{"id":3152,"date":"2026-01-14T14:59:28","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T14:59:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3152"},"modified":"2026-01-14T14:59:30","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T14:59:30","slug":"ko-es-gribetu-zinat-par-kristiesu-randiniem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/what-i-wish-i-knew-about-dating-as-a-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"Ko es grib\u0113tu zin\u0101t pirms iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s k\u0101 kristietis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja b\u016btu k\u0101da lieta, ko es grib\u0113tu main\u012bt pirms iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, tad t\u0101s b\u016btu manas cer\u012bbas. Diem\u017e\u0113l mans pr\u0101ts bija piepild\u012bts ar fant\u0101zijas st\u0101stiem, piem\u0113ram, par Pelnru\u0161\u0137\u012bti, t\u0101p\u0113c \u0161is t\u0113ls, ka satieku v\u012brieti un uzreiz zinu, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir \u201ctas \u012bstais\u201d, lika man dom\u0101t, ka t\u0101 tam ar\u012b vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt. Pusaud\u017ea gados mana pa\u0161cie\u0146a nebija vesel\u012bga, t\u0101p\u0113c es ar\u012b dom\u0101ju, ka mana v\u0113rt\u012bba izriet no t\u0101, ka es pat\u012bku puisim, nevis no Dieva viedok\u013ca par mani. T\u0101tad, ko es grib\u0113tu, lai es k\u0101 kristiete agr\u0101k zin\u0101tu par randi\u0146iem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varb\u016bt esi iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s port\u0101l\u0101, un tavas cer\u012bbas netiek piepild\u012btas. Vai esat k\u0101dreiz sev vaic\u0101jis: \u201cK\u0101p\u0113c neviens man par to neteica?\u201d Vai j\u016bs k\u0101dreiz esat sev jaut\u0101jis: \"K\u0101p\u0113c neviens man par to neteica?\" L\u016bk, da\u017eas lietas, par kur\u0101m es b\u016btu v\u0113l\u0113jies, lai es b\u016btu zin\u0101jis, pirms s\u0101ku satikties k\u0101 kristietis. Vai j\u016bs varat to attiecin\u0101t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-1-chemistry-confirmation\">\u0136\u012bmija \u2260 Apstiprin\u0101jums<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-2-prayer-isn-t-a-relationship-shortcut\">L\u016bg\u0161ana nav attiec\u012bbu sa\u012bsin\u0101jums<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-3-boundaries-don-t-replace-discipline\">Robe\u017eas neaizst\u0101j discipl\u012bnu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-4-stop-looking-for-a-savior\">Beidz mekl\u0113t Gl\u0101b\u0113ju<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-5-god-isn-t-testing-you\">Dievs tevi nep\u0101rbauda<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Diem\u017e\u0113l B\u012bbel\u0113 nav nevienas noda\u013cas un panta, kur\u0101 b\u016btu teikts \u201cIepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s 101 kristie\u0161iem singliem\u201d. Tas, ko m\u0113s varam secin\u0101t, ir tas, ko B\u012bbele saka par to, k\u0101d\u0101 komp\u0101nij\u0101 mums vajadz\u0113tu uztur\u0113ties. No turienes Sv\u0113tais Gars aizpilda nepiln\u012bbas tur, kur nav noda\u013cas un panta. Var rasties saj\u016bta, ka j\u016bs staig\u0101jat tums\u0101 ar rok\u0101m priek\u0161\u0101, bet Dievs ir ar jums un j\u016bs vad\u012bs, ja j\u016bs Vi\u0146am \u013causiet. Iegremd\u0113simies, vai ne?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ko es grib\u0113tu zin\u0101t pirms iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s k\u0101 kristietis\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mw8lXW0FjVM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-chemistry-confirmation\">1. \u0136\u012bmija \u2260 Apstiprin\u0101jums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka saruna pl\u016bst un jums abiem pat\u012bk Maverick City vai Elevation dievkalpojums, nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka tas ir Dieva pav\u0113l\u0113ts. Agr\u0101k es dom\u0101ju, ka justies pareizi noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt pareizam. Ta\u010du emocion\u0101lais pac\u0113lums un fizisk\u0101 pievilc\u012bba var aptum\u0161ot iz\u0161\u0137irtsp\u0113ju. J\u0101, \u0137\u012bmija ir svar\u012bga. Bet tai nekad nevajadz\u0113tu \u0146emt virsroku p\u0101r raksturu, padomu vai p\u0101rliec\u012bbu. Ienaidnieks var s\u016bt\u012bt k\u0101du, kur\u0161 \u201cj\u016btas\u201d perfekts, bet nov\u0113r\u0161 j\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu no j\u016bsu m\u0113r\u0137a. Ja tas ir Dievs, miers sekos pat p\u0113c tam, kad tauri\u0146i izgais\u012bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jums ir vajadz\u012bga ne tikai dzirkstele - jums ir vajadz\u012bga gar\u012bga sader\u012bba un kop\u012bgas v\u0113rt\u012bbas, kas ir stipras, kad dz\u012bve k\u013c\u016bst re\u0101la. Dievs neapliecina Savu gribu ar zoss krampjiem. Vi\u0146\u0161 to apstiprina caur aug\u013ciem, saska\u0146ot\u012bbu un skaidr\u012bbu, kas nemain\u0101s, kad main\u0101s j\u016btas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-is-important\">Pievilk\u0161ana ir svar\u012bga<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs nevar piesaist\u012bt \u0161\u012b persona. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums nevar b\u016bt jautri kop\u0101 ar vi\u0146u, jo tas viss ir saist\u012bts ar m\u0113r\u0137i un Dieva gribas pild\u012b\u0161anu. Lai gan Dieva griba un god\u012bba ir centr\u0101, j\u016bs joproj\u0101m varat izbaud\u012bt randi\u0146u un dal\u012bties p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161\u0101s atmi\u0146\u0101s ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku. Ar\u012b \u0137\u012bmiju filtr\u0113jiet caur Sv\u0113to Garu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nav nekas slikts, ja l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101 god\u012bgi sak\u0101m: \u201cDievs, man vi\u0146i pat\u012bk, bet es v\u0113los Tavu gribu vair\u0101k nek\u0101 jebko citu.\u201d J\u0101, t\u0101 ir riskanta l\u016bg\u0161ana, un tu vari pat pazaud\u0113t \u0161o cilv\u0113ku, ja vi\u0146\u0161 nav piem\u0113rots. Tom\u0113r j\u016bs varat pa\u013cauties, ka Dievs j\u016bsu st\u0101stu perfekti saliek kop\u0101. Iesp\u0113jams, jums nav visu atbil\u017eu, bet Vi\u0146am ir. Vi\u0146\u0161 tevi neatst\u0101s un nekad tevi nepamet\u012bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-chemistry-shouldn-t-be-your-guide\">\u0136\u012bmijai nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt j\u016bsu ce\u013cvedim<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0113l\u0113tos, lai es agr\u0101k b\u016btu zin\u0101jusi, ka \u0137\u012bmija nav likte\u0146a z\u012bme. Tev var b\u016bt \u0137\u012bmija ar cilv\u0113ku, kur\u0161 tev piln\u012bgi neder. Da\u017ereiz j\u016bs j\u016btaties piesaist\u012bts k\u0101dam cilv\u0113kam tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka vi\u0146\u0161 apmierina emocion\u0101lu vajadz\u012bbu, par kuru j\u016bs pat nenojaut\u0101t, ka t\u0101 ir atv\u0113rta. J\u016bs varat uzreiz satuvin\u0101ties ar k\u0101du, kuram nav sp\u0113ju, brieduma vai gar\u012bg\u0101 pamatojuma, lai ar jums sadarbotos ilgtermi\u0146\u0101. \u0136\u012bmija var b\u016bt skaists s\u0101kums, bet t\u0101 nevar b\u016bt par pamatu attiec\u012bb\u0101m pati par sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad tu satikies k\u0101 kristietis, \u0137\u012bmijai vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt. <em>bonuss<\/em>, nevis projekts. Tava iz\u0161\u0137irtsp\u0113ja var darboties tikai tad, ja tu \u013cauj Dievam izsv\u0113rt attiec\u012bbas - nevis savus impulsus, nevis v\u0113lmi vairs neb\u016bt vientu\u013cam, nevis savu laika grafiku. Jo vair\u0101k j\u016bs \u013caujat Dievam vad\u012bt, jo viegl\u0101k jums k\u013c\u016bst at\u0161\u0137irt emocion\u0101lo uztraukumu no gar\u012bg\u0101 miera. Uztraukums var b\u016bt ska\u013c\u0161. Miers ir vienm\u0113r\u012bgs. Viens no tiem izz\u016bd. Otrs paliek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0136\u012bmija var j\u016bs savest kop\u0101, bet raksturs nosaka, vai j\u016bs varat palikt kop\u0101. To man n\u0101c\u0101s iem\u0101c\u012bties ar m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jumiem un k\u013c\u016bd\u0101m. Un god\u012bgi? Tas mani izgl\u0101ba no palik\u0161anas situ\u0101cij\u0101s, kur\u0101s es b\u016btu samierin\u0101jusies dr\u012bz\u0101k bai\u013cu, nevis tic\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-prayer-isn-t-a-relationship-shortcut\">2. L\u016bg\u0161ana nav attiec\u012bbu sa\u012bsin\u0101jums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es m\u0113dzu dom\u0101t, ka l\u016bg\u0161ana autom\u0101tiski padara attiec\u012bbas sv\u0113tas. Spoileris: tas t\u0101 nav. L\u016bg\u0161ana ir sp\u0113c\u012bga, bet, ja t\u0101 tiek izmantota, lai mask\u0113tu neskaidr\u012bbas, sasteigtu saikni vai izvair\u012btos no ne\u0113rt\u0101m sarun\u0101m, t\u0101 k\u013c\u016bst par gar\u012bgu p\u016bku. L\u016bg\u0161ana par vai kop\u0101 ar k\u0101du, ar ko tu satiekies, ir sv\u0113ta - ja t\u0101 tiek veikta briedin\u0101ti un ar pareiz\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai l\u016bg\u0161anu padar\u012btu par l\u012bmi, pajaut\u0101jiet, kas paties\u012bb\u0101 ir pamats. Vai j\u016bs varat risin\u0101t smagas sarunas, nesl\u0113pjoties aiz fr\u0101zes \u201cl\u016bgsimies par to\u201d? Vai j\u016bs varat l\u016bgt atsevi\u0161\u0137i, pirms l\u016bdzaties kop\u0101? Tas jums pateiks daudz vair\u0101k par attiec\u012bbu gar\u012bgo vesel\u012bbu nek\u0101 tas, cik labi j\u016bs izklaus\u0101ties, cit\u0113jot Sv\u0113tos Rakstus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-over-spiritualizing-dating\">Randi\u0146u p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113\u0161ana<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160eit ir daudz <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/parak-spiritualizet-iepazisanas\/\">Kristie\u0161i p\u0101rlieku spiritualiz\u0113 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s procesu<\/a>. Ir b\u012bstami atrasties \u0161aj\u0101 telp\u0101, jo j\u016bs varat dom\u0101t, ka esat Dieva grib\u0101, bet t\u0101 nav. J\u016bs varat teikt: \u201cEs par to l\u016bdzos,\u201d bet vai j\u016bs gaid\u012bj\u0101t Dieva atbildi \u0161aj\u0101 jaut\u0101jum\u0101? Vai j\u016bs pie\u0146\u0113m\u0101t un virz\u012bj\u0101ties uz priek\u0161u savu saj\u016btu d\u0113\u013c? Ne\u013caujiet sevi maldin\u0101t ar to, k\u0101 j\u016bs j\u016btaties. Tas var novest pie sirdss\u0101pes, un da\u017ei vaino Dievu par kaut ko, ko vi\u0146i ac\u012bmredzami ir izdar\u012bju\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience\">Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atceros, ka pirms tik\u0161an\u0101s ar v\u012bru es l\u016bdzos par p\u0113d\u0113jo puisi, ar kuru run\u0101ju. Es var\u0113ju zv\u0113r\u0113t, ka Dievs to apstiprin\u0101ja, bet, k\u0101 izr\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s, es vair\u0101k biju aizr\u0101vusies ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m. T\u0101 bija k\u013c\u016bda, un, kad lietas starp mums izjuka, man n\u0101c\u0101s no\u017e\u0113lot, ka es apsteidzu Dievu. Es nedom\u0101ju, ka cen\u0161os kaut ko pasteidzin\u0101t, bet es to dar\u012bju. Mana vecuma d\u0113\u013c es dom\u0101ju, ka \u0161im v\u012brietim ir j\u0101b\u016bt tam. Ja es neb\u016btu kori\u0123\u0113jusi kursu, viss b\u016btu beidzies slikti, un es b\u016btu palaidusi gar\u0101m apbr\u012bnojamo v\u012brieti, ar kuru esmu prec\u0113jusies tagad. Vai tas ir t\u0101 v\u0113rts? Sekojot sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m tagad un palai\u017eot gar\u0101m vai aizkav\u0113jot patieso Dieva sv\u0113t\u012bbu v\u0113l\u0101k? Es t\u0101 nedom\u0101ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-prayer-do\">Ko dara l\u016bg\u0161ana?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u016bg\u0161ana nav \u012bss ce\u013c\u0161 uz sader\u012bbu. T\u0101 nav svar\u012bg\u0101ka par Dieva laiku. L\u016bg\u0161ana neuzspie\u017e skaidr\u012bbu. L\u016bg\u0161ana nep\u0101rv\u0113r\u0161 nepareiz\u0101s attiec\u012bbas pareizaj\u0101s. Mums ir j\u0101beidz iztur\u0113ties pret l\u016bg\u0161anu k\u0101 pret apstiprin\u0101juma z\u012bmogu un j\u0101s\u0101k iztur\u0113ties pret to k\u0101 pret nep\u0101rtrauktu sarunu ar Dievu, kas t\u0101 ir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u016bg\u0161anai vajadz\u0113tu atv\u0113rt acis, nevis t\u0101s aizv\u0113rt. Tai vajadz\u0113tu pal\u0113nin\u0101t, nevis pa\u0101trin\u0101t. Tai ir j\u0101ved j\u016bs uz gudr\u012bbu, nevis v\u0113lmju dom\u0101\u0161anu. Ja j\u016bsu v\u0113lme ir sp\u0113c\u012bga, pat l\u016bg\u0161ana var k\u013c\u016bt filtr\u0113ta caur j\u016bsu emocij\u0101m. T\u0101p\u0113c ir svar\u012bgi gaid\u012bt Dieva atbildi. Ne atbildi, ko j\u016bs <em>cer\u012bba<\/em> Vi\u0146\u0161 sniedz. Ne to, ko tava vientul\u012bba v\u0113las, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 dod. The <em>\u012bsts<\/em> viens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Attiec\u012bbas, kas sak\u0146ojas Diev\u0101, nav j\u0101piespie\u017e ar l\u016bg\u0161anu. T\u0101s augs, jo l\u016bg\u0161ana jau ir da\u013ca no t\u0101, kas j\u016bs abi esat, nevis kaut kas, ko j\u016bs izmantojat, lai p\u0101rliecin\u0101tu sevi, ka esat saska\u0146oti. Dieva kl\u0101tb\u016btne nav j\u0101izgatavo. Vi\u0146\u0161 dabiski atrad\u012bsies centr\u0101, kad Vi\u0146\u0161 patiesi vad\u012bs \u0161o savienojumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-boundaries-don-t-replace-discipline\">3. Robe\u017eas neaizst\u0101j discipl\u012bnu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir nepiecie\u0161ams noteikt robe\u017eas. Ta\u010du es v\u0113los, lai jau agri zin\u0101tu, ka robe\u017eas ir tik stipras, cik stipra ir j\u016bsu discipl\u012bna. J\u016bs varat visu dienu run\u0101t par to, ka \u201cnav nak\u0161\u0146o\u0161anas\u201d, bet, ja j\u016bs to nedar\u0101t. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/izvairities-no-kardinosam-situacijam-randinu-laika\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">p\u0101rvald\u012bt savu laiku, izrais\u012bt\u0101jus un emocijas.<\/a> ar briedumu, j\u016bs krit\u012bsit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Discipl\u012bna ir saist\u012bta ar l\u0113mumiem, pirms par\u0101d\u0101s v\u0113lme. Vai j\u016bs zin\u0101t savas v\u0101j\u0101s vietas? Vai esat izveidojis atbild\u012bbu pirms br\u012b\u017ea? Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs pa\u013caujaties uz gribassp\u0113ku mirk\u013ca karstum\u0101? Dievs ne tikai aicina m\u016bs noteikt l\u012bnijas - Vi\u0146\u0161 aicina m\u016bs r\u012bkoties gudri (Efezie\u0161iem 5:15). Tas ir dz\u012bvesveids, nevis tikai noteikumu saraksts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101p\u0113c pa\u0161apzi\u0146a ir \u013coti svar\u012bga. Ja nezin\u0101siet savas tendences, j\u016bs akli ieiesiet situ\u0101cij\u0101s. T\u0101p\u0113c ir svar\u012bgi p\u0101rvald\u012bt savu vientul\u012bbu. Tu uzzin\u0101si par sevi vair\u0101k, nek\u0101 varb\u016bt esi sapratis. T\u0101 tu vari dz\u012bvot dz\u012bvi, kas pasarg\u0101 tevi no slikt\u0101k\u0101s sevis versijas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-boundaries-without-discipline\">Robe\u017eas bez discipl\u012bnas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Robe\u017eas bez discipl\u012bnas ir k\u0101 sl\u0113dzenes uz durv\u012bm, kuras nekad necen\u0161aties aizv\u0113rt. J\u016bs sak\u0101t sev, ka esat dro\u0161\u012bb\u0101, jo ir sl\u0113dzene, bet, ja j\u016bs past\u0101v\u012bgi atst\u0101jat durvis va\u013c\u0101, k\u0101rdin\u0101jums ieies iek\u0161\u0101. Lai kristietis st\u0101tos uz randi\u0146iem, ir j\u0101b\u016bt god\u012bgam pret sevi. Ne tikai par to, ko j\u016bs v\u0113laties, bet ar\u012b par to, ar ko j\u016bs c\u012bn\u0101ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs nevarat noteikt robe\u017eas, pamatojoties uz to, kas jums <em>cer\u012bba<\/em> J\u016bs esat. J\u016bs nosak\u0101t robe\u017eas, pamatojoties uz to, kas jums <em>uzzin\u0101t<\/em> J\u016bs esat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varb\u016bt j\u016bs dom\u0101jat: \u201cMan jau vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt pietiekami sp\u0113c\u012bgam.\u201d<br>Vai ar\u012b: \u201cM\u0113s esam pieaugu\u0161ie, m\u0113s varam tikt ar to gal\u0101.\u201d<br>Vai ar\u012b: \u201cTas nav nekas nopietns, m\u0113s zin\u0101m savas robe\u017eas.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010du robe\u017eas nav saist\u012btas ar v\u0101jumu. T\u0101s ir par gudr\u012bbu. T\u0101s ir par to, lai atz\u012btu, ka emocijas saasin\u0101s, pievilc\u012bba pieaug un ievainojam\u012bba \u0101tri atver durvis. Pat visstingr\u0101kais kristietis var pasl\u012bd\u0113t, ja pie\u0146em, ka discipl\u012bna ma\u0123iski par\u0101d\u012bsies br\u012bd\u012b, kad t\u0101 b\u016bs vajadz\u012bga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Discipl\u012bna tiek veidota ilgi pirms izaicin\u0101juma par\u0101d\u012b\u0161an\u0101s. T\u0101 tiek veidota j\u016bsu paradumos, l\u016bg\u0161anu dz\u012bv\u0113, god\u012bgum\u0101 un cilv\u0113kos, kuriem j\u016bs \u013caujat sevi saukt pie atbild\u012bbas. Robe\u017eas padara ce\u013cu skaidru. Discipl\u012bna notur j\u016bs uz t\u0101. J\u016bs esat peln\u012bju\u0161i t\u0101das attiec\u012bbas, kur\u0101s j\u016bs nep\u0101rtraukti c\u012bn\u0101ties ar vainas apzi\u0146u, apjukumu vai gar\u012bgo miglu. Discipl\u012bna rada telpu skaidr\u012bbai. T\u0101 pal\u012bdz tev iet uz randi\u0146iem ar p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, nevis haosu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-stop-looking-for-a-savior\">4. Beidz mekl\u0113t Gl\u0101b\u0113ju<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Man n\u0101c\u0101s iem\u0101c\u012bties: tavs n\u0101kamais laul\u0101tais nav tavs dziednieks, padomdev\u0113js vai mierin\u0101t\u0101js. Tas ir J\u0113zus. Laul\u0101tais nevar izlabot j\u016bsu nedro\u0161\u012bbu, aizpild\u012bt j\u016bsu emocion\u0101lo tuk\u0161umu vai pabeigt j\u016bs. Tas ir p\u0101r\u0101k liels spiediens uz otru cilv\u0113ku, un tas j\u016bs abus nost\u0101da uz neveiksmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jums nav j\u0101b\u016bt ide\u0101lam, bet jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt pilnv\u0113rt\u012bgam. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka esi dro\u0161s Krist\u016b, nevis izmis\u012bgi mekl\u0113 k\u0101du, kas apstiprin\u0101tu tavu v\u0113rt\u012bbu. Ja tu v\u0113lies, lai k\u0101ds dara to, ko sp\u0113j tikai Dievs, tu galu gal\u0101 b\u016bsi v\u012blies un apjucis - un, iesp\u0113jams, aps\u016bdz\u0113si vi\u0146u par to, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nav pietiekams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Mans st\u0101sts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101 bija liela k\u013c\u016bda, ko es pie\u013c\u0101vu randi\u0146u laik\u0101, \u012bpa\u0161i pusaud\u017eu gados. Es dom\u0101ju, ka esmu kaut k\u0101 v\u0113rta tikai tad, ja puisim pat\u012bku es. Ja vi\u0146am nepatika, ar mani kaut kas nebija k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. Vai ar\u012b, ja puisis man nepiev\u0113rsa uzman\u012bbu, tas noz\u012bm\u0113ja, ka esmu garlaic\u012bga. Ja vi\u0146\u0161 neizv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s mani, nevis citu meiteni, es nebiju neviena cita laika v\u0113rta. Tie visi bija meli. Tev ar\u012b nevajadz\u0113tu tiem tic\u0113t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tu esi rad\u012bts p\u0113c Dieva t\u0113la, t\u0101p\u0113c tas autom\u0101tiski noz\u012bm\u0113, ka esi nenov\u0113rt\u0113jams. Vi\u0146\u0161 s\u016bt\u012bja Savu vien\u012bgo D\u0113lu mirt par tevi, t\u0101p\u0113c tu esi m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113rts. Piepild\u012bjums n\u0101k no t\u0101, kas tu esi Krist\u016b. Laul\u0101t\u0101 dz\u012bvesbiedrs, ja j\u016bs to v\u0113laties, ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i dz\u012bves bonuss. Skumji, ka da\u017eas bazn\u012bcas ir padar\u012bju\u0161as laul\u012bbu par elku, un daudzi krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie j\u016btas nepiln\u012bgi bez laul\u012bbas gredzena. Nepie\u013caujiet \u0161os melus, lai cik re\u0101li tie ar\u012b ne\u0161\u0137istu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-people-are-your-savior\">Kad cilv\u0113ki ir tavs gl\u0101b\u0113js...<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s k\u013c\u016bst b\u012bstama, kad tu sagaidi, ka cilv\u0113ks dziedin\u0101s br\u016bces, kuras Dievs v\u0113las \u0101rst\u0113t. Cilv\u0113ki nevar iz\u0101rst\u0113t noraid\u012bjumu, pamest\u012bbu, nedro\u0161\u012bbu, vientul\u012bbu vai bailes. Vi\u0146i var tevi atbalst\u012bt, iedro\u0161in\u0101t, iet kop\u0101 ar tevi, m\u012bl\u0113t, bet vi\u0146i nevar tevi pabeigt. \u0160\u0101das gaidas p\u0101rv\u0113r\u0161 attiec\u012bbas par izdz\u012bvo\u0161anas l\u012bdzek\u013ciem, nevis partnerattiec\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mekl\u0113 k\u0101du, kas tevi gl\u0101bs no pag\u0101tnes, gl\u0101bs no vientul\u012bbas, gl\u0101bs no saj\u016btas neredzamam - neviena no \u0161\u012bm v\u0113lm\u0113m neved pie vesel\u012bgas m\u012blest\u012bbas. T\u0101s noved pie atkar\u012bbas, vil\u0161an\u0101s un nevajadz\u012bga sirds salau\u0161anas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-jesus-is-your-savior\">Kad J\u0113zus ir tavs Gl\u0101b\u0113js...<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs esat peln\u012bjis attiec\u012bbas, kas balst\u012btas uz piln\u012bbu, nevis izmisumu. Dievs nekad nav rad\u012bjis randi\u0146us, lai aizst\u0101tu Vi\u0146u. Vi\u0146\u0161 rad\u012bja t\u0101s, lai papildin\u0101tu to, ko Vi\u0146\u0161 jau dara tev\u012b. Kad laul\u012bba tiek pacelta augst\u0101k par identit\u0101ti, rodas vil\u0161an\u0101s. Kad identit\u0101te ir balst\u012bta Krist\u016b, j\u016bs varat br\u012bvi baud\u012bt attiec\u012bbas, t\u0101s nepadodot par elku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-god-isn-t-testing-you\">5. Dievs tevi nep\u0101rbauda<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da\u017ei kristie\u0161i izturas pret vientul\u012bbu k\u0101 pret sodu un pret randi\u0146iem k\u0101 pret gala eks\u0101menu, kas tev ir j\u0101nok\u0101rto. \u013baujiet man j\u016bs atbr\u012bvot: Dievs tev p\u0101r galvu neuzliek attiec\u012bbas, l\u012bdz tu esi \u201cpietiekami labs\u201d. Tas nav p\u0101rbaud\u012bjums. Runa ir par partnerattiec\u012bb\u0101m, laiku un m\u0113r\u0137i. Vi\u0146\u0161 priec\u0101jas dot labas d\u0101vanas. Vi\u0146\u0161 nesp\u0113l\u0113 pasl\u0113pes ar tavu sirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u0101, ir gaid\u012b\u0161anas periodi. J\u0101, ir lietas, ko Vi\u0146\u0161 pilnveido. Bet Vi\u0146a sirds ir j\u016bsu lab\u0101 - ne tikai j\u016bsu izaugsmei. Tev nav p\u0101rlieku j\u0101analiz\u0113 katrs sarkanais karodzi\u0146\u0161 vai j\u0101pie\u0146em, ka gr\u016bt\u012bbas noz\u012bm\u0113 \u201cDievs man m\u0101ca k\u0101du m\u0101c\u012bbu\u201d. Da\u017ereiz tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i nesakr\u012bt. Un tas ir labi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-learning-from-mistakes\">M\u0101c\u012b\u0161an\u0101s no k\u013c\u016bd\u0101m<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0113, m\u0113s nevaram atgriezties pag\u0101tn\u0113 un izlabot visas k\u013c\u016bdas, ko esam pie\u013c\u0101vu\u0161i randi\u0146u laik\u0101, ta\u010du m\u0113s varam no t\u0101m m\u0101c\u012bties. Es zinu, ka es daudz ko iem\u0101c\u012bjos, pirms iepazinos ar savu v\u012bru. Ziniet ko? J\u016bs nekad nebeidzat m\u0101c\u012bties pat laul\u012bb\u0101, t\u0101p\u0113c nedom\u0101jiet, ka alt\u0101ris ir fini\u0161a taisne. Tas ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i jauns s\u0101kums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vai j\u016bs uztic\u0113sieties Dieva raksturam un sirdij? Vai j\u016bs tic\u0113siet, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 ir ar jums un v\u0113las jums vislab\u0101ko? Turiet acis v\u0113rstas uz Vi\u0146u pat tad, kad viss \u0161\u0137iet tum\u0161s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs neesat vientu\u013c\u0161, jo esat nepiln\u012bgs. J\u016bs ar\u012b neesat gaido\u0161s t\u0101p\u0113c, ka jums kaut kas nav izdevies. Tu neesi pamests nov\u0101rt\u0101 t\u0101p\u0113c, ka Dievs tevi aizmirsis. Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s nav atl\u012bdz\u012bba par gar\u012bgo sniegumu. T\u0101s ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i attiec\u012bbas starp diviem cilv\u0113kiem - uztic\u012bga Dieva vad\u012bb\u0101, kur\u0161 prec\u012bzi zina, kas jums ir vajadz\u012bgs un kad jums tas ir vajadz\u012bgs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad j\u016bs p\u0101rst\u0101jat uztvert \u0161o ce\u013cojumu k\u0101 p\u0101rbaud\u012bjumu, j\u016bs atbr\u012bvojaties no spiediena un ieejat mier\u0101. Dievs nev\u0113rt\u0113 j\u016bsu v\u0113rt\u012bbu. Vi\u0146\u0161 nem\u0113ra j\u016bsu v\u0113rt\u012bbu p\u0113c j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu statusa. Vi\u0146\u0161 neattur m\u012blest\u012bbu k\u0101 sodu. Vi\u0146a laika noteik\u0161ana nav sak\u0146ota ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bb\u0101 - t\u0101 ir sak\u0146ota r\u016bp\u0113s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gatavs satikt da\u017eus <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i kristie\u0161u singli<\/a>? 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