{"id":3159,"date":"2026-01-29T11:03:41","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T11:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3159"},"modified":"2026-01-29T11:03:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-29T11:03:42","slug":"kristiesi-apprecas-parak-atri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/christians-get-married-too-fast\/","title":{"rendered":"Kristie\u0161i precas p\u0101r\u0101k \u0101tri!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo cer, ka vi\u0146i apprec\u0113sies pirms tr\u012bsdesmit gadu vecuma. Pat da\u017ei jaun\u0101ki kristie\u0161i divdesmit gadu vecum\u0101 dom\u0101, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, ja vi\u0146i nav prec\u0113ju\u0161ies divdesmit piecu gadu vecum\u0101. No kurienes m\u0113s \u0146emam \u0161os termi\u0146us? Kur\u0161 saka, ka ir k\u0101ds der\u012bguma termi\u0146\u0161 prec\u012bb\u0101m vai ka ir par v\u0113lu, kad esi p\u0101rk\u0101pis piecdesmit gadu vecumu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0101 j\u016bs zin\u0101t, vai steidzaties pie alt\u0101ra? \u0160eit ir da\u017ei veidi, k\u0101 to noteikt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-1-you-re-ignoring-red-flags\">1. J\u016bs ignor\u0113jat sarkanos karodzi\u0146us<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-2-you-confuse-chemistry-with-calling\">2. J\u016bs jaucat \u0137\u012bmiju ar aicin\u0101jumu<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-3-you-re-spiritually-guilt-tripped\">3. J\u016bs esat gar\u012bgi apvainojies.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-4-you-don-t-know-their-fruit\">4. J\u016bs nepaz\u012bstat vi\u0146u aug\u013cus<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-5-god-s-peace-is-missing\">5. Tr\u016bkst Dieva miera<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m jums viss b\u016bs skaidrs, bet jums \u0161aj\u0101 proces\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu iesaist\u012bt Dievu. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, kas tev ir \u012bstais, t\u0101p\u0113c neignor\u0113 nemieru, ko vari just sav\u0101 gar\u0101. Ja Vi\u0146\u0161 skaidri saka: \u201cTas nav man, t\u0101 nav mana griba,\u201d neignor\u0113jiet to, dom\u0101dami, ka varat main\u012bt otru cilv\u0113ku. Tikai Dievs var main\u012bt cilv\u0113ka sirdi, t\u0101p\u0113c nepie\u0137erieties meliem, ka j\u016bs esat iz\u0146\u0113mums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Vai kristie\u0161i precas p\u0101r\u0101k \u0101tri?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/M9Jb1GD8lOU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Ievads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es dom\u0101ju, ka t\u0101 ir kombin\u0101cija no vair\u0101k\u0101m liet\u0101m, kas liek kristie\u0161iem tic\u0113t, ka vi\u0146iem ir nepiecie\u0161ams apprec\u0113ties \u0101tri. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca bazn\u012bcu laul\u012bbu uzskata par \u201cgalu visiem\u201d, t\u0101p\u0113c liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca kristie\u0161u vientu\u013cnieku j\u016btas atstumti vai k\u0101 slimi ar ne\u0101rst\u0113jamu slim\u012bbu. Atkar\u012bb\u0101 no t\u0101, kur\u0101 pasaules da\u013c\u0101 tu dz\u012bvo, sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 laul\u012bba izklaus\u0101s k\u0101 n\u0101kamais solis dz\u012bv\u0113. J\u016bs dodaties uz skolu, atrodat karjeru, apprecaties un jums ir b\u0113rni. Laul\u012bba vienk\u0101r\u0161i tiek uzskat\u012bta par dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013cu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varb\u016bt esat uzaudzis kult\u016br\u0101, kur\u0101 laul\u012bba tiek uzskat\u012bta par svar\u012bgu, t\u0101p\u0113c izj\u016btat spiedienu no \u0123imenes locek\u013ciem. J\u016bs v\u0113laties tic\u0113t, ka vi\u0146i v\u0113las labi, bet jums nepat\u012bk doties m\u0101j\u0101s uz br\u012bvdien\u0101m vienatn\u0113, jo jau tagad zin\u0101t, ka starp j\u016bsu m\u0101ti un t\u0113t\u0101m k\u0101ds jaut\u0101s: \u201cVai tu ar k\u0101du tiekies? Tev j\u0101steidzas.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012apa\u0161i vientu\u013c\u0101s kristietes izj\u016bt spiedienu, jo liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca no t\u0101m v\u0113las k\u013c\u016bt par m\u0101t\u0113m un uzskata, ka vi\u0146\u0101m tas ir j\u0101pan\u0101k, lai vi\u0146\u0101m b\u016btu b\u0113rni. Es nesaku, ka Dievs v\u0113las, lai katrai sievietei b\u016btu b\u0113rni\u0146\u0161 p\u0113c tr\u012bsdesmit pieciem vai pat \u010detrdesmit gadiem, ta\u010du esmu redz\u0113jusi, ka Dievs sv\u0113t\u012b vec\u0101kas sievietes ar veseliem b\u0113rniem. Iesp\u0113jams, tas nav bijis tas, ko vi\u0146as bija gaid\u012bju\u0161as, bet vi\u0146as ne par ko nemain\u012btu savu b\u0113rnu, pat ja tas noz\u012bm\u0113tu nedaudz ilg\u0101ku gaid\u012b\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Diem\u017e\u0113l visi \u0161ie spiedieni no \u0101rpuses un pat no iek\u0161ienes ir liku\u0161i liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo pie\u0146emt p\u0101rsteidz\u012bgus l\u0113mumus. Vi\u0146i steidzas pateikt \u201cj\u0101\u201d, lai non\u0101ktu laul\u012bb\u0101, ko Dievs nekad nav paredz\u0113jis. Es piedalos Facebook jauno sievu grup\u0101, un es nevaru ne aprakst\u012bt, cik daudz st\u0101stu esmu redz\u0113jusi, kuros dal\u012bju\u0161\u0101s sievietes, kas steig\u0101 apprec\u0113ju\u0161\u0101s. Tagad vi\u0146as sask\u0101r\u0101s ar \u0161\u0137ir\u0161anos, kas, k\u0101 m\u0113s visi zin\u0101m, ir posto\u0161a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-you-re-ignoring-red-flags\">1. J\u016bs ignor\u0113jat sarkanos karodzi\u0146us<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs to redzat, bet nev\u0113laties to redz\u0113t. Varb\u016bt vi\u0146i noraida j\u016bsu p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, nepilda to, ko saka, vai par\u0101da kontroles vai nekonsekvences uzplaiksn\u012bjumus, bet j\u016bs to ignor\u0113jat. J\u016bs sak\u0101t sev: \u201cNeviens nav perfekts\u201d vai \u201cDievs var vi\u0146us main\u012bt.\u201d J\u016bs sak\u0101t sev: \"Neviens nav perfekts\" vai \"Dievs var vi\u0146us main\u012bt.\" J\u0101, Vi\u0146\u0161 var, bet j\u016bs neesat Sv\u0113tais Gars, un laul\u012bba nenov\u0113r\u0161 disfunkciju. T\u0101 to pastiprina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja j\u016btat diskomfortu un jums ir j\u0101turpina klus\u0113t, pal\u0113niniet tempu. Sarkanie karogi nav tikai br\u012bdin\u0101jumi. Tie ir aicin\u0101jumi apst\u0101ties un l\u016bgt. Nep\u0101rsveriet br\u012bdin\u0101juma z\u012bmes tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka v\u0113laties, lai st\u0101sts att\u012bst\u012btos \u0101tr\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pusaud\u017eu vecum\u0101 es dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir viss, kas vajadz\u012bgs, jo es draudz\u0113 satikos ar k\u0101du puisi. Es k\u013c\u016bd\u012bjos. Daudzi pui\u0161i, ar kuriem es satikos, vienk\u0101r\u0161i g\u0101ja cauri, bet vi\u0146i nebija p\u0101rdoti Dievam. Lielais p\u0101rbaud\u012bjums bija tad, kad runa bija par pirmslaul\u012bbu seksu, un daudzi no vi\u0146iem taj\u0101 neredz\u0113ja neko sliktu. Es to saskat\u012bju, t\u0101p\u0113c dzi\u013ci sird\u012b zin\u0101ju, ka tas nedarbosies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad es satiku savu v\u012bru, vi\u0146\u0161 jau bija ap\u0146\u0113mies staig\u0101t \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bb\u0101. Vi\u0146\u0161 vad\u012bja mani \u0161aj\u0101 jom\u0101, t\u0101p\u0113c man nevajadz\u0113ja skaidrot savas robe\u017eas. T\u0101 ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba. J\u016bs v\u0113laties k\u0101du, kur\u0161 jau apzin\u0101ti staig\u0101 ar Kungu. Nevis atz\u012bm\u0113 lietas no sava reli\u0123isko darbu saraksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ignoring-red-flags\">Sarkano karogu ignor\u0113\u0161ana<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c sarkano karogu ignor\u0113\u0161ana ir tik b\u012bstama. Jo liel\u0101koties tas, ko s\u0101kum\u0101 m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t attaisnot, laika gait\u0101 k\u013c\u016bst arvien ska\u013c\u0101ks. Ja k\u0101da cilv\u0113ka dz\u012bvesveids ir pretrun\u0101 ar p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, uz kuras j\u016bs veidojat savu dz\u012bvi, tas \u201cpats no sevis\u201d p\u0113c tam, kad j\u016bs teiksiet \u201cj\u0101\u201d, neatrisin\u0101sies. T\u0101 tikai k\u013c\u016bst smag\u0101ka. Cilv\u0113ki br\u012bnumain\u0101 k\u0101rt\u0101 nek\u013c\u016bst dievbij\u012bgi, konsekventi vai nobriedu\u0161i tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir apprec\u0113ju\u0161ies. Laul\u012bba nemaina raksturu - t\u0101 to atkl\u0101j.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da\u017ereiz visgr\u016bt\u0101k ir nevis paman\u012bt. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/sarkanie-karogi\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"147\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sarkanais karogs<\/a>. T\u0101 ir atz\u012b\u0161ana, ka tas kaut ko noz\u012bm\u0113. Bet Dievs nem\u0113\u0123ina saboj\u0101t j\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bbas st\u0101stu - Vi\u0146\u0161 cen\u0161as to aizsarg\u0101t. Vi\u0146a \u201cn\u0113\u201d vai \u201cv\u0113l n\u0113\u201d nav sods. T\u0101 ir dro\u0161\u012bba, t\u0101 ir \u017e\u0113last\u012bba. Tas ir Vi\u0146\u0161, kas pasarg\u0101 tevi no n\u0101kotnes versijas, kur\u0101 tu b\u016btu v\u0113l\u0113jies, lai tu b\u016btu klaus\u012bjies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sarkanie karodzi\u0146i nediskvalific\u0113 cilv\u0113ku no Dieva m\u012blest\u012bbas, ta\u010du tie var diskvalific\u0113t vi\u0146u no t\u0101, lai vi\u0146\u0161 var\u0113tu j\u016bs vad\u012bt der\u012bbas attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Piev\u0113rsiet uzman\u012bbu. Ignor\u0113jot to, ko Dievs jums r\u0101da, nekad nebeidzas labi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-confuse-chemistry-with-calling\">2. J\u016bs jaucat \u0137\u012bmiju ar aicin\u0101jumu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas, ka ir dzirkstele, nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka ir n\u0101kotne. \u0160\u012b magn\u0113tisk\u0101 pievilk\u0161ana, kop\u012bgs dievkalpojumu atska\u0146o\u0161anas saraksts, m\u012b\u013ci iek\u0161\u0113jie joki - tie ir lieliski. Bet \u0137\u012bmija bez rakstura ir av\u0101rija, kas gaida, kad notiks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievs neveido p\u0101rus, pamatojoties tikai uz kaisl\u012bb\u0101m. Vi\u0146\u0161 saska\u0146o m\u0113r\u0137us. Vai j\u016bsu dz\u012bves ir v\u0113rstas vien\u0101 virzien\u0101, kad neviens neredz? Vai j\u016bsu saiknei ir aicin\u0101juma svars vai tikai sader\u012bbas siltums? Laul\u012bbai ir vajadz\u012bgs kas vair\u0101k nek\u0101 vibr\u0101cijas. Tai ir vajadz\u012bga v\u012bzija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-0\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iepaz\u012bstot savu v\u012bru, es zin\u0101ju, ka m\u0113s str\u0101d\u0101sim kop\u0101, lai kaut k\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 izpatiktu Dievam. Tagad m\u0113s plecu pie pleca str\u0101d\u0101jam kalpo\u0161an\u0101, vadot m\u016bsu draudzes podk\u0101stu. M\u0113s str\u0101d\u0101jam komand\u0101, apsprie\u017eot Sv\u0113tos Rakstus, un es redzu, k\u0101 Dievs darbojas caur m\u016bsu laul\u012bbu, lai sv\u0113t\u012btu citus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vai mums ir jautri? J\u0101, viena no m\u016bsu iecien\u012bt\u0101kaj\u0101m kop\u012bg\u0101m nodarb\u0113m ir skat\u012bties dokument\u0101l\u0101s filmas vai mu\u013c\u0137\u012bgus rull\u012b\u0161us Facebook. T\u0101 ir da\u013ca no m\u016bsu laul\u012bbas, bet ne t\u0101s pamats. Kad m\u0113s s\u0101k\u0101m run\u0101t, m\u0113s s\u0101k\u0101m ar m\u016bsu tic\u012bbu un Dieva v\u0101rdu. No turienes tas p\u0101rauga no gar\u012bgas saiknes uz emocion\u0101lu saikni. Kad Dievs to dar\u012bs, tu to zin\u0101si, jo lietas att\u012bst\u012bsies pak\u0101peniski un vesel\u012bg\u0101 temp\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tempted-to-rush\">K\u0101rdin\u0101jums steigties<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tie\u0161i \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie nereti panik\u0101. Vi\u0146i satiek k\u0101du cilv\u0113ku, saj\u016bt dzirksteli un p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i dom\u0101: \u201cTam j\u0101b\u016bt Dievam.\u201d Ta\u010du emocijas var b\u016bt ska\u013cas. Pievilc\u012bba var b\u016bt sp\u0113c\u012bga. \u0136\u012bmija var aptum\u0161ot skaidr\u012bbu, ja j\u016bs pietiekami ilgi nepalai\u017eat tempu, lai p\u0101rbaud\u012btu, k\u0101ds gar\u012bgais pamats ir zem t\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0136\u012bmija ir vienk\u0101r\u0161a. Lai izbaud\u012btu k\u0101da cilv\u0113ka person\u012bbu, pasmieties par vi\u0146a jokiem vai justos piesaist\u012bts, nav vajadz\u012bga iz\u0161\u0137irt\u012bba. Bet aicin\u0101jums prasa laiku. Aicin\u0101jums atkl\u0101j, k\u0101da b\u016bs j\u016bsu dz\u012bve p\u0113c pieciem, desmit, divdesmit gadiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zvanot tiek uzdoti \u0161\u0101di jaut\u0101jumi: Vai j\u016bs varat l\u016bgties kop\u0101? Vai j\u016bs varat augt kop\u0101? Vai j\u016bs varat kop\u0101 iziet cauri v\u0113tr\u0101m? Vai j\u016bs kop\u0101 audzin\u0101siet b\u0113rnus Krist\u016b? \u0136\u012bmija jums uz \u0161iem jaut\u0101jumiem neatbild\u0113s. Atbild\u0113s raksturs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad Dievs patiesi aicina divus cilv\u0113kus kop\u0101, tad past\u0101v saska\u0146u - ne tikai pievilk\u0161an\u0101s. Ir skaidr\u012bba, nevis apjukums. Ir izaugsme, nevis kompromiss. \u0136\u012bmija var s\u0101kt attiec\u012bbas, bet aicin\u0101jums uztur laul\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-re-spiritually-guilt-tripped\">3. J\u016bs esat gar\u012bgi apvainojies.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varb\u016bt k\u0101ds ir teicis: \u201cJa tu gaid\u012bsi, tu palaid\u012bsi gar\u0101m savu sv\u0113t\u012bbu.\u201d Vai v\u0113l slikt\u0101k: \u201cDievs man teica, ka tu esi mans laul\u0101tais.\u201d T\u0101 nav atpaz\u012b\u0161ana. T\u0101 ir manipul\u0101cija, \u012bpa\u0161i, ja tev at\u0146em br\u012bvu gribu un liek izv\u0113l\u0113ties. Spiediens, kas mask\u0113ts Sv\u0113tajos Rakstos, joproj\u0101m ir spiediens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne\u013caujiet, lai k\u0101da steidzam\u012bba k\u013c\u016bst par j\u016bsu laika grafiku. Dieva griba nekad nav piespiedu vai drud\u017eaina. Ja kaut kas patiesi ir no Vi\u0146a, nav nepiecie\u0161ams, lai bailes j\u016bs p\u0101rliecin\u0101tu. Tev ir at\u013cauts nesteigties, uzdot gr\u016btus jaut\u0101jumus un aiziet prom, ja nav miera - neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, cik \u201cgar\u012bgi\u201d tas izskat\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-1\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lai gan mans v\u012brs tic\u0113ja, ka Dievs vi\u0146am teica, ka es esmu vi\u0146a sieva, vi\u0146\u0161 man to pateica tikai p\u0113c tam, kad m\u0113s bij\u0101m saderin\u0101ju\u0161ies. K\u0101p\u0113c? Vi\u0146\u0161 negrib\u0113ja, lai es justos spiesta. Vi\u0146\u0161 grib\u0113ja, lai es pati non\u0101ku pie saviem secin\u0101jumiem un pati mekl\u0113ju Dieva padomu. Ar laiku Dievs to apstiprin\u0101ja, un es priec\u0101jos, ka mans v\u012brs bija paciet\u012bgs un pagaid\u012bja mani. T\u0101 ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba. Dievs \u013coti labi var jums par\u0101d\u012bt, bet nelietojiet to k\u0101 ieroci pret otru cilv\u0113ku, lai uzspiestu to, ko v\u0113laties. Vi\u0146iem ir br\u012bva griba, t\u0101p\u0113c neat\u0146emiet vi\u0146iem to, un paturiet pr\u0101t\u0101, ka ir iesp\u0113jams k\u013c\u016bd\u012bties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jums var \u0161\u0137ist, ka Dievs jums saka \u201cvi\u0146i ir tie \u012bstie\u201d, ta\u010du paties\u012bb\u0101 t\u0101s ir j\u016bsu emocijas un v\u0113lmes. T\u0101 notika ar puisi, kuru satiku pirms sava v\u012bra. Es var\u0113ju zv\u0113r\u0113t, ka Dievs man teica, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir mans v\u012brs, bet, kad tas neizdev\u0101s, man n\u0101c\u0101s nor\u012bt smago tableti, ka tas viss bija tikai man\u0101 galv\u0101. Kad tas patie\u0161\u0101m ir Dievs, Vi\u0146\u0161 to apstiprin\u0101s ar otru cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-danger-of-over-spiritualizing\">P\u0101rlieku liela gar\u012bguma briesmas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101p\u0113c gar\u012bgais spiediens ir tik b\u012bstams. Tas apiet j\u016bsu pa\u0161u spriestsp\u0113ju. Tas m\u0113\u0123ina sa\u012bsin\u0101t procesu, ko Dievs ir izveidojis, lai j\u016bs aizsarg\u0101tu. Ja k\u0101ds izmanto Dieva v\u0101rdu, lai apietu j\u016bsu robe\u017eas, j\u016bsu gudr\u012bbu, j\u016bsu laiku vai j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbas ar Vi\u0146u - tas nav sv\u0113ts. Tas ir kait\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievam nekad nav vajadz\u012bga bai\u013cu taktika, lai piepild\u012btu Savu gribu. Ja k\u0101ds j\u016bs steidzina, izmanto Sv\u0113tos Rakstus, lai j\u016bs vainot vai cen\u0161as likt jums justies t\u0101, it k\u0101 j\u016bs \u201cnepaklaus\u012btu Dievam\u201d, r\u012bkojoties l\u0113ni, atk\u0101pieties. M\u012blest\u012bba gaida. Gudr\u012bba gaida. Dievs pats gaida. Manipul\u0101cijas nepieder pie laul\u012bbas pamatiem. Un, ja t\u0101 notiek pirms k\u0101z\u0101m... t\u0101 tikai pieaug p\u0113c k\u0101z\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-you-don-t-know-their-fruit\">4. J\u016bs nepaz\u012bstat vi\u0146u aug\u013cus<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs zin\u0101t vi\u0146u m\u012b\u013c\u0101ko Rakstu vietu un to, k\u0101 vi\u0146i r\u012bkojas sv\u0113tdien\u0101s. Bet vai j\u016bs zin\u0101t vi\u0146u aug\u013cus? K\u0101 vi\u0146i izturas pret vil\u0161anos, korekciju vai konfront\u0101ciju? K\u0101 vi\u0146i izturas pret cilv\u0113kiem, kuri nevar vi\u0146iem sniegt labumu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u0113zus teica, ka m\u0113s paz\u012bsim cilv\u0113kus p\u0113c vi\u0146u aug\u013ciem, nevis p\u0113c t\u0101, cik ska\u013ci vi\u0146i piel\u016bdz vai cik bie\u017ei gav\u0113. Jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams kas vair\u0101k nek\u0101 tikai gar\u012bgs k\u0146ada. Jums vajag pier\u0101d\u012bjumus par briedumu, pazem\u012bbu, konsekvenci - un no\u017e\u0113lu, kad vi\u0146i k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s. Lai aug\u013ci augtu, ir nepiecie\u0161ams laiks. Ja j\u016bs to v\u0113l neesat redz\u0113ju\u0161i, nesaista savu dz\u012bvi ar to, kas var\u0113tu att\u012bst\u012bties v\u0113l\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-2\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mana v\u012bra tic\u012bba neaprobe\u017eojas tikai ar sv\u0113tdien\u0101m. Vi\u0146\u0161 to izdz\u012bvo katru dienu. Vi\u0146\u0161 mostas katru r\u012btu, lai las\u012btu un l\u016bgtos. Kad Dievs vi\u0146am dod za\u013co gaismu, vi\u0146am nav probl\u0113mu l\u016bgt par tikko satiktu sve\u0161inieku. J\u0113zus ir vi\u0146a dz\u012bvesveids, un es to redz\u0113ju uzreiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pat tad, kad m\u0113s run\u0101j\u0101mies, vi\u0146\u0161 p\u0101rtrauca sarunu p\u0113c noteikta laika, jo negrib\u0113ja, lai m\u016bsu sarunas k\u013c\u016btu nepiedien\u012bgas. Agr\u0101k pui\u0161i, ar kuriem es tikos, par to ner\u016bp\u0113j\u0101s. Vi\u0146iem nekad netrauc\u0113ja pa telefonu pateikt man kaut ko juteklisku. Ta\u010du mans v\u012brs bija cit\u0101ds, jo vi\u0146\u0161 pat v\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s, lai m\u016bsu sarunas patiktu Kungam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uzdodiet sev \u0161\u0101du jaut\u0101jumu. Vai \u0161\u012bs personas dz\u012bv\u0113 ir skaidri redzams J\u0113zus? Ja n\u0113, tas ir milz\u012bgs sarkans karogs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-progress-not-perfection\">Progress, nevis piln\u012bba<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tie\u0161i \u0161eit daudzi kristie\u0161i tiek apstulbin\u0101ti. M\u0113s dom\u0101jam, ka aug\u013ci noz\u012bm\u0113 piln\u012bbu. Tas t\u0101 nav. Aug\u013ci noz\u012bm\u0113 izaugsmi. Aug\u013ci noz\u012bm\u0113 pazem\u012bbu. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113 integrit\u0101ti, kad neviens neskat\u0101s. Aug\u013ci noz\u012bm\u0113 atbild\u012bbu, ja vi\u0146i k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s. Aug\u013ci noz\u012bm\u0113 konsekventas izv\u0113les, kas atspogu\u013co J\u0113zu, nevis perfektu sniegumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0113c divu m\u0113ne\u0161u sarun\u0101m nevar zin\u0101t, k\u0101ds ir k\u0101da cilv\u0113ka auglis. J\u0101, j\u016bs varat saskat\u012bt vi\u0146u person\u012bbu. J\u016bs varat iepaz\u012bt vi\u0146u \u0161armu. J\u016bs varat uzzin\u0101t vi\u0146u kl\u0101tb\u016btni soci\u0101lajos t\u012bklos. Bet aug\u013ciem ir vajadz\u012bgs laiks. Aug\u013ciem ir vajadz\u012bgi gadalaiki. Lai ieg\u016btu aug\u013cus, ir j\u0101redz, k\u0101 vi\u0146i rea\u0123\u0113, kad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Vi\u0146i ir neapmierin\u0101ti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi\u0146i ir v\u012blu\u0161ies<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tie ir izlaboti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi\u0146i ir k\u0101rdin\u0101ti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi\u0146i ir sasprindzin\u0101ti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi\u0146i ir aizvainoti<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja k\u0101ds nesp\u0113j tikt gal\u0101 ar re\u0101l\u0101s dz\u012bves spiedienu ar Kristum l\u012bdz\u012bgu briedumu pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m, vi\u0146\u0161 nesp\u0113s to br\u012bnumain\u0101 veid\u0101 tikt gal\u0101 ar\u012b p\u0113c laul\u012bb\u0101m. Aug\u013ci j\u016bs pasarg\u0101. Tas pier\u0101da gatav\u012bbu. Aug\u013ci atkl\u0101j, vai k\u0101ds patiesi seko Kristum, vai tikai seko vibr\u0101cij\u0101m.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neprec\u0113jieties ar potenci\u0101lu. Neprec\u0113jieties ar priek\u0161nesumiem. Prec\u0113jieties ar aug\u013ciem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-god-s-peace-is-missing\">5. Tr\u016bkst Dieva miera<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs esat satraukts, p\u0101rdom\u0101jat un nevarat aizmigt, bet turpiniet sev atk\u0101rtot, ka tie\u0161i par to j\u016bs l\u016bdz\u0101ties. Pauze. Dieva miers nerada paniku. Vi\u0146a kl\u0101tb\u016btne neprasa, lai j\u016bs sevi p\u0101rliecin\u0101tu, ka tas ir pareizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Miers ne vienm\u0113r ir ska\u013c\u0161, bet tas vienm\u0113r ir kl\u0101teso\u0161s. Un, kad Dievs patiesi ir j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu centr\u0101, tas izpau\u017eas j\u016bsu abu kust\u012bb\u0101s - ne tikai j\u016bsu teiktaj\u0101. Ja nav miera, j\u016bsu atbilde var neb\u016bt \u201ciet\u201d, bet gan \u201cpagaid\u012bt\u201d. Vai pat \u201cn\u0113\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-3\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u0101, nervozit\u0101te pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m ir norm\u0101la par\u0101d\u012bba, ta\u010du ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba. Es nervoz\u0113ju savas nedro\u0161\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c. Vai es biju tik gatavs laul\u012bb\u0101m, k\u0101 dom\u0101ju? Vai man ir tas, kas vajadz\u012bgs, lai k\u013c\u016btu par sievu? Tas viss n\u0101ca no manis, bet viss p\u0101r\u0113jais apk\u0101rt apstiprin\u0101ja, ka mans v\u012brs patie\u0161\u0101m ir v\u012brs, par kuru es biju l\u016bgusies. Apgalvojums, ka apstiprin\u0101jumi atk\u0101rtoj\u0101s, ir p\u0101r\u0101k mazs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievs pat jaut\u0101ja man l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101: \u201cVai, \u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 to, k\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 dz\u012bvo savu dz\u012bvi, tu dom\u0101, ka man patiktu, ja tu vi\u0146u apprec\u0113tu?\u201d Mana god\u012bg\u0101 atbilde bija \u201cj\u0101\u201d. Tas bija viss, kas man bija vajadz\u012bgs. Man bija br\u012bva griba vai nu aiziet, bet apzi\u0146a, ka \u0161\u012bs attiec\u012bbas iepriecin\u0101s Kungu, nomierin\u0101ja manas bailes. Sav\u0101 k\u0101zu dien\u0101 es teicu \"j\u0101\" bez aukstuma, bez bail\u0113m un no\u017e\u0113las. Dievs bija un joproj\u0101m ir m\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-peace-means\">Ko noz\u012bm\u0113 miers<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101p\u0113c miers ir tik svar\u012bgs. Miers nenoz\u012bm\u0113 viegli. Miers nenoz\u012bm\u0113 ide\u0101lus apst\u0101k\u013cus. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113 nulles nervus. Miers noz\u012bm\u0113 saska\u0146ot\u012bbu ar Dieva gribu. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113 skaidr\u012bbu, kad j\u016bsu emocijas ir ska\u013cas. Miers noz\u012bm\u0113, ka tavs gars j\u016btas mier\u012bgs pat tad, ja tavs pr\u0101ts apstr\u0101d\u0101 k\u0101du svar\u012bgu l\u0113mumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad Dievs dod mieru, tas ir stabils. Kad kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, miera tr\u016bkums k\u013c\u016bst par sign\u0101lu, ko tu nevari ignor\u0113t. Da\u017ereiz Dievs pie\u013caus diskomfortu nevis t\u0101p\u0113c, lai tevi sod\u012btu, bet lai nov\u0113rstu tevi no kaut k\u0101, kas dom\u0101ts, lai tev kait\u0113tu. Miers sarg\u0101 tavus so\u013cus tikpat liel\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101, cik vada tos. Ieklausieties, kad tas ir kl\u0101t. V\u0113l vair\u0101k ieklausieties, kad t\u0101 tr\u016bkst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Nosl\u0113gsim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dieva lab\u0101kais nav j\u0101steidzas. Vi\u0146\u0161 nesola tavu n\u0101kotni k\u0101 burk\u0101nu. Vi\u0146\u0161 to aizsarg\u0101. Pirms ejat pie alt\u0101ra, izstaig\u0101jiet \u0161o sarakstu. Ne ar bail\u0113m, bet ar tic\u012bbu - zinot, ka Dieva laiks nekad nav nov\u0113lots un Vi\u0146a ce\u013c\u0161 vienm\u0113r ir gaid\u012b\u0161anas v\u0113rts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neviens laika grafiks, vecums, spiediens, bazn\u012bcas kult\u016bra vai \u0123imenes gaidas nav t\u0101 v\u0113rtas, lai prec\u0113tos \u0101rpus Dieva gribas. J\u016bs esat peln\u012bju\u0161i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\">attiec\u012bbas, kas balst\u012btas uz Kristu<\/a>, kas sak\u0146ojas paties\u012bb\u0101 un ko vada miers, nevis panika. Ja pal\u0113nin\u0101siet tempu pietiekami ilgi, lai skaidri sadzird\u0113tu Dievu, Vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bs vad\u012bs. Vi\u0146\u0161 vienm\u0113r to dara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gatavs satikt da\u017eus <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Uz Kristu orient\u0113ti sing\u013ci<\/a>? Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113jiet SALT lietotni jau \u0161odien!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Christian singles hope they&#8217;re married before age thirty. Even some younger Christians in their early twenties think something is wrong if they&#8217;re not married at twenty-five. Where do we get these timelines from? Who says that there&#8217;s an expiration date on getting married or that it&#8217;s too late once you&#8217;re past fifty? 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