesel\u012bgi uztur\u0113t emocion\u0101li pies\u0101tin\u0101tas sarunas, kad vi\u0146\u0161 neredz\u0113ja m\u016bsu n\u0101kotni. T\u0101 viet\u0101 es \u013c\u0101vu sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m aptum\u0161ot manu spriedumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tikai tad, kad es beidzot pie\u0146\u0113mu l\u0113mumu piln\u012bb\u0101 p\u0101rtraukt saites, es var\u0113ju doties uz priek\u0161u un ieiet taj\u0101, ko Dievs man bija sagatavojis. Daudziem krist\u012bgiem vientu\u013cajiem v\u012brie\u0161iem ir gr\u016bti komunic\u0113t ar otru cilv\u0113ku par to, ko vi\u0146i j\u016bt, ta\u010du vienm\u0113r ir lab\u0101k b\u016bt atkl\u0101tiem par to, kur j\u016bs atrodaties un kur redzat lietas virz\u012bbu. Da\u017ei izv\u0113las patur\u0113t cer\u012bbu, jo sa\u0146em jauktus sign\u0101lus. Tas ar\u012b nav god\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    K\u0101p\u0113c? T\u0101p\u0113c, ka j\u016bs vi\u0146us vienk\u0101r\u0161i uzvedin\u0101t, un tas tikai pasliktina situ\u0101ciju. Nav nek\u0101 s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101ka k\u0101 apzin\u0101ties, ka tu esi piln\u012bgi iek\u0161\u0101, bet otrs cilv\u0113ks nav iek\u0161\u0101. Saruna var neb\u016bt viegla, bet vismaz vi\u0146i tevi vair\u0101k cien\u012bs par to, ka esi bijis god\u012bgs, nevis vilcin\u0101jis lietas un sl\u0113pis paties\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    2. Tas m\u0101ca j\u016bs samierin\u0101ties<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Jo vair\u0101k j\u016bs izklaid\u0113jat \u201cpagaid\u0101m\u201d cilv\u0113kus, jo gr\u016bt\u0101k ir gaid\u012bt \u201cDieva s\u016bt\u012bto\u201d. Gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem var pazemin\u0101t j\u016bsu standartus ar vienu nelielu kompromisu p\u0113c otra. Tas, kas s\u0101kas k\u0101 \u201ct\u0101 ir tikai kafija\u201d, var p\u0101rv\u0113rsties par m\u0113ne\u0161iem iz\u0161\u0137\u0113rd\u0113tas ener\u0123ijas. Un tad, kad tas ir beidzies, tava sirds ir nogurusi un tavs gars ir apb\u0113din\u0101ts. Dieva lab\u0101kais neprasa samierin\u0101\u0161anos - tas prasa pado\u0161anos. Ne\u013cauj gad\u012bjuma d\u0113\u013c iem\u0101c\u012bt savai sirdij pie\u0146emt drupatas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Noregul\u0113\u0161an\u0101s nenotiek vien\u0101 dien\u0101. Tas notiek pamaz\u0101m, kad j\u016bs s\u0101kat attaisnot uzved\u012bbu, par kuru zin\u0101t, ka t\u0101 nav vesel\u012bga. Kad j\u016bs ignor\u0113t sarkanos karodzi\u0146us<\/a> jo vismaz \u201ctev ir k\u0101ds\u201d. T\u0101 notiek, kad j\u016bs pie\u013caujat kompromisus ar saviem standartiem, lai izvair\u012btos no vientul\u012bbas. Es atceros krist\u012bg\u0101s grupas Casting Crowns dziesmu \u201cSlow Fade\u201d. Vien\u0101 no dziesmas rindi\u0146\u0101m ir teikts: \u201cCilv\u0113ki nekad nesabr\u016bk vienas dienas laik\u0101. Tas ir l\u0113ns izzu\u0161ana. Tas ir l\u0113ns izzu\u0161ana, kad tu sevi atdod. Par to tiks samaks\u0101ta cena.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Un, ja esat tik \u013coti koncentr\u0113jies uz sav\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m un vajadz\u012bb\u0101m, j\u016bs vai nu neredzat, kas paties\u012bb\u0101 notiek j\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101, vai ar\u012b, ja j\u016bs pats k\u0101du vad\u0101t, j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i uzskat\u0101t vi\u0146u par izklaides avotu. Es klaus\u012bjos podk\u0101sta epizodi ar v\u012bru un sievu komandu Prestonu Periju un D\u017eekiju Hilu Periju. Prestons dal\u012bj\u0101s, ka liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca vi\u0146a pazi\u0146u v\u012brie\u0161u, kuri jau sen var\u0113ja b\u016bt prec\u0113ju\u0161ies, negrib\u0113ja uz\u0146emties saist\u012bbas tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka vi\u0146iem patika uzman\u012bba, ko vi\u0146i sa\u0146\u0113ma no vair\u0101k\u0101m sieviet\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vair\u0101k sievie\u0161u nek\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161u<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Nav nosl\u0113pums, ka uz plan\u0113tas ir vair\u0101k sievie\u0161u nek\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161u. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca v\u012brie\u0161u to zina, un diem\u017e\u0113l da\u017ei to izmanto sav\u0101 lab\u0101, uzskatot sevi par balvu un gaidot, ka sievietes par vi\u0146iem sacent\u012bsies. Tas ir pasaul\u012bgs un mies\u012bgs dom\u0101\u0161anas veids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ja j\u016bs tiekaties tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, lai ieg\u016btu pret\u0113j\u0101 dzimuma uzman\u012bbu un justos atz\u012bts, tas ir nepareizs mot\u012bvs, un jums ir j\u0101no\u017e\u0113lo gr\u0113ki. Runa ir par cilv\u0113ku sird\u012bm, un Dievs neuzskata par vieglu rota\u013c\u0101ties ar Vi\u0146a d\u0113lu vai meitu sird\u012bm. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs nesaskarsieties ar sek\u0101m uzreiz, ta\u010du \u0161\u0101da veida r\u012bc\u012bbai vienm\u0113r ir sekas. Randieties godpr\u0101t\u012bgi un god\u012bgi. Tas ir vislab\u0101kais veids, kas ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 pagodina Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    L\u016bk, k\u0101da ir paties\u012bba: Dievs j\u016bs nekad nav aicin\u0101jis samierin\u0101ties. V\u0113stul\u0113 efezie\u0161iem 3:20 mums tiek atg\u0101din\u0101ts, ka Dievs \u201cvar dar\u012bt neizm\u0113rojami vair\u0101k nek\u0101 m\u0113s l\u016bdzam vai iedom\u0101jamies.\u201d Tas attiecas ar\u012b uz j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Ja j\u016bs k\u0101 kristie\u0161i iesaist\u0101ties gad\u012bjuma rakstura randi\u0146os, j\u016bs risk\u0113jat apm\u0101c\u012bt savu sirdi pie\u0146emt maz\u0101k nek\u0101 Dieva lab\u0101ko. Un, tikl\u012bdz j\u016bsu sirds iem\u0101c\u0101s samierin\u0101ties, ir daudz gr\u016bt\u0101k pacelties atpaka\u013c l\u012bdz tam standartam, ko Dievs v\u0113las attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz jums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    3. Tas nov\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu no m\u0113r\u0137a<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    J\u016bsu laiks, ener\u0123ija un emocijas ir d\u0101rgas. Ja gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i piesaista j\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu, bie\u017ei vien cie\u0161 j\u016bsu aicin\u0101jums. \u0160\u012b nepilnas slodzes izklaide var aizkav\u0113t pilna laika m\u0113r\u0137i. Tu s\u0101c maz\u0101k l\u016bgt, maz\u0101k pl\u0101not un maz\u0101k sap\u0146ot, jo esi iespr\u016bdis \u201ckas m\u0113s esam?\u201d ciklos. Dievs tevi nav aicin\u0101jis past\u0101v\u012bgi p\u0101rstr\u0101d\u0101t apjukumu - Vi\u0146\u0161 tevi aicin\u0101ja uz mieru. Attiec\u012bbas ar Vi\u0146u j\u016bs virz\u012bs tuv\u0101k j\u016bsu uzdevumam, nevis nov\u0113rs\u012bs j\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu no t\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka visas attiec\u012bbas nov\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu. Dievbij\u012bg\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ir j\u0101att\u012bsta, j\u0101izaicina un j\u0101pal\u012bdz tev v\u0113l vair\u0101k tiekties p\u0113c Dieva. Ta\u010du gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem, kuriem tr\u016bkst virz\u012bbas un m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bbas, m\u0113dz vair\u0101k at\u0146emt nek\u0101 dot. T\u0101s j\u016bs emocion\u0101li iztuk\u0161o, nedodot patiesu partner\u012bbas vai izaugsmes saj\u016btu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kad esat nov\u0113rsis uzman\u012bbu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Ja esat izklied\u0113ts, jums ir gr\u016bt\u0101k \u012bstenot savu m\u0113r\u0137i. Un, ja neejat sav\u0101 m\u0113r\u0137\u012b, j\u016bs neesat lab\u0101kaj\u0101 poz\u012bcij\u0101, lai atpaz\u012btu \u012bsto cilv\u0113ku, kad vi\u0146\u0161 par\u0101d\u0101s. Vai esat k\u0101dreiz redz\u0113ju\u0161i k\u0101du, kas skrien skr\u0113jien\u0101 tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, lai skat\u012btos uz malas? Ja vi\u0146i p\u0101r\u0101k ilgi skat\u012bsies mal\u0101, vi\u0146i vai nu paklups uz sav\u0101m k\u0101j\u0101m, vai ar\u012b paklups k\u0101da cita josl\u0101, liekot visiem p\u0101r\u0113jiem krist. Dievs m\u016bs ir aicin\u0101jis skriet savu skr\u0113jienu. Lai gan laul\u012bba ir skaista d\u0101vana, t\u0101 nav gal\u012bgais dz\u012bves m\u0113r\u0137is. Dievs pras\u012bs no mums atbild\u012bbu par to, lai m\u0113s pabeigtu misiju, uz kuru Vi\u0146\u0161 m\u016bs aicin\u0101jis, ar tiem gadiem, kurus Vi\u0146\u0161 mums devis \u0161eit, uz zemes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    T\u0101p\u0113c, ja esat non\u0101cis iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s kontekst\u0101, kas, k\u0101 j\u016bs zin\u0101t, nov\u0113r\u0161 j\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu, jums no t\u0101 ir j\u0101atk\u0101pjas. Es bie\u017ei redzu jaut\u0101jumus krist\u012bgaj\u0101s vienlaul\u012bbas grup\u0101s no v\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m, kas jaut\u0101, ko vi\u0146iem vajadz\u0113tu dar\u012bt sav\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101, lai gan dzi\u013ci sird\u012b vi\u0146i jau zina atbildi. Vi\u0146i zina, ka attiec\u012bbas nekur nevirz\u0101s, ka t\u0101s nov\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu vai ka \u0161is cilv\u0113ks nav saska\u0146\u0101 ar vi\u0146u uzskatiem. Nav nek\u0101du probl\u0113mu l\u016bgt padomu no tic\u012bgajiem biedriem, ta\u010du dzi\u013ci sird\u012b vi\u0146i jau zina, ko dar\u012bt. Ja j\u016bs zin\u0101t, ko dar\u012bt, tad ejiet uz priek\u0161u, r\u012bkojieties saska\u0146\u0101 ar to un esiet paklaus\u012bgi - pa\u013caujoties, ka Dievs j\u016bs ar laiku atalgos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    4. Joproj\u0101m saista emocion\u0101l\u0101s saites<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Pat bez seksa var izveidot dv\u0113seles saites. Emocion\u0101l\u0101s saites, nakts sarunas un \u201cvienk\u0101r\u0161i vibr\u0101cijas\u201d mirk\u013ci ir saisto\u0161i. Un kad tas beidzas? J\u016bs paliekat \u0161\u0137irot emocion\u0101lo jucekli, ko Dievs jums nekad nav licis n\u0113s\u0101t l\u012bdzi. Sarg\u0101t savu sirdi nenoz\u012bm\u0113 tikai fiziskas robe\u017eas - tas noz\u012bm\u0113 ar\u012b emocion\u0101lu discipl\u012bnu. Ne\u013cauj savai sirdij praktiz\u0113t pie\u0137er\u0161anos tam, kas tai nekad nav bijis paredz\u0113ts, lai to patur\u0113tu. Katra saikne atst\u0101j p\u0113das. P\u0101rliecinies, ka t\u0101 ir no Dieva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kristie\u0161iem tas ir \u012bpa\u0161i svar\u012bgi, jo emocion\u0101l\u0101s saites var ietekm\u0113t j\u016bsu gar\u012bgo ce\u013cu. T\u0101s var aptum\u0161ot j\u016bsu spriedumus, nov\u0113rst j\u016bsu l\u016bg\u0161anas un pat izrais\u012bt vainas vai kauna saj\u016btu. Ja esi emocion\u0101li atdevis da\u013cu sevis vair\u0101kiem cilv\u0113kiem, k\u013c\u016bst gr\u016bt\u0101k iesaist\u012bties n\u0101kotnes attiec\u012bb\u0101s piln\u012bb\u0101 vesels un piln\u012bb\u0101 gatavs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Neform\u0101las iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s m\u0101ca iztur\u0113ties vieglpr\u0101t\u012bgi pret emocij\u0101m, ta\u010du emocijas nav vieglas. Dievs ir devis mums emocijas, lai veidotu dzi\u013cu, nevis virspus\u0113ju saikni. Ja j\u016bs past\u0101v\u012bgi veidojat un p\u0101rtraucat \u0161\u012bs saites, j\u016bs rad\u0101t bag\u0101\u017eu, kas jums galu gal\u0101 b\u016bs j\u0101izpako.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Atceros, k\u0101 m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js D\u017eerijs Flowerss teica: \u201cTavai sirdij nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt k\u0101da cita p\u0101rbaud\u012bjumiem.\u201d T\u0101pat ar\u012b jums nevajadz\u0113tu izmantot k\u0101da cita cilv\u0113ka sirdi, lai p\u0101rbaud\u012btu vai izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101tu. M\u0113s visi esam rad\u012bti p\u0113c Dieva t\u0113la, un Vi\u0146\u0161 m\u016bs uzskata par v\u0113rt\u012bgiem un m\u012blest\u012bbas cien\u012bgiem. Ja m\u0113s apgalvojam, ka esam tic\u012bgie, tad esam aicin\u0101ti iztur\u0113ties pret citiem t\u0101pat - ar m\u012blest\u012bbu un cie\u0146u. Emocijas ir sp\u0113c\u012bgas, t\u0101p\u0113c neiesaistieties ar k\u0101du, ja j\u016bsu nodomi nav patiesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    5. Tas blo\u0137\u0113 Dieva laiku<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Da\u017ereiz kav\u0113\u0161an\u0101s nav no Dieva - t\u0101 ir no j\u016bsu pa\u0161u apvedce\u013cu d\u0113\u013c. Ja j\u016bs izklaid\u0113jaties ar viltojumiem, j\u016bsu liktenim tiek piestiprin\u0101ta z\u012bme \u201cNetrauc\u0113t\u201d. Dievs, iesp\u0113jams, ir gatavs kust\u0113ties, bet tu joproj\u0101m esi saist\u012bts ar k\u0101du, kuram nekad nebija lemts palikt. Atcerieties: Dievs nav l\u0113ns - Vi\u0146\u0161 ir strat\u0113\u0123isks. Bet jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt pieejamam. Ne\u013cauj nejau\u0161ai situ\u0101cijai nozagt laiku no t\u0101, par ko tu l\u016bdzies: no \u012bstas, Dievu cieno\u0161as m\u012blest\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jesajas 55:8-9 ir teikts: \u201cJo manas domas nav j\u016bsu domas un j\u016bsu ce\u013ci nav mani ce\u013ci, saka Tas Kungs.\u201d Dieva laiks ir perfekts, bet, ja tu esi sapinies k\u0101d\u0101 ikdieni\u0161\u0137\u0101 liet\u0101, tu vari aizkav\u0113t vai pat palaist gar\u0101m to, ko Vi\u0146\u0161 tev v\u0113las dot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Uztic\u0113\u0161an\u0101s Dieva laikam<\/a> tas noz\u012bm\u0113 gatav\u012bbu atteikties no t\u0101, kas ir izdev\u012bgs konkr\u0113taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, lai ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 sasniegtu lab\u0101ko. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt paciet\u012bgam pat tad, kad iezogas vientul\u012bba. Varb\u016bt pateikt \u201cn\u0113\u201d trauc\u0113jo\u0161iem faktoriem, lai var\u0113tu teikt \"j\u0101\" liktenim. Varb\u016bt tas izklaus\u0101s kli\u0161ejiski - \"uztic\u0113ties Dieva laikam\", bet nekas nevar b\u016bt dro\u0161\u0101ks. Dievs zina prec\u012bzi pareizo laiku, lai tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 ienestu pareizo cilv\u0113ku. Tas var notikt \u0161ogad vai ar\u012b p\u0113c desmit gadiem. M\u016bsu uzdevums nav zin\u0101t Dieva pl\u0101na laika grafiku - to m\u0113s nekad piln\u012bb\u0101 nesaprat\u012bsim. M\u016bsu uzdevums ir kalpot un palikt uztic\u012bgiem tur, kur atrodamies, pa\u013caujoties uz to, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 mums raksta perfektu st\u0101stu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Palieciet uztic\u012bgi gaid\u012b\u0161anas laik\u0101<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Es zinu, ka tas nav viegli, un, iesp\u0113jams, tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c daudzi kristie\u0161i apsver gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146us - vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113las b\u016bt ar k\u0101du kop\u0101. Bet, ja j\u016bs satiekaties tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, lai izklaid\u0113tos vai izb\u0113gtu no garlaic\u012bbas, tas nav pareizais mot\u012bvs. Ja esi atkl\u0101jis, ka \u0161\u0101di r\u012bkojies, ej pie T\u0101 Kunga un l\u016bdz Vi\u0146u p\u0101rmekl\u0113t tavu sirdi. \u013baujiet Vi\u0146am atkl\u0101t saknes, k\u0101p\u0113c t\u0101 notiek, un main\u012bt savas v\u0113lmes. Sv\u0113tie Raksti mums atg\u0101dina, ka visam, ko m\u0113s dar\u0101m, ir j\u0101b\u016bt Dieva godam. Daudzi no mums nedom\u0101, ka tas attiecas ar\u012b uz randi\u0146iem, ta\u010du pat attiec\u012bb\u0101s visam, ko m\u0113s dar\u0101m, galu gal\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu god\u0101t Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Vai kristie\u0161iem vajadz\u0113tu izvair\u012bties no gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146iem?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Galu gal\u0101, j\u0101 - gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem bie\u017ei vien nodara vair\u0101k \u013cauna nek\u0101 laba. T\u0101s mulsina skaidr\u012bbu, m\u0101ca iek\u0101rtoties uz dz\u012bvi, nov\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu no m\u0113r\u0137a, rada emocion\u0101las saites un var blo\u0137\u0113t Dieva laika noteik\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ta\u010du runa nav par leg\u0101lismu vai noteikumu iev\u0113ro\u0161anu. Runa ir par j\u016bsu sirdi. Runa ir par to, k\u0101 staig\u0101t gudr\u012bb\u0101 un sarg\u0101t m\u012blest\u012bbas d\u0101vanu, ko Dievs tev\u012b ir ielicis. Ja tu v\u0113l neesi gatavs nopietn\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m, tas ir labi - pie\u0146em savu vientul\u012bbu. Izmanto \u0161o laiku, lai augtu, dziedin\u0101tos un sagatavotos. Net\u0113r\u0113 to velt\u012bgi attiec\u012bb\u0101m, kas noved tikai pie apjukuma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Un, ja esi gatavs attiec\u012bb\u0101m, mekl\u0113 t\u0101s ar l\u016bg\u0161anu. Esiet god\u012bgi par saviem nodomiem. Mekl\u0113jiet k\u0101du, kam ir l\u012bdz\u012bga j\u016bsu tic\u012bba un v\u0113rt\u012bbas. Visvair\u0101k uzticieties Dievam, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 atved\u012bs \u012bsto cilv\u0113ku \u012bstaj\u0101 laik\u0101. Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s nav j\u0101komplic\u0113, un tai nav j\u0101b\u016bt gad\u012bjuma rakstura. Kad j\u016bs datums ar skaidr\u012bbu<\/a>, m\u0113r\u0137is un Dievs centr\u0101, j\u016bs atrad\u012bsiet mieru \u0161aj\u0101 proces\u0101 - pat pirms apsol\u012bjuma sa\u0146em\u0161anas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Bie\u017e\u0101k uzdotie jaut\u0101jumi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Vai gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem ir gr\u0113ks?<\/strong> B\u012bbel\u0113 nav izmantota fr\u0101ze \u201cgad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i\u201d, ta\u010du Sv\u0113tie Raksti skaidri run\u0101 par to, k\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi (Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bbas 4:23), iztur\u0113ties pret citiem godbij\u012bgi un veidot attiec\u012bbas ar godpr\u0101t\u012bbu. Tas, vai gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem p\u0101rk\u0101pj robe\u017eu, ir atkar\u012bgs no mot\u012bviem, ta\u010du, \u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 apjukuma, emocion\u0101las iesl\u012bg\u0161anas un nov\u0113r\u0161an\u0101s no m\u0113r\u0137a risku, liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai kristie\u0161u ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi no t\u0101 izvair\u012bties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vai kristie\u0161i var tikties bez saist\u012bb\u0101m?<\/strong> Kristie\u0161i var doties uz randi\u0146iem, uzreiz neuzs\u0101kot attiec\u012bbas, ta\u010du randi\u0146i bez jebk\u0101da nodoma vai virziena parasti nodara vair\u0101k \u013cauna nek\u0101 laba - abiem iesaist\u012btajiem cilv\u0113kiem. Nejau\u0161i randi\u0146i kristie\u0161iem bie\u017ei vien rada emocion\u0101lu bag\u0101\u017eu, kas apgr\u016btina ieie\u0161anu attiec\u012bb\u0101s, kuras Dievs tev paties\u012bb\u0101 ir paredz\u0113jis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ko B\u012bbele saka par gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146iem?<\/strong> B\u012bbele tie\u0161i nerun\u0101 par randi\u0146iem, bet t\u0101di principi k\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, m\u012bl\u0113t citus k\u0101 sevi un b\u0113gt no situ\u0101cij\u0101m, kas apdraud j\u016bsu integrit\u0101ti, ir piem\u0113rojami. Kristie\u0161iem jaut\u0101jums nav tikai \u201cvai tas ir at\u013cauts?\u201d, bet gan \u201cvai tas ir gods Dievam un cilv\u0113kam, ar kuru es esmu kop\u0101?\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Esiet gatavi p\u0101rvar\u0113t gad\u012bjuma randi\u0146us k\u0101 kristie\u0161i un atrast patiesu, m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bgu saikni.<\/a>? Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113jiet SALT lietotni jau \u0161odien!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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