{"id":2974,"date":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2974"},"modified":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","slug":"situacijas-un-ka-no-tam-izvairities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/situationships-and-how-to-avoid-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Situ\u0101cijas un k\u0101 no t\u0101m izvair\u012bties"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160is raksts pal\u012bdz kristie\u0161iem atpaz\u012bt un izvair\u012bties no situ\u0101cij\u0101m, kad vi\u0146i ir kop\u0101 ar partneri bez saist\u012bb\u0101m vai skaidr\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es ceru, ka tu apzin\u0101si savu v\u0113rt\u012bbu un nekad neapmierin\u0101sies ar citu dotaj\u0101m drupat\u0101m. Da\u017ei krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie kristie\u0161i iekr\u012bt situ\u0101cij\u0101s, jo baid\u0101s, dom\u0101jot, <em>\"Tas ir lab\u0101k nek\u0101 b\u016bt vienam.\"<\/em> Dar\u012bsim galu \u0161\u0101dai dom\u0101\u0161anai! J\u016bs esat peln\u012bju\u0161i vislab\u0101ko no Dieva, un tas ir t\u0101 v\u0113rts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0101 mums k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem izvair\u012bties no situ\u0101cij\u0101m? L\u016bk, da\u017ei padomi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarify-intentions-early\">Agri noskaidrojiet nodomus<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Neapmierinieties ar \"gandr\u012bz<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Sarg\u0101jiet savu sirdi un emocijas<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Robe\u017eu noteik\u0161ana un iev\u0113ro\u0161ana<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Uzticieties Dievam, nevis sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es zinu, ka tu v\u0113lies cien\u012bt Dievu sav\u0101 satik\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bv\u0113, un es saprotu, ka gaid\u012bt \u012bsto cilv\u0113ku var b\u016bt gr\u016bti. Persona, kas atrodas tav\u0101 priek\u0161\u0101, var \u0161\u0137ist pievilc\u012bga, bet, ieskatoties zem virspuses, tu saproti, ka t\u0101 nav t\u0101, ko tu patiesi v\u0113lies. Iesp\u0113jams, \u0161obr\u012bd tam nav j\u0113gas, bet uztic\u0113ties Dieva laikam ir lab\u0101kais, ko tu vari dar\u012bt. J\u0101, izcel sevi un iepaz\u012bsties ar jauniem cilv\u0113kiem, bet izmanto spriestsp\u0113ju, lai atpaz\u012btu, kad tu t\u0113r\u0113 savu laiku velt\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K\u0101 r\u012bkoties situ\u0101cij\u0101, kur\u0101 es esmu non\u0101cis?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4Vd8hU5XAR8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Ievads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vai esat k\u0101dreiz bijis situ\u0101cij\u0101 vai paz\u012bstat k\u0101du, kas ir bijis? Varb\u016bt esat bijis no malas, skatoties, k\u0101 j\u016bsu draugs pie\u0146em no k\u0101da drupatas, un dom\u0101jot, <em>\"Vi\u0146i ir peln\u012bju\u0161i daudz vair\u0101k.\"<\/em> Vai varb\u016bt esat non\u0101cis k\u0101d\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101, paliekot taj\u0101, jo dom\u0101j\u0101t, ka varat. <em>\"main\u012bt cilv\u0113ku.\"<\/em> Tu tic\u0113ji, ka vi\u0146u ac\u012bs b\u016bsi cit\u0101ds un ka vi\u0146i beidzot tev uztic\u0113sies. Ta\u010du galu gal\u0101 viss, ko \u0161is l\u0113mums tev atst\u0101ja, bija salauzta sirds un, iesp\u0113jams, mu\u013c\u0137\u012bbas saj\u016bta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kas \u012bsti ir sadarb\u012bba situ\u0101cij\u0101s? \u0160o terminu es iem\u0101c\u012bjos tikai pirms da\u017eiem gadiem, un es dom\u0101ju, ka tas var b\u016bt cie\u0161i saist\u012bts ar \"draudz\u012bbas attiec\u012bb\u0101m\". Situ\u0101ciju attiec\u012bbas ir tad, ja ar k\u0101du cilv\u0113ku j\u016bs saista romantiska saikne, bet bez saist\u012bb\u0101m. Jums ir dzi\u013cas sarunas, j\u016bs pavad\u0101t laiku kop\u0101, bet nav skaidr\u012bbas. J\u016bs pat varat p\u0101rk\u0101pt robe\u017eas un gul\u0113t ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku, bet nav \u012bstu attiec\u012bbu dro\u0161\u012bbas. J\u016bs vienm\u0113r \u0161aub\u0101ties, <em>\"Kas m\u0113s esam?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Mans st\u0101sts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca kristie\u0161u vienlaul\u012bgo apzin\u0101ti neiesaist\u0101s \u0161\u0101da veida attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Vi\u0146i neapzin\u0101s, ka tie\u0161i mazie kompromisi var novest vi\u0146us pie t\u0101, ko vi\u0146i nekad nav v\u0113l\u0113ju\u0161ies. L\u012bdz\u012bg\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 non\u0101cu ar\u012b es, pirms satiku savu v\u012bru 2019. gad\u0101. Man \u0161\u0137ita, ka \u0161is v\u012brietis ir laim\u012bgs, bet, kad m\u0113s run\u0101j\u0101m par virz\u012bbu uz priek\u0161u, vi\u0146\u0161 nep\u0101rtraukti atk\u0101rtoja, ka att\u0101lums ir p\u0101r\u0101k liels. \u013baujiet man b\u016bt skaidrai - m\u0113s abi dz\u012bvoj\u0101m vien\u0101 pils\u0113t\u0101, starp mums bija tikai aptuveni \u010detrdesmit piecas min\u016btes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es dar\u012bju visu iesp\u0113jamo, lai respekt\u0113tu vi\u0146a v\u0113lmes, bet man vajadz\u0113ja aiziet. T\u0101 viet\u0101 es turpin\u0101ju ar vi\u0146u run\u0101t, dom\u0101dama, ka vi\u0146\u0161 main\u012bs savas domas. Sekoja dzi\u013cas sarunas, un, lai gan bija saj\u016bta, ka t\u0101s ir attiec\u012bbas, t\u0101s t\u0101das nebija. Galu gal\u0101 Dievs man lika p\u0101rtraukt atbild\u0113t uz vi\u0146a zvaniem. Neskatoties uz to, ka man joproj\u0101m bija j\u016btas pret vi\u0146u, es paklaus\u012bju. P\u0113c diviem gadiem es satiku savu v\u012bru, kur\u0161 dz\u012bvoja \u0145ujork\u0101. Vi\u0146am att\u0101lumam nebija noz\u012bmes, jo es biju t\u0101 v\u0113rta, lai mani redz\u0113tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarify-intentions-early\">Agri noskaidrojiet nodomus<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja randi\u0146u m\u0113r\u0137is ir laul\u012bba, nav j\u0113gas mekl\u0113t k\u0101du, kur\u0161 nev\u0113las uz\u0146emties saist\u012bbas. Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir slikts cilv\u0113ks - tas noz\u012bm\u0113 tikai to, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nepiekr\u012bt j\u016bsu m\u0113r\u0137iem. J\u016bs v\u0113laties laul\u012bbu un b\u0113rnus, bet vi\u0146i v\u0113las palikt bez saist\u012bb\u0101m. Reiz es redz\u0113ju, k\u0101 k\u0101da sieviete sarunu \u0161ova vad\u012bt\u0101jai jaut\u0101ja, ko dar\u012bt ar savu gadu veco draugu, kur\u0161 vi\u0146ai nav pied\u0101v\u0101jis prec\u0113ties. Vi\u0146i bija p\u0101rc\u0113lu\u0161ies dz\u012bvot kop\u0101, bet vi\u0146\u0161 joproj\u0101m nebija vi\u0146ai pied\u0101v\u0101jis prec\u0113ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u012brie\u0161a atbilde, ko es paman\u012bju, bet citi, \u0161\u0137iet, nepaman\u012bja, bija t\u0101da, ka vi\u0146\u0161 bija redz\u0113jis daudz neveiksm\u012bgu attiec\u012bbu apk\u0101rt un baid\u012bj\u0101s beigt t\u0101pat. Vi\u0146\u0161 negrib\u0113ja risk\u0113t gad\u012bjum\u0101, ja viss neizdotos. Lai gan \u0161is bija laic\u012bgs raid\u012bjums, ar\u012b kristie\u0161i, kas ir neprec\u0113ti, non\u0101k l\u012bdz\u012bg\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101s. Savu nodomu agr\u012bna noteik\u0161ana pal\u012bdz nov\u0113rst apjukumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-be-intense-about-it\">Neuztraucieties par to<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka pirmaj\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101 jums ir j\u0101dal\u0101s par saviem dz\u012bves m\u0113r\u0137iem. Tom\u0113r p\u0113c da\u017eiem randi\u0146iem un satur\u012bg\u0101m sarun\u0101m, ja j\u016btat, ka j\u016bsu ce\u013ci ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi, uzticieties \u0161ai saj\u016btai un ejiet t\u0101l\u0101k. J\u016bs nevarat k\u0101du p\u0101rliecin\u0101t, ka esat pievilc\u012bgs. Tikai Dievs var main\u012bt cilv\u0113ka sirdi, t\u0101p\u0113c net\u0113r\u0113jiet laiku, m\u0113\u0123inot to izdar\u012bt. \u012astais cilv\u0113ks uzreiz redz\u0113s j\u016bsu v\u0113rt\u012bbu un dar\u012bs visu, lai iekarotu j\u016bsu sirdi. Jums neb\u016bs j\u0101p\u0101rliecina, lai vi\u0146i izv\u0113las vai m\u012bl j\u016bs - vi\u0146i vienk\u0101r\u0161i zin\u0101s, un j\u016bs ar\u012b zin\u0101siet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikai atcerieties, ka esat <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/iepazisanas-laulibam\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">skaidri formul\u0113t savus nodomus.<\/a> ir saist\u012bts ar risku k\u0101du pazaud\u0113t. Vai esat gatavs nepiecie\u0161am\u012bbas gad\u012bjum\u0101 aiziet? Tas nav viegli, bet ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 tas var pasarg\u0101t j\u016bs no sirdss\u0101p\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Neapmierinieties ar \"gandr\u012bz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dom\u0101ju, ka es gandr\u012bz samierin\u0101jos ar v\u012brieti, kur\u0161 nebija gatavs doties \u010detrdesmit piecu min\u016b\u0161u braucien\u0101. Vi\u0146\u0161 to piemin\u0113ja gandr\u012bz katr\u0101 sarun\u0101, sakot, <em>\"Tas var\u0113tu izdoties, bet tu esi tik t\u0101lu.\"<\/em> P\u0113c diviem gadiem satiku savu v\u012bru, kur\u0161 nevilcin\u0101j\u0101s ieg\u0101d\u0101ties lidma\u0161\u012bnas bi\u013ceti no \u0145ujorkas uz Teksasu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tagad, atskatoties atpaka\u013c, es saprotu, ka 2019. gada v\u012brietis \u012bsti nezin\u0101ja, ko vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las. Lai gan vi\u0146\u0161 bija kristietis, vi\u0146\u0161 joproj\u0101m str\u0101d\u0101ja pie sevis. Vi\u0146am bija probl\u0113mas ar atst\u0101\u0161anu, un, lai gan vi\u0146\u0161 m\u012bl\u0113ja Dievu, vi\u0146\u0161 nebija gatavs saisto\u0161\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es pie\u013c\u0101vu k\u013c\u016bdu, ka paliku apk\u0101rt. Dzi\u013ci sird\u012b es jutu, ka turpin\u0101t ar vi\u0146u run\u0101t ir slikta doma, bet man patiesi patika m\u016bsu sarunas. Es neapzin\u0101jos - l\u012bdz Kungs to skaidri pateica -, ka \u0161is v\u012brietis mani izmantoja k\u0101 medm\u0101su. Vi\u0146am bija daudz traumu no pag\u0101tnes, un t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai skrietu pie Dieva, vi\u0146\u0161 skr\u0113ja pie manis p\u0113c emocion\u0101la atbalsta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-aware\">Esi inform\u0113ts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daudzi cilv\u0113ki, jo \u012bpa\u0161i sievietes, non\u0101k \u0161aj\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101, jo m\u0113s esam dabiski audzin\u0101t\u0101jas. Dievs m\u016bs ir rad\u012bjis, lai pal\u012bdz\u0113tu un atbalst\u012btu, bet, ja m\u0113s neesam uzman\u012bgas, m\u0113s varam k\u013c\u016bt par v\u012brie\u0161u aukl\u0113m. Tie\u0161i t\u0101 notika ar mani. Daudz\u0113j\u0101d\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 es biju k\u013cuvusi par elku vi\u0146a dz\u012bv\u0113. Es nekad neaizmirs\u012b\u0161u, kad vi\u0146\u0161 man piezvan\u012bja, lai pateiktu, ka noticis kaut kas slikts. Vi\u0146\u0161 nest\u0101st\u012bja s\u012bk\u0101kas deta\u013cas, bet es pie\u0146\u0113mu, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir atgriezies pie vecajiem ieradumiem. V\u0113l k\u0101du nakti vi\u0146\u0161 man piezvan\u012bja plkst. 2 nakt\u012b: <em>\"Neatbildi uz zvanu un neatzvan\u012b vi\u0146am.\"<\/em> Bija gr\u016bti, bet es paklaus\u012bju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es var\u0113ju samierin\u0101ties, dom\u0101jot, <em>\"\u0160\u0101das ir attiec\u012bbas. Neviens nav ide\u0101ls.\"<\/em> Un, lai gan t\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba, ka neviens laul\u0101tais neb\u016bs bez tr\u016bkumiem, ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp to, vai esi k\u0101dam medm\u0101sa, un to, vai atbalst\u012bji vi\u0146u, kad vi\u0146\u0161 pats risina savas probl\u0113mas ar Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tagad esmu prec\u0113jusies ar v\u012brieti, kur\u0161 katru r\u012btu mostas pirms saull\u0113kta, lai l\u016bgtu un mekl\u0113tu Dievu Sv\u0113tajos Rakstos. Lai gan es vi\u0146u atbalstu, vi\u0146\u0161 vispirms mekl\u0113 Kungu, pirms n\u0101k pie manis. Vi\u0146\u0161 apkl\u0101j mani l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101 un cen\u0161as mani m\u012bl\u0113t t\u0101, k\u0101 Kristus m\u012bl Bazn\u012bcu. Jums nav j\u0101pie\u0146em maz\u0101k bai\u013cu d\u0113\u013c vai j\u0101uzskata, ka tas ir viss, ko esat peln\u012bju\u0161i. Da\u017ei krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie v\u012brie\u0161i samierin\u0101s, jo dom\u0101, ka pag\u0101tnes k\u013c\u016bdas diskvalific\u0113 vi\u0146us no Dieva lab\u0101k\u0101. Ta\u010du maz\u0101k nek\u0101 Dieva lab\u0101kais nekad nav j\u016bsu da\u013ca. Vi\u0146\u0161 tev ir sagatavojis p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161as lietas - ja tu uzticies Vi\u0146am un Vi\u0146a laikam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"725\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg\" alt=\"s\u0113d\u0113\u0161ana ar suni\" class=\"wp-image-2528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg 725w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-768x1085.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-1087x1536.jpg 1087w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2.jpg 1415w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Sarg\u0101jiet savu sirdi un emocijas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viens no iemesliem, k\u0101p\u0113c da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki non\u0101k situ\u0101cij\u0101s, ir tas, ka vi\u0146i jau ir \"apprec\u0113ju\u0161ies\" ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku sav\u0101 pr\u0101t\u0101. Da\u017ei krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie v\u012brie\u0161i, kuri vai nu nekad nav biju\u0161i uz randi\u0146iem, vai ar\u012b ir biju\u0161i vientu\u013ci tik ilgi, var uzskriet pirmajam cilv\u0113kam, kur\u0161 vi\u0146iem piev\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu. Vi\u0146i p\u0101rliecina sevi, ka s\u0101kt no jauna nav iesp\u0113jams, jo vi\u0146iem ir p\u0101ri tr\u012bsdesmit, vair\u0101k nek\u0101 \u010detrdesmit vai tuvojas piecdesmit. Vi\u0146i notic meliem, ka vi\u0146iem \"pietr\u016bkst laika\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101 ir liela k\u013c\u016bda. Randi\u0146\u0161 ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i notikums - t\u0101s nav saist\u012bbas vai laul\u012bbas pied\u0101v\u0101jums. Randi\u0146u m\u0113r\u0137is ir ieg\u016bt inform\u0101ciju par otru personu. P\u0113c randi\u0146a nevajadz\u0113tu uzdot jaut\u0101jumu, <em>\"Vai es v\u0113los vi\u0146us prec\u0113t?\"<\/em> bet dr\u012bz\u0101k, <em>\"Vai es gribu iet uz otro randi\u0146u?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-guard-your-heart\">K\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s 4:23 teikts, <em>\"Ar visu r\u016bp\u012bbu sarg\u0101 savu sirdi, jo no t\u0101s izriet dz\u012bv\u012bbas jaut\u0101jumi.\"<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0113l\u0101k P\u0101vils raksta V\u0113stul\u0113 Filipie\u0161iem 4:7, <em>\"Un Dieva miers, kas p\u0101rsp\u0113j visu sapra\u0161anu, pasarg\u0101s j\u016bsu sirdis un domas Krist\u016b J\u0113z\u016b.\"<\/em> Tom\u0113r sarg\u0101t savu sirdi nenoz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bv\u0113t sienas. Da\u017ei krist\u012bgie vientu\u013cie v\u012brie\u0161i to noved l\u012bdz gal\u0113j\u012bb\u0101m, turot visus no malas, lai sevi pasarg\u0101tu. Ta\u010du tas nav vesel\u012bgi, jo pamat\u0101 ir bailes tikt ievainotam vai pieviltam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u012bbele m\u0101ca mums sarg\u0101t savu sirdi, tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka mums vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt modriem un v\u0113r\u012bgiem. Mums j\u0101b\u016bt uzman\u012bgiem attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz to, ko m\u0113s ielai\u017eam sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, jo m\u016bsu emocijas main\u0101s, tikl\u012bdz m\u016bsu sirdis k\u013c\u016bst ar k\u0101du saist\u012btas. Ja m\u0113s apzin\u0101ti kontrol\u0113jam savas emocijas, ir maz\u0101ka iesp\u0113jam\u012bba, ka tiksim maldin\u0101ti. M\u0113s varam l\u016bgt Dievu, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 izprot un atkl\u0101j mums interes\u0113jo\u0161\u0101 cilv\u0113ka patiesos nodomus. Atbilde ne vienm\u0113r var b\u016bt t\u0101da, k\u0101du m\u0113s v\u0113lamies dzird\u0113t, bet, kad m\u0113s aicin\u0101m Dievu \u0161aj\u0101 proces\u0101, Vi\u0146\u0161 nekad m\u016bs nenoved\u012bs no pareiz\u0101s ce\u013ca l\u012bnijas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K\u0101 sarg\u0101t savu sirdi iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8H-NYeXDyHI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Robe\u017eu noteik\u0161ana un iev\u0113ro\u0161ana<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja k\u0101ds neiev\u0113ro j\u016bsu robe\u017eas vai kaunas par t\u0101m, tas ir skaidrs sign\u0101ls, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nav \u012bstais cilv\u0113ks jums. Iedom\u0101jieties, ka sak\u0101t vi\u0146iem: <em>\"Es neiebilstu ar tevi run\u0101t, bet \u0161\u0101das dzi\u013cas sarunas ir par daudz - \u012bpa\u0161i, ja esi izteicies, ka nev\u0113laties saist\u012bbas. Tas rada tikai apjukumu. Tu izturies pret mani t\u0101, it k\u0101 m\u0113s b\u016btu kop\u0101, bet t\u0101 nav. Ja t\u0101 turpin\u0101sies, man b\u016bs j\u0101atk\u0101pjas.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas var izklaus\u012bties skarbi, bet pajaut\u0101jiet sev - kas ir svar\u012bg\u0101k? Vi\u0146iem sa\u0146emt no jums to, ko vi\u0146i v\u0113las, vai aizsarg\u0101t savu labkl\u0101j\u012bbu? J\u0101, j\u016bs risk\u0113jat vi\u0146us pazaud\u0113t, bet paties\u012bb\u0101 jums vi\u0146i nekad nav biju\u0161i. Vi\u0146i turpina jums st\u0101st\u012bt, <em>\"Es neesmu gatavs attiec\u012bb\u0101m,\"<\/em> tom\u0113r vi\u0146i joproj\u0101m aicina tevi tikties. Vi\u0146i neredz n\u0101kotni ar jums, bet reiz\u0113m saka t\u0101das lietas k\u0101, <em>\"Es grib\u0113tu apprec\u0113ties ar t\u0101du k\u0101 tu.\"<\/em> Man nepat\u012bk to teikt, bet ar j\u016bsu emocij\u0101m tiek sp\u0113l\u0113ts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-recognise-manipulation\">Atpaz\u012bt manipul\u0101cijas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neiek\u013caujieties vi\u0146u v\u0101rdu lamat\u0101s - piev\u0113rsiet uzman\u012bbu vi\u0146u r\u012bc\u012bbai. T\u0101 atkl\u0101s paties\u012bbu. P\u0101r\u0101k daudz sievie\u0161u saka, <em>\"Es zinu, ka es vi\u0146am pat\u012bk, bet vi\u0146\u0161 nav teicis, ka es esmu vi\u0146a draudzene,\".<\/em> vai, <em>\"M\u0113s esam p\u0101rtrauku\u0161i un p\u0101rtrauku\u0161i sadarb\u012bbu gadiem ilgi.\"<\/em> Jums nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt <em>izsl\u0113gts un iesl\u0113gts<\/em> situ\u0101cija. Ja k\u0101ds patie\u0161\u0101m v\u0113las b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar jums, vi\u0146\u0161 jau ir izl\u0113mis. Tas ir tikai laika jaut\u0101jums, kad j\u016bs visu ofici\u0101li apstiprin\u0101siet. Pa ce\u013cam var b\u016bt aiz\u0137er\u0161an\u0101s, ta\u010du t\u0101s nekav\u0113s patiesu ap\u0146em\u0161anos. J\u016bs iepaz\u012bsieties ar vi\u0146u \u0123imeni un draugiem. Tiks noteikts k\u0101zu datums. J\u016bs apspried\u012bsiet, kur j\u016bs kop\u0101 dz\u012bvosiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">St\u0101viet stingri uz sav\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m. J\u016bs nepras\u0101t p\u0101r\u0101k daudz, ja v\u0113laties skaidr\u012bbu un ap\u0146em\u0161anos. Ja vi\u0146i nav vienispr\u0101tis vai vilcin\u0101s, nav j\u0113gas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t vi\u0146us aizvilkt pie alt\u0101ra. Da\u017ei var iebilst, <em>\"Laul\u012bba nav dom\u0101ta visiem,\"<\/em> un es saprotu \u0161o perspekt\u012bvu. Tom\u0113r m\u0113s k\u0101 kristie\u0161i esam aicin\u0101ti iev\u0113rot augst\u0101kus standartus. V\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s baud\u012bt der\u012bbas priek\u0161roc\u012bbas bez laul\u012bbas nav pat\u012bkama Tam Kungam. Ja cilv\u0113ks, ar kuru j\u016bs run\u0101jat, ir ar to apmierin\u0101ts, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/pazimes-kas-liecina-ka-jums-ir-jaskiras\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">jums ir j\u0101dodas prom<\/a>-t\u016bl\u012bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Uzticieties Dievam, nevis sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es neteik\u0161u, ka bija viegli blo\u0137\u0113t v\u012brieti, ar kuru run\u0101ju 2019. gad\u0101. Vienu br\u012bdi es patiesi tic\u0113ju, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir mans v\u012brs. Man \u0161\u0137ita, ka es visur redzu apstiprin\u0101jumus, bet tagad es zinu, ka tas nebija no T\u0101 Kunga. Da\u017ereiz m\u0113s kaut ko tik \u013coti v\u0113lamies, ka p\u0101rliecin\u0101m sevi, ka Dievs saka \"j\u0101\", lai gan t\u0101 nav. M\u0113s mald\u012bgi uzskat\u0101m savas v\u0113lmes par Vi\u0146a apstiprin\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja \u0161is cilv\u0113ks patie\u0161\u0101m b\u016btu Dieva izv\u0113l\u0113ts tev, tu nejustos apjucis. 1. v\u0113stul\u0113 korintie\u0161iem 14:33a ir teikts, <em>\"Jo Dievs nav apjukuma, bet miera autors.\"<\/em> Tad k\u0101d\u0113\u013c gan Vi\u0146am vajadz\u0113tu tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 ienest k\u0101du, kas tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 rada tikai haosu, nevis skaidr\u012bbu? Kop\u0161 tik\u0161an\u0101s ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku, j\u016bs tikai p\u0101rdom\u0101jat: <em>\"Vai \u0161odien ir t\u0101 diena, kad vi\u0146i beidzot mani izv\u0113l\u0113sies?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs nep\u0101rtraukti cen\u0161aties ieg\u016bt vi\u0146u simp\u0101tijas. Varb\u016bt j\u016bs ejat no ce\u013ca, lai sag\u0101d\u0101tu vi\u0146iem d\u0101vanas. Ar laipniem \u017eestiem nav nekas slikts, bet, ja j\u016bs cen\u0161aties d\u0101vin\u0101t d\u0101vanas. <em>ieg\u0101d\u0101ties<\/em> vi\u0146u m\u012blest\u012bbu, tu esi k\u013c\u016bd\u012bjies. Vai attiec\u012bbas prasa darbu? J\u0101. Bet at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba ir t\u0101da, ka <em>situ\u0101cijas<\/em> ir vienpus\u0113jas. Ja j\u016bs sniedzat vi\u0146iem visu, ko varat, bet vi\u0146i jums dod tikai savus p\u0101rpalikumus, ir pien\u0101cis laiks doties prom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-trust-god\">K\u0101 uztic\u0113ties Dievam<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es zinu, ka ir gr\u016bti, ja tu jau esi izt\u0113lojies n\u0101kotni ar vi\u0146iem. Bet tev ir j\u0101pa\u013caujas uz Dievu, nevis uz sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m. T\u0101s ir <em>ne<\/em> main\u012bs savu viedokli par jums. \u0160\u012b nav romantiska kom\u0113dija, kur\u0101 vi\u0146i p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i p\u0101rdz\u012bvo un skrien cauri satiksmei, lai apliecin\u0101tu savu m\u012blest\u012bbu. Maija And\u017eel\u016b teica, <em>\"Kad k\u0101ds tev par\u0101da, kas vi\u0146\u0161 ir, notic vi\u0146am jau pirmaj\u0101 reiz\u0113.\"<\/em> Un, k\u0101 m\u0113dz teikt, <em>\"Apmu\u013c\u0137ojiet mani vienreiz, kauns jums. Apmu\u013c\u0137ojiet mani divreiz - kauns man.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne\u013caujiet emocij\u0101m j\u016bs maldin\u0101t. J\u016btas ir \u012bslaic\u012bgas. Ja es tev teiktu, ka tavs laul\u0101tais ir tepat aiz st\u016bra, vai tu nekav\u0113joties aizietu no \u0161\u012bs situ\u0101cijas? Es dom\u0101ju, ka j\u016bs to dar\u012btu - jo Dieva lab\u0101kais ir pavisam tuvu. Es nezinu <em>kad<\/em> Tavs laiks pien\u0101ks, bet nesamierinies ar otro lab\u0101ko, ja Dievam tev ir vislab\u0101kais pl\u0101ns. Uztici Vi\u0146am savu sirdi - Vi\u0146am t\u0101 r\u016bp vair\u0101k nek\u0101 tev.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gatavs <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">satiec neticamus kristie\u0161u singlus<\/a>? Lejupiel\u0101d\u0113jiet SALT lietotni jau \u0161odien, lai <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ilgtermi\u0146a krist\u012bg\u0101s attiec\u012bbas<\/a>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post helps Christians recognise and avoid situationships &#8211; where they&#8217;re with a partner with no commitment or clarity. TL;DR: The Summary I hope you realize your worth and never settle for breadcrumbs from others. 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