{"id":274,"date":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=274"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","slug":"tiribas-kultura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/purity-culture\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra sagr\u0101va kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra sagr\u0101va kristie\u0161u randi\u0146us. Bet k\u0101 jaunie\u0161iem uzspiests uzskatu kopums var\u0113ja tik \u013coti main\u012bt kult\u016bru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mans t\u0113tis m\u012bl tiramisu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u0146am pat\u012bk dom\u0101t, ka vi\u0146\u0161 paties\u012bb\u0101 ir tiramisu pazin\u0113js.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las ar\u012b \"\u012bstu\" tiramisu,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kinishiiii\/video\/7330778124503813377?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> t\u0101pat k\u0101 \u0161is<\/a> (visticam\u0101k, visu b\u013codu!), neviena no t\u0101m at\u0161\u0137aid\u012btaj\u0101m \u0137ibel\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u0146\u0161 nev\u0113las, lai tas viss b\u016btu p\u0101r\u0101k mitrs un kr\u0113m\u012bgs, k\u0101 ar\u012b ladyfinger biskv\u012bts neb\u016btu p\u0101r\u0101k sauss un krauk\u0161\u0137\u012bgs. Ja taj\u0101 nav alkohola, tas vi\u0146am nav \u012bsts \u0113diens. Un, ja nav j\u016btama kafijas gar\u0161a, tad pat nes\u0101kiet vi\u0146am par to st\u0101st\u012bt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Katru reizi, kad m\u0113s atrodamies restor\u0101n\u0101, parasti, protams, it\u0101\u013cu, un vi\u0146\u0161 \u0113dienkart\u0113 ierauga tiramisu, vi\u0146\u0161 ir saj\u016bsmin\u0101ts un p\u0113c tam uzreiz skeptisks. Vai tas b\u016bs \u012bsts?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u0146\u0161 pat aiziet tik t\u0101lu, ka (man par lielu ne\u0113rt\u012bbu) jaut\u0101 apkalpojo\u0161ajam person\u0101lam: \"Vai tas ir... <em>\u012bsts <\/em>tiramisu?\", kas nabaga viesm\u012blim vienm\u0113r rada nelielu neizpratni.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lai cik kaitino\u0161a b\u016btu \u0161\u012b vi\u0146a \u012bpa\u0161\u012bba, es saprotu, ko vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las pateikt. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las \u012bstu tiramisu t\u012br\u0101, perfekt\u0101 form\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja espresso kafija ir sp\u0113c\u012bga. Kr\u0113jums ir biezs, bet ne p\u0101r\u0101k daudz, t\u0101p\u0113c tas ir tikai kr\u0113jums. Salds alkohola piesk\u0101riens.Biskv\u012bts ir nedaudz padev\u012bgs....<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tiramisu vislab\u0101kaj\u0101 kvalit\u0101t\u0113, tas ir tas, ko ir v\u0113rts gaid\u012bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra, cita starp\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/20-iepazisanas-izaicinajumi-vientuliem-kristiesiem\/\">iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s izaicin\u0101jumi kristie\u0161iem<\/a>, ir iespiedusi z\u012bmogu uz kristie\u0161u kopienu, izmantojot piem\u0113rus, piem\u0113ram, manu t\u0113vu, kur\u0161 gaida perfektu tiramisu, k\u0101 ilustrat\u012bvu pamudin\u0101jumu saglab\u0101t seksu tikai laul\u012bb\u0101.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010du tie\u0161i \u0161\u0101das nepareizas metaforas ir veicin\u0101ju\u0161as to, ka vair\u0101kas kristie\u0161u paaudzes ir iest\u0101ju\u0161\u0101s iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pasaul\u0113, radot vair\u0101k kait\u0113juma nek\u0101 ievirzes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja randi\u0146i k\u0101 neprec\u0113tam kristietim jau t\u0101 var b\u016bt pietiekami gr\u016bti, tad t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra un t\u0101s zemapzi\u0146\u0101 eso\u0161\u0101s zi\u0146as ir pievienoju\u0161as v\u0113l citus nevesel\u012bgus \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013cus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs esat labi inform\u0113ts par kristie\u0161u \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bras aicin\u0101jumu vai varb\u016bt tas jums ir jaunums.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010du izmantojiet \u0161o laiku, lai izv\u0113rt\u0113tu savu dom\u0101\u0161anas modeli par seksu, celib\u0101tu un viendz\u012bvi, jo m\u0113s apsveram. <strong>5 veidi, k\u0101 t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra sagr\u0101va kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s<\/strong>...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar kaunu un bail\u0113m.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar nosod\u012bjumu un nepiedo\u0161anu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar nezin\u0101\u0161anu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar bag\u0101\u017eu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar hiperfiks\u0101ciju.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Probl\u0113ma ar t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bru\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/melquFBJGV4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> st\u0101sta par Purity Culture no savas perspekt\u012bvas<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-purity-culture\">Kas ir T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bru\" bie\u017ei vien attiecina uz Amerikas eva\u0146\u0123\u0113lisko kristiet\u012bbu, un t\u0101s slaven\u0101kais uzplaukums bija 90. gados, kad jaunie\u0161i deva \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas sol\u012bjumus un apmekl\u0113ja \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas balles.Jaun\u0101kie t\u016bksto\u0161gades un vec\u0101kie Z paaudzes cilv\u0113ki, iesp\u0113jams, atceras t\u0101dus slavenus gad\u012bjumus k\u0101, piem. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/jonas-brothers-purity-rings-b2339533.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Jonas Brothers<\/a> piem\u0113ram, ar saviem t\u012br\u012bbas gredzeniem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lai gan \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra nav tikai amerik\u0101\u0146u vai tikai kristie\u0161iem rakstur\u012bga, t\u0101s v\u0113st\u012bjuma ietekme joproj\u0101m ir izplat\u012bta kristie\u0161u kopien\u0101, ta\u010du, visticam\u0101k, k\u0101 maz\u0101k publiska un vair\u0101k neizteikta norma.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101s pamat\u0101 ir t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Veicina seksu\u0101lo t\u012br\u012bbu, iev\u0113rojot attur\u012bbu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>neatbalsta jebk\u0101da veida pirmslaul\u012bbu seksu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Citiem v\u0101rdiem sakot - nek\u0101da seksa pirms laul\u012bbas. Liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai kristie\u0161u tas ir paz\u012bstams j\u0113dziens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar\u012b t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra sav\u0101 papla\u0161in\u0101taj\u0101 defin\u012bcij\u0101 m\u0113dz m\u0101c\u012bt, ka:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sievie\u0161u \u0137erme\u0146i ir v\u012brie\u0161u seksu\u0101lo gr\u0113ku c\u0113lonis.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u012brie\u0161u seksu\u0101l\u0101s v\u0113lmes ir tik nekontrol\u0113jamas, ka vi\u0146iem ir j\u0101dara viss, kas ir vi\u0146u sp\u0113kos, lai t\u0101s neizrais\u012btu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tas, ka tu neesi seksu\u0101li t\u012brs, bie\u017ei tiek uzskat\u012bts par nepaklaus\u012bbu Dievam un savai tic\u012bbai.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paties\u012bb\u0101 Hannah Mayderry (LMHC) sarun\u0101 ar<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/purity-culture-impacts-mental-health-7564315\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> VeryWellMind<\/a> teica, ka t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra m\u0101ca cilv\u0113kiem, ka:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"(...) vi\u0146u seksualit\u0101te ir kaut kas t\u0101ds, kas b\u016btu j\u0101sl\u0113pj un j\u0101aizb\u0101\u017e. Tas ietver visu, s\u0101kot no \u0123\u0113rb\u0161an\u0101s veida, (...) to, k\u0101 vi\u0146i uztver savu \u0137ermeni, un vi\u0146u dzimumtieksmi\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka, pat lasot \u0161os tekstus, da\u017ei no j\u016bsu br\u012bdin\u0101juma karodzi\u0146iem s\u0101k pacelties, un tam ir pamatots iemesls.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lai gan seksa saglab\u0101\u0161ana laul\u012bbai ir ierasta un visp\u0101rpie\u0146emta krist\u012bg\u0101s dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013ca, tom\u0113r t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bras m\u0101c\u012bbu pla\u0161\u0101k\u0101 ietekme ir novedusi pie da\u017eiem toksiskiem rezult\u0101tiem, kas joproj\u0101m ir izplat\u012bti krist\u012bgajos randi\u0146os.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apskat\u012bsim da\u017eus no \u0161iem efektiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-shame-and-fear\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar kaunu un bail\u0113m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra ir piepild\u012bjusi un turpina piepild\u012bt neprec\u0113tos kristie\u0161us ar kaunu un bail\u0113m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cilv\u0113ka v\u0113lme p\u0113c seksa \u0101rpus laul\u012bbas nav jauna \"probl\u0113ma\" bazn\u012bcai. Un tom\u0113r, kad aicin\u0101jums \"saglab\u0101t seksu laul\u012bbai\" s\u0101k izplat\u012bties krist\u012bgaj\u0101 sf\u0113r\u0101, mums \u0161\u0137iet, ka ar v\u0101rdiem pietiek, lai aptur\u0113tu \u0161\u012bs cilv\u0113cisk\u0101s \"tieksmes\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160is aicin\u0101jums uz \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu ir novedis pie t\u0101, ka jaunie kristie\u0161i aug ar dzi\u013cu kauna izj\u016btu par savu \u0137ermeni, sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m un da\u017eos gad\u012bjumos ar\u012b par saviem l\u0113mumiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-body-shame\">\u0136erme\u0146a kauns<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja nepietiek ar di\u0113tu kult\u016bru, izm\u0113ru nulle model\u0113m, \u0113\u0161anas trauc\u0113jumu glamoriz\u0113\u0161anu un m\u016bsu past\u0101v\u012bgo saskarsmi ar \"pievilc\u012bgiem un veiksm\u012bgiem\" cilv\u0113kiem soci\u0101lajos medijos, t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bras v\u0113st\u012bjums veicina kaunu par m\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a izskatu un to, k\u0101 tas var m\u016bs novest situ\u0101cij\u0101, kur\u0101 mums nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rakstot \u0161o tekstu, es dom\u0101ju par to, cik kait\u012bgs tas var b\u016bt, jo \u012bpa\u0161i jaunie\u0161iem, kuri v\u0113l tikai piedz\u012bvo pubert\u0101tes sekas vai samierin\u0101s ar t\u0101m. Laik\u0101, kad notiek v\u0113trainas p\u0101rmai\u0146as un hormonu uzpl\u016bdi, kas bie\u017ei vien izraisa saj\u016btas, kuras m\u0113s nevaram kognit\u012bvi kontrol\u0113t, papildu spiediens sl\u0113pt m\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a seksu\u0101lo realit\u0101ti \"t\u012br\u012bbas un pietic\u012bbas\" v\u0101rd\u0101 nevar b\u016bt \u013coti nevesel\u012bga lieta.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Singles satiek kristie\u0161us v\u012brie\u0161us un sievietes, kuriem ir vesela virkne \u0137erme\u0146a aizspriedumu, kas, iesp\u0113jams, izveidoju\u0161ies jau daudz agr\u0101k vi\u0146u dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas ietekm\u0113 cilv\u0113kus, kad vi\u0146i satiekas un staig\u0101 ar Dievu, tas ir gar\u012bgs jaut\u0101jums. \u0160erila sav\u0101 blog\u0101 <a href=\"http:\/\/twentysixletters.org\/dear-christians-we-need-to-talk-about-body-image\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\"D\u0101rgie kristie\u0161i, mums ir j\u0101run\u0101 par \u0137erme\u0146a t\u0113lu <\/a>atg\u0101dina, ka:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u016bsu attieksme pret savu \u0137ermeni nav tik vienk\u0101r\u0161a k\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i censties par to nedom\u0101t. Tas var b\u016bt m\u016bsu identit\u0101tes b\u016btiska da\u013ca un ietekm\u0113t m\u016bsu gar\u012bgumu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feeling-shame\">Kauna saj\u016bta<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s m\u0113s ienesam kaunu par to, ko j\u016btam, neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai t\u0101 ir pievilc\u012bba vai uzbudin\u0101jums. \u0160\u012b iem\u0101c\u012bt\u0101 uzved\u012bba liek cilv\u0113kiem izsl\u0113gt domas, jo t\u0101s tiek uzskat\u012btas par \"nepareiz\u0101m\" vai rodas nepareiz\u0101 kontekst\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lai paliktu t\u012bri, es iedom\u0101jos, ka daudzi kristie\u0161u p\u0101ri, kas dodas uz randi\u0146iem, nesaprot, ko dar\u012bt ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m pret savu partneri\/partneri.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja \u0161\u0101das domas ir \"nepareizas\" saska\u0146\u0101 ar t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bru, tad attiec\u012bb\u0101s past\u0101v\u012bgi notiek neizrun\u0101ta pieredze. Ko dar\u012bt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160\u012b kauna saj\u016bta mazin\u0101s god\u012bgumu un atkl\u0101t\u012bbu jaunaj\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s, un tas noteikti nevar b\u016bt labi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-continued-shame\">Nep\u0101rtraukts kauns<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un vientu\u013cie var kaun\u0113ties par to, kad vi\u0146i ir \"p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i robe\u017eu\", un uztraukties par to, vai past\u0101st\u012bt par savu pag\u0101tni cilv\u0113kam, ar kuru vi\u0146i satiekas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikai \u012bss mierin\u0101juma v\u0101rds - seksu\u0101l\u0101 \"t\u012br\u012bba\" un iek\u0101re, iesp\u0113jams, nav katra cilv\u0113ka probl\u0113ma, bet, l\u016bdzu, pielieciet pret sevi \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu. Neviens nav perfekts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tas viss veicina bailes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-fear-factor\">Bai\u013cu faktors<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra liek kristie\u0161iem baid\u012bties, ka vi\u0146i zaud\u0113s iesp\u0113ju uztur\u0113t m\u012blo\u0161as attiec\u012bbas vienas domas, saj\u016btas vai r\u012bc\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0113l \u013caun\u0101k, tas rada izol\u0113jo\u0161as bailes tiem, kuri nav izv\u0113l\u0113ju\u0161ies iziet \u0101rpus \"\u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas\" robe\u017e\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nepareizi, <a href=\"https:\/\/shilohproject.blog\/sexual-abuse-in-the-context-of-christian-purity-culture-in-britain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra liek dom\u0101t, ka vain\u012bgs ir cilv\u0113ks, ja sekss notiek \u0101rpus laul\u012bbas. <\/a>Tas ir bied\u0113jo\u0161i kait\u012bgi cilv\u0113kam, kur\u0161 ir cietis no vardarb\u012bbas traumas. Tas ir t\u0101p\u0113c, ka \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra apgalvo, ka m\u0113s vienm\u0113r kontrol\u0113jam situ\u0101ciju, ka tikai m\u016bsu izv\u0113le nosaka m\u016bsu \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu. Tie ir kait\u012bgi meli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0113l vair\u0101k - nevienu nedr\u012bkst vainot par to, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir seksu\u0101la uzbrukuma upuris, un t\u0101 ir piln\u012bga taisn\u012bba. V\u0113l vair\u0101k - es apgalvoju, ka J\u0113zus pirm\u0101s domas \u0161\u0101d\u0101 briesm\u012bg\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 ir nevis \"Es tev piedo\u0161u\", bet gan \"N\u0101c pie manis, es tevi m\u012blu\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"skatieties uz savu soli z\u012bme\" class=\"wp-image-44\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-judgement-and-unforgiveness\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar spriedumu un nepiedo\u0161anu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Turpm\u0101k\u0101 \"aptraip\u012b\u0161ana\" ar tiem, kas kaut k\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 ir p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas robe\u017eas, ir rad\u012bjusi kristie\u0161u vid\u016b nevesel\u012bgu nosod\u012b\u0161anas un nepiedo\u0161anas kult\u016bru.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0101rdom\u0101jot D\u017eo\u0161ua Harisa gr\u0101matu \"Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship\" (\"Z\u0113ns satiek meiteni: sakiet \"Sveiks, draudz\u012bba\"), <a href=\"https:\/\/calvarychapel.com\/posts\/purity-culture-its-a-different-gospel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Karissa Valadez <\/a>pati pamana \u0161o nosod\u012bjumu un nepiedo\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Vi\u0146\u0161 var\u0113ja pateikties Dievam par to, ko Vi\u0146\u0161 bija paveicis \u0160enon\u0101 un caur \u0160enonu, un par to, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 vi\u0146u izveidoja par sievieti, kas s\u0113d\u0113ja vi\u0146a priek\u0161\u0101..... T\u0101 viet\u0101 D\u017eo\u0161ua raud\u0101ja, jo vi\u0146a nebija jaunava.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0101 vientu\u013ci kristie\u0161i, kas satiekas ar citiem kristie\u0161iem, koncentr\u0113joties uz \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu, m\u0113s risk\u0113jam saboj\u0101t attiec\u012bbu s\u0101kumu, jo uzskat\u0101m, ka mums ir ties\u012bbas spriest par otra cilv\u0113ka r\u012bc\u012bbu, \u012bpa\u0161i attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz seksu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-carrying-the-burden\">Nest nastu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160\u0137iet, ka t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra rada izpratni par to, ka seksu\u0101la rakstura p\u0101rk\u0101pumi ir nepiedodami, un liel\u0101koties \u0161\u012b nasta gulstas uz sieviet\u0113m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Teiksim, jauna sieviete, piem\u0113ram, agr\u0101k ir lietojusi pornogr\u0101fiju un, neraugoties uz vainas apzi\u0146u un kaunu, par ko m\u0113s run\u0101j\u0101m pirmajos punktos, ir pietiekami drosm\u012bga, lai apspriestu savu pag\u0101tni ar savu jauno partneri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iesp\u0113jams, ka vi\u0146a, t\u0101pat k\u0101 \u0160enona, tiks uz\u0146emta ar riebumu un nepiedo\u0161anu, jo ir uzsv\u0113rts, cik nepareizs \u0161is solis ir bijis. Iesp\u0113jams, no cilv\u0113ka, kur\u0161 pats ir lietojis pornogr\u0101fiju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ready-and-willing\">Gatavs un gatavs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0113s k\u0101 cilv\u0113ki, kas paz\u012bst un m\u012bl J\u0113zu, nedr\u012bkstam pie\u013caut, ka \u0161ie ide\u0101li sagrauj kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar piedo\u0161anas tr\u016bkumu. Paties\u012bb\u0101 tam vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt kaut kam t\u0101dam, ko m\u0113s esam gatavi un gaid\u0101m (neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai runa ir par seksu vai ko citu).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekas, ko k\u0101ds cits ir dar\u012bjis, mums nav nepiedodams, jo k\u0101<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/103229-to-be-a-christian-means-to-forgive-the-inexcusable-because\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> K. S. L\u016biss<\/a> to: <em>\"B\u016bt kristietim noz\u012bm\u0113 piedot nepiedodamo, jo Dievs tev ir piedodis nepiedodamo.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Tad P\u0113teris pien\u0101ca pie J\u0113zus un jaut\u0101ja: \"Kungs, cik rei\u017eu man piedot savam br\u0101lim vai m\u0101sai, kas gr\u0113ko pret mani? L\u012bdz septi\u0146\u0101m reiz\u0113m? J\u0113zus atbild\u0113ja: \"Es tev saku: ne septi\u0146as reizes, bet septi\u0146desmit septi\u0146as reizes.\"\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mateja ev. 18: 21-22<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tur, kur t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra v\u0113las sagraut p\u0101rus ar bargiem spriedumiem un nepiedo\u0161anu, J\u0113zus nor\u0101da mums uz Savu dzi\u013co un neierobe\u017eoto \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-ignorance\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar nezin\u0101\u0161anu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0101 k\u0101 \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra ir saist\u012bta ar atteik\u0161anos no m\u016bsu (Dieva dot\u0101s) seksualit\u0101tes, t\u0101 rada vienas paaudzes kristie\u0161us, kuri nav seksu\u0101li izgl\u012btoti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tagad es nesaku, ka neprec\u0113tajiem kristie\u0161iem b\u016btu j\u0101aizraujas ar seksu\u0101lo attiec\u012bbu nians\u0113m, tas neb\u016btu noder\u012bgi tiem, kas izv\u0113las palikt celib\u0101t\u0101 pirms laul\u012bbas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010du tik daudzi vientu\u013cie pat nesaprot, k\u0101 darbojas vi\u0146u pa\u0161u \u0137ermenis, un tas veicina kaunu un vainas apzi\u0146u, ko jau veicina \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160\u012b nezin\u0101\u0161ana ar\u012b apgr\u016btin\u0101s l\u0113mumu saglab\u0101t seksu laul\u012bb\u0101. Ja j\u016bs nevarat run\u0101t par savu seksualit\u0101ti ar partneri vai apspriest fizisk\u0101s realit\u0101tes, ko j\u016bs kop\u0101 piedz\u012bvojat, pie\u0146emot l\u0113mumu gaid\u012bt, gaid\u012b\u0161ana nek\u013c\u016bs viegl\u0101ka. Visticam\u0101k, ka t\u0101 b\u016bs tikai v\u0113l neveikl\u0101ka.   Un nav svar\u012bgi, vai j\u016bs gatavojaties <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/satikt-kadu-citu-kurs-ir-skiries\/\">Iepaz\u012bsties ar \u0161\u0137irtiem vientu\u013ciem kristie\u0161iem<\/a>, jo t\u0101 ir sava nezin\u0101\u0161anas tru\u0161u bedre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da\u017eas no jom\u0101m, kur\u0101s nepiecie\u0161ama laba seksu\u0101l\u0101 izgl\u012bt\u012bba, m\u0113s apl\u016bkojam m\u016bsu blog\u0101 \"K\u0101 sagatavoties labam seksam k\u0101 kristie\u0161iem\", kas attiecas gan uz vientu\u013cajiem, gan jaunlaul\u0101tajiem p\u0101riem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paturiet pr\u0101t\u0101, ka labu seksu\u0101lo izgl\u012bt\u012bbu un izpratni par savu \u0137ermeni nesniegs filmas un pornogr\u0101fija. Tie tikai rad\u012bs papildu apjukumu, nevesel\u012bgas un nere\u0101las gaidas attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz sevi un n\u0101kamo partneri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"577\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"ka\u0137\u0113nu sam\u012b\u013co\u0161ana\" class=\"wp-image-56\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg 577w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-768x1364.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-865x1536.jpeg 865w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-1153x2048.jpeg 1153w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships.jpeg 1081w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 577px) 100vw, 577px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Emocion\u0101li traum\u0113ts no t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bras bag\u0101\u017eas<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-baggage\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar bag\u0101\u017eu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es teiktu, ka t\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra ir izpost\u012bjusi kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, radot veselu \u0137ekars papildu bag\u0101\u017eu, kas mums tie\u0161\u0101m nav nepiecie\u0161ams, lai dotu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pirmaj\u0101 viet\u0101.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esmu pazinusi jaunas sievietes, kuras raud\u0101ja par pui\u0161a sk\u016bpst\u012b\u0161anos pirmaj\u0101 kurs\u0101. Tagad m\u0113s visi pa\u0161i nosak\u0101m savas robe\u017eas, bet vai m\u0113s pa\u0161i sev nesare\u017e\u0123\u012bjam dz\u012bvi nepareizu iemeslu d\u0113\u013c?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012apa\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c, ka \u0161\u012b bag\u0101\u017ea ir v\u0113rsta uz to, ko dom\u0101 citi cilv\u0113ki, piem\u0113ram, tie, kas jums m\u0101c\u012bju\u0161i par \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbu j\u016bsu draudz\u0113. Bie\u017ei vien tai nav nek\u0101da sakara ar Dievu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es dom\u0101ju, ka \u0161\u012b bag\u0101\u017ea liek mums dom\u0101t, ka laul\u012bba ir Dieva izpirkuma z\u0101les m\u016bsu k\u013c\u016bd\u0101m. M\u016bsu seksu\u0101lie p\u0101rk\u0101pumi noz\u012bm\u0113, ka m\u0113s neesam pietiekami labi laul\u012bbai. Bet tad, kad laul\u012bba tom\u0113r ir nosl\u0113gta, Dievs ir izpircis m\u016bsu pag\u0101tnes p\u0101rk\u0101pumus un padar\u012bjis m\u016bs \u0161\u0137\u012bstus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es to vienk\u0101r\u0161i nep\u0113rku.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bet t\u0101 ir bag\u0101\u017ea un atpaliku\u0161\u0101 dom\u0101\u0161ana, ko m\u0113s k\u0101 vientu\u013cie kristie\u0161i, kas v\u0113las tikties, nesam l\u012bdzi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-hyper-fixation\">Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ar hiper-fiks\u0101ciju<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vai ar\u012b jums \u0161\u0137iet, ka da\u017ek\u0101rt kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir tikai par seksu?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apgroz\u012bt\u0101 veid\u0101 \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra ir nevis nov\u0113rsusi kristie\u0161u v\u012brie\u0161u un sievie\u0161u domas no seksa, bet gan piln\u012bb\u0101 piev\u0113rsusies tam.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i nav tas, ko Dievs ir par. M\u016bsu, J\u0113zus sekot\u0101ju, liel\u0101kais pav\u0113lis ir nepie\u0137erties seksam. Tas ir m\u012bl\u0113t Dievu un m\u012bl\u0113t citus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Tev j\u0101m\u012bl Kungs, tavs Dievs, no visas sirds, no visas dv\u0113seles un no visa sava pr\u0101ta. Tas ir pirmais un liel\u0101kais bauslis. Tikpat svar\u012bgs ir otrs: \"M\u012bli savu tuv\u0101ko k\u0101 sevi pa\u0161u.\"\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mateja ev. 22: 37-38<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In hyper fixating on sex in Christian dating:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u0113s esam padar\u012bju\u0161i seksu par galveno gr\u0113ku.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u0113s esam padar\u012bju\u0161i laul\u012bbu par gal\u012bgo \u0101rstniec\u012bbas l\u012bdzekli.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u0113s esam padar\u012bju\u0161i seksu jaunlaul\u0101tajiem par visliel\u0101ko spiedienu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u0113s esam padar\u012bju\u0161i bezb\u0113rnu dz\u012bvi par visliel\u0101ko l\u0101stu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u012br\u012bbas kult\u016bra ir pac\u0113lusi seksu uz pjedest\u0101la \"nepieskarties\", padarot to par galveno jaut\u0101jumu, uz ko koncentr\u0113jas daudzu vientu\u013cnieku pr\u0101ti, staig\u0101jot sav\u0101 tic\u012bb\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varb\u016bt mums vajadz\u0113tu pavad\u012bt vair\u0101k laika <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">koncentr\u0113joties uz Dievu un Vi\u0146a raksturu.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>T\u012br\u012bbas kust\u012bba m\u0101c\u012bja par Dievu, kur\u0161 mums ir devis mor\u0101les noteikumus, bet nepietiekami uzsv\u0113ra Vi\u0146a pest\u012bjo\u0161o dabu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Un t\u0101d\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101 m\u0113s fiks\u0113jam nepareizu lietu. M\u016bsu seksualit\u0101te ir Dieva dota realit\u0101te, kurai iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pal\u012bdz mums atrast kontekstu. Bet t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai to izsl\u0113gtu, tai vajadz\u0113tu m\u016bs virz\u012bt uz to, kam m\u0113s esam rad\u012bti - uz kop\u012bbu, intimit\u0101ti ar Dievu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Nosl\u0113gsim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kopum\u0101 \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas kult\u016bra ar t\u0101s blakusproduktiem - kaunu un bail\u0113m - ir veicin\u0101jusi krist\u012bgu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s attiec\u012bbu sabrukumu, mudinot viendzimtos sl\u0113pt savas \"k\u013c\u016bdas\", aizverot komunik\u0101ciju un iedve\u0161ot dzi\u013cas bailes no t\u0101, ka cita persona uzzin\u0101s par j\u016bsu pag\u0101tni.  Tas liek mums aizdom\u0101ties pat <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/kur-satikt-vientulus-kristigus-viriesus\/\">kur satikt vientu\u013cus kristie\u0161u v\u012brie\u0161us<\/a> vai <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/kur-satikt-vienotas-kristietes\/\">kur satikt vientu\u013cas kristietes<\/a> baidoties satikt k\u0101du, kas m\u016bs t\u0101 nosod\u012bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liel\u0101koties, lai gan tas m\u016bs att\u0101lin\u0101ja no Dieva v\u0113lmes p\u0113c attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar mums, nevis no pie\u0137er\u0161an\u0101s cilv\u0113ku rad\u012btiem noteikumiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Es nedom\u0101ju, ka es to varu izteikt lab\u0101k nek\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Juli Slattery sav\u0101 rakst\u0101...<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u0160im B\u012bbeles st\u0101stam ir j\u0101b\u016bt priek\u0161pl\u0101n\u0101 un fon\u0101 visam, ko m\u0113s m\u0101c\u0101m, tostarp par seksualit\u0101ti. 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