\u0160aj\u0101 bloga ierakst\u0101 sniegsim atbildes uz jaut\u0101jumiem kristie\u0161iem, kuriem ir biju\u0161i dzimumattiec\u012bbas pirms laul\u012bbas. T\u0101di jaut\u0101jumi k\u0101: \"Ja es esmu nodarbojies ar seksu pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m, vai krist\u012bgs partneris mani v\u0113l\u0113sies?\" un \"Ja es esmu nodarbojies ar seksu pirms laul\u012bb\u0101m, vai man joproj\u0101m var b\u016bt karaliska laul\u012bba?\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dievs tevi ir piln\u012bb\u0101 sagatavojis \u0161\u0137\u012bstai dz\u012bvei, pat ja iepriek\u0161 esi bijis seksu\u0101li akt\u012bvs. L\u016bk, piecas lietas, ko tu vari dar\u012bt jau tagad, lai god\u0101tu Dievu - pat tad, ja tev ir biju\u0161i seksu\u0101li sakari pirms laul\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Runa nav par to, lai jums b\u016btu lo\u017eu necaurlaid\u012bga metode, ar kuru j\u016bs nekad vairs nek\u013c\u016bd\u012bsieties. Runa ir par izv\u0113li dz\u012bvot t\u0101, lai pasarg\u0101tu j\u016bs no k\u013c\u016b\u0161anas par slikt\u0101ko sevis versiju. B\u012bbel\u0113 ir teikts, ka, ja m\u0113s patiesi m\u012blam Dievu, m\u0113s iev\u0113rosim Vi\u0146a bau\u0161\u013cus. Pirmais J\u0101\u0146a eva\u0146\u0123\u0113lijs skaidri saka, ka, ja m\u0113s staig\u0101jam gaism\u0101, k\u0101 Dievs ir gaism\u0101, tad m\u0113s patiesi piederam Vi\u0146am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kauns \u010dukst: \"Ir par v\u0113lu,\" bet Dieva \u017e\u0113last\u012bba run\u0101 ska\u013c\u0101k, pied\u0101v\u0101jot jums piln\u012bgi jaunu s\u0101kumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lai gan vislab\u0101k ir gaid\u012bt l\u012bdz laul\u012bb\u0101m, lai var\u0113tu nodarboties ar seksu.<\/a>, daudzi kristie\u0161i jau iepriek\u0161 ir biju\u0161i seksu\u0101li akt\u012bvi. Da\u017eos gad\u012bjumos tas notiek ne vi\u0146u pa\u0161u vainas d\u0113\u013c. Da\u017ei ir tiku\u0161i \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bgi izmantoti - vai nu b\u0113rn\u012bb\u0101, vai pieaugu\u0161o vecum\u0101 - un ir iepazinu\u0161i kaut ko t\u0101du, ko Dievs ir rad\u012bjis, lai to piedz\u012bvotu caur m\u012blest\u012bbu, nevis s\u0101p\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No otras puses, da\u017eu kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo dabisk\u0101s tieksmes un v\u0113lmes ir novedu\u0161as pie seksa pirms laul\u012bbas? Vai tas j\u016bs diskvalific\u0113 no laul\u012bbas Valst\u012bb\u0101 tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka esat p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i robe\u017eas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0160aj\u0101 blog\u0101 m\u0113s piev\u0113rs\u012bsimies \u0161ai otrajai grupai - krist\u012bgajiem singliem, kuri uzskata, ka pirmslaul\u012bbu sekss ir pie\u0146emams, jo gaid\u012b\u0161ana vi\u0146iem \u0161\u0137iet neiesp\u0113jama, vai krist\u012bgajiem singliem, kuri ir k\u013c\u016bd\u012bju\u0161ies un p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i robe\u017eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pirmk\u0101rt, mums ir v\u0113lreiz j\u0101p\u0101rdom\u0101, k\u0101p\u0113c Dievs visp\u0101r rad\u012bja seksu. Kad Dievs rad\u012bja Ievu un atveda vi\u0146u pie \u0100dama, Sv\u0113tie Raksti saka: \"Cilv\u0113ks atst\u0101s savu t\u0113vu un m\u0101ti un pievienosies savai sievai, un abi k\u013c\u016bs viena miesa.\" V\u0113l viena pav\u0113le, ko Dievs deva savai rad\u012bbai, bija \"esiet augl\u012bgi un vairojieties\". Sekss tika rad\u012bts ne tikai dzimst\u012bbas rad\u012b\u0161anai, bet ar\u012b savien\u012bbai un baudai starp laul\u0101tajiem. Salamana Dziesmu dziesma ir skaidrs piem\u0113rs tam - t\u0101 par\u0101da kaisli starp v\u012bru un sievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Past\u0101v mald\u012bgs uzskats, ka Dievs nev\u0113las, lai kristie\u0161i baud\u012btu seksu. Ta\u010du paties\u012bba ir t\u0101da - Dievs to noteikti v\u0113las. Vi\u0146\u0161 izstr\u0101d\u0101ja seksa<\/a> b\u016bt pat\u012bkams. Probl\u0113ma rodas tad, kad tas tiek dar\u012bts \u0101rpus laul\u012bbas der\u012bbas. M\u0113s redzam vair\u0101ku seksu\u0101lo partneru sekas: nepl\u0101notas gr\u016btniec\u012bbas, seksu\u0101li transmis\u012bv\u0101s slim\u012bbas un dv\u0113seles saites, kur\u0101m nekad nebija lemts izveidoties. Dieva pav\u0113le par vienu v\u012brieti un vienu sievieti der\u012bbas laul\u012bb\u0101 atspogu\u013co Kristus attiec\u012bbas ar savu l\u012bgavu - Bazn\u012bcu. J\u0113zus ir piln\u012bb\u0101 uztic\u012bgs Savai l\u012bgavai, un laul\u0101tie ir aicin\u0101ti uz t\u0101du pa\u0161u uztic\u012bbu viens otram. Tagad, kad m\u0113s saprotam, k\u0101da ir Dieva sirds, kas saist\u012bta ar seksu, ko dar\u012bt, ja jums jau ir bijis sekss pirms laul\u012bbas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atcerieties: Atcerieties: Dieva \u017e\u0113last\u012bba jums ir pietiekama. J\u016bs varat izv\u0113l\u0113ties dz\u012bvot \u0161\u0137\u012bstu dz\u012bvi jau \u0161odien. T\u012br\u012bba neaprobe\u017eojas tikai ar attur\u0113\u0161anos no seksa - t\u0101 s\u0101kas pr\u0101t\u0101. J\u0113zus teica: \"Ja v\u012brietis skat\u0101s uz sievieti, lai iek\u0101rotu p\u0113c vi\u0146as, vi\u0146\u0161 jau ir laul\u012bbas p\u0101rk\u0101p\u0113js ar vi\u0146u sav\u0101 sird\u012b.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daudzi v\u012brie\u0161i un sievietes c\u012bn\u0101s ar iek\u0101ri, neapzinoties, ka t\u0101 s\u0101kas pr\u0101t\u0101 un galu gal\u0101 izpau\u017eas darbos - ja vien t\u0101 netiek pak\u013cauta ar Sv\u0113t\u0101 Gara sp\u0113ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nav svar\u012bgi, ko tu esi izdar\u012bjis seksu\u0101l\u0101 jom\u0101 pag\u0101tn\u0113, tev ir piedots un tu esi piln\u012bb\u0101 nomazg\u0101ts ar J\u0113zus asin\u012bm. Ne\u013cauj ienaidniekam p\u0101rliecin\u0101t tevi par pret\u0113jo ar t\u0101diem meliem k\u0101: \"Tu jau esi nodarbojies ar seksu, t\u0101p\u0113c vari to dar\u012bt ar\u012b turpm\u0101k - tu zini, ka nesp\u0113j sevi kontrol\u0113t, un Dievs tev tik un t\u0101 nepiedos.\" Tu jau esi nodarbojies ar seksu, t\u0101p\u0113c vari to dar\u012bt ar\u012b turpm\u0101k. Tie ir elles meli. Neticiet tiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad j\u016bs izs\u016bdzat savus gr\u0113kus J\u0113zum, Vi\u0146\u0161 ir uztic\u012bgs un taisn\u012bgs, lai piedotu jums un \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012btu j\u016bs. Tu k\u013c\u016bsti piln\u012bgi jauns - tik \u013coti, ka J\u0113zus asi\u0146u d\u0113\u013c Vi\u0146\u0161 uz tevi raug\u0101s t\u0101, it k\u0101 tu nekad neb\u016btu gr\u0113kojis. Ejiet \u0161aj\u0101 uzvar\u0101, zinot, ka esat izpirkti Sv\u0113t\u0101 Gara sp\u0113k\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Esmu dzird\u0113jis, ka daudzi kristie\u0161i, kuri ir vienlaul\u012bgi, saka, ka, kad vi\u0146iem ir bijis sekss, \"tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i notika\". T\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba, ka mirkl\u012b - ja j\u016bs neesat uzman\u012bgi - j\u016bsu smadzenes var atsl\u0113gties un j\u016bsu uzman\u012bba tiek piev\u0113rsta tikai un vien\u012bgi tam, ko j\u016bs j\u016btat. Nevar noliegt, ka sekss ir pat\u012bkama saj\u016bta, ta\u010du j\u0101atceras: tas nekad nav bijis dom\u0101ts, lai dal\u012btos ar draugu, draudzeni, \"draugu ar priek\u0161roc\u012bb\u0101m\" vai k\u0101du, ar ko tikko iepazinies k\u0101d\u0101 atp\u016btas telp\u0101. \u0160\u0101ds intimit\u0101tes l\u012bmenis bija paredz\u0113ts laul\u012bbai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Da\u017ei kristie\u0161i apgalvo: \"K\u0101 es varu uzzin\u0101t, vai esmu seksu\u0101li sader\u012bgs ar k\u0101du cilv\u0113ku, ja vien vispirms ar vi\u0146u nenotiek sekss?\" Tas ir izkrop\u013cots uzskats, ko ienaidnieks v\u0113las, lai m\u0113s pie\u0146emam - ka pirms ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s uz m\u016b\u017eu ir nepiecie\u0161ams \"izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t\". B\u016bsim atkl\u0101ti: seksu, t\u0101pat k\u0101 jebkuru citu prasmi, var apg\u016bt. Jums un j\u016bsu laul\u0101tajam ir visa dz\u012bve, lai augtu, p\u0113t\u012btu un atkl\u0101tu, kas jums kop\u0101 pat\u012bk. Ja j\u016bs abi gaid\u0101t l\u012bdz laul\u012bb\u0101m, ir skaisti m\u0101c\u012bties kop\u0101. Sekss nekad nav bijis dom\u0101ts tam, lai sal\u012bdzin\u0101tu savu laul\u0101to ar saviem iepriek\u0161\u0113jiem partneriem. Tas tikai rada nedro\u0161\u012bbu, liekot j\u016bsu laul\u0101tajam dom\u0101t, vai vi\u0146\u0161 ir pietiekams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Lielisks piem\u0113rs tam, ka \"izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t\" dom\u0101\u0161anas veids ir nepiln\u012bgs, bija reiz dzird\u0113t\u0101 podk\u0101sta intervija. Nevaru atcer\u0113ties run\u0101t\u0101ja v\u0101rdu, bet vi\u0146\u0161 izteica sp\u0113c\u012bgu domu: seksa sal\u012bdzin\u0101\u0161ana ar automa\u0161\u012bnas izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101\u0161anu noz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs pl\u0101nojat nomain\u012bt savu laul\u0101to pret kaut ko lab\u0101ku - t\u0101pat k\u0101 cilv\u0113ki maina automa\u0161\u012bnas ik p\u0113c pieciem l\u012bdz septi\u0146iem gadiem. T\u0101p\u0113c, kad k\u0101ds saka: \"Es gribu to izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t,\" paties\u012bb\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 saka: \"Es nepl\u0101noju tevi patur\u0113t ilgtermi\u0146\u0101.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja jau esat p\u0101rk\u0101pis robe\u017eu, vislab\u0101kais, ko varat dar\u012bt, ir no\u017e\u0113lot gr\u0113kus. Kad p\u0113c laul\u012bbas p\u0101rk\u0101p\u0161anas ar Bat\u0161ebu D\u0101vidu konfront\u0113ja pravietis Natans, vi\u0146\u0161 no\u017e\u0113loja gr\u0113kus. Dievs jau zina, ko tu esi izdar\u012bjis. J\u0101, Vi\u0146\u0161 var b\u016bt v\u012blies, bet Vi\u0146\u0161 vienm\u0113r ir gatavs piedot, ja j\u016bs patiesi l\u016bdzat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ar sirsn\u012bgu sirdi no\u017e\u0113lojiet savu gr\u0113ku, bet neizdz\u012bvojiet savu k\u013c\u016bdu no jauna. Ne\u013caujiet, lai nosod\u012bjums p\u0101rliecina j\u016bs, ka esat nev\u0113rt\u012bgs, saboj\u0101ts vai necien\u012bgs dievbij\u012bgai laul\u012bbai. Vien\u0101 no man\u0101m m\u012b\u013c\u0101kaj\u0101m Metj\u016b Vesta dziesm\u0101m ir teikts, \"Vienm\u0113r uzvar \u017e\u0113last\u012bba.\"<\/em> Tom\u0113r \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu nekad nevajadz\u0113tu \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bgi izmantot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Da\u017ei jaunie\u0161i dom\u0101: \"Es to jau esmu izdar\u012bjis. Dievs saprot, ka man ir vajadz\u012bbas.\" Bet t\u0101 nav gr\u0113ku no\u017e\u0113la - t\u0101 ir racionaliz\u0101cija. \u013baujiet Dieva \u017e\u0113last\u012bbai vest j\u016bs atpaka\u013c pie Vi\u0146a ar sirsn\u012bgu sirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atgriez\u012bsimies pie fr\u0101zes \"tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i notika\". Ja krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie kristie\u0161i ir patiesi god\u012bgi pret sevi, sekss starp vi\u0146iem un otru cilv\u0113ku nav \"vienk\u0101r\u0161i noticis\". M\u0113s to padzi\u013cin\u0101ti apl\u016bkosim n\u0101kamaj\u0101 punkt\u0101, ta\u010du ir svar\u012bgi atz\u012bt, ka no daudz\u0101m situ\u0101cij\u0101m var\u0113ja izvair\u012bties, vispirms nepak\u013caujot sevi k\u0101rdino\u0161ai videi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja k\u0101ds tevi uzaicina uz \"Netflix and chill\", tev nav nepiecie\u0161ams b\u016bt vienam ar vi\u0146u dz\u012bvokl\u012b vai m\u0101j\u0101. K\u0101ds var\u0113tu iebilst: \"Es esmu pieaugu\u0161ais, un man nav vajadz\u012bga atbild\u012bba.\" Bet paties\u012bba ir t\u0101da, ka j\u0101, jums ir vajadz\u012bga. Atbild\u012bba kristie\u0161iem ir vit\u0101li svar\u012bga, jo \u012bpa\u0161i, kad runa ir par \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Esiet god\u012bgi pret sevi. Svar\u012bga ir pa\u0161apzi\u0146a. Uzziniet, kas j\u016bs uzbudina vai izraisa. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt likum\u012bgam, bet tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt. \u0146emiet v\u0113r\u0101 savas robe\u017eas.<\/a>. Ja sk\u016bpst\u012b\u0161an\u0101s noved pie sk\u016bpst\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, kas noved pie v\u0113l vair\u0101k, tad, iesp\u0113jams, b\u016btu pr\u0101t\u012bgi sazin\u0101ties jau attiec\u012bbu s\u0101kum\u0101: \"Es nev\u0113los sk\u016bpst\u012bties p\u0101r\u0101k agri.\" Da\u017ei var\u0113tu teikt, ka tas ir gal\u0113ji vai nevajadz\u012bgi, bet, ja tas tev\u012b kaut ko uzjund\u012b, lab\u0101k no t\u0101 izvair\u012bties. Citiem robe\u017ea var neb\u016bt sk\u016bpst\u012b\u0161an\u0101s - t\u0101 var b\u016bt izvair\u012b\u0161an\u0101s no no\u0161\u0137irt\u0101m viet\u0101m, piem\u0113ram, atra\u0161an\u0101s vienatn\u0113 automa\u0161\u012bn\u0101 vai k\u0101da dz\u012bvokl\u012b. J\u0101, j\u016bs esat pieaugu\u0161ais, bet briedums noz\u012bm\u0113 apzin\u0101ties savas robe\u017eas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tas noz\u012bm\u0113 ar\u012b piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu tam, kad un cik ilgi sarun\u0101jaties ar cilv\u0113ku, ar kuru tiekaties. Kad m\u0113s ar v\u012bru s\u0101k\u0101m run\u0101t, m\u0113s nerun\u0101j\u0101m p\u0113c pulksten 22.00 p\u0113c vi\u0146a laika. Vi\u0146\u0161 dz\u012bvoja \u0145ujork\u0101, bet es - Teksas\u0101, t\u0101p\u0113c zin\u0101ju, ka m\u016bsu sarunas beigsies pulksten 21:00 p\u0113c mana laika, pat ja m\u0113s v\u0113l nebij\u0101m pabeigu\u0161i. Vi\u0146\u0161 \u0161o robe\u017eu noteica apzin\u0101ti. Iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s sarunas v\u0113lu vakar\u0101 noveda pie nepiedien\u012bg\u0101m sarun\u0101m, un vi\u0146\u0161 negrib\u0113ja to atk\u0101rtot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u016bsu gad\u012bjum\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 ar laiku saprata, ka es negrasos piemin\u0113t neko nepiedien\u012bgu, neatkar\u012bgi no laika. K\u0101du vakaru m\u0113s beidz\u0101m sarunu p\u0113c m\u016bsu ierast\u0101s robe\u017eas, un vi\u0146\u0161 teica: \"Vau, m\u016bsu saruna joproj\u0101m norit labi.\" Un vi\u0146\u0161 atbild\u0113ja: \"Nebija nekas slikts. T\u0101l\u0101k m\u0113s abi vienoj\u0101mies, ka laika ierobe\u017eojums mums vairs nav nepiecie\u0161ama robe\u017ea. Lieta t\u0101da, ka vi\u0146\u0161 apzin\u0101j\u0101s sevi un noteica robe\u017eas, lai pasarg\u0101tu m\u016bs abus no t\u0101, ka m\u0113s aizietu p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja esi pie\u013c\u0101vis k\u013c\u016bdu, nodarbojoties ar seksu pirms laul\u012bbas, esi atkl\u0101ts ar Dievu. Bet ziniet: atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s nav nosod\u012bjums. Paties\u012bb\u0101 t\u0101 ir durvis uz br\u012bv\u012bbu. Ska\u013ci izsakot to ska\u013ci, tu to atz\u012bsti. J\u016bs to atz\u012bstat. Un j\u016bs atbr\u012bvojat vietu Dievam, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 sniegtu dziedin\u0101\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0101 jau iepriek\u0161 min\u0113ju, ja esat pie\u013c\u0101vis k\u013c\u016bdu, nodarbojoties ar seksu pirms laul\u012bbas, ir svar\u012bgi no jauna noteikt savas robe\u017eas. Piem\u0113ram, ja k\u0101dreiz jums bija \u0113rti doties pie k\u0101da cilv\u0113ka uz m\u0101j\u0101m vienatn\u0113 - zinot, ka tas bie\u017ei noved pie seksu\u0101l\u0101m situ\u0101cij\u0101m - j\u016bsu jaun\u0101 robe\u017ea var\u0113tu b\u016bt \u0161\u0101da, \"Es neapmekl\u0113ju pret\u0113j\u0101 dzimuma p\u0101rst\u0101ves vienatn\u0113.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Atceros, kad m\u0113s ar manu tagad\u0113jo v\u012bru bij\u0101m saderin\u0101ju\u0161ies. Da\u017eas dienas pirms k\u0101z\u0101m es devos pie vi\u0146a uz naktsm\u012btni un brokast\u012bm, kur vi\u0146\u0161 bija apmeties pirms vi\u0146a \u0123imenes iera\u0161an\u0101s Hj\u016bston\u0101. Es tur aizbraucu ar automa\u0161\u012bnu, bet iek\u0161\u0101 netiku iek\u0161\u0101. K\u0101ds varb\u016bt b\u016btu teicis: \"J\u016bs esat saderin\u0101ju\u0161ies, tad kas gan ir slikts, ja paliksiet m\u0101j\u0101s vienatn\u0113?\". Bet m\u0113s grib\u0113j\u0101m st\u0101v\u0113t pie alt\u0101ra ar t\u012bru sirdsapzi\u0146u. Es gaid\u012bju vi\u0146u \u0101r\u0101, un tad m\u0113s dev\u0101mies uz randi\u0146u - iepirkties tirdzniec\u012bbas centr\u0101 un noskat\u012bties filmu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Da\u017ei kristie\u0161i uzskata, ka robe\u017eas at\u0146em prieku no iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s. Ta\u010du j\u016bs varat izbaud\u012bt kop\u0101 pavad\u012bto laiku, nep\u0101rk\u0101pjot robe\u017eu. Lai labi pavad\u012btu laiku, jums nav nepiecie\u0161ams b\u016bt vienatn\u0113 k\u0101da m\u0101j\u0101s. Dodieties uz sp\u0113\u013cu z\u0101li, uz boulingu, uzsp\u0113l\u0113iet minigolfu - ir tik daudz veidu, k\u0101 iet uz randi\u0146u, kas nav saist\u012bti ar izol\u0101ciju. Seksa gaid\u012b\u0161ana nav sods.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Man \u013coti pat\u012bk Dr. Maila Munro cit\u0101ts: \"Dievs v\u0113las, lai tu gaid\u012btu, jo Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las saglab\u0101t tavas atmi\u0146as.\"<\/em> Daudzi, kas ir nodarboju\u0161ies ar seksu \u0101rpus laul\u012bbas, var ar to saskarties - \u0161\u012bs atmi\u0146as bie\u017ei vien paliek ar jums, pat ja cen\u0161aties turpin\u0101t dz\u012bvot \u0161\u0137\u012bstu dz\u012bvi. Jums ir iesp\u0113ja s\u0101kt no jauna un god\u0101t Dievu ar savu \u0137ermeni. Kad es sapratu, ka Dievs v\u0113las slavu katru<\/em> manas dz\u012bves jom\u0101, ieskaitot manu \u0137ermeni un seksu\u0101lo dz\u012bvi, tas main\u012bja visu. Tas lika man v\u0113l vair\u0101k v\u0113l\u0113ties gaid\u012bt. Uzman\u012bbas piev\u0113r\u0161ana Dieva pagodin\u0101\u0161anai, nevis savu v\u0113lmju apmierin\u0101\u0161anai, ne vienm\u0113r padara to viegl\u0101ku, bet t\u0101 pal\u012bdz tev saglab\u0101t skatienu uz Vi\u0146u, nevis uz savu miesu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dievs redz j\u016bsu paklaus\u012bbu. Vi\u0146\u0161 pamana upuri, kas nepiecie\u0161ams, lai noliegtu savu miesu un sekotu Vi\u0146am. Godinot Dievu, tu neko nezaud\u0113 - tu paties\u012bb\u0101 sagatavojies vislab\u0101kajai seksu\u0101lajai dz\u012bvei, k\u0101du vien var iedom\u0101ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es to jau esmu min\u0113jis, bet ir v\u0113rts atk\u0101rtot: p\u0101rskatatbild\u012bba ir b\u016btiska. Atceros st\u0101stu, ar kuru m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js D\u017eerijs Flowerss dal\u012bj\u0101s vien\u0101 no saviem spredi\u0137iem par savu c\u012b\u0146u ar iek\u0101ri pirms iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar sievu. Vi\u0146a gad\u012bjum\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 c\u012bn\u012bj\u0101s ne tikai ar iek\u0101ri, bet ar\u012b ar pornogr\u0101fiju. Tom\u0113r p\u0113c patiesas tik\u0161an\u0101s ar J\u0113zu vi\u0146\u0161 izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s noteikt ap sevi robe\u017eas, tostarp mekl\u0113t atbild\u012bbu pie citiem br\u0101\u013ciem Krist\u016b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai paliktu sav\u0101 dz\u012bvokl\u012b un c\u012bn\u012btos viens, vi\u0146\u0161 piezvan\u012bja da\u017eiem krist\u012bgajiem br\u0101\u013ciem un dev\u0101s sp\u0113l\u0113t basketbolu. Vi\u0146\u0161 ar\u012b s\u0101ka organiz\u0113t B\u012bbeles studijas jauniem v\u012brie\u0161iem, m\u0101cot vi\u0146iem Dieva v\u0101rdu. Ar\u012b tas vi\u0146am pal\u012bdz\u0113ja b\u016bt atbild\u012bgam, jo tagad \u0161ie jaunie v\u012brie\u0161i skat\u012bj\u0101s uz vi\u0146u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aplenciet sevi ar cilv\u0113kiem, kuri m\u012bl Dievu un m\u012bl j\u016bs pietiekami, lai bez kauna pras\u012btu no jums atbild\u012bbu. Tie ir tie, kas m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 run\u0101s paties\u012bbu pat tad, kad to b\u016bs gr\u016bti sadzird\u0113t. Vi\u0146i ir gatavi risk\u0113t ar j\u016bsu neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu, jo vi\u0146iem r\u016bp vair\u0101k tas, lai j\u016bs godin\u0101tu Dievu, nevis tas, lai j\u016bs paliktu j\u016bsu labv\u0113l\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vientu\u013cajiem kristie\u0161iem ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi, lai vi\u0146iem b\u016btu dievbij\u012bga kopiena<\/a>\u012bpa\u0161i tad, kad k\u0101rdin\u0101jumi \u0161\u0137iet nep\u0101rvarami. \u0160\u0101dos br\u012b\u017eos jums ir vajadz\u012bgs k\u0101ds, pie kura varat v\u0113rsties - k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 atg\u0101din\u0101s jums par j\u016bsu v\u0113rt\u012bbu Krist\u016b un pal\u012bdz\u0113s atgriezties uz pareiz\u0101 ce\u013ca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n J\u0101, sekss, iesp\u0113jams, ir labs mirkl\u012b, bet p\u0101r\u0101k daudz kristie\u0161u p\u0113c tam ir sask\u0101ru\u0161ies ar vainas apzi\u0146u, uzdodot sev jaut\u0101jumu: \"Ko es tikko izdar\u012bju?\". Jums nav vajadz\u012bga liela draugu grupa. Divi vai tr\u012bs cilv\u0113ki, kuri m\u012bl J\u0113zu tikpat \u013coti k\u0101 j\u016bs - vai pat vair\u0101k - ir vair\u0101k nek\u0101 pietiekami, lai kop\u0101 ar jums ietu ce\u013c\u0101 uz \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0101 jau iepriek\u0161 min\u0113ju, daudzi kristie\u0161i uzskata, ka seksu\u0101la pag\u0101tne vi\u0146us diskvalific\u0113 no laul\u012bbas Valst\u012bb\u0101. Reiz es dzird\u0113ju k\u0101du sievieti, kurai bija ap 30 gadiem, sak\u0101m: \"Varb\u016bt es pag\u0101tn\u0113 esmu p\u0101r\u0101k daudz saboj\u0101jusies, un tagad es par to maks\u0101ju, jo joproj\u0101m esmu br\u012bva.\" Esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ta, ka t\u0101 nav laul\u012bba. Tie ir v\u0113l vieni meli tie\u0161i no ienaidnieka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja esi patiesi izs\u016bdz\u0113jis savu gr\u0113ku ar savu muti un l\u016bdzis J\u0113zum piedo\u0161anu, Vi\u0146\u0161 netur tavu pag\u0101tni pret tevi. M\u0113s esam tie, kas \u013caujam sev un ienaidniekam ienest nosod\u012bjumu. Bet Krist\u016b j\u016bs esat br\u012bvi. Vi\u0146\u0161 ir nomazg\u0101jis j\u016bs t\u012brus, un Vi\u0146\u0161 neaizdod j\u016bsu pag\u0101tnes gr\u0113kus. Ja j\u016bs past\u0101v\u012bgi j\u016btaties aps\u016bdz\u0113ts, es jums garant\u0113ju - tas nav Kungs. T\u0101 ir vai nu j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 vaina, vai ar\u012b ienaidnieka balss. Nevienam nav nepiecie\u0161ama nevainojama pag\u0101tne, lai staig\u0101tu sav\u0101 m\u0113r\u0137\u012b. Jums ir nepiecie\u0161ama tikai labpr\u0101t\u012bga, nodota sirds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Neaizmirs\u012bsim D\u0101vida st\u0101stu. J\u0101, vi\u0146\u0161 p\u0101rk\u0101pa laul\u012bbas p\u0101rk\u0101p\u0161anu ar Bat\u0161ebu un zaud\u0113ja d\u0113lu, bet Kungs tom\u0113r sv\u0113t\u012bja vi\u0146u ar otru d\u0113lu - Salamanu. Lai gan v\u0113l\u0101kos gados Salamans novirz\u012bj\u0101s no T\u0101 Kunga, vi\u0146\u0161 joproj\u0101m ir paz\u012bstams k\u0101 gudr\u0101kais v\u012brs, k\u0101ds jebkad dz\u012bvojis. Vi\u0146\u0161 uzc\u0113la T\u0101 Kunga templi un bija liecinieks tam, ka Vi\u0146a kl\u0101tb\u016btne to piepilda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tad ir \u0100brah\u0101ms. Vi\u0146\u0161 gul\u0113ja ar savas sievas kalponi Hagaru p\u0113c tam, kad S\u0101ra nol\u0113ma \u0146emt lietas sav\u0101s rok\u0101s, kad Dieva apsol\u012bjums \u0161\u0137ita nov\u0113lots. Tom\u0113r Dievs bija uztic\u012bgs. Vi\u0146\u0161 sv\u0113t\u012bja vi\u0146us ar apsol\u012bto d\u0113lu \u012az\u0101ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Un neaizmirs\u012bsim Rahabu, prostit\u016btu. Vi\u0146ai bija zin\u0101ma seksu\u0101la pag\u0101tne, tom\u0113r vi\u0146a ir min\u0113ta J\u0113zus ciltsrakstos. Vi\u0146a apprec\u0113j\u0101s ar izra\u0113lieti v\u0101rd\u0101 Salmons un k\u013cuva par Boaza m\u0101ti. M\u0113s visi zin\u0101m st\u0101stu par Rutu un Bo\u0101zi, bet nekas no t\u0101 neb\u016btu noticis, ja Rahaba neb\u016btu bijusi da\u013ca no Dieva pl\u0101na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es var\u0113tu turpin\u0101t uzskait\u012bt v\u0113l citus piem\u0113rus par cilv\u0113kiem, kurus Dievs izv\u0113l\u0113jies dar\u012bt, neskatoties uz vi\u0146u pag\u0101tnes k\u013c\u016bd\u0101m - seksu\u0101l\u0101m vai cit\u0101m. B\u012bbele saka, ka Krist\u016b m\u0113s esam jauni rad\u012bjumi. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka mums ir pavisam jauna dz\u012bve, un m\u016bsu pag\u0101tne vairs nav v\u0113rsta pret mums. Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, ko esat dar\u012bjis, j\u016bs varat k\u013c\u016bt jauns J\u0113zus v\u0101rd\u0101 - \u0161odien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja v\u0113laties satikt kristie\u0161us, kuriem ir t\u0101das pa\u0161as robe\u017eas k\u0101 jums.<\/a>?Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113t SALT Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s lietotne<\/a> \u0161odien!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This blog post will answer the questions of Christians who have had sex before marriage. Questions like, ‘If I’ve had sex before marriage will a Christian partner want me?’ and ‘If I’ve had sex before marriage can I still have a kingdom marriage?’ TL;DR: The Summary God has fully equipped you to live a life […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":2473,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[30,27],"class_list":["post-3072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex","tag-all","tag-sexuality"],"yoast_head":"\nDieva dizains seksam<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Dzimis jaundzimu\u0161ais jaunavi\u0146\u0161<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Atgriezties, nevis p\u0101rdz\u012bvot\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\"Izm\u0113\u0123iniet, pirms p\u0113rkat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Gr\u0113ku no\u017e\u0113la<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Esi god\u012bgs pret sevi un Dievu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
Apziniet savas robe\u017eas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Katru attiec\u012bbu robe\u017eas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
P\u0101rz\u012bm\u0113jiet savas robe\u017eas, p\u0101rorient\u0113jiet savu sirdi\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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K\u0101p\u0113c robe\u017eas ir labas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Apk\u0101rt sevi kop\u0101 ar paties\u012bbas paud\u0113jiem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Sp\u0113ks kopien\u0101<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
S\u0101ciet no jauna, nevis perfekti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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J\u016bs neesat diskvalific\u0113ts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
S\u0101kt no jauna<\/h3>\n\n\n\n