{"id":2877,"date":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2877"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","slug":"lietas-ko-es-ienistu-par-to-ka-esmu-vientuls-kristietis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/things-i-hate-about-being-a-single-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"Things I Hate About Being a Single Christian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Es uzaugu kop\u0101 ar t\u0113va vec\u0101kiem. Atceros, k\u0101 vecvec\u0101ki n\u0101ca uz man\u0101m dr\u0101mas izr\u0101d\u0113m, k\u0101 da\u017e\u0101s ned\u0113\u013cas nogal\u0113s r\u016bp\u0113j\u0101s par mani un br\u0101li, k\u0101 ar\u012b milz\u012bgo \u0113dienu kl\u0101stu, ko vi\u0146i atnesa ikreiz, kad m\u0113s ciemoj\u0101mies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tad mans vect\u0113vs diem\u017e\u0113l nomira, kad es biju agr\u0101 pusaud\u017ea vecum\u0101, un man palika tikai vecm\u0101mi\u0146a. Vi\u0146a bija t\u0101, kas man iem\u0101c\u012bja, k\u0101 pareizi main\u012bt gultas ve\u013cu, ieb\u0101\u017eot segu pa taisno palaga st\u016bros.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pirms da\u017eiem gadiem vi\u0146a saslima. Es dz\u012bvoju daudz t\u0101l\u0101k, es vi\u0146u gandr\u012bz neredz\u0113ju. Braucot m\u0101j\u0101s, es dzird\u0113ju, ka vi\u0146a, atgrie\u017eoties no slimn\u012bcas, brauc cauri m\u016bsu pils\u0113tai. Vi\u0146ai nebija daudz ener\u0123ijas, t\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s izn\u0101c\u0101m \u0101tri vi\u0146u sasveicin\u0101ties, kad vi\u0146a s\u0113d\u0113ja ma\u0161\u012bn\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s parun\u0101j\u0101mies, un tad vi\u0146a laipni jaut\u0101ja: \"Vai tev jau ir jauks puisis?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0113c tam vi\u0146i aizbrauca, un t\u0101 bija p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 reize, kad vi\u0146u redz\u0113ju. Atmi\u0146as par vi\u0146as jaut\u0101jumu paliku\u0161as man\u0101 pr\u0101t\u0101, kam\u0113r es apstr\u0101d\u0101ju savas skumjas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Man nepatika \u0161\u012b saj\u016bta, es zinu, ka mana vecm\u0101mi\u0146a vienk\u0101r\u0161i grib\u0113ja zin\u0101t, ka esmu laim\u012bga, kas ar\u012b bija. Es zinu, ka vi\u0146a un mans vect\u0113vs viens otru tik \u013coti m\u012bl\u0113ja, es ar\u012b to grib\u0113ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet \u0161is jaut\u0101jums mani uz br\u012bdi sadusmoja. M\u016b\u017e\u012bgais jaut\u0101jums vientu\u013cajiem: \"Vai tu jau esi k\u0101du atradis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas un daudzas citas mazas lietas var padar\u012bt vientul\u012bbu k\u0101 kristietim patie\u0161\u0101m gr\u016btu laiku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/vientulibas-izaicinajumi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">vientul\u012bbas aspekti, kas ir apnic\u012bgi<\/a> un m\u0113s par tiem run\u0101sim.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c apl\u016bkosim un b\u016bsim god\u012bgi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160eit ir <strong>Things I Hate About Being a Single Christian.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Lidojot vienatn\u0113<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nav plus viens&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Finan\u0161u neapmierin\u0101t\u012bba&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Piesk\u0101rienu tr\u016bkums&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>V\u0113lme tikties<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vienotais bl\u016bzs<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-flying-solo\">Solo lido\u0161ana<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Man \u013coti patika BBC TV \u0161ovs <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=v3ZgFUSAAGQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Miranda<\/a>. Miranda saprata, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt neprec\u0113tai. Vi\u0146a izdom\u0101ja veidus, k\u0101 p\u0113c iesp\u0113jas lab\u0101k izmantot iesp\u0113ju b\u016bt vienai, bie\u017ei vien ar komiskiem rezult\u0101tiem. Piem\u0113ram, pusdienojot \u0101r\u0101. Vi\u0146as centieni iejusties sabiedr\u012bb\u0101, izliekoties par uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113ju, kas kaut k\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 p\u0101rauga konferences vad\u012b\u0161an\u0101 un aps\u016bdz\u0113\u0161an\u0101 identit\u0101tes z\u0101dz\u012bb\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas ir smiekl\u012bgi, ko m\u0113s dar\u0101m, lai nosl\u0113ptu to, ka esam vieni. Bet dar\u012bt lietas vienatn\u0113 reiz\u0113m vienk\u0101r\u0161i nav jautri. Vientu\u013cajiem kristie\u0161iem t\u0101 ir m\u016bsu ikdiena!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ierodoties uz ball\u012bti vienatn\u0113, ne\u0113rti apstiprin\u0101t, ka, j\u0101, tas ir galds vienam, vilcien\u0101 izmis\u012bgi tur\u0113t elko\u0146us, jo l\u012bdz\u0101s tev tagad ir sve\u0161inieks, nevis ce\u013cabiedrs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101 kristie\u0161u vientu\u013cnieki, kas dz\u012bvo vienatn\u0113, dz\u012bve var b\u016bt nogurdino\u0161a. Tas var attur\u0113t m\u016bs no t\u0101, ko v\u0113lamies dar\u012bt. J\u016bs varat atrun\u0101t sevi no filmas noskat\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, muzeja apmekl\u0113juma, koncerta, festiv\u0101la, sporta nodarb\u012bbas...&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lai gan mums var\u0113tu nepatikt dar\u012bt lietas vienatn\u0113, m\u0113s nedr\u012bkstam \u013caut, lai tas m\u016bs attur no dz\u012bves. \u0145emiet piem\u0113ru no Havenas gr\u0101matas, kura, b\u016bdama vientu\u013ca kristiete, izm\u0113\u0123ina da\u017e\u0101das lietas un \u0146em m\u016bs l\u012bdzi ce\u013cojum\u0101, piem\u0113ram, dodoties uz Ziemassv\u0113tku tirdzi\u0146iem un uz solo vakari\u0146\u0101m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, esat neprec\u0113jies un <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mekl\u0113 dievbij\u012bgu v\u012brieti vai sievieti<\/a> l\u012bdz \u0161im, tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums ir j\u0101gaida, kad vi\u0146i par\u0101d\u012bsies, lai s\u0101ktu dz\u012bvot! Pie\u0146emiet ne\u0113rt\u012bbas un dariet to, ko v\u0113laties dar\u012bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Drosm\u012bgs vientu\u013c\u0161 kristietis, speriet tic\u012bbas soli\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUg3inUX21Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-plus-one\">Nav Plus One<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja ar ikdienas liet\u0101m nepietiek, nevajag man s\u0101kt par lielajiem notikumiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ziemassv\u0113tki, dzim\u0161anas dienas - vienatne var padar\u012bt \u0161os \u012bpa\u0161os notikumus no\u017e\u0113lojamus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 doties uz k\u0101z\u0101m vienatn\u0113.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0101kums nav p\u0101r\u0101k slikts, jo faktisk\u0101 laul\u012bbu da\u013ca ir struktur\u0113ta dienas da\u013ca. Bet, kad s\u0101kas dz\u0113rienu pie\u0146em\u0161ana un cilv\u0113ki fotograf\u0113jas ar savu personu... tu vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113lies, lai tev blakus b\u016btu k\u0101ds, ar ko aprun\u0101ties par vis\u0101m s\u012bk\u0101m liet\u0101m, ko paman\u012bji visas dienas garum\u0101, ar ko izdzert v\u0113l proseko vai aiziet uz k\u0101du klus\u0101ku vietu, lai atsve\u0161in\u0101tos no trak\u0101s k\u0101zu dr\u016bzmas. V\u0113l ir dejas, ar ko tu dejo????<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jaunais gads ir liela lieta tur, no kurienes es esmu. Kad k\u013cuvu vec\u0101ka, ball\u012btes kaut k\u0101 main\u012bj\u0101s, un \u0161\u0137ita, ka t\u0101s visas ir par to, ka t\u0101 var\u0113tu b\u016bt viena liela nakts, kas izmaina dz\u012bvi. Mani nekrist\u012bgie draugi pavad\u012bja vakaru, atz\u012bstoties m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 savai simp\u0101tijai un sk\u016bpstoties br\u012bvaj\u0101 gu\u013camistab\u0101, kam\u0113r es s\u0113d\u0113ju viena, tikai cerot, ka izdosies tikt l\u012bdz zvaniem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160ajos lielajos br\u012b\u017eos ir viegli izrais\u012bt bailes, jo j\u016bs skat\u0101ties uz iel\u016bgumu bez plus viens vai neesat p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, k\u0101 jums izdosies iziet cauri v\u0113l vienai \u0123imenes sapulcei ar cilv\u0113kiem, kas j\u016bs uzm\u0101cas par j\u016bsu m\u012blas dz\u012bvi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017ereiz, lai var\u0113tu baud\u012bt dz\u012bvi un nepalaistu gar\u0101m \u0161\u012bs lietas, mums ir j\u0101maina perspekt\u012bva.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Piem\u0113ram, Valent\u012bna diena. Daudzi, galvenok\u0101rt vienlaul\u012bgie, to ien\u012bst, un tam ir pamatots iemesls. Bet t\u0101 ir da\u013ca no m\u016bsu kalend\u0101riem un k\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.boundless.org\/blog\/why-singles-shouldnt-write-off-valentines-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Dunn sav\u0101 gr\u0101mat\u0101 \"V\u0113loties Dievu\" nor\u0101da.<\/a> raksts, vientu\u013cajiem kristie\u0161iem t\u0101 ir iesp\u0113ja svin\u0113t un liecin\u0101t citiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Valent\u012bna diena var b\u016bt atg\u0101din\u0101jums pasaulei, ka kristie\u0161i nov\u0113rt\u0113 patiesu m\u012blest\u012bbu un biblisko laul\u012bbu. Un ka m\u0113s m\u012blam viens otru, lai cik at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgas b\u016btu m\u016bsu dz\u012bves.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Lai Valent\u012bna diena ir Valent\u012bna diena. Apsveriet b\u0113rnu pieskat\u012b\u0161anu da\u017eiem prec\u0113tiem draugiem vai uzaiciniet uz vakari\u0146\u0101m k\u0101du vientu\u013co draugu. Atrodiet savu iecien\u012bt\u0101ko veidu, k\u0101 svin\u0113t piedz\u012bvoto m\u012blest\u012bbu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Svin\u0113t var ar\u012b vientu\u013cie!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg\" alt=\"meitene ar kafiju\" class=\"wp-image-2495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg 801w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-235x300.jpg 235w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-768x982.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1201x1536.jpg 1201w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1601x2048.jpg 1601w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 2002w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-financial-frustrations\">Finan\u0161u vil\u0161an\u0101s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u016bt neprec\u0113tam ir d\u0101rgi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai dz\u012bvojat vien\u0101 dz\u012bvokl\u012b vai jums pieder savs m\u0101joklis, dz\u012bve ar vieniem ien\u0101kumiem var b\u016bt sare\u017e\u0123\u012bta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160ie p\u0101ri ar dubultiem ien\u0101kumiem, bez b\u0113rniem (DINK) pat nezina, cik labi vi\u0146i to ir ieguvu\u0161i.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lai c\u012bn\u012btos ar to, m\u0113s saskaramies ar past\u0101v\u012bgu sabiedrisko aktivit\u0101\u0161u, ce\u013cojumu u.c. izmaks\u0101m, kas var p\u0101rbaud\u012bt m\u016bsu, vientu\u013cnieku, bud\u017eeta ierobe\u017eojumus. M\u0113s v\u0113lamies b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar cilv\u0113kiem, bet tas var maks\u0101t gan m\u016bsu naudu, gan laiku.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un tad v\u0113l ir d\u0101vanu pasnieg\u0161ana, kad izj\u016btam spiedienu svin\u0113t tuv\u0101ko cilv\u0113ku partnerus un b\u0113rnus, un tas var pieaugt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nemaz nerun\u0101jot par to, ka, ja esat p\u0101ris, vairums lietu ir izdev\u012bg\u0101kas, piem\u0113ram, l\u0113t\u0101ka br\u012bvdienu m\u012btne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vientul\u012bba var rad\u012bt daudzas finansi\u0101las vil\u0161an\u0101s un bailes. Ta\u010du m\u0113s joproj\u0101m varam izv\u0113l\u0113ties b\u016bt labi p\u0101rvaldnieki tam, ko Dievs mums ir devis, un b\u016bt d\u0101sni dev\u0113ji.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017eas lietas, kas j\u0101piemin:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ja esat par\u0101d\u0101 un jums ir nepiecie\u0161ama pal\u012bdz\u012bba, atrodiet viet\u0113j\u0101s konsult\u0101cijas par par\u0101diem, piem\u0113ram. <a href=\"https:\/\/capuk.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">CAP <\/a>par\u0101du centr\u0101 vai aprun\u0101jieties ar k\u0101du, kam uzticaties.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Apsveriet, k\u0101 p\u0101rvald\u0101t savu naudu un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenpastures.co.uk\/resources\/6-ways-to-be-a-good-steward-of-your-money-in-the-current-climate\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u0161ie padomi<\/a> par to, k\u0101 labi r\u016bp\u0113ties par savu naudu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lai gan blogs rakst\u012bts saderin\u0101tajiem p\u0101riem, ne\u013caujiet sevi attur\u0113t - lasiet m\u016bsu blogu, kas tapis sadarb\u012bb\u0101 ar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stewardship.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">P\u0101rvald\u012bba <\/a>par da\u017eiem <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/finansu-ziedosana\/\">jaut\u0101jumi, kas j\u0101apsver par ziedo\u0161anu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-touch\">Piesk\u0101riena tr\u016bkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Es dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir kaut kas, ko m\u0113s \u012bsti nerun\u0101jam par daudz k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem, kuri ir vienoti. Man nepat\u012bk, ka neviens nekad tevi neskar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es esmu diezgan specifiska attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz to, kam v\u0113los, lai mani pieskaras. Man pat\u012bk apskaut cilv\u0113kus, lai sasveicin\u0101tos, bet ar draugiem es nev\u0113los, lai apsk\u0101viens tiktu pagarin\u0101ts, ja vien k\u0101da no pus\u0113m nav raud\u0101jusi un vi\u0146ai nav nepiecie\u0161ams mierin\u0101jums.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ilgu laiku es str\u0101d\u0101ju nozar\u0113, kas bija diezgan piesk\u0101rienj\u016bt\u012bga k\u0101 kult\u016bra, t\u0101p\u0113c piesk\u0101rieni cilv\u0113kiem, kuri nebija mani \u0123imenes locek\u013ci\/partneri, bija norm\u0101l\u0101ki. Esmu ar\u012b piedal\u012bjusies bazn\u012bc\u0101s, kur piesk\u0101rieni ir k\u013cuvu\u0161i norm\u0101li, piem\u0113ram, sveicienos, roku uzlik\u0161an\u0101 l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101 utt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010du tas nav standarta pras\u012bba visiem. Daudzi vientu\u013cnieki, manupr\u0101t, var viegli nodz\u012bvot dienas, ned\u0113\u013cas, varb\u016bt pat ilg\u0101k, un neviens nekad vi\u0146iem nepieskaras.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es \u0161eit nerun\u0101ju par romantisku vai seksu\u0101lu piesk\u0101rienu. To \"pietr\u016bkst\" krist\u012bg\u0101 vientu\u013cnieka dz\u012bv\u0113, bet v\u0113l jo vair\u0101k, izv\u0113loties randi\u0146us ar nodomu apprec\u0113ties un attur\u0113ties no seksa. Es gribu piev\u0113rsties norm\u0101l\u0101kai, draudz\u012bg\u0101kai piesk\u0101riena pusei, kas saist\u012bta ar piekri\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas \u0161\u0137iet d\u012bvaini, bet tam ir zin\u0101tniski pamatoti iemesli. Galu gal\u0101 m\u0113s esam soci\u0101las b\u016btnes, Dieva rad\u012btas, lai dz\u012bvotu cie\u0161\u0101 kopien\u0101 ar citiem. Paties\u012bb\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/science\/2024\/apr\/08\/touch-reduce-pain-depression-anxiety-mental-physical-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">piesk\u0101riens var mazin\u0101t s\u0101pes, depresiju un trauksmi.<\/a> p\u0113tnieki nor\u0101da, ka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai esat k\u0101dreiz dom\u0101ju\u0161i par to, k\u0101 J\u0113zus izmantoja ar\u012b fizisko piesk\u0101rienu? Lai gan J\u0113zus ir Dievs cilv\u0113ka mies\u0101, tas netrauc\u0113ja Vi\u0146am pieskarties cilv\u0113kiem. Vi\u0146\u0161 uzlika rokas, lai dziedin\u0101tu (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke%204&amp;version=NIV\">L\u016bkas 4:40<\/a>) un mazg\u0101ja k\u0101jas saviem m\u0101cek\u013ciem (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2013%3A1-17&amp;version=NIV\">J\u0101\u0146a 13:1-17<\/a>). Piesk\u0101riens bija galven\u0101 da\u013ca, ar ko J\u0113zus nodod Dieva m\u012blest\u012bbu Saviem \u013caud\u012bm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101tad, k\u0101 vienatn\u0113 m\u0113s varam p\u0101rvald\u012bt savas vajadz\u012bbas p\u0113c piesk\u0101rieniem? \u0160eit ir da\u017eas idejas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Atp\u016btas mas\u0101\u017eas rezerv\u0101cija.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Apmekl\u0113 friz\u0113tavu, kas mazg\u0101 matus.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>P\u0101rliecinieties, ka m\u0113s apskaujam savus draugus un \u0123imenes locek\u013cus, kad vi\u0146us redzam.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Iesp\u0113jams, ieguldiet l\u012bdzek\u013cus, piem\u0113ram, sveramaj\u0101 seg\u0101, lai justos \u0113rti un mier\u012bgi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K\u0101 vientu\u013c\u0161 kristietis j\u016bties neredzams\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oQNin-BcyS8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-desire-to-date\">V\u0113lme tikties<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Viena no liet\u0101m, ko es ien\u012bstu, b\u016bdams vientu\u013c\u0161 kristietis, ir t\u0101, ka es negribu b\u016bt vientu\u013c\u0161! Man ir v\u0113lme iet uz randi\u0146iem, un da\u017ek\u0101rt tas ir novedis pie t\u0101, ka es patie\u0161\u0101m cen\u0161os, bet bez pan\u0101kumiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki j\u016btas patiesi mier\u012bgi par to, ka nesatiekas, un pie\u0146em savu vientul\u012bbu ar \u0161\u0101du \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu. Man tas liel\u0101koties ir k\u0101 staig\u0101\u0161ana pa dub\u013ciem, l\u016bdzoties, lai dr\u012bz vien es izn\u0101k\u0161u no tiem otr\u0101 gal\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u0113las tikties ar krist\u012bgu v\u012brieti vai sievieti<\/a> bet kaut k\u0101du iemeslu d\u0113\u013c tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i nenotiek - tas ir nom\u0101co\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u016bs varat dar\u012bt visu iesp\u0113jamo, lai main\u012btu \u0161o realit\u0101ti, piem\u0113ram, sekojot da\u017eiem no m\u016bsu padomiem par to, k\u0101 pan\u0101kt. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/iepazisanas-app-panakumi\/\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s app pan\u0101kumi<\/a>vai <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/parvietot-baznicas-lai-atrastu-vientulos-kristiesus\/\">apsverat, vai jums vajadz\u0113tu p\u0101rcelties uz citu bazn\u012bcu, lai atrastu citus viendzimtos.<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010du da\u017eiem no mums, iesp\u0113jams, vajadz\u0113tu lab\u0101k iem\u0101c\u012bties gaid\u012bt. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/gatavs-randinam\/\">M\u0113s, iesp\u0113jams, pat neesam gatavi tikties<\/a>, lai gan mums t\u0101 \u0161\u0137iet. Vai ar\u012b mums j\u0101koncentr\u0113jas uz citiem trauc\u0113k\u013ciem, ar kuriem vispirms ir j\u0101tiek gal\u0101, piem\u0113ram, seksu\u0101liem k\u0101rdin\u0101jumiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un citiem, lai gan m\u0113s patie\u0161\u0101m <em>ne <\/em>v\u0113las b\u016bt neprec\u0113jies <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/kad-man-vajadzetu-panemt-pauzi-no-iepazisanas-aplikacijam\/\">m\u0113s patie\u0161\u0101m <em>dar\u012bt <\/em>nepiecie\u0161ams pa\u0146emt pauzi randi\u0146u laik\u0101.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai mums ir vai nav piem\u0113rots laiks, lai satiktos ar kristie\u0161iem, m\u0113s visi var\u0113tu g\u016bt labumu no apmierin\u0101t\u012bbas praktiz\u0113\u0161anas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Saglab\u0101jiet savu dz\u012bvi br\u012bvu no naudas m\u012blest\u012bbas un esiet apmierin\u0101ti ar to, kas jums ir, jo Dievs ir teicis: \"Es j\u016bs nekad neatst\u0101\u0161u, nekad j\u016bs neatst\u0101ju.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ebrejiem 13:5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-single-blues\">Vienotais bl\u016bzs<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017e\u0101s dien\u0101s tu pamosties, un tevi p\u0101r\u0146em \u0161is smagums vai vientul\u012bbas saj\u016bta, no kuras ir \u013coti gr\u016bti atbr\u012bvoties.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Bl\u016bzs\" k\u0101 vientu\u013cniekam ir saj\u016bta, kas var piemekl\u0113t tevi no nekurienes vai ar\u012b var rasties no izrais\u012bt\u0101jfaktoriem. To var izrais\u012bt lietas, ko redzat \u0101rpus m\u0101jas, sarunas vai skat\u012btie notikumi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Veids, k\u0101 to p\u0101rvald\u012bt k\u0101 vientu\u013c\u0161 Chrisitan mekl\u0113 m\u012blest\u012bbu, ir b\u016bt uzman\u012bgiem par trigeriem j\u016bs staig\u0101\u0161ana ties\u012bbas uz, piem\u0113ram, bezgaum\u012bgs ritin\u0101\u0161anu soci\u0101lajos medijos vai cosying l\u012bdz skat\u012bties jaun\u0101ko rom com ar spaini sald\u0113jumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160\u012bs saj\u016btas n\u0101ks un aizies, un pat tad, kad tas ir gr\u016bti, mums j\u0101atceras, ka t\u0101s galu gal\u0101 p\u0101ries. Ir labi \u013caut sev izjust savas j\u016btas, bet ir svar\u012bgi neaiziet p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu pa\u0161ap\u017e\u0113lo\u0161an\u0101, lai m\u0113s pa\u0161i sev apgr\u016btin\u0101tu dz\u012bvi.  Tom\u0113r da\u017ereiz, b\u016bdams vientu\u013c\u0161 <em>Christian <\/em>ir tas, ar ko m\u0113s c\u012bn\u0101mies visvair\u0101k. M\u0113s zin\u0101m, ka Dievs nevienam nav par\u0101d\u0101 partneri, bet, ja \u0161\u012bs ilgas un v\u0113lmes ir tik liela da\u013ca no m\u016bsu v\u0113lm\u0113m, bet Dievs v\u0113l nav atvedis \u0161o cilv\u0113ku l\u012bdzi, tas rada daudz jaut\u0101jumu. K\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.praise.com\/articles\/struggle-christian-single-is-real\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Joy Beth Smith<\/a> atspogu\u013co:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ja Dievs nav aiztur\u0113jis v\u012brieti, lai padar\u012btu mani gatavu, tad ko Vi\u0146\u0161 gaida? Un ko tas saka par Dievu, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 no manis aiztur k\u0101du labu lietu, neskatoties uz man\u0101m dedz\u012bgaj\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m?<\/em> <em>K\u0101 es varu god\u0101t un kalpot Dievam, kuram ir vara main\u012bt manus apst\u0101k\u013cus, bet kur\u0161 izv\u0113las to nedar\u012bt, radot man milz\u012bgu vientul\u012bbu un s\u0101pes?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un \u0161\u012bs domas dod gaismu m\u016bsu bail\u0113m - par to, ka varam palikt vieni uz visiem laikiem. Ne tikai par to, bet ar\u012b par to, ka nekad nepiedz\u012bvosim seksu\u0101lu tuv\u012bbu, ka mums neb\u016bs \u0123imenes (da\u017eiem \u0161\u012b doma ir p\u0101r\u0101k smaga, lai to iztur\u0113tu). Un v\u0113l - kas notiks, ja j\u016bs zaud\u0113siet k\u0101du no jums d\u0101rgiem cilv\u0113kiem un jums neb\u016bs partnera, kas pal\u012bdz\u0113tu \u0161ajos gr\u016btajos br\u012b\u017eos. Doma par to, ka n\u0101ksies sastapties ar dz\u012bvi bez sava cilv\u0113ka, var rad\u012bt daudzas nep\u0101rvaramas raizes un likt tev dusmoties uz Dievu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es zinu, ka Dievs ir paciet\u012bgs ar mums un gaida, lai m\u0113s visi saprastu, ka neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai esam br\u012bvi, prec\u0113ju\u0161ies, \u0161\u0137irti vai atrait\u0146i, Vi\u0146\u0161 vienm\u0113r ir ar mums. M\u0113s nekad neesam vieni.  Es to nesaku, lai sasmeltos m\u016bsu j\u016btas, bet lai dotu mums cer\u012bbas enkuru, kad zilais vilnis liekas p\u0101r\u0101k smags, lai uz t\u0101 sp\u0113tu k\u0101pt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Past\u0101stiet Dievam, k\u0101 j\u016bs j\u016btaties, un piel\u016bdziet Vi\u0146u pat bail\u0113s vai s\u0101p\u0113s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aleluja, es neesmu viens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vi\u0146\u0161 ir mans Komforts,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vienm\u0113r tur mani tuvu<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8OlMGnPUAdw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">23. psalms (Es neesmu viens) - Cilv\u0113ki un dziesmas<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja j\u016bs esat \u0161aj\u0101 gr\u016btaj\u0101 viet\u0101 tie\u0161i tagad, Es atradu \u0161o emu\u0101ru Samantha Keller liels mierin\u0101jums. S\u0113d\u0113t ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m un \u013caut vi\u0146as v\u0101rdiem in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/blog\/being-single-hurts-today-and-thats-okay\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u0160odien b\u016bt neprec\u0113tam ir s\u0101p\u012bgi, un tas ir labi<\/a> vad\u012bt j\u016bs l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Nosl\u0113gsim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Man paties\u012bb\u0101 tagad ir atbilde manai vecm\u0101mi\u0146ai, j\u0101, es atradu jauk\u0101ko z\u0113nu - es nesen apprec\u0113jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160\u012b zi\u0146a j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, kaitina k\u0101 vientu\u013co personu, kas to lasa. Es ien\u012bdu prec\u0113tus cilv\u0113kus, kas run\u0101 ar mani par vientul\u012bbu, tagad esmu k\u013cuvusi par t\u0101du cilv\u0113ku - f\u016b!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c es varu ignor\u0113t to, ko esmu teicis. T\u0101 ir pamatota atbilde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet, ja jums ir gr\u016bt\u012bbas, ziniet, ka neesat vien\u012bgais. Daudzi no mums ir izjutu\u0161i vai izj\u016bt tie\u0161i to pa\u0161u un zina, k\u0101 tas ir - tikt gal\u0101 ar praktisko, emocion\u0101lo un gar\u012bgo neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu, kas saist\u012bta ar vientu\u013c\u0101 kristie\u0161a cilv\u0113ka dz\u012bvi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nav vienk\u0101r\u0161u risin\u0101jumu, da\u017ereiz mums ir j\u0101cie\u0161 no v\u0113tras. Mums ir j\u0101izv\u0113las jauna attieksme pat tad, kad tas ir gr\u016bti. Vai ar\u012b mums ir j\u0101b\u016bt god\u012bgiem ar Dievu par to, k\u0101 m\u0113s j\u016btamies.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017ereiz mums vienk\u0101r\u0161i j\u0101atz\u012bst lietas, kuras m\u0113s ien\u012bstam, lai t\u0101s izdz\u012btu no galvas un m\u0113s var\u0113tu virz\u012bties uz priek\u0161u, apzinoties, ka m\u0113s esam kas vair\u0101k nek\u0101 vienatnes statuss.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I grew up with my dad\u2019s parents in my life. I remember my grandparents coming to my drama shows, taking care of my brother and I some weekends, and the massive spread of food they brought out whenever we visited. Then my grandad sadly passed when I was an early teen, leaving just my grandma. 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