{"id":3148,"date":"2026-01-08T12:00:16","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T12:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3148"},"modified":"2026-03-05T11:15:52","modified_gmt":"2026-03-05T11:15:52","slug":"dont-fancy-tos-uzreiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/dont-fancy-them-straight-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Vai pievilk\u0161ana var veidot: Ko dar\u012bt, ja man tie uzreiz ne\u0137eras pie sirds?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cKo dar\u012bt, ja man tie uzreiz nepat\u012bk?\u201d Tas ir daudzu kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo probl\u0113ma, jo pasaul\u0113 tik liels uzsvars tiek likts uz pievilc\u012bbu, dzirksteles un \u0137\u012bmiju. M\u0113s pie\u0146emam, ka, ja vi\u0146\u0161 m\u016bs neaizrauj, k\u0101 Metj\u016b Makonaheijs (Matthew McConaughey) D\u017eeniferu Lopesu (Jennifer Lopez) film\u0101. <em>K\u0101zu pl\u0101not\u0101js<\/em>, tad t\u0101 nav \u012bsta m\u012blest\u012bba. Vai ar\u012b, ja v\u012brietis neapst\u0101jas, ieraugot pa ielu ejo\u0161u sievieti ar v\u0113ju matos un ko\u0161u smaidu, vi\u0146a, iesp\u0113jams, nav vi\u0146a laika v\u0113rta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u016bk, st\u0101sts par prec\u0113tu p\u0101ri, kas nejuta s\u0101kotn\u0113jo dzirksti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Vi\u0146i risk\u0113ja aklaj\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AA4yfFPhRuo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-where-christians-go-wrong\">Kur kristie\u0161i k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kam\u0113r <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\">iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s aplik\u0101cijas pal\u012bdz kristie\u0161u singliem satikties<\/a> cilv\u0113kiem no da\u017e\u0101d\u0101m pasaules da\u013c\u0101m, bie\u017ei vien p\u0101r\u0101k liels uzsvars tiek likts uz izskatu. Ja vi\u0146i jums uzreiz ne\u0161\u0137iet simp\u0101tiski, p\u0101rvelciet pa kreisi. Tiem, kas tom\u0113r dodas uz pirmo randi\u0146u, tiek izdar\u012bts liels spiediens uz \u0161o vienu tik\u0161anos. Vi\u0146i sagaida taure\u0146us un zvaigznes, kas dejos vi\u0146u ac\u012bs. Ja pirmaj\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101 vi\u0146i nesa\u0146em apstiprin\u0101jumu, ka \u0161is ir vi\u0146u dz\u012bvesbiedrs, vi\u0146i to uzskata par zaud\u0113tu lietu. Daudzi krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie baid\u0101s velt\u012bgi t\u0113r\u0113t laiku, tiekoties ar \u201cnepareizo cilv\u0113ku\u201d, ja vi\u0146i uzreiz nezina, vai k\u0101ds ir vi\u0146iem piem\u0113rots. Vi\u0146i neapzin\u0101s, ka Dievs zina, k\u0101 izpirkt laiku, pat tad, kad m\u0113s dom\u0101jam, ka kaut kas ir uz visiem laikiem zaud\u0113ts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir v\u0113l viena kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo grupa, kas baid\u0101s, ka vi\u0146iem b\u016bs j\u0101b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar k\u0101du, kas vi\u0146iem \u012bsti nepat\u012bk vai nepiesaista. T\u0101 k\u0101 tik daudz tiek run\u0101ts par m\u0113r\u0137i un aicin\u0101jumu, daudzi uzskata, ka Dievam paties\u012bb\u0101 ner\u016bp \u0137\u012bmija. \u0160\u012bs m\u0101c\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146i baid\u0101s prec\u0113ties ar k\u0101du, ar kuru vi\u0146iem pat nepat\u012bk b\u016bt kop\u0101. Vi\u0146i iedom\u0101jas laul\u012bbu, kur\u0101 ik dienu j\u016btas no\u017e\u0113lojami, bet, kam\u0113r vien tiek piepild\u012bta Dieva griba, vi\u0146iem tiek teikts, ka ir v\u0113rts upur\u0113t jautr\u012bbu un \u0137\u012bmiju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Mans st\u0101sts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad m\u0113s ar v\u012bru pirmo reizi s\u0101k\u0101m video t\u0113rz\u0113\u0161anu Zoom, man uzreiz nerad\u0101s \u201cdzirksts\u201d. Tas nebija t\u0101p\u0113c, ka mani vi\u0146\u0161 nepiesaist\u012bja, bet es biju pie\u0146\u0113musi l\u0113mumu apzin\u0101ti pal\u0113nin\u0101t tempu, lai p\u0101r\u0101k dr\u012bz emocion\u0101li nepie\u0137ertos. \u0160o k\u013c\u016bdu es jau reiz biju pie\u013c\u0101vusi, un, t\u0101 k\u0101 \u013c\u0101vos, lai mani vad\u012btu j\u016btas, tas aptum\u0161oja manu spriedumu un ne\u013c\u0101va man patiesi iepaz\u012bt \u0161o cilv\u0113ku. T\u0101p\u0113c, kad m\u0113s ar v\u012bru s\u0101k\u0101m run\u0101t, es pie\u0146\u0113mu fr\u0101zi: \u201cViena diena pa vienai. Viena saruna p\u0113c otras.\u201d Lai gan es nejutu t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113ju dzirksteli, manas j\u016btas pret vi\u0146u laika gait\u0101 vesel\u012bg\u0101 veid\u0101 pieauga. Tagad, gandr\u012bz piecus gadus v\u0113l\u0101k, mans v\u012brs ir k\u013cuvis par b\u016btisku manas dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013cu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-slow-down\">Pal\u0113nin\u0101t<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101 jau min\u0113ts iepriek\u0161, daudzi kristie\u0161i baid\u0101s velt\u012bgi t\u0113r\u0113t laiku ar nepareizo cilv\u0113ku, ja vi\u0146i vi\u0146u nem\u012bl no pa\u0161a s\u0101kuma. Tom\u0113r es aicinu ikvienu no vi\u0146iem vienk\u0101r\u0161i pal\u0113nin\u0101t tempu. Pat ja \u0161\u012b persona nav j\u016bsu laul\u0101tais, tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka t\u0101 nav apbr\u012bnojama person\u012bba, kas m\u012bl Kungu. Ne katrs, ko j\u016bs satiekat, ir dom\u0101ts, lai k\u013c\u016btu par j\u016bsu laul\u0101to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es uzskatu, ka mums, tic\u012bgajiem, ir j\u0101atceras, ka Dievs r\u016bp\u0113jas par katru m\u016bsu dz\u012bves deta\u013cu. Ir viegli iedom\u0101ties Dievu t\u0101lu prom, Sav\u0101 tron\u012b Debes\u012bs, un m\u0113s aizmirstam, ka Vi\u0146a Gars ir ar mums katru dienu. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, kas mums pat\u012bk un kas ne. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina m\u016bsu person\u012bbas un zina, ar ko m\u0113s vislab\u0101k sadarbosimies. Ja Vi\u0146\u0161 to zina, k\u0101p\u0113c gan Vi\u0146\u0161 to ne\u0146emtu v\u0113r\u0101 attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz jums un j\u016bsu potenci\u0101lo laul\u012bbu? J\u0101, Dievs v\u0113las paklaus\u012bbu un sv\u0113tumu. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las, lai j\u016bs b\u016btu saska\u0146\u0101 ar Vi\u0146a m\u0113r\u0137i un gribu. Ta\u010du dom\u0101t, ka Dievam visp\u0101r ner\u016bp tava laime, ir aplami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-do-single-christians-think\">Ko dom\u0101 vientu\u013cie kristie\u0161i?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s \u0161o sarunu p\u0101rnes\u0101m uz <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/social\">SALT soci\u0101l\u0101 kopiena<\/a> lai uzzin\u0101tu, ko vi\u0146i teica. Izlasot vi\u0146u atzi\u0146as, veiciet inventariz\u0101ciju, k\u0101 virz\u0101ties sav\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bv\u0113. Protams, nav noteiktu noteikumu, k\u0101 r\u012bkoties, bet m\u0113s varam smelties gudr\u012bbu cits no cita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko j\u016bs dar\u0101t, ja jums uzreiz t\u0101s nepat\u012bk? Ko dar\u012bt, ja pirmais randi\u0146\u0161 ir neveikls nervozit\u0101tes d\u0113\u013c - j\u016bsu vai vi\u0146u? Vai jums vajadz\u0113tu dot cilv\u0113kam v\u0113l vienu iesp\u0113ju vai norakst\u012bt vi\u0146u, jo saj\u016btas nebija t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113jas? Pateicoties romantiskaj\u0101m kom\u0113dij\u0101m, m\u0113s dom\u0101jam, ka m\u012blest\u012bbai j\u0101b\u016bt t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113jai. Bet ko dar\u012bt, ja m\u012blest\u012bba deg l\u0113ni? Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums vajadz\u0113tu piespiest vai rad\u012bt j\u016btas pret k\u0101du cilv\u0113ku. Tas nav god\u012bgi. Ja p\u0113c tam, kad velt\u012bj\u0101t laiku, lai iepaz\u012btos, j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m neredzat n\u0101kotni ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku, tad laipni aiziet un atst\u0101jiet \u0161o cilv\u0113ku lab\u0101ku, nek\u0101 j\u016bs vi\u0146u atrad\u0101t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es zinu, k\u0101 tas ir, kad k\u0101dam izj\u016bti j\u016btas. Es to dar\u012bju sliktas sirdsapzi\u0146as d\u0113\u013c, kad man nebija re\u0101lu izred\u017eu, un, t\u0101 k\u0101 \u0161is puisis man piev\u0113rsa uzman\u012bbu, es nol\u0113mu tam piekrist. Tas beidz\u0101s ar to, ka nodar\u012bju sev p\u0101ri, jo nebiju god\u012bga pret otru cilv\u0113ku. Krist\u012bgaj\u0101s iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s reiz\u0113s t\u0101 nedr\u012bkst\u0113tu notikt. Mums \u0161aj\u0101 proces\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt caursp\u012bd\u012bgiem, lai m\u0113s nevienu nenovestu un neliktu vi\u0146am dom\u0101t, ka vi\u0146\u0161 mums pat\u012bk, lai gan paties\u012bb\u0101 tas t\u0101 nav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-fancy-them-straight-away\">Vai jums tie uzreiz nav iepatiku\u0161ies?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDa\u017ereiz cilv\u0113ki var b\u016bt nervozi\/vair\u012bties, t\u0101p\u0113c vienm\u0113r dodiet vi\u0146iem otro iesp\u0113ju un otro randi\u0146u. Bet, ja 1. randi\u0146a sarunas laik\u0101 v\u0113rt\u012bbas\/mor\u0101li nesakr\u012bt, tad 2. randi\u0146\u0161 nav nepiecie\u0161ams.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-karl\">Karls<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cFizisk\u0101 pievilc\u012bba nekad nav svar\u012bga ilgtermi\u0146\u0101, bet var ietekm\u0113t to, k\u0101 j\u016btaties s\u0101kum\u0101. Nepiecie\u0161ams laiks, lai uzzin\u0101tu, k\u0101da ir cilv\u0113ka person\u012bba. Kam\u0113r ir pietiekami daudz kop\u012bga, lai veidotos vismaz draudz\u012bba, ir v\u0113rts m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t uz otro randi\u0146u. Da\u017ereiz ir nepiecie\u0161ams laiks, lai izveidotu emocion\u0101lu saikni attiec\u012bb\u0101m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-candy\">Candy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDa\u017ereiz saj\u016btas nerodas uzreiz, bet laika gait\u0101 t\u0101s pieaug. Mans visp\u0101r\u0113jais noteikums ir b\u016bt god\u012bgam par to, k\u0101 lietas att\u012bst\u0101s, un sazin\u0101ties, ja tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i nenotiek l\u012bdz 3. datuma beig\u0101m, lai j\u016bs respekt\u0113tu ar\u012b vi\u0146u laiku.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-leoni\">Leoni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cPirmaj\u0101 reiz\u0113 vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt kaut k\u0101dai kavalierismam, laipn\u012bbai vai saj\u016bt\u0101m, kas tevi notur\u0113tu. Pirmais iespaids ir svar\u012bgs. \u012azaka kalps pirmaj\u0101 tik\u0161an\u0101s reiz\u0113 mekl\u0113ja kalpot\u0101ju d\u0101mu. Es esmu pabeidzis lietas, pamatojoties uz pareizo jaut\u0101jumu uzdo\u0161anu vai ar\u012b piln\u012bgi bez bru\u0146niec\u012bbas.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-kayla\">Kayla<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEs dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir atkar\u012bgs no t\u0101, ar ko cilv\u0113ks tev \u0161\u0137iet pievilc\u012bgs. Man t\u0101 ir inteli\u0123ence, laipn\u012bba, l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bba un tas, k\u0101 vi\u0146i uzvedas un izturas pret citiem. Nav svar\u012bgi, cik labi vi\u0146i izskat\u0101s, \u0101r\u0113jais izskats neatspogu\u013co vi\u0146u person\u012bbu un to, k\u0101 vi\u0146i iztur\u0113sies pret mani. T\u0101p\u0113c man vajag vair\u0101k nek\u0101 vienu tik\u0161anos, lai saprastu, vai man k\u0101ds cilv\u0113ks \u2018pat\u012bk\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-theresa\">Theresa<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cTas ir lielisks jaut\u0101jums! Person\u012bgi es dom\u0101ju, ka pievilc\u012bba da\u017ek\u0101rt var pieaugt ar laiku, \u012bpa\u0161i, ja ir patiesa saikne un laba saruna. Ja man pat\u012bk vi\u0146u komp\u0101nija un es j\u016btu zi\u0146k\u0101r\u012bbas dzirksti, es b\u016btu atv\u0113rta otram randi\u0146am, lai redz\u0113tu, vai j\u016btas att\u012bst\u0101s. Bet, ja patie\u0161\u0101m \u0161\u0137iet, ka romantiska potenci\u0101la visp\u0101r nav, es, iesp\u0113jams, b\u016btu god\u012bgs un ieteiktu palikt draugos. Dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir atkar\u012bgs no t\u0101, vai es j\u016btu k\u0101du iesp\u0113ju kaut kam vair\u0101k, vai ar\u012b t\u0101 ir tikai jauka draudz\u012bbas vibr\u0101cija.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lucas\">Lucas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEs dzird\u0113ju spredi\u0137i yearssss atpaka\u013c Greg Laurie &amp; vi\u0146\u0161 teica, ka jebkur\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad j\u016bs esat ar k\u0101du, ja tas ir viens datums, viena ned\u0113\u013ca vai viens gads... &amp; j\u016bs zin\u0101t, vai Dievs par\u0101da jums, ka tas nav j\u016bsu persona, jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams, lai izbeigtu to... &amp; \u0161eit ir kicker... vi\u0146\u0161 teica, \u201c... k\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs v\u0113laties turpin\u0101t iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s k\u0101ds cits n\u0101kotnes laul\u0101tais?!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-greg\">Gregs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cZin\u0101m\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 es piekr\u012btu Gregam, bet ar\u012b p\u0113c pirm\u0101 randi\u0146a vai videozvana j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, v\u0113l gandr\u012bz nezin\u0101t cilv\u0113ku un to, vai vi\u0146\u0161 ir piem\u0113rots jums, ja neskaita spilgtus rakstura tr\u016bkumus vai pret\u0113jus pasaules uzskatus un v\u0113rt\u012bbas (nav vesel\u012bgi p\u0101r\u0101k agri dal\u012bties sav\u0101s ievainojam\u012bb\u0101s). .... Es vair\u0101k piekr\u012btu tr\u012bs randi\u0146u noteikumam un ide\u0101lam \u201dvispirms draugi\", ka m\u0113s cen\u0161amies iepaz\u012bt vi\u0146u sirdi vair\u0101k nek\u0101 gad\u012bjuma apst\u0101k\u013cus un \u013caujam vi\u0146iem zin\u0101t, ka j\u016bs negras\u0101ties vi\u0146us atmest, pamatojoties uz pirmo iespaidu.\".\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-jason\">D\u017eeisons<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-give-it-time\">Dodiet tam laiku<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Pamatojoties uz \u0161iem koment\u0101riem, es dom\u0101ju, ka vienpr\u0101t\u012bba ir par to, ka tam ir j\u0101paredz vismaz 2-3 datumi. T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101, ja s\u0101kotn\u0113ji vi\u0146i tev nepat\u012bk, tu dod cilv\u0113kam v\u0113l vienu iesp\u0113ju. Es piekr\u012btu \u0161\u0101dai pieejai, jo sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 j\u016bs sniedzat \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu otrai personai. Ja s\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101 vi\u0146i nav j\u016bs p\u0101rsteigu\u0161i, dodot vi\u0146iem v\u0113l vienu iesp\u0113ju, j\u016bs \u013caujat vi\u0146iem saprast, ka ir v\u0113rts pavad\u012bt ar vi\u0146iem laiku un ka j\u016bs vi\u0146us nov\u0113rt\u0113jat - pat tad, ja lietas nenotiek nopietnu attiec\u012bbu veido\u0161an\u0101. Galu gal\u0101 tas ir tas, ko m\u0113s visi v\u0113lamies. M\u0113s visi v\u0113lamies justies redzami k\u0101dam citam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja p\u0113c otr\u0101 vai pat tre\u0161\u0101 randi\u0146a neredzat, ka attiec\u012bbas var\u0113tu att\u012bst\u012bties, laipni pazi\u0146ojiet par to otrai personai, lai t\u0101 b\u016btu inform\u0113ta. \u0160is nav \u012bstais br\u012bdis, lai p\u0101rliecin\u0101tu sevi b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar vi\u0146u tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka vairs nev\u0113laties b\u016bt viens. Tas nav god\u012bgi pret vi\u0146u, un tas nav god\u012bgi ar\u012b pret jums. Es atceros st\u0101stu par D\u0101vidu, kad pravietis Samu\u0113ls tika nos\u016bt\u012bts mekl\u0113t jaunu \u0137\u0113ni\u0146u. Vi\u0146\u0161 apl\u016bkoja D\u0101vida vec\u0101kos br\u0101\u013cus un pie\u0146\u0113ma, ka, \u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 to, k\u0101 vi\u0146i izskat\u012bj\u0101s, Dievs autom\u0101tiski izv\u0113l\u0113sies vienu no vi\u0146iem vad\u012bt Izra\u0113lu p\u0113c \u0137\u0113ni\u0146a Saula. Tom\u0113r Dievs Samu\u0113lu izlaboja un atg\u0101din\u0101ja vi\u0146am, ka, kam\u0113r cilv\u0113ks skat\u0101s uz \u0101r\u0113jo izskatu, Dievs skat\u0101s uz sirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-look-at-the-heart\">Paskaties uz sirdi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai m\u0113s k\u0101 kristie\u0161i m\u016bsdienu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pasaul\u0113 varam god\u012bgi apgalvot, ka m\u0113s patiesi raug\u0101mies uz cilv\u0113ku sird\u012bm? Vai m\u0113s neaprobe\u017eojamies tikai ar to, vai vi\u0146i mums pat\u012bk, bet \u0146emam v\u0113r\u0101 ar\u012b vi\u0146u raksturu? Ir <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/vai-fiziskajai-pievilcibai-ir-nozime-kristigajas-attiecibas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">nekas nepareizs ar pievilk\u0161anu<\/a>-Tas ir svar\u012bgi, bet tas, k\u0101 j\u016bs izskat\u0101ties 21 gada vecum\u0101, neb\u016bs t\u0101ds pats, k\u0101 81 gada vecum\u0101. Diem\u017e\u0113l krist\u012bgaj\u0101 bazn\u012bc\u0101 ir ien\u0101ku\u0161i daudzi sekli iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s principi. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca krist\u012bgo vienlaul\u012bgo to neapzin\u0101s, bet, ja vi\u0146i spertu soli atpaka\u013c, vi\u0146i, iesp\u0113jams, saprastu, ka daudz\u0101m vi\u0146u v\u0113lm\u0113m ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 nav \u012bsti noz\u012bmes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c, ja jums uzreiz t\u0101s nepat\u012bk, dodiet t\u0101m v\u0113l vienu vai divus randi\u0146us. 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Vi\u0146\u0161 pat teica: \u201cEs priec\u0101jos, ka mums nesan\u0101ca, jo tu nekad neb\u016btu satikusi savu v\u012bru, kur\u0161 ir br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgs v\u012brietis.\u201d Tas prasa lielu briedumu, lai to pateiktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-ok-with-rejection\">Esiet mier\u0101 ar noraid\u012bjumu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Daudzi kristie\u0161i, kas nav prec\u0113jies, noraid\u012bjumu uztver tik personiski, ka, kad k\u0101ds p\u0101riet, m\u0113s to uzskat\u0101m par savu neveiksmi - ka vi\u0146i nav izv\u0113l\u0113ju\u0161ies m\u016bs. Ta\u010du iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s un laul\u012bbas nav saist\u012btas ar to, ka k\u0101ds m\u016bs ir izv\u0113l\u0113jies. K\u0101 kristie\u0161iem runa ir par to, lai nosl\u0113gtu der\u012bbu ar savu laul\u0101to, lai j\u016bsu laul\u012bb\u0101 b\u016btu redzama J\u0113zus gaisma. J\u0101, ir jautr\u012bba un romantika, bet tas nav j\u016bsu savien\u012bbas galvenais m\u0113r\u0137is. J\u016bsu draugiem, j\u016bsu \u0123imenei un pasaulei vajadz\u0113tu sp\u0113t paskat\u012bties uz j\u016bsu laul\u012bbu un skaidri redz\u0113t, ka Dievs j\u016bs ir savedis kop\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101 ir ar jums? Vai ir k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 n\u0101k pr\u0101t\u0101 un kuram vajadz\u0113tu dot v\u0113l vienu iesp\u0113ju? Ja j\u0101, izm\u0113\u0123iniet to un redz\u0113siet, kas notiks. Jums neb\u016bs slikt\u0101k, nek\u0101 ir \u0161obr\u012bd. Ir pien\u0101cis laiks piln\u012bb\u0101 atdot savu randi\u0146u dz\u012bvi Tam Kungam, uzticot Vi\u0146am izn\u0101kumu. Dievs zina, k\u0101 uzrakst\u012bt lab\u0101kos m\u012blas st\u0101stus - \u013caujiet Vi\u0146am uzrakst\u012bt ar\u012b j\u016bs\u0113jo. 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