{"id":3156,"date":"2026-01-22T12:02:11","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T12:02:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3156"},"modified":"2026-01-22T12:02:13","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T12:02:13","slug":"ka-tikt-gala-ar-aizrausanos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/how-to-deal-with-infatuation\/","title":{"rendered":"Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s un k\u0101 ar to tikt gal\u0101"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s. P\u0113c defin\u012bcijas t\u0101 ir intens\u012bva vai \u012bslaic\u012bga aizrau\u0161an\u0101s vai apbr\u012bna pret k\u0101du vai kaut ko. Lai gan fiziska pievilc\u012bba pret k\u0101du cilv\u0113ku ir laba lieta, daudzi krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cnieki uzskata, ka vi\u0146i ir aizr\u0101vu\u0161ies. K\u0101p\u0113c? T\u0101p\u0113c, ka esmu to neskait\u0101mas reizes redz\u0113jis un dzird\u0113jis sarun\u0101s, grupu t\u0113rz\u0113\u0161an\u0101 un grupu zi\u0146ojumos - cilv\u0113ki jaut\u0101, <em>\u201cK\u0101 man atbr\u012bvoties no \u0161\u012bs personas? Es nesp\u0113ju p\u0101rtraukt dom\u0101t par vi\u0146u.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vai jums ir probl\u0113mas ar aizrau\u0161anos? Vai t\u0101 ir aizraujo\u0161a un gandr\u012bz aizliegta? Vai j\u016bs sap\u0146ojat par k\u0101du, kuru gandr\u012bz nepaz\u012bstat, vai p\u0101rliecin\u0101t sevi, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir \u201ctas \u012bstais\u201d, pirms v\u0113l zin\u0101t vi\u0146a otro v\u0101rdu? K\u0101 mums, tic\u012bgajiem, tikt gal\u0101 ar \u0161o sp\u0113c\u012bgo vilkmi, lai m\u0113s nepie\u013cautu neapdom\u012bgas k\u013c\u016bdas vai neapdraud\u0113tu savu staig\u0101\u0161anu ar J\u0113zu? L\u016bk, piecas lietas, kas j\u0101\u0146em v\u0113r\u0101, kad j\u016bs p\u0101rdz\u012bvosiet \u0161o sezonu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-name-it-honestly\">Nosauciet to god\u012bgi<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-pause-before-pursuing\">Pauze pirms turpin\u0101\u0161anas<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-check-it-with-scripture\">P\u0101rbaudiet to ar Sv\u0113tajiem Rakstiem<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-bring-it-to-community\">P\u0101rnesiet to uz kopienu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-build-on-butterflies\">Neb\u016bv\u0113 uz tauri\u0146iem<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Ievads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0101 piem\u0113ru var min\u0113t k\u0101du sievieti tr\u012bsdesmit gadu vecum\u0101, kura cent\u0101s dz\u012bvot \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bb\u0101 un saglab\u0101t sevi laul\u012bbai, ta\u010du vi\u0146a sarun\u0101j\u0101s ar v\u012brieti, kas pastiprin\u0101ja vi\u0146as iek\u0101ri. Vi\u0146a atkl\u0101ja, ka ir arvien vair\u0101k un vair\u0101k uzbudin\u0101ta, un pat s\u0101ka \u0161aub\u012bties, vai tie\u0161\u0101m ir v\u0113rts gaid\u012bt - \u012bpa\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c, ka vi\u0146ai bija seksu\u0101las v\u0113lmes t\u0101pat k\u0101 ikvienam citam. Vi\u0146a negrib\u0113ja to atz\u012bt, bet vi\u0146a ac\u012bmredzami bija saj\u016bsm\u0101 par \u0161o v\u012brieti. Tas, ko vi\u0146a uzskat\u012bja par \u201csaikni\u201d, paties\u012bb\u0101 bija uzman\u012bbas nov\u0113r\u0161ana, kas vi\u0146u att\u0101lin\u0101ja no attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar\u012b es pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m biju aizr\u0101vusies ar v\u012brie\u0161iem. Da\u017ereiz tas bija vi\u0146u magn\u0113tisk\u0101s person\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c, citreiz - vi\u0146u fizisko \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu d\u0113\u013c. Ar\u012b \u0161aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 nav nekas slikts, ja k\u0101ds cilv\u0113ks \u0161\u0137iet pievilc\u012bgs vai apburo\u0161s, bet, ja \u0161\u012bs virspus\u0113j\u0101s iez\u012bmes k\u013c\u016bst par galveno. <em>tikai<\/em> lieta, kas notur j\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu, j\u016bs vairs neredzat skaidri. Pat Sv\u0113tie Raksti saka, ka skaistums izbal\u0113 (Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bbas 31:30). Tas, kas ir palieko\u0161s - tas, kas patiesi ir svar\u012bgi, ir raksturs, dievbij\u012bba un m\u0113r\u0137is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-name-it-honestly\">Nosaukt to god\u012bgi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s plaukst slepen\u012bb\u0101 un noliegum\u0101. Kad nep\u0101rtraukti par k\u0101du dom\u0101, p\u0101rbaudi t\u0101lruni k\u0101 dz\u012bv\u012bbas uztur\u0113t\u0101ju vai p\u0113c diviem DM iedom\u0101jies savu k\u0101zu dienu, ir pien\u0101cis laiks to nosaukt par to, kas tas ir - emocion\u0101l\u0101 p\u0101rslodze. T\u0101 var justies labi, bet tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka t\u0101 ir no Dieva. Iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s bie\u017ei vien rodas no fant\u0101zijas, nevis faktiem. T\u0101 sola saikni, bet t\u0101 m\u016bs ap\u017eilbina, ne\u013caujot ieraudz\u012bt, kas \u0161\u012b persona ir paties\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To atz\u012bt var b\u016bt pazemojo\u0161i, <em>\u201cKungs, es neesmu iem\u012bl\u0113jies. Es esmu iem\u012bl\u0113jies.\u201d<\/em> Ta\u010du \u0161aj\u0101 god\u012bguma l\u012bmen\u012b s\u0101kas br\u012bv\u012bba. Nosaukt to nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka esi v\u0101j\u0161 - tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka apzinies sevi. J\u016bs aicin\u0101t Dievu \u0161aj\u0101 mirkl\u012b, nevis m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t to p\u0101rvald\u012bt viens pats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dangers-of-infatuation\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s briesmas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekontrol\u0113ta aizrau\u0161an\u0101s var aptum\u0161ot j\u016bsu spriestsp\u0113ju. J\u016bs s\u0101kat attaisnot lietas, kuras parasti neattaisnotu. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs ignor\u0113jat sarkanos karodzi\u0146us, jo v\u0113laties, lai saj\u016bta b\u016btu ilgsto\u0161a. J\u016bs s\u0101kat sap\u0146ot par to, kas var\u0113tu b\u016bt, t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai piev\u0113rstu uzman\u012bbu tam, kas paties\u012bb\u0101 ir. Un, pirms j\u016bs to apjau\u0161at, j\u016bs izveidojat emocion\u0101lu pie\u0137er\u0161anos cilv\u0113kam, kur\u0161, iesp\u0113jams, pat neatbilst j\u016bsu tic\u012bbai vai n\u0101kotnei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nosaucot to v\u0101rd\u0101, tu dod Dievam at\u013cauju par\u0101d\u012bt tev paties\u012bbu. J\u016bs ar\u012b atbr\u012bvojat sevi no il\u016bzijas, ka \u0161\u012b persona kontrol\u0113 j\u016bsu emocijas. Runa nav par kaunu; runa ir par skaidr\u012bbu. Pateiksiet to skaidri: <em>\u201cKungs, \u0161im cilv\u0113kam \u0161obr\u012bd mana uzman\u012bba ir piev\u0113rsta vair\u0101k nek\u0101 Tev. Pal\u012bdzi man atjaunot manu uzman\u012bbu.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad tu to atz\u012bsti, tu ne tikai esi god\u012bgs - tu uz\u0146emies varu p\u0101r sav\u0101m emocij\u0101m. J\u016bs sak\u0101t: \u201cDievs, es izv\u0113los staig\u0101t gudr\u012bb\u0101, nevis fant\u0101zij\u0101.\u201d Un tur s\u0101kas briedums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Vi\u0146i izskat\u0101s dievbij\u012bgi... bet vai tie\u0161\u0101m?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/71cI-hCnyEM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pause-before-pursuing\">Pauze pirms turpin\u0101\u0161anas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s ir impuls\u012bva. T\u0101 v\u0113las to, ko v\u0113las, un v\u0113las to t\u016bl\u012bt. T\u0101p\u0113c ir viegli sajaukt steidzam\u012bbu ar apstiprin\u0101jumu. J\u016bs s\u0101kat sev iest\u0101st\u012bt, <em>\u201cJa ner\u012bkosies \u0101tri, zaud\u0113\u0161u savu iesp\u0113ju.\u201d<\/em> Bet b\u016bsim re\u0101li - tas, kas patiesi n\u0101k no Dieva, nepras\u012bs no jums steig\u0161anos vai kompromisus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viena no gar\u012bg\u0101kaj\u0101m liet\u0101m, ko tu vari dar\u012bt, ir gaid\u012bt. Ja \u0161is cilv\u0113ks patie\u0161\u0101m ir no Dieva, laiks \u0161o saikni nenogalin\u0101s - tas to apstiprin\u0101s. Gaid\u012b\u0161ana nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka tu sp\u0113l\u0113jies, t\u0101 noz\u012bm\u0113, ka tu sarg\u0101 savu sirdi l\u012bdz \u012bstajam laikam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-wait\">K\u0101 gaid\u012bt<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izmantojiet \u0161o pauzi, lai izv\u0113rt\u0113tu savus mot\u012bvus. Vai j\u016bs tos \u012bstenojat miera vai spiediena d\u0113\u013c? No aicin\u0101juma vai zi\u0146k\u0101r\u012bbas? Vai j\u016bs piesaista vi\u0146u gars vai tikai vi\u0146u izskats un uzman\u012bba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da\u017ereiz Dievs pie\u013cauj pauzes, lai m\u016bs pasarg\u0101tu. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, kad m\u016bsu sirdis ir vair\u0101k pie\u0137\u0113ru\u0161\u0101s tam. <em>ideja<\/em> m\u012blest\u012bbas, nevis paties\u0101 cilv\u0113ka, kas atrodas m\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101. T\u0101p\u0113c Vi\u0146\u0161 \u013caus laikam atkl\u0101t to, ko iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s cen\u0161as nosl\u0113pt - nekonsekvenci, dubultstandartus, gar\u012bg\u0101 brieduma tr\u016bkumu vai pat vienk\u0101r\u0161i neatbilst\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-learn-from-others\">M\u0101cies no citiem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esmu redz\u0113jis cilv\u0113kus, kas uzspie\u017e kaut ko, kam nekad nebija lemts b\u016bt, jo vi\u0146i sajauca \u0137\u012bmiju ar apstiprin\u0101jumu. Vi\u0146i r\u012bkoj\u0101s p\u0101r\u0101k \u0101tri, ignor\u0113ja gudru padomu un nosauca aizrau\u0161anos par \u201cDieva laiku\u201d. M\u0113ne\u0161us v\u0113l\u0101k vi\u0146i palika ar salauztu sirdi, br\u012bnoties, k\u0101 kaut kas, kas \u0161\u0137ita tik labs, ir g\u0101jis tik greizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101p\u0113c pauzes ir svar\u012bgas. T\u0101 dod Dievam iesp\u0113ju run\u0101t. Turkl\u0101t t\u0101 dod iesp\u0113ju j\u016bsu emocij\u0101m atvilkt elpu. T\u0101 no\u0161\u0137ir re\u0101lo no romantiz\u0113t\u0101. Ja neesat p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, vai v\u0113laties k\u0101du uzrun\u0101t, pagaidiet un v\u0113rojiet. J\u016bs uzzin\u0101siet vair\u0101k par cilv\u0113ku klusum\u0101 nek\u0101 nep\u0101rtraukt\u0101 sarun\u0101. V\u0113rojiet, k\u0101 vi\u0146i tiek gal\u0101 ar neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu, k\u0101 izturas pret citiem, cik konsekventas paties\u012bb\u0101 ir vi\u0146u attiec\u012bbas ar Dievu. \u0160\u012bs lietas neatkl\u0101sies ko\u0137et\u0101s \u012bszi\u0146\u0101s, bet gan laika gait\u0101 p\u0101rbaud\u012btajos mode\u013cos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uzdodiet sev jaut\u0101jumu: <em>\u201cVai es dzenos p\u0113c mirk\u013ca vai gatavojos kalpo\u0161anai?\u201d<\/em> Jo m\u012blest\u012bba, kad tas ir no Dieva, nav tikai par diviem cilv\u0113kiem pat\u012bk viens otru - tas ir par diviem m\u0113r\u0137iem saska\u0146ojot Vi\u0146a godam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-check-it-with-scripture\">P\u0101rbaudiet to ar Sv\u0113tajiem Rakstiem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s kliedz, <em>\u201cTas \u0161\u0137iet pareizi.\u201d<\/em> Bet Sv\u0113tie Raksti maigi jaut\u0101, <em>\u201cVai t\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba?\u201d<\/em> M\u016bsu emocijas var b\u016bt sp\u0113c\u012bgas, bet t\u0101s var b\u016bt ar\u012b maldino\u0161as. J\u016btas sv\u0101rst\u0101s. Dieva V\u0101rds nemain\u0101s. T\u0101p\u0113c ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi saska\u0146ot savas j\u016btas ar B\u012bbel\u0113 teikto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad p\u0101r\u0146em iek\u0101re, ir viegli attaisnot jebko. Katrs sarkanais karodzi\u0146\u0161 izskat\u0101s k\u0101 \u201cvarb\u016bt\u201d. J\u016bs s\u0101kat interpret\u0113t katru sakrit\u012bbu k\u0101 dievi\u0161\u0137u z\u012bmi. Ikdienas las\u012bjum\u0101 ieraugi k\u0101du pantu par m\u012blest\u012bbu, un p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i esi p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka Dievs run\u0101 par \u0161o cilv\u0113ku. Esiet uzman\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sv\u0113tie Raksti Jeremijas gr\u0101mat\u0101 17:9 mums atg\u0101dina, ka \u201csirds ir vilt\u012bga p\u0101ri visam.\u201d T\u0101p\u0113c Dievs m\u016bs aicina <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/ka-sargat-savu-sirdi-esot-neprecetam\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"2976\">sarg\u0101t to<\/a>. Iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s var \u0161\u0137ist k\u0101 m\u012blest\u012bba, bet m\u012blest\u012bba - \u012bsta, dievbij\u012bga m\u012blest\u012bba - sak\u0146ojas paciet\u012bb\u0101, paties\u012bb\u0101 un uztic\u012bb\u0101, nevis fant\u0101zij\u0101s vai iek\u0101res izpausm\u0113s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-the-bible-say\">Ko saka B\u012bbele?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101p\u0113c p\u0101rbaudiet to ar V\u0101rdu. Ko Dievs saka par \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu, spriestsp\u0113ju un pa\u0161kontroli? Ko Vi\u0146\u0161 saka par nevienl\u012bdz\u012bgu j\u016bgu vai izvair\u012b\u0161anos no k\u0101rdin\u0101jumiem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jums nav nepiecie\u0161ams visu p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113t, bet jums ir nepiecie\u0161ama gudr\u012bba. Nav vajadz\u012bga l\u016bg\u0161ana, lai zin\u0101tu, ka p\u0113c pusnakts nevajadz\u0113tu iet pie k\u0101da uz m\u0101j\u0101m. Jums nav nepiecie\u0161ams gav\u0113t, lai saprastu, vai ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi b\u016bt vienatn\u0113 ar k\u0101du, kur\u0161 jums uzkurina iek\u0101ri. J\u016bs jau zin\u0101t atbildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievs necen\u0161as padar\u012bt tavu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bvi no\u017e\u0113lojamu - Vi\u0146\u0161 cen\u0161as aizsarg\u0101t tavu m\u0113r\u0137i. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, cik viegli emocijas var p\u0101r\u0146emt spriestsp\u0113ju. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, cik \u0101tri aizrau\u0161an\u0101s mirklis var p\u0101rv\u0113rsties no\u017e\u0113l\u0101, ja m\u0113s neesam balst\u012bti paties\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pirms doties uz priek\u0161u, apst\u0101jieties un pajaut\u0101jiet: <em>\u201cVai \u0161\u012bs attiec\u012bbas atspogu\u013co Dieva standartus vai manas v\u0113lmes?\u201d<\/em> Ja tas ved j\u016bs uz kompromisu, tas nav no Vi\u0146a. Punkts. Kad j\u016bs to p\u0101rbaud\u0101t ar Rakstiem, j\u016bs \u013caujat V\u0101rdam darboties k\u0101 j\u016bsu filtram. Un \u0161is filtrs pasarg\u0101s j\u016bs no nevajadz\u012bga sirds salau\u0161anas. Iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izz\u016bd, kad to apsp\u012bd paties\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-bring-it-to-community\">P\u0101rnesiet to uz kopienu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, nev\u0113laties nevienam st\u0101st\u012bt, ka kr\u012btat strauji un smagi, bet jums tas ir j\u0101dara. Dievs nekad nav rad\u012bjis tevi, lai tu attiec\u012bbas risin\u0101tu viens pats. Tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c Vi\u0146\u0161 tevi ievietoja kopien\u0101 - nevis, lai tevi ties\u0101tu, bet lai tevi pasarg\u0101tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uzticams draugs, mentors vai m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js bie\u017ei vien var saskat\u012bt to, ko j\u016bs nevarat. Vi\u0146us neuz\u0137er tauri\u0146i, \u012bszi\u0146as vai \u0137\u012bmija. Vi\u0146i var paskat\u012bties uz situ\u0101ciju ar gar\u012bg\u0101m ac\u012bm un pied\u0101v\u0101t perspekt\u012bvu, ko j\u016bs var\u0113tu palaist gar\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad esat iem\u012bl\u0113jies, emocijas var apsl\u0101p\u0113t sapr\u0101tu. J\u016bs s\u0101kat teikt t\u0101das lietas k\u0101, <em>\u201cTu nesaproti, \u0161\u012b saj\u016bta ir cit\u0101da.\u201d<\/em> Iesp\u0113jams, t\u0101 ar\u012b ir, bet tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c jums ir vajadz\u012bgi citi, kas run\u0101 paties\u012bbu m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-community-brings\">Ko dod kopiena<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievbij\u012bgs draugs var\u0113tu jaut\u0101t, <em>\u201cVai tev t\u0101s patie\u0161\u0101m pat\u012bk, vai tev pat\u012bk, k\u0101 t\u0101s liek tev justies?\u201d<\/em> \u0160is viens jaut\u0101jums var main\u012bt visu j\u016bsu perspekt\u012bvu. Jo bie\u017ei vien iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s nav saist\u012bta ar cilv\u0113ku - t\u0101 ir saist\u012bta ar to, ko vi\u0146\u0161 pamodina tev\u012b. Varb\u016bt tas ir apstiprin\u0101jums, uzman\u012bba, uztraukums vai pat izklaide no vientul\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad j\u016bs savas j\u016btas izce\u013cat kop\u012bbas gaism\u0101, t\u0101s zaud\u0113 savu maldino\u0161o sp\u0113ku. J\u016bs dodat citiem at\u013cauju pras\u012bt no jums atbild\u012bbu, atg\u0101din\u0101t jums par j\u016bsu standartiem un nor\u0101d\u012bt jums atpaka\u013c uz Kristu, kad emocijas cen\u0161as p\u0101r\u0146emt vad\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bsu situ\u0101cija ir j\u0101izpau\u017e visiem, ta\u010du jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams vismaz viens uzticams cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 var jums par to past\u0101st\u012bt, <em>\u201cTas nav gudri,\u201d<\/em> vai, <em>\u201cPal\u0113nini tempu.\u201d<\/em> Un, ja j\u016bs s\u0101kat aizst\u0101v\u0113ties, kad k\u0101ds jums sniedz \u0161\u0101du padomu, tas liecina par to, ka emocion\u0101li jau esat aizg\u0101jis p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu. Nobriedu\u0161i tic\u012bgie atzin\u012bgi v\u0113rt\u0113 korekciju, jo zina, ka t\u0101 pasarg\u0101 vi\u0146us no dzi\u013c\u0101k\u0101m s\u0101p\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esmu redz\u0113jis, k\u0101 dievbij\u012bga kop\u012bba gl\u0101bj cilv\u0113kus no attiec\u012bb\u0101m, kas no \u0101rpuses izskat\u012bj\u0101s labi, bet no iek\u0161puses bija gar\u012bgi iztuk\u0161ojo\u0161as. Tavi draugi nevar pie\u0146emt l\u0113mumus tav\u0101 viet\u0101, bet vi\u0146i var pal\u012bdz\u0113t tev ieraudz\u012bt emocijas, kas aiz\u0113no spriestsp\u0113ju. T\u0101p\u0113c nododiet to kopienai. Aprun\u0101jieties ar k\u0101du tic\u012bb\u0101 balst\u012btu cilv\u0113ku, kur\u0161 v\u0113las, lai Dievs jums b\u016btu vislab\u0101kais. Iesp\u0113jams, vi\u0146i pal\u012bdz\u0113s tev izvair\u012bties no t\u0101, ka tu b\u016bv\u0113 savu dz\u012bvi uz kaut k\u0101, kam nekad nav bijis lemts ilgs m\u016b\u017es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-build-on-butterflies\">Neuzb\u016bv\u0113jiet uz tauri\u0146iem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s ir aizraujo\u0161a. T\u0101 ir apreibino\u0161a. Sirds pukst, domas klejo, un izt\u0113le ir me\u017eon\u012bga. J\u016bs p\u0101rliecin\u0101t sevi, ka j\u016bsu j\u016btu intensit\u0101tei ir j\u0101noz\u012bm\u0113 kaut kas dzi\u013c\u0161 un gar\u012bgs. Bet tauri\u0146i izpl\u0113n. Konsekvence nepaz\u016bd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012asta m\u012blest\u012bba - t\u0101da, kas godina Dievu, - nav atrodama mirk\u013ca uztraukum\u0101. T\u0101 ir atrodama klus\u0101 paciet\u012bbas, integrit\u0101tes un ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s sp\u0113k\u0101. Kad esi iem\u012bl\u0113jies, tev ir tendence visu romantiz\u0113t. J\u016bs saskat\u0101t tikai lab\u0101k\u0101s cilv\u0113ka puses. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs nepaman\u0101t ieradumus, attieksmi vai uzskatus, kas var nesakrist ar j\u016bsu pa\u0161u uzskatiem. J\u016bs veidojat priek\u0161statu par to, kas jums <em>dom\u0101t<\/em> t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai redz\u0113tu, kas vi\u0146i ir paties\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010du paties\u012bba ir \u0161\u0101da: tauri\u0146i nevar nosl\u0113gt l\u012bgumu. \u0136\u012bmija nevar uztur\u0113t laul\u012bbu. Tas, kas uztur m\u012blest\u012bbu stipru, ir kop\u012bga tic\u012bba, m\u0113r\u0137is un ikdienas izv\u0113le. T\u0101p\u0113c, pirms s\u0101c pl\u0101not savu n\u0101kotni sav\u0101 galv\u0101, pal\u0113nini tempu. Pajaut\u0101jiet sev, vai j\u016bs visp\u0101r esat redz\u0113ju\u0161i \u0161o cilv\u0113ku da\u017e\u0101dos dz\u012bves posmos. Vai esat vi\u0146u redz\u0113ju\u0161i, kad vi\u0146\u0161 ir dusm\u012bgs, neapmierin\u0101ts vai pak\u013cauts spiedienam? Jo tie\u0161i tad atkl\u0101jas raksturs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-purpose-of-christian-relationships\">Krist\u012bgo attiec\u012bbu m\u0113r\u0137is<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0113r\u0137is nav tikai kaut ko sajust - m\u0113r\u0137is ir. <em>izveidot<\/em> kaut ko. Kaut ko stabilu, notur\u012bgu un uz Kristu v\u0113rstu. Daudzi vientu\u013cie baid\u0101s, ka, ja vi\u0146i atmet\u012bs \u201cdzirksti\u201d, vi\u0146i non\u0101ks garlaic\u012bg\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101 bez m\u012blest\u012bbas. Ta\u010du t\u0101 nav taisn\u012bba. Dievi\u0161\u0137a m\u012blest\u012bba nav garlaic\u012bga. T\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i sak\u0146ojas realit\u0101t\u0113, nevis fant\u0101zij\u0101s. Dzirksts joproj\u0101m var past\u0101v\u0113t - tai vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir j\u0101b\u016bt uztur\u0113tai ar gar\u012bgu dzi\u013cumu, nevis emocion\u0101liem pac\u0113lumiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad j\u016bs izv\u0113laties paciet\u012bbu, nevis kaisli, j\u016bs neatsak\u0101ties no m\u012blest\u012bbas - j\u016bs to aizsarg\u0101jat. J\u016bs \u013caujat Dievam sagatavot abas sirdis kaut kam ilglaic\u012bgam. Netirgojiet ilgtermi\u0146a mieru pret \u012bstermi\u0146a uztraukumiem. Tas nav t\u0101 v\u0113rts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trusting-god-with-relationships\">Uztic\u0113\u0161an\u0101s Dievam attiec\u012bb\u0101s<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo vilcin\u0101s, jo baid\u0101s, ka vi\u0146iem pietr\u016bks laika. \u201cMan ir gandr\u012bz 30, 40, 50 gadi... Man tagad ir j\u0101satiek dz\u012bvesbiedrs.\u201d Es dzi\u013ci saprotu \u0161\u012bs bailes. Gaid\u012b\u0161ana var b\u016bt s\u0101p\u012bga, \u012bpa\u0161i tad, ja j\u016bsu v\u0113lme p\u0113c draudz\u012bbas ir patiesa un t\u012bra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bet \u013caujiet man jums jaut\u0101t - vai j\u016bs b\u016bsiet aps\u0113sti ar pulkste\u0146a r\u0101d\u012bt\u0101jiem, vai ar\u012b j\u016bs tic\u0113siet, ka Dieva laiks joproj\u0101m ir labs? Ko dar\u012bt, ja j\u016bs apprec\u0113sieties 35, 45 vai 55 gadu vecum\u0101 - vai Dievs joproj\u0101m ir uztic\u012bgs? Piln\u012bgi noteikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Laul\u012bba ir skaista<\/a>, bet t\u0101 nav galven\u0101 d\u0101vana. T\u0101 ir pest\u012b\u0161ana J\u0113z\u016b Krist\u016b. Un pat tad, ja j\u016bsu ce\u013c\u0161 uz m\u012blest\u012bbu \u0161\u0137iet gar\u0101ks, nek\u0101 gaid\u012bj\u0101t, tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka tas ir maz\u0101k sv\u0113t\u012bgs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievs no jums neko nav aiztur\u0113jis. Da\u017ereiz Vi\u0146\u0161 pasarg\u0101 tevi no sirdss\u0101pes, ko tu v\u0113l nesp\u0113j saskat\u012bt. Vi\u0146\u0161 att\u012bsta tavu sirdi, saska\u0146o tavu m\u0113r\u0137i un veido tavus standartus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs varat v\u0113l\u0113ties laul\u012bbu un joproj\u0101m b\u016bt apmierin\u0101ti \u0161aj\u0101 sezon\u0101. Es esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka tu vari atz\u012bt pievilc\u012bbu, ne\u013caujot, lai tevi valda iek\u0101re. Jums var b\u016bt v\u0113lmes un joproj\u0101m dz\u012bvot \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Nosl\u0113gsim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aizrau\u0161an\u0101s ir izplat\u012bta par\u0101d\u012bba, j\u016bs neesat viens. Ta\u010du, balstoties uz to, tu vari non\u0101kt pie kompromisiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lab\u0101s zi\u0146as? J\u016bs neesat bezsp\u0113c\u012bgs. Ar Dievu, kopienu un god\u012bg\u0101m p\u0101rdom\u0101m j\u016bs varat tikt gal\u0101 ar aizrau\u0161anos, ne\u013caujot tai sagraut j\u016bsu likteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uzdodiet sev jaut\u0101jumu \u0161odien: <em>Vai es \u013cauju, lai mani vada emocijas, vai \u013cauju, lai mani vada Dievs?<\/em> Paties\u012bba ir t\u0101da, ka Dievam r\u016bp tava sirds - ne tikai tas, kam t\u0101 pukst. Vi\u0146\u0161 neprasa, lai j\u016bs apspiestu savas v\u0113lmes. Vi\u0146\u0161 l\u016bdz, lai j\u016bs t\u0101m nododaties. Un, kad tu to izdar\u012bsi, tu saprat\u012bsi, ka miers, kas rodas, staig\u0101jot Vi\u0146a laik\u0101, ir daudz liel\u0101ks nek\u0101 steiga, kas rodas, dzenoties paka\u013c k\u0101dam, kuram nekad nebija lemts palikt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iem\u012bl\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izz\u016bd, bet Dieva m\u012blest\u012bba - nekad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gatavs satikt da\u017eus <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i kristie\u0161u singli<\/a>? Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113jiet SALT lietotni jau \u0161odien!\u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Infatuation. By definition, it&#8217;s an intense or short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something. While being physically attracted to someone is fine, a lot Christian singles find themselves infatuated. Why? 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