\u0160is bloga ieraksts ir dom\u0101ts draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101jiem, kuri v\u0113las tikties un prec\u0113ties. K\u0101 jums tas izdodas vienlaikus ar draudzes vad\u012b\u0161anu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0101 doties uz randi\u0146iem un joproj\u0101m god\u0101t Dievu k\u0101 draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101js - un k\u0101 to dar\u012bt, lai nekas nesak\u0101rtotos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u016bk, pieci veidi, k\u0101 j\u016bs k\u0101 draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101js varat doties uz randi\u0146iem, lai godin\u0101tu Dievu, vienlaikus izmantojot gudr\u012bbu un spriestsp\u0113ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160is nav izsme\u013co\u0161s saraksts, ta\u010du tas ir s\u0101kumpunkts, kas pal\u012bdz\u0113s jums m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bgi organiz\u0113t randi\u0146us. K\u0101 draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101jam jums ir j\u0101patur pr\u0101t\u0101, k\u0101du piem\u0113ru r\u0101d\u0101t savai draudzei. Nav konsekventi mudin\u0101t vi\u0146us tiekties uz \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu un gaid\u012bt l\u012bdz laul\u012bbai, vienlaikus pa\u0161am nodarbojoties ar seksu \u0101rpus laul\u012bbas. P\u0101rliecinieties, ka j\u016bsu priv\u0101t\u0101 un publisk\u0101 dz\u012bve ir saska\u0146ota. J\u016bs v\u0113laties tikties ar t\u012bru sirdsapzi\u0146u, sp\u0113jot pasniegt Dieva v\u0101rdu, nesl\u0113pjot paties\u012bbu par savu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Augot draudz\u0113, esmu redz\u0113jis, k\u0101 cilv\u0113ki - \u012bpa\u0161i sievietes - aiziet no draudzes p\u0113c \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s no draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101jiem. Iesp\u0113jams, vi\u0146i ir satiku\u0161ies ar vado\u0161o m\u016bzi\u0137i, bundzinieku vai pat jaunie\u0161u m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ju. Kad nekas neizdev\u0101s, vi\u0146as jut\u0101s p\u0101r\u0101k emocion\u0101li trauslas, lai paliktu, un nol\u0113ma, ka lab\u0101k ir aiziet un atrast citu draudzi. Da\u017ek\u0101rt ir pret\u0113ji: draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101js tiekas ar k\u0101du no draudzes locek\u013ciem, un, kad attiec\u012bbas beidzas, vi\u0146i paliek satikties ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku katru sv\u0113tdienu, kas rada past\u0101v\u012bgu spriedzi un diskomfortu. T\u0101tad, vai draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101jiem vajadz\u0113tu tikties sav\u0101 draudz\u0113?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ja esat non\u0101cis \u0161\u0101d\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101, es noteikti iesaku jums izmantot spriestsp\u0113ju. Pat ja neesat vad\u012bt\u0101js, ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi apzin\u0101ti izv\u0113rt\u0113t, ar ko satiekaties sav\u0101 draudz\u0113. K\u0101p\u0113c? T\u0101p\u0113c, ka, lai ar\u012b cik labi dom\u0101ta b\u016btu j\u016bsu draudzes \u0123imene, tikl\u012bdz par to tiek run\u0101ts, var s\u0101kties spiediens - jo \u012bpa\u0161i saist\u012bb\u0101 ar laul\u012bbas ideju. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs esat tiku\u0161ies tikai da\u017eas ned\u0113\u013cas, bet tagad citi gaida k\u0101zas. Daudzas attiec\u012bbas ir cietu\u0161as no \u0161\u0101das uzman\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
J\u016bs vad\u0101t citus tic\u012bb\u0101, bet kas notiek, kad iesaist\u0101s j\u016bsu sirds? \"Esmu g\u0101jis kop\u0101 ar bazn\u012bcas pui\u0161iem, un m\u016bzi\u0137i ir visslikt\u0101kie.\" Diem\u017e\u0113l draudz\u0113 ir daudz iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s st\u0101stu, kuros iesaist\u012bti vad\u012bt\u0101ji un draudzes locek\u013ci. Lai gan es person\u012bgi to neesmu piedz\u012bvojusi, esmu uzaugusi k\u0101 m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ja meita, un da\u017ereiz ir saj\u016bta, ka dz\u012bvoju k\u0101 zivju akv\u0101rij\u0101. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca cilv\u0113ku neapzin\u0101s, ka m\u016bsu bazn\u012bcas vad\u012bt\u0101ji - m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ji, diakoni un citi - ar\u012b ir cilv\u0113ki. Vi\u0146i v\u0113las m\u012blest\u012bbu t\u0101pat k\u0101 ikviens cits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
J\u016bs neesat \u0161eit, lai sp\u0113l\u0113tu sp\u0113les. Ja tu nopietni izturies pret savu tic\u012bbu, izturies nopietni ar\u012b pret savu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s procesu. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka tev uzreiz j\u0101zina, vai cilv\u0113ks, ar kuru tu satiecies, ir \"tas \u012bstais\", bet tas ar\u012b nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka tev vajadz\u0113tu nejau\u0161i tikties ar visiem draudzes locek\u013ciem tikai izklaides p\u0113c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir saprotams, ka s\u0101kuma posm\u0101 ir nepiecie\u0161ams iepaz\u012bties ar vienu vai diviem cilv\u0113kiem - galu gal\u0101, j\u016bs joproj\u0101m esat iz\u0161\u0137iro\u0161s. Bet satikties ar vienu cilv\u0113ku \u0161oned\u0113\u013c, ar k\u0101du citu n\u0101kamned\u0113\u013c, un n\u0101kamned\u0113\u013c p\u0101riet pie tre\u0161\u0101? T\u0101 nav t\u0101da attieksme, k\u0101da piem\u012bt cilv\u0113kam, kas patiesi tiecas p\u0113c uz Kristu v\u0113rst\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ja j\u016bs interes\u0113 k\u0101ds no j\u016bsu draudzes locek\u013ciem, jau laikus izvirziet skaidras pras\u012bbas. Nek\u013c\u016bstiet p\u0101r\u0101k \u0101tri ekskluz\u012bvs - jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams laiks, lai nov\u0113rotu vi\u0146a dz\u012bves aug\u013cus. Es dom\u0101ju, ka m\u0113s visi varam piekrist, ka tikai bazn\u012bcas apmekl\u0113\u0161ana vai vado\u0161a amata ie\u0146em\u0161ana autom\u0101tiski nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka k\u0101ds cilv\u0113ks no visas sirds seko J\u0113zum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vispirms veiciet savas pastaigas inventariz\u0101ciju. P\u0101rliecinieties, vai esat saska\u0146\u0101 ar Dievu. P\u0113c tam, dodoties uz randi\u0146u, apdom\u012bgi p\u0101rbaudiet, vai persona, kas j\u016bs interes\u0113, dara to pa\u0161u. Man \u013coti pat\u012bk m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ja D\u017eerija Flowersa cit\u0101ts: \"Saglab\u0101jiet to priv\u0101ti, kam\u0113r tas nav uz visiem laikiem. Punkts.\" V\u0113l\u0101k es to izv\u0113rs\u012b\u0161u s\u012bk\u0101k, bet b\u016bt\u012bba ir \u0161\u0101da - visiem draudz\u0113 nav j\u0101zina, ar ko tu satiecies. J\u016bs to nedar\u0101t uzman\u012bbas vai aplausu d\u0113\u013c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Negaidiet, kam\u0113r situ\u0101cija saasin\u0101s, lai noskaidrotu, kur ir robe\u017ea. Emocion\u0101l\u0101s, fizisk\u0101s un gar\u012bg\u0101s robe\u017eas<\/a> skaidri j\u0101nosaka, tikl\u012bdz abi nolemjat turpin\u0101t tikties. Bazn\u012bcas vad\u012bt\u0101jiem ir j\u0101iev\u0113ro augst\u0101ki standarti vi\u0146u ie\u0146emam\u0101 amata d\u0113\u013c. Jaunaj\u0101 Der\u012bb\u0101 ir izkl\u0101st\u012btas \u012bpa\u0161as pras\u012bbas, kas m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101jiem - un pat diakoniem - j\u0101iev\u0113ro, ja vi\u0146i v\u0113las saglab\u0101t savu lomu draudz\u0113. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs nepie\u013causiet k\u013c\u016bdas, pat b\u016bdams vad\u012bt\u0101js. Ta\u010du vad\u012b\u0161ana ir saist\u012bta ar atbild\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Diem\u017e\u0113l da\u017ei draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101ji ir \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bgi izmantoju\u0161i savas pilnvaras, izmantojot savu st\u0101vokli, lai izmantotu draudzes locek\u013cus. J\u016bs varat r\u0101d\u012bt cit\u0101du piem\u0113ru, praktiz\u0113jot to, ko sludin\u0101t, un dz\u012bvojot saska\u0146\u0101 ar B\u012bbeli, pat sav\u0101s satik\u0161an\u0101s. K\u0101 jau iepriek\u0161 min\u0113ju, j\u016bsu priv\u0101tajai un publiskajai dz\u012bvei nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt konflikt\u0101. Iesp\u0113jams, ka sv\u0113tdien tu sludin\u0101si sp\u0113c\u012bgu spredi\u0137i, bet Dievs zina tavus pl\u0101nus \u0161im vakaram - un ko tu dar\u012bji iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 vakar\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Da\u017ei kristie\u0161u l\u012bderi uzskata, ka, t\u0101 k\u0101 Dievs vi\u0146us v\u0113l nav sod\u012bjis, vi\u0146i var dz\u012bvot dubultu dz\u012bvi. Ta\u010du nekas neizvair\u0101s no Dieva uzman\u012bbas, pat ja slikto izv\u0113\u013cu sekas nav t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113jas. P\u0101vils Jaunaj\u0101 Der\u012bb\u0101 m\u0101ca Timotejam \"b\u016bt par paraugu tic\u012bgajiem v\u0101rdos, uzved\u012bb\u0101, m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101, gar\u0101, tic\u012bb\u0101 un \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bb\u0101\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n Timotejs bija jauns m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js, kura sirds bija v\u0113rsta uz to, lai izpatiktu Dievam un sludin\u0101tu paties\u012bbu. J\u016bs varat dar\u012bt to pa\u0161u - labi vad\u012bt un dievbij\u012bgi staig\u0101t uz randi\u0146iem. Agri pazi\u0146ojiet savas robe\u017eas. Ja \u0161\u012bs robe\u017eas netiek iev\u0113rotas, \u0161is cilv\u0113ks nav \u012bstais jums. P\u0101rliecinieties, ka vi\u0146i saprot j\u016bsu aicin\u0101jumu. Ne katrs var iztur\u0113t t\u0101du smagumu, kas saist\u012bts ar k\u0101du kalpo\u0161an\u0101, t\u0101p\u0113c tev ir nepiecie\u0161ams k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 piln\u012bb\u0101 respekt\u0113 to, uz ko Dievs tevi ir aicin\u0101jis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Augot k\u0101 m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ja meita, es ne vienm\u0113r grib\u0113ju prec\u0113ties ar k\u0101du, kas str\u0101d\u0101 kalpo\u0161an\u0101. Tas nebija t\u0101p\u0113c, ka man b\u016btu kaut kas pret m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101jiem, bet gan t\u0101p\u0113c, ka es redz\u0113ju, k\u0101 kalpo\u0161ana ietekm\u0113ja m\u016bsu \u0123imeni. J\u0101, kalpo\u0161an\u0101 ir daudz sv\u0113t\u012bbu, ta\u010du tai ir ar\u012b cits gar\u012bg\u0101s c\u012b\u0146as l\u012bmenis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad mans tagad\u0113jais v\u012brs man pateica, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir jaunie\u0161u m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js, man n\u0101c\u0101s atk\u0101pties un nopietni apsv\u0113rt, ko noz\u012bm\u0113tu attiec\u012bbu turpin\u0101\u0161ana ar vi\u0146u. Man\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 Dievs man deva mieru un apstiprin\u0101jumu. Es sapratu, ka jau kop\u0161 b\u0113rn\u012bbas esmu bijusi sagatavota atbalst\u012bt aicin\u0101jumu, ko Dievs ir devis mana v\u012bra dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums un cilv\u0113kam, ar kuru satiekaties, jau pirmaj\u0101 dien\u0101 ir j\u0101stud\u0113 B\u012bbele. Gar\u012bg\u0101 intimit\u0101te ir re\u0101la, un es neiesaku l\u016bgties kop\u0101 p\u0101r\u0101k agri. Tom\u0113r, jums k\u013c\u016bstot tuv\u0101kiem un nopietn\u0101kiem, l\u016bg\u0161ana var k\u013c\u016bt par noz\u012bm\u012bgu j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu sast\u0101vda\u013cu. T\u0101 pied\u0101v\u0101 ieskatu taj\u0101, k\u0101 otra persona mekl\u0113 Dievu j\u016bsu lab\u0101. Vai vi\u0146i l\u016bdz Dievu, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bs abus vad\u012btu un vad\u012btu, vai ar\u012b vi\u0146u l\u016bg\u0161anas ir v\u0113rstas tikai uz to. vi\u0146i<\/em> v\u0113las, lai j\u016bs k\u013c\u016btu par vi\u0146u dz\u012bves centr\u0101lo punktu? Kad esat attiec\u012bb\u0101s, ir svar\u012bgi uzdot jaut\u0101jumus, kas pal\u012bdz\u0113s jums izv\u0113rt\u0113t, vai \u0161is cilv\u0113ks ir tas, ar kuru j\u016bs redzat past\u0101v\u012bgu n\u0101kotni, piem\u0113ram, laul\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mekl\u0113jiet Dieva vad\u012bbu un vis\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ce\u013cojuma laik\u0101 esiet saska\u0146\u0101 ar Sv\u0113to Garu. Da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki to noved l\u012bdz gal\u0113j\u012bb\u0101m, dom\u0101dami, ka vi\u0146i var tikai<\/em> run\u0101t par Dievu - \u012bpa\u0161i, ja vi\u0146i satiekas ar draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101ju. Ta\u010du atcerieties, ka j\u016bs abi esat cilv\u0113ki ar unik\u0101l\u0101m interes\u0113m. Tas nav gr\u0113ks iet dejot, skat\u012bties filmu vai pastaig\u0101ties, turoties rok\u0101s. Satik\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101 j\u016bs varat izbaud\u012bt da\u017e\u0101das sarunas - bet, ja j\u016bsu tic\u012bba visp\u0101r nekad netiek apspriesta, tas ir sarkans karogs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Lai gan randi\u0146u laik\u0101 m\u0113s ar v\u012bru run\u0101j\u0101m par kop\u012bg\u0101m interes\u0113m un hobijiem, m\u016bsu pamats bija Dieva V\u0101rds. Es nekad ne\u0161aub\u012bjos, ka vi\u0146\u0161 m\u012bl J\u0113zu un Sv\u0113tos Rakstus. M\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101m augot, vi\u0146\u0161 l\u016bdza par mani un l\u016bdza Dievu sv\u0113t\u012bt manu dienu. Kad es zaud\u0113ju tuviniekus, vi\u0146\u0161 piezvan\u012bja, lai l\u016bgtu par manu mierin\u0101jumu un \u0123imenes mieru. Protams, m\u0113s ar\u012b izklaid\u0113j\u0101mies - sm\u0113j\u0101mies un \u0137ircin\u0101j\u0101mies viens otram par \u0113dienu izv\u0113li. Es v\u0113los teikt, ka? Dievam noteikti j\u0101b\u016bt j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu centr\u0101 - bet tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs nevarat baud\u012bt citas kop\u012bgas lietas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0101 draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101jam nav viegli b\u016bt neaizsarg\u0101tam pret savu draudzi. Daudzi m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ji un vad\u012bt\u0101ji ir sadedzin\u0101ju\u0161ies ar saviem draudzes locek\u013ciem, t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i nav p\u0101rliecin\u0101ti, kam uztic\u0113ties un ar ko b\u016bt god\u012bgiem. Ja apsverat iesp\u0113ju tikties ar k\u0101du no savas draudzes locek\u013ciem, veltiet laiku, lai izv\u0113rt\u0113tu, vai \u0161\u012b persona ir uzticama. Vad\u012b\u0161ana neprasa emocion\u0101lu nepieejam\u012bbu. J\u016bs joproj\u0101m varat par\u0101d\u012bties attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar god\u012bgumu un caursp\u012bd\u012bgumu, vienlaikus r\u012bkojoties gudri un spriestsp\u0113j\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daudzi bazn\u012bcas vad\u012bt\u0101ji vienk\u0101r\u0161i r\u0113\u0137in\u0101s ar to, ka vi\u0146i nepiedal\u012bsies randi\u0146os un cer\u0113s apprec\u0113ties, jo \u012bpa\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir vair\u0101k lietu, kas j\u0101apsver. Bet iz\u0161\u0137irot ar Dievu, vai tas ir tavs ierobe\u017eojums vai tikai bailes run\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n J\u016bs neesat perfekts - un tas ir labi. Personai, ar kuru satiekaties, nevajadz\u0113tu uz jums likt nere\u0101las cer\u012bbas tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka esat vado\u0161\u0101 amat\u0101. Taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 laik\u0101 nej\u016btieties t\u0101, it k\u0101 jums b\u016btu j\u0101sl\u0113pjas aiz sava titula, lai saglab\u0101tu nevainojam\u0101 izskata nevainojam\u012bbu. Kad apsv\u0113ru, vai turpin\u0101t attiec\u012bbas ar savu tagad\u0113jo v\u012bru, mana m\u0101te man deva padomu, kas man iestr\u0113ga. Vi\u0146a teica: \"Tev ir j\u0101m\u012bl cilv\u0113ks,\" jo \u012bpa\u0161i, ja runa ir par tik\u0161anos ar m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ju vai k\u0101du, kas ir vado\u0161\u0101 amat\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Varb\u016bt j\u016bs esat draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101js, bet j\u016bs joproj\u0101m esat cilv\u0113ks ar v\u0113lm\u0113m un emocij\u0101m, t\u0101pat k\u0101 ikviens cits. \u013baujiet savam raksturam run\u0101t pa\u0161am par sevi, atspogu\u013cojot Kristu, un pa\u013caujieties, ka Dievs j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 ieved\u012bs k\u0101du, kur\u0161 saskat\u012bs j\u016bs \u012bsto. Jums nav nepiecie\u0161ams to uzspiest - un, ja j\u016bs to dar\u012bsiet, visticam\u0101k, tas tik un t\u0101 nedarbosies. J\u016bsu tituls ir tikai tituls. Tava identit\u0101te pirmk\u0101rt un galvenok\u0101rt n\u0101k no Dieva, kas tevi ir aicin\u0101jis. Iepaz\u012bstieties ar k\u0101du, kur\u0161 ciena j\u016bsu amatu, respekt\u0113 j\u016bsu aicin\u0101jumu, bet, pats galvenais, redz un nov\u0113rt\u0113 j\u016bs k\u0101 person\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jums nav j\u0101pazi\u0146o par savu randi\u0146u dz\u012bvi visai draudzei, bet jums ar\u012b nevajadz\u0113tu to piln\u012bb\u0101 sl\u0113pt. Es par to jau iepriek\u0161 nor\u0101d\u012bju, sakot: \"turiet to priv\u0101tu, kam\u0113r tas nav past\u0101v\u012bgs\", ta\u010du spersim v\u0113l vienu soli t\u0101l\u0101k. Lai gan ne visiem ir j\u0101zina par j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101m, ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi \u0161aj\u0101 proces\u0101 uzaicin\u0101t uzticamus mentorus vai gar\u012bgos vad\u012bt\u0101jus. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka citi j\u016bsu draudzes locek\u013ci galu gal\u0101 par to neuzzin\u0101s, ta\u010du atturieties kaut ko publiski pateikt, kam\u0113r jums abiem nav skaidr\u012bbas par to, ko v\u0113laties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Reiz es draudz\u0113 tikos ar puisi, un diem\u017e\u0113l viens no iemesliem, k\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146\u0161 p\u0101rtrauca attiec\u012bbas, bija kaut kas, ko teica cits draudzes loceklis. Vi\u0146a par mani nerun\u0101ja slikti - vi\u0146a vienk\u0101r\u0161i piemin\u0113ja, ka esmu m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ja meita ar sirsn\u012bgu sirdi par Kungu. \u0160is koment\u0101rs lika vi\u0146am justies nedro\u0161am. Vi\u0146\u0161 s\u0101ka \u0161aub\u012bties, vai vi\u0146a tic\u012bba ir \"pietiekami stipra\", lai b\u016btu kop\u0101 ar t\u0101du cilv\u0113ku k\u0101 es. Es nevienam nebiju st\u0101st\u012bjusi par m\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101m, bet pat ar vislab\u0101kajiem nodomiem cilv\u0113ki to uzzin\u0101s - un jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt gataviem to risin\u0101t. Ja k\u0101ds vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir zi\u0146k\u0101r\u012bgs, jums nav pien\u0101kuma vi\u0146am atbild\u0113t. Bet, ja tas ir cilv\u0113ks, kuram uzticaties, varat nedaudz past\u0101st\u012bt, vienlaikus skaidri nor\u0101dot, ka v\u0113l ir p\u0101ragri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir svar\u012bgi, lai j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101s b\u016btu uzticams tuv\u0101kais loks, kas aizl\u016bgs par j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Ja attiec\u012bbas k\u013c\u016bst nopietn\u0101kas un j\u016bs nolemjat saderin\u0101ties, tad ir lietder\u012bgi dal\u012bties ar \u0161o zi\u0146u ar pla\u0161\u0101ku draudzes loku - jo \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b attiec\u012bbas ir past\u0101v\u012bgas. Un, ja esat pie\u013c\u0101vis k\u013c\u016bdu, daloties par to p\u0101r\u0101k agri, nevajag sevi p\u0101rmest. Ir viegli saj\u016bsmin\u0101ties un p\u0101rlieku dal\u012bties. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i turpm\u0101k r\u012bkojieties piesardz\u012bgi un par sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m atskaitieties tiem, kam patiesi uzticaties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0101 draudzes vad\u012bt\u0101js j\u016bs varat iet uz randi\u0146iem t\u0101, lai godin\u0101tu Kungu un cien\u012btu savu draudzi. Tam nav j\u0101b\u016bt nek\u0101rt\u012bgam - un pat tad, ja viss neizdodas, jums vajadz\u0113tu sp\u0113t ar cie\u0146u \u0161\u0137irties. Galu gal\u0101 j\u016bsu m\u0113r\u0137is ir god\u0101t Dievu un iev\u0113rot Vi\u0146a standartus. Zini, ka vari doties uz randi\u0146iem, neapdraudot savu aicin\u0101jumu, m\u0113r\u0137i vai gar\u012bgo autorit\u0101ti, ko Dievs tev ir devis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Protams, bie\u017ei vien viegl\u0101k ir tikties ar k\u0101du \u0101rpus draudzes. Tas ir tas, kur SALT Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s lietotne<\/a> var\u0113tu ien\u0101kt. Gatavs satikt da\u017eus neticamus Kristie\u0161u singles<\/a>? Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113jiet lietotni Salt jau \u0161odien!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This blog post is for church leaders who are looking to date and get married. How do you do it well alongside leading your church? TL;DR: The Summary How do you date and still honor God as a church leader\u2014without things getting messy? Here are five ways you can date as a church leader that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":2215,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[30,7],"class_list":["post-3054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-singleness-and-dating","tag-all","tag-christian-dating-advice"],"yoast_head":"\nDievs zina<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Mans st\u0101sts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Uzaiciniet Dievu katr\u0101 sarun\u0101<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
Mana pieredze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Nesl\u0113pieties aiz nosaukuma<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tu esi cilv\u0113ks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Kopiena ir svar\u012bg\u0101ka par slepen\u012bbu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Mekl\u0113jiet gudru padomu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
K\u0101ds \u0101rpus j\u016bsu draudzes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n