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\u0160is raksts sniedz praktisku gudr\u012bbu par to, k\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, kam\u0113r esi vientu\u013c\u0161. K\u0101 saglab\u0101t savu sirdi atv\u0113rtu m\u012blest\u012bbai un vesel\u012bg\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m, kam\u0113r v\u0113l nav atrasts dz\u012bvesbiedrs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TL:DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

K\u0101 tu vari sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, kam\u0113r esi br\u012bvs, un ne\u013caut, lai citu teiktais tevi ietekm\u0113? K\u0101 tu vari saglab\u0101t savu virzienu un sekot tam, uz ko Dievs tevi ir aicin\u0101jis tagad, pirms laul\u0101tais ir st\u0101jies priek\u0161\u0101? Ir viegli aizrauties ar to, ko citi dom\u0101, ka tev vajadz\u0113tu dar\u012bt, bet vien\u012bgais viedoklis, kam patiesi ir noz\u012bme, ir Dieva viedoklis. L\u016bk, pieci veidi, k\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, kam\u0113r esi br\u012bvs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Koncentr\u0113jieties uz sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Izv\u0113lieties gudras attiec\u012bbas ar citiem<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Atpaz\u012bstiet savas v\u0113lmes<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Ap\u0146emieties M\u0113r\u0137is nevis spiediens<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Gaidiet Dieva laiku<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Runa nav par dro\u0161u metodi. Diem\u017e\u0113l daudzi krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie mekl\u0113 slepenu formulu, lai p\u0113c iesp\u0113jas \u0101tr\u0101k izk\u013c\u016btu no vientul\u012bbas. Vi\u0146i nesaprot, ka da\u017ek\u0101rt Dievs vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113las, lai vi\u0146i b\u016btu kop\u0101 ar Vi\u0146u. Iesp\u0113jams, Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las, lai vi\u0146i \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101 dar\u012btu kaut ko t\u0101du, kam nav nepiecie\u0161ams laul\u0101tais. Uzticieties, ka Dievam ir perfekts pl\u0101ns j\u016bsu dz\u012bvei. Pien\u0101cis laiks, Vi\u0146\u0161 atkl\u0101s, kas ir j\u016bsu laul\u0101tais. Tikm\u0113r j\u016bs varat sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, gaidot \u012bsto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ievads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    \"Vai visp\u0101r ir nepiecie\u0161ams sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, kam\u0113r es v\u0113l esmu br\u012bvs?\" <\/strong>Daudzi kristie\u0161i vienlaul\u012bgie br\u012bn\u0101s, vai vi\u0146iem visp\u0101r ir nepiecie\u0161ams sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, it \u012bpa\u0161i, ja vi\u0146i akt\u012bvi nesatiekas. Da\u017ei iekr\u012bt taj\u0101, ko uzskata par \"nosl\u0113gtu vientul\u012bbu\". <\/strong>tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146i ir neprec\u0113ti un pa\u0161laik nemekl\u0113 attiec\u012bbas vai nev\u0113las, lai vi\u0146us atrastu laul\u0101tais. Iesp\u0113jams, ka vi\u0146i atrodas person\u012bg\u0101s izaugsmes laik\u0101 - kad Dievs darbojas vi\u0146u sird\u012bs, vi\u0146i dziedin\u0101s no pag\u0101tnes traum\u0101m vai vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113las p\u0101rgrup\u0113ties un no jauna atkl\u0101t, kas vi\u0146i ir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    T\u0101tad, k\u0101 tu k\u0101 neprec\u0113ts kristietis vari sarg\u0101t savu sirdi pat tad, ja v\u0113l neesi iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s f\u0101z\u0113? T\u0101 ir bie\u017ei sastopama probl\u0113ma, un sarg\u0101t savu sirdi nenoz\u012bm\u0113 norobe\u017eoties no visiem. Bie\u017ei izplat\u012bts mald\u012bgs priek\u0161stats ir t\u0101ds, ka sarg\u0101t savu sirdi noz\u012bm\u0113 visp\u0101r izvair\u012bties no attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Tom\u0113r t\u0101ds nekad nav bijis Dieva nodoms. Sarg\u0101t savu sirdi nenoz\u012bm\u0113 nosl\u0113gties no pasaules - tas noz\u012bm\u0113 apzin\u0101ti dom\u0101t par to, kas ietekm\u0113 j\u016bsu emocijas, domas un v\u0113lmes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Izveidots attiec\u012bb\u0101m<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Dievs m\u016bs ir rad\u012bjis attiec\u012bb\u0101m. P\u0113c \u0100dama rad\u012b\u0161anas \u0112denes d\u0101rz\u0101 Dievs teica, \"Cilv\u0113kam nav labi b\u016bt vienam.\"<\/em> Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113ja, ka \u0100dams bija nepiln\u012bgs; dr\u012bz\u0101k tas uzsv\u0113ra, ka m\u0113s esam rad\u012bti kop\u012bbai un saiknei. Diem\u017e\u0113l da\u017ei krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie to noved l\u012bdz gal\u0113j\u012bb\u0101m, kas apgr\u016btina draudz\u012bbas veido\u0161anu ar pret\u0113jo dzimumu, nej\u016btoties ne\u0113rti vai spiesti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    J\u016bs dro\u0161i vien esat to redz\u0113ju\u0161i - j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i satiekaties bazn\u012bc\u0101, un, pirms j\u016bs to paman\u0101t, visa draudze pie\u0146em, ka j\u016bs satiekaties. It k\u0101 j\u016bs nevar\u0113tu draudz\u0113ties ar pret\u0113j\u0101 dzimuma p\u0101rst\u0101vjiem, lai cilv\u0113ki nesap\u0146otu par romantisk\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Ja tu neesi uzman\u012bgs, \u0161ie \u0101r\u0113jie m\u0101jieni var ietekm\u0113t tavas domas, liekot tev izkopt j\u016btas pret k\u0101du, kam, iesp\u0113jams, bija dom\u0101ts b\u016bt tikai draugam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vai jums ir sezona, kur\u0101 nav paredz\u0113ts doties uz randi\u0146iem? Ja j\u0101, tad taj\u0101 nav nek\u0101 slikta. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i mekl\u0113 To Kungu un l\u016bdz Vi\u0146am skaidr\u012bbu. Vi\u0146\u0161 izskaidros, vai \u0161is ir \u012bstais laiks, lai j\u016bs turpin\u0101tu attiec\u012bbas, vai ar\u012b Vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bs aicina \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bves laik\u0101 piev\u0113rsties kam citam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \"vakari\u0146u<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

    Koncentr\u0113jieties uz sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
      <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      M\u0113s bie\u017ei dzirdam padomu koncentr\u0113ties uz Dievu, bet diem\u017e\u0113l daudzi kristie\u0161i, kas nav prec\u0113ju\u0161ies, uzskata to par kli\u0161eju. Pavad\u012bt laiku kop\u0101 ar J\u0113zu vientul\u012bbas laik\u0101 ne vienm\u0113r ir pievilc\u012bgi tiem, kas v\u0113las prec\u0113ties. Vi\u0146iem var \u0161\u0137ist, ka vi\u0146i kaut ko palai\u017e gar\u0101m vai ka laiks iet gar\u0101m - \u012bpa\u0161i tad, kad vi\u0146i k\u013c\u016bst vec\u0101ki un \u0161\u0137iet, ka nav nek\u0101du izred\u017eu atrast laul\u0101to. Atceros, ka es t\u0101 jutos, kad biju neprec\u0113jies. Ja j\u016bs zin\u0101t manu st\u0101stu, es biju neprec\u0113jies 12 gadus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Kam\u0113r es koncentr\u0113jos uz sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu, bija br\u012b\u017ei, kad man \u0161\u0137ita, ka es kaut ko palai\u017eu gar\u0101m. Ienaidnieks mani meloja, sakot, ka es velti t\u0113r\u0113ju savu laiku un ka nekas labs nevar n\u0101kt no t\u0101, ka es vienk\u0101r\u0161i pilnveidoju savas attiec\u012bbas ar To Kungu. Bet tie bija meli. Paties\u012bb\u0101 priorit\u0101tes pie\u0161\u0137ir\u0161ana man\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu bija viens no lab\u0101kajiem l\u0113mumiem, ko es pie\u0146\u0113mu. Tas mani sagatavoja laul\u012bb\u0101m t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101, k\u0101du es tolaik piln\u012bb\u0101 neapzin\u0101jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Apr\u012bkots laul\u012bb\u0101m<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      Daudzi kristie\u0161i vienlaul\u012bgie nesaprot, ka, koncentr\u0113joties uz sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Kungu, vi\u0146i k\u013c\u016bst lab\u0101k sagatavoti laul\u012bb\u0101m. Piem\u0113ram, k\u0101 tic\u012bgie m\u0113s esam aicin\u0101ti noliegt sevi, k\u013c\u016bt l\u012bdz\u012bgi Kristum un censties r\u016bp\u0113ties par citu labkl\u0101j\u012bbu. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka mums ir zems pa\u0161v\u0113rt\u0113jums vai pa\u0161v\u0113rt\u012bbas tr\u016bkums. Dr\u012bz\u0101k tas noz\u012bm\u0113 neb\u016bt tik egocentriskiem, ka m\u0113s r\u016bp\u0113jamies tikai par sav\u0101m vajadz\u012bb\u0101m. Ja tagad, b\u016bdams vientu\u013c\u0161, tu esi koncentr\u0113ts uz sevi, tad t\u0101du pa\u0161u dom\u0101\u0161anas veidu tu p\u0101rnes\u012bsi ar\u012b laul\u012bb\u0101. Tom\u0113r, kad j\u016bs koncentr\u0113jaties uz Kungu, Vi\u0146\u0161 atkl\u0101j t\u0101s jomas j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113, kuras ir j\u0101maina, lai j\u016bs var\u0113tu vair\u0101k atspogu\u013cot Kristu un maz\u0101k sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Pavadot laiku ar Dievu, es var\u0113ju dziedin\u0101ties, augt un nobriest par sievieti, ar kuru mans v\u012brs \u0161odien ir prec\u0113jies. Man ne vienm\u0113r viss izdodas pareizi, bet es cen\u0161os vair\u0101k \u0146emt v\u0113r\u0101 sava v\u012bra vajadz\u012bbas nek\u0101 savas. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka esmu maz\u0101k svar\u012bga vai ka man nav noz\u012bmes - tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka es dienu no dienas m\u0101cos b\u016bt maz\u0101k egoistiska, un tie\u0161i uz to m\u016bs aicina Kristus. Kad j\u016bs koncentr\u0113jaties uz sav\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar Dievu, j\u016bs m\u0101c\u0101ties mirt savai miesai, un t\u0101 ir b\u016btiska laul\u012bbas sast\u0101vda\u013ca. Laul\u012bba ir v\u0113l viens pa\u0161aizliedz\u012bbas l\u012bmenis, un, ja j\u016bs to nepraktiz\u0113jat tagad, b\u016bdami br\u012bvi, jums ar to b\u016bs gr\u016bti ar\u012b laul\u012bb\u0101. Ja t\u0101 neb\u016bs, j\u016bsu laul\u012bbai var b\u016bt gr\u016bt\u0101k uzplaukt un slav\u0113t Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Mir\u0161ana sev<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      Viens no galvenajiem iemesliem, k\u0101p\u0113c daudzas laul\u012bbas cie\u0161, ir tas, ka viens no laul\u0101tajiem ir gatavs mirt sev, bet otrs nav gatavs. Es reiz dzird\u0113ju k\u0101du m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101ju sak\u0101m, ka vislab\u0101k\u0101s laul\u012bbas ir veidotas starp diviem m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 kalpojo\u0161iem kalpiem. Lab\u0101kais, ko j\u016bs varat dar\u012bt sava n\u0101kam\u0101 laul\u0101t\u0101 lab\u0101 jau tagad, ir pazemoties Dieva priek\u0161\u0101. Tas prasa p\u016bles, izaugsmi un past\u0101v\u012bgu laika pavad\u012b\u0161anu Dieva kl\u0101tb\u016btn\u0113. Koncentr\u0113jieties uz To Kungu jau tagad, lai tad, kad apprec\u0113sieties, j\u016bsu laul\u0101tajam nevajadz\u0113tu vienam pa\u0161am uz\u0146emties smago darbu. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bsu laul\u012bba b\u016bs perfekta, ta\u010du ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 t\u0101 padar\u012bs visu daudz glud\u0101ku un vesel\u012bg\u0101ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Izv\u0113lieties gudras attiec\u012bbas ar citiem <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
        <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s 13:20 teikts, \"Staig\u0101 ar gudrajiem un k\u013c\u016bsti gudrs.\" <\/em>Ne visiem kristie\u0161iem, kas nav prec\u0113jies, ir lab\u0101kie cilv\u0113ki. Lai gan daudzi saprot, cik svar\u012bgi ir sevi ieskaut dievbij\u012bg\u0101 sabiedr\u012bb\u0101, da\u017ei non\u0101k t\u0101du cilv\u0113ku ietekm\u0113, kuri vai nu nav tik gar\u012bgi nobriedu\u0161i, vai kuriem tr\u016bkst dzi\u013cas izpratnes par Dieva v\u0101rdu, un tas noved pie k\u013c\u016bdainiem padomiem. Gudru attiec\u012bbu izv\u0113le ir \u013coti svar\u012bga, jo \u012bpa\u0161i, ja esat neprec\u0113jies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Es nesp\u0113ju saskait\u012bt, cik reizes man to jaut\u0101ja, K\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs joproj\u0101m esat neprec\u0113jies?<\/em> P\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i, ka \u0161ie koment\u0101ri nen\u0101ca no netic\u012bgajiem, bet gan no cilv\u0113kiem no manas draudzes - cilv\u0113kiem, kuri m\u012bl\u0113ja Dievu, bet... ne vienm\u0113r pied\u0101v\u0101ja visnoder\u012bg\u0101kos v\u0101rdus<\/a>. Man n\u0101c\u0101s iem\u0101c\u012bties izsl\u0113gt tos, kas vienk\u0101r\u0161i interes\u0113j\u0101s par manu person\u012bgo dz\u012bvi. T\u0101 viet\u0101 es izv\u0113l\u0113jos dal\u012bties sav\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pieredz\u0113 tikai ar tiem, kuriem uztic\u0113jos - ar cilv\u0113kiem, kas sak\u0146ojas Dieva V\u0101rd\u0101 un var sniegt B\u012bbeles nor\u0101d\u012bjumus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Aizv\u0113rt apli<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        Kad 2021. gada j\u016blij\u0101 iepazinos ar savu v\u012bru, es nevienam nest\u0101st\u012bju par m\u016bsu sarun\u0101m, kam\u0113r nebija pag\u0101ju\u0161i aptuveni divi m\u0113ne\u0161i kop\u0161 m\u016bsu pieaugo\u0161aj\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Mans iemesls? Es grib\u0113ju izvair\u012bties no nevajadz\u012bgiem viedok\u013ciem un koncentr\u0113ties uz to, lai iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s posm\u0101 g\u016btu ieskatu, vai vi\u0146\u0161 ir tas, ar kuru es v\u0113los turpin\u0101t tikties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Bez tuv\u0101kajiem radiniekiem es uztic\u0113jos tikai da\u017eiem izredz\u0113tajiem. Viena tuva draudzene, kura ar\u012b bija uzs\u0101kusi savu unik\u0101lo iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ce\u013cojumu ar Kungu, k\u013cuva par uzticamu uztic\u012bbas personu. Att\u012bstoties man\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar manu tagad\u0113jo v\u012bru, vi\u0146a dal\u012bj\u0101s sapn\u012b, kas vi\u0146ai bija par m\u016bsu laul\u012bb\u0101m. Tas bija pirms mans v\u012brs man pied\u0101v\u0101ja laul\u012bbu, un, lai gan tas mani p\u0101rsteidza, es nov\u0113rt\u0113ju to, ka vi\u0146a aptv\u0113ra m\u016bsu attiec\u012bbas l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101. Vi\u0146a nekad neiespaidoja mani steigties prec\u0113ties vai lika man justies slikti par to, ka velt\u012bju laiku, lai vi\u0146u patiesi iepaz\u012btu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Ir svar\u012bgi, lai tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 b\u016btu pareiz\u0101s balsis, \u012bpa\u0161i vientul\u012bb\u0101. Daudzi krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie, gan v\u012brie\u0161i, gan sievietes, ir emocion\u0101li neaizsarg\u0101ti, un vi\u0146iem nav nepiecie\u0161ams dzird\u0113t vienk\u0101r\u0161otus padomus, piem\u0113ram. tikai gaid\u012bt uz Dievu,<\/em> vair\u0101k tic\u012bbas,<\/em> vai esiet paciet\u012bgi.<\/em> Lai gan \u0161ie apgalvojumi ir labi dom\u0101ti, tie ne vienm\u0113r sniedz atbalstu un iedro\u0161in\u0101jumu, kas patiesi nepiecie\u0161ams vientu\u013cajiem. Ja v\u0113l neesat to dar\u012bju\u0161i, l\u016bdziet Dievu, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 ieved cilv\u0113kus, kas j\u016bs uzmundrin\u0101s, liks jums b\u016bt atbild\u012bgiem un nor\u0101d\u012bs jums atpaka\u013c uz Vi\u0146a v\u0101rdu, kad jut\u012bsieties neapmierin\u0101ti sav\u0101 vientul\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \"divas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

        Atpaz\u012bstiet savas v\u0113lmes  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
          <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          \u0160o t\u0113mu var apl\u016bkot divos gal\u0113j\u012bb\u0101s, un ir svar\u012bgi apspriest abas, kad runa ir par j\u016bsu v\u0113lmju izpra\u0161anu. Da\u017ei kristie\u0161i, kas nav prec\u0113jies, non\u0101k vien\u0101 gal\u0113j\u012bb\u0101 un nolemj, ka vi\u0146iem nav vajadz\u012bga Dieva pal\u012bdz\u012bba, kad runa ir par randi\u0146iem. Vi\u0146i uzskata, ka Dievs ner\u016bp\u0113jas par s\u012bkumiem un ka vi\u0146i pa\u0161i var tikt gal\u0101 ar savas iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bves nians\u0113m. Galu gal\u0101 vi\u0146i zina, ko vi\u0146i v\u0113las un kas vi\u0146iem ir vajadz\u012bgs, t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i dom\u0101, ka var pie\u0146emt pareizo l\u0113mumu, kad runa ir par laul\u0101t\u0101 izv\u0113li. Tas nevar\u0113tu b\u016bt t\u0101l\u0101k no paties\u012bbas. K\u0101 tic\u012bgie m\u0113s esam aicin\u0101ti b\u016bt Gara, nevis miesas vad\u012bti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Otra gal\u0113j\u012bba ir tad, kad kristie\u0161u viensp\u0113l\u0113s p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113t savu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bvi.<\/a>. Vi\u0146i tik \u013coti baid\u0101s pie\u0146emt nepareizus l\u0113mumus, ka mekl\u0113 apstiprin\u0101jumu p\u0113c apstiprin\u0101juma, lai noteiktu, vai \u0161\u012b persona ir vi\u0146u laul\u0101tais. Probl\u0113ma ir t\u0101, ka vi\u0146i nav gatavi dot attiec\u012bb\u0101m laiku, dodot iesp\u0113ju tikties, lai p\u0101rliecin\u0101tos, vai \u0161\u012b persona ir piem\u0113rota. Vi\u0146i v\u0113las sa\u0146emt visas atbildes no Dieva v\u0113l pirms do\u0161an\u0101s uz pirmo randi\u0146u. Vai ar\u012b vi\u0146i izmanto pirmo randi\u0146u, lai iztauj\u0101tu otru cilv\u0113ku, cerot, ka pirms do\u0161an\u0101s \u0101r\u0101 vi\u0146i dro\u0161i zin\u0101s, vai \u0161is cilv\u0113ks ir vi\u0146u laul\u0101tais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Tas ir l\u012bdzsvars<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

          Mums ir j\u0101atrod l\u012bdzsvars starp ab\u0101m pieej\u0101m. Ir svar\u012bgi sav\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bv\u0113 konsult\u0113ties ar Dievu, bet mums ir ar\u012b j\u0101sper praktiski so\u013ci un patiesi j\u0101iepaz\u012bst cilv\u0113ki. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113 visu noskaidrot pirmaj\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101. Lai gan Dievs var apstiprin\u0101t attiec\u012bbas jau pa\u0161\u0101 s\u0101kum\u0101, tas ir iz\u0146\u0113mums, nevis likums. Mums ir ar\u012b j\u0101veic savas sirds inventariz\u0101cija, lai p\u0101rliecin\u0101tos, ka m\u0113s iesaist\u0101mies attiec\u012bb\u0101s pareizo iemeslu d\u0113\u013c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Vai j\u016bs tiekaties, jo esat nepaciet\u012bgs un vientu\u013c\u0161? Ja tas t\u0101 ir, tad vislab\u0101k ir velt\u012bt laiku, lai dziedin\u0101tu un l\u016bgtu Dievu aizpild\u012bt \u0161\u012bs nepiln\u012bbas, pirms piesaist\u012bt k\u0101du citu. Pret\u0113j\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 j\u016bs risk\u0113jat k\u013c\u016bt par p\u012bpi, gaidot, ka otrs cilv\u0113ks j\u016bs papildin\u0101s, kas nav vi\u0146a uzdevums. Attiec\u012bbu m\u0113r\u0137is ir pagodin\u0101t Dievu, lai citi var\u0113tu redz\u0113t J\u0113zu Kristu caur j\u016bsu laul\u012bbu. Pajaut\u0101jiet sev: \"Vai es to gribu pareizo iemeslu d\u0113\u013c?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Ap\u0146emieties M\u0113r\u0137is nevis spiediens<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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            K\u0101 jau iepriek\u0161 min\u0113ju, daudzi kristie\u0161i vienlaul\u012bb\u0101 st\u0101jas attiec\u012bb\u0101s \u0123imenes cer\u012bbu vai sabiedr\u012bbas spiediena d\u0113\u013c. Ja neesat prec\u0113jies l\u012bdz noteiktam vecumam, j\u016bs varat justies nosod\u012bts vai uzskat\u012bts par neveiksminieku, it k\u0101 ar jums kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. T\u0101 k\u0101 daudziem krist\u012bgiem vientu\u013cajiem v\u012brie\u0161iem vair\u0101k r\u016bp tas, ko dom\u0101 citi, nevis to, ko dom\u0101 Dievs, vi\u0146i bie\u017ei vien p\u0101ragri st\u0101jas attiec\u012bb\u0101s, uzskatot, ka vi\u0146u vientul\u012bba ir \"j\u0101nov\u0113r\u0161\". Vientul\u012bba nav ne slim\u012bba, ne ar\u012b sods.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai esat prec\u0113jies vai neprec\u0113jies, abas ir Dieva d\u0101vanas. J\u016bs varat god\u0101t Dievu sav\u0101 vientul\u012bb\u0101 un atkl\u0101t m\u0113r\u0137i, ko Vi\u0146\u0161 ir paredz\u0113jis j\u016bsu dz\u012bvei. Kad j\u016bs esat uztic\u012bgi savam m\u0113r\u0137im un koncentr\u0113jaties tikai uz to, ko Dievs v\u0113las, lai j\u016bs dar\u012btu, viss p\u0101r\u0113jais s\u0101ks likties maz\u0101k svar\u012bgs. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs reiz\u0113m nejut\u012bsieties vientu\u013ci vai nev\u0113l\u0113sieties attiec\u012bbas. Ta\u010du, koncentr\u0113joties uz to, lai izpatiktu Tam Kungam, viss p\u0101r\u0113jais \u0161\u0137it\u012bs maz\u0101k noz\u012bm\u012bgs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Gal\u012bgais m\u0113r\u0137is<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

            Dievam vair\u0101k r\u016bp tavs m\u0113r\u0137is nek\u0101 tavas attiec\u012bbas. Ja tev ir vajadz\u012bgs laul\u0101tais, lai \u012bstenotu savu m\u0113r\u0137i, Dievs tev to nodro\u0161in\u0101s. Nav nepiecie\u0161ams steigties vai piespiest kaut ko notikt. M\u0113s visi zin\u0101m, ka, uzspie\u017eot attiec\u012bbas, m\u0113s bie\u017ei vien galu gal\u0101 nodar\u0101m p\u0101ri sev un otram cilv\u0113kam. Nododieties savam m\u0113r\u0137im Krist\u016b, pa\u013caujoties uz to, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 nodro\u0161in\u0101s visu, kas jums nepiecie\u0161ams - ar\u012b laul\u0101to, ja t\u0101 ir da\u013ca no Vi\u0146a pl\u0101na j\u016bsu misijai uz zemes. Lai gan laul\u012bba pied\u0101v\u0101 sadraudz\u012bbu, t\u0101s galvenais m\u0113r\u0137is ir, lai j\u016bs un j\u016bsu laul\u0101tais str\u0101d\u0101tu kop\u0101, pildot uzdevumus, ko Dievs jums ir devis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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