{"id":262,"date":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=262"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","slug":"kristiesu-iepazisanas-robezas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/christian-dating-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: Cik t\u0101lu ir p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas ir lieta, par kuru mums jaut\u0101 visvair\u0101k. Cik t\u0101lu ir par t\u0101lu, kad runa ir par fiziskaj\u0101m un emocion\u0101laj\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viena no man\u0101m sp\u0113c\u012bg\u0101kaj\u0101m atmi\u0146\u0101m par t\u012bru baudu bija no k\u0101da festiv\u0101la pusaud\u017eu gados.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es biju te\u0101tra b\u0113rns dramatiskaj\u0101 nometn\u0113. Zinu, tik for\u0161i. Tom\u0113r m\u0113s ar draugu... nebij\u0101m \"vienoti\" ar \u0101ru. M\u0113s bij\u0101m k\u0101 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=t7jZXt9luKQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Melman no Madagaskaras<\/a>, ja j\u016bs saprat\u0101t atsauci uz 2005. gadu (yikes).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s turpin\u0101j\u0101m darbu m\u0101kslas d\u0113\u013c. Ta\u010du ne p\u0101r\u0101k v\u0113lamais \u0113din\u0101\u0161anas pied\u0101v\u0101jums mums sag\u0101d\u0101ja izsalkumu p\u0113c kaut k\u0101 vair\u0101k.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u016bk, net\u0101lu eso\u0161aj\u0101 iepirk\u0161an\u0101s centr\u0101 atrad\u0101s <em>Greggs<\/em>. M\u0113s ar prieku ieg\u0101d\u0101j\u0101mies karame\u013cu kr\u0113ma donatu, lai apmierin\u0101tu ilgas p\u0113c kaut k\u0101 patie\u0161\u0101m laba.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es iekosu. Piln\u012bga sv\u0113tlaime. Salds, lip\u012bgs, nedaudz lip\u012bgs. Tas bija neticami. Piln\u012bgs baud\u012bjums p\u0113c m\u016bsu bezmiega nakt\u012bm dab\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101 jau tas ir ar \u0101tr\u0101s \u0113din\u0101\u0161anas produktiem, vai ne. T\u0101 veicina t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113ju apmierin\u0101jumu, p\u0113c kura alkst m\u016bsu v\u0113deri un pr\u0101ti. Tom\u0113r man j\u0101saka, ka pat tagad, rakstot par to, man nedaudz s\u0101p v\u0113ders. \u0160is donutu atkl\u0101\u0161ana izrais\u012bja vair\u0101k nek\u0101 aps\u0113st\u012bbu. Tagad man ir mazliet smiekl\u012bgi, kad es eju gar\u0101m k\u0101dam <em>Greggs<\/em>. Dro\u0161i var teikt, ka es p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113ju, jo grib\u0113ju atk\u0101rtot to saj\u016btu, kas bija pirmaj\u0101 kodien\u0101 no dr\u0101mas nometnes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Kopsavilkums<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160\u012b analo\u0123ija neat\u0161\u0137iras no t\u0101m, ko dzird\u0113ju, uzaugot bazn\u012bc\u0101 vai jaunie\u0161u nometn\u0113s. Tas viss bija kaut k\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 saist\u012bts ar seksa saglab\u0101\u0161anu laul\u012bbai. \"Nesaboj\u0101 to, kas ir labs, pirms v\u0113l nav par v\u0113lu\" un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u016bdams \u013coti naivs pusaudzis, bija viegli iejusties taj\u0101. Bet k\u0101 pieaugu\u0161ais, uzs\u0101kot iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pasauli, es joproj\u0101m v\u0113l\u0113jos zin\u0101t, cik t\u0101lu es varu aiziet, pirms atgriez\u012bsies t\u0101 slikta saj\u016bta v\u0113der\u0101.<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja j\u016bs ar to c\u012bn\u0101ties, j\u016bs neesat viens. Daudzi vientu\u013cie kristie\u0161i v\u0113las zin\u0101t <strong>cik t\u0101lu ir p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160aj\u0101 emu\u0101r\u0101<strong> <\/strong>Es jums past\u0101st\u012b\u0161u, kas man ir pal\u012bdz\u0113jis un vad\u012bjis. Ceru, ka Dieva balss uzrun\u0101s tevi, un viss p\u0101r\u0113jais - t\u0101pat k\u0101 pasaule, kad es ap\u0113du \u0161o kukul\u012bti, - pazud\u012bs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parun\u0101sim par da\u017eiem <strong>Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>V\u0113lme gaid\u012bt&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Lietas, kas pal\u012bdz<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nelietder\u012bgi aizst\u0101j\u0113ji&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vienk\u0101r\u0161ojiet to&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ko dar\u012bt, ja ir par v\u0113lu?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Robe\u017eas krist\u012bgaj\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s: Cuddle ar piesardz\u012bbu\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qy1yLQ12rHo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Skat\u012bties <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> run\u0101t par vi\u0146as uz\u0146emties Christian iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-far-is-too-far\">Cik t\u0101lu ir p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u016btu lieliski izveidot kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s noteikumu sarakstu, vai ne?!? \u012apa\u0161i tad, ja runa ir par to, kur ir m\u016bsu robe\u017ea attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz fizisko intimit\u0101ti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Piebilde. Hilariously tur ir viens uz <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Set-Boundaries-in-Christian-Dating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">WikiHow<\/a>. Tas nav viss slikti, lai b\u016btu god\u012bgi!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010du m\u0113s zin\u0101m, ka mums k\u0101 cilv\u0113kiem ne p\u0101r\u0101k labi padodas iev\u0113rot noteikumus. Kad par\u0101d\u0101s \"dar\u012bt un nedar\u012bt\" saraksts, viss, ko m\u0113s v\u0113lamies, ir redz\u0113t, cik t\u0101lu m\u0113s varam p\u0101riet no \"nedar\u012bt\" uz \"dar\u012bt\". Ak, cilv\u0113ka daba...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sekss ir skaidri noteikta robe\u017ea, uz kuru Dievs ir aicin\u0101jis kristie\u0161us. Ja esi neprec\u0113jies, st\u0101jies randi\u0146\u0101 vai pat saderin\u0101jies, iesp\u0113jams, esi par to dom\u0101jis un tev joproj\u0101m ir jaut\u0101jumi. K\u0101 ir ar p\u0101r\u0113jo?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai mums vajadz\u0113tu sk\u016bpst\u012bties? Vai ir labi b\u016bt kop\u0101 vienatn\u0113? Ko dar\u012bt v\u0113lu vakar\u0101? Ko dar\u012bt, ja m\u0113s nedaudz aizr\u0101v\u0101mies ar \u0161o br\u012bdi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir patie\u0161\u0101m gr\u016bti atrast inform\u0101ciju, kas nesl\u0113pjas no konkr\u0113t\u0101m deta\u013c\u0101m. Kad cilv\u0113ki piev\u0113r\u0161as s\u012bkumiem, tie bie\u017ei vien ir pretrun\u0101 ar citu viedokli. Ir gr\u016bti pateikt, k\u0101da paties\u012bb\u0101 ir pareiz\u0101 atbilde.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-conclusion\">Mans secin\u0101jums<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Mans secin\u0101jums ir \u0161\u0101ds. Ir gr\u016bti pamatot, ka v\u0113lme b\u016bt int\u012bm\u0101 tuv\u012bb\u0101 ar k\u0101du, kur\u0161 (v\u0113l) nav tavs laul\u0101tais, ir piln\u012bb\u0101 motiv\u0113ta ar m\u012blest\u012bbu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dzi\u013ci sird\u012b, kad m\u0113s pietuvojamies fiziskai intimit\u0101tei ar attieksmi \"cik t\u0101lu es varu iet\", tas ir t\u0101p\u0113c, ka m\u0113s esam vai nu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Greizsird\u012bgi apskau\u017e tos, kuriem nav \u0161o robe\u017eu un kuri var dar\u012bt, ko v\u0113las.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>vai<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pa\u0161u interes\u0113s ir g\u016bt prieku un gandar\u012bjumu.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u012asta m\u012blest\u012bba ir upur\u0113jo\u0161a, nevis savt\u012bga. M\u0113s to zin\u0101m, pateicoties tam, ko J\u0113zus dar\u012bja pie krusta. T\u0101p\u0113c sekss un intimit\u0101te var pagaid\u012bt randi\u0146u un saderin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101, jo m\u012blest\u012bba m\u016bs aicina uz upur\u0113\u0161anos. Atsac\u012bties no sevis otra cilv\u0113ka un savas m\u012blest\u012bbas pret vi\u0146u d\u0113\u013c.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja \"citas lietas\" apgr\u016btina tavu izv\u0113li gaid\u012bt vai aizst\u0101j tuv\u012bbu un baudu, ko sniedz sekss, - j\u0101, es teiktu, ka tas, iesp\u0113jams, ir par daudz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom\u0113r, pirms m\u0113s piev\u0113r\u0161amies konkr\u0113tiem jaut\u0101jumiem, ir v\u0113rts vair\u0101k padom\u0101t par to, k\u0101p\u0113c. Tad m\u0113s varam k\u013c\u016bt praktisk\u0101ki!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"z\u012bme &quot;Aizliegts st\u0101v\u0113t&quot;, kas apz\u012bm\u0113 robe\u017eas\" class=\"wp-image-95\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-the-will-to-wait\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: V\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s gaid\u012bt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Olimpie\u0161i visu m\u016b\u017eu str\u0101d\u0101 un ziedojas, lai izceltos sav\u0101 sporta veid\u0101. Vi\u0146u pa\u0161aizliedz\u012bba un m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bba \u013cauj vi\u0146iem sasniegt fiziskus sasniegumus, ko daudzi no mums pat nesp\u0113j aptvert.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2021. gada Jap\u0101nas sp\u0113\u013cu laik\u0101 izplat\u012bj\u0101s baumas par olimpisk\u0101 ciemata seksa kult\u016bru. St\u0101sti par jaunie\u0161iem fiziski lab\u0101kajos gados, kuri beidzot sacens\u012bbu beig\u0101s cer uz ko vair\u0101k nek\u0101 tikai uz meda\u013cu. Vi\u0146u sasniegumi noveda pie primit\u012bv\u0101kas... atbr\u012bvo\u0161anas. Nav br\u012bnums, ka kop\u0161 1988. gada sportistiem tiek dal\u012bti prezervat\u012bvi (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.gqindia.com\/get-smart\/content\/history-of-sex-in-the-olympic-village\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">lasiet vair\u0101k par patieso iemeslu \u0161eit!<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101 var\u0113tu b\u016bt laba analo\u0123ija kristie\u0161iem, vai ne? Skrieniet savu skr\u0113jienu, piev\u0113rsiet savu skatienu J\u0113zum, un j\u016bs tiksiet apbalvoti ar super seksu\u0101lo dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne glu\u017ei. K\u0101 kristie\u0161iem, kas ir vienlaul\u012bgi, mums j\u0101atceras, ka sekss nav galven\u0101 balva. Tas nav kaut kas t\u0101ds, kas mums pien\u0101kas vai ko m\u0113s sa\u0146emam k\u0101 \"labi padar\u012bts\" par to, ka esam labi. Tas ar\u012b nenov\u0113r\u0161 attiec\u012bbas vai uzreiz nepadara laul\u012bbu veiksm\u012bgu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sekss ir d\u0101vana. T\u0101da, kuru ir v\u0113rts gaid\u012bt, jo t\u0101 ir teicis Dievs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir iemesls, k\u0101p\u0113c nav noteikumu gr\u0101matas par iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017e\u0101m. M\u0113s esam aicin\u0101ti staig\u0101t ar tic\u012bbu, nevis ar redzi. Uztic\u0113ties, ka tas, ko Dievs saka, ka tas ir lab\u0101kais, patie\u0161\u0101m ir lab\u0101kais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dievs v\u0113las, lai Vi\u0146a griba k\u013c\u016btu par m\u016bsu gribu. Gribu gaid\u012bt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101p\u0113c?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>K\u0101 tic\u012bbas z\u012bme <\/strong>- Es ticu, ka tas, ko Dievs saka, ir paties\u012bba.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>K\u0101 liec\u012bba pasaulei <\/strong>- Es ticu, ka ir v\u0113rts sekot Dievam un neklaus\u012bties \u0161aub\u0101s, kas valda m\u016bsu kult\u016br\u0101.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Lai godin\u0101tu savu (n\u0101kamo) laul\u0101to<\/strong> - Es esmu gatavs m\u012bl\u0113t tevi pat tad, ja nav seksa.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>K\u0101 d\u0101vana sev -<\/strong> Mans \u0137ermenis ir svar\u012bgs, un es esmu cien\u012bgs \u012bstas m\u012blest\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-things-that-help\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: K\u0101das lietas, kas pal\u012bdz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka daudziem vientu\u013cajiem kristie\u0161iem l\u0113mums gaid\u012bt ne vienm\u0113r ir viegls. Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai potenci\u0101lais laul\u0101tais ir vai nav pie apv\u0101r\u0161\u0146a.  Izv\u0113le b\u016bt paklaus\u012bgam Dieva nodomam par seksu laul\u012bb\u0101 neiztiek bez k\u0101rdin\u0101jumiem, vil\u0161an\u0101s vai apjukuma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kas pal\u012bdz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-setting-boundaries\"><strong>Robe\u017eu noteik\u0161ana<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Paties\u012bb\u0101 nosakiet robe\u017eas. To dar\u012bt, kam\u0113r esi br\u012bvs, ar\u012b ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi. Pavadiet laiku, l\u016bdzoties un ap\u0146emoties iev\u0113rot robe\u017eas, uz kur\u0101m j\u016bs j\u016btat, ka Dievs j\u016bs aicina.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas iev\u0113rojami atvieglos j\u016bsu sarunas attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Tas ar\u012b dos jums iesp\u0113ju s\u0101kt no kaut k\u0101, nevis no scen\u0101rija \"K\u0101 tev \u0161\u0137iet, kas ir vislab\u0101kais?\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-talking-about-it-nbsp\"><strong>Run\u0101jot par to&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristiet\u012bb\u0101 mums jau ir sare\u017e\u0123\u012bta kult\u016bra, kad runa ir par seksu. Ar to es gribu teikt - m\u0113s to dar\u0101m reti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Svar\u012bgi ir run\u0101t par intimit\u0101ti ar savu draudzeni\/draugu vai l\u012bgavaini. Ja v\u0113laties m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t iev\u0113rot savas robe\u017eas, ir svar\u012bgi b\u016bt god\u012bgiem un vienoties par t\u0101m. Nevairieties vai neatst\u0101jiet to p\u0101r\u0101k v\u0113lu. Ievainojam\u012bba, kas nepiecie\u0161ama \u0161\u0101d\u0101m sarun\u0101m, ir lielisks veids, k\u0101 veidot uztic\u012bbu un labu komunik\u0101ciju ar\u012b j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Daria run\u0101 par to, k\u0101 efekt\u012bvi pazi\u0146ot par sav\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QyOdTBXIMqM\">\u0161eit<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-having-accountability\"><strong>Atbild\u012bba<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Es nezinu, k\u0101 j\u016bs j\u016btaties, bet, ja man neb\u016btu ikned\u0113\u013cas B\u012bbeles studiju grupas, kur\u0101 es ietu, es noteikti maz\u0101k las\u012btu B\u012bbeli. Apzi\u0146a, ka man ir j\u0101par\u0101d\u0101s un j\u0101run\u0101 par k\u0101du Sv\u0113to Rakstu las\u012bjumu, mani motiv\u0113 dien\u0101s, kad es lab\u0101k negrib\u0113tu pavad\u012bt laiku, lasot daudz fragmentu. Atbild\u012bba pal\u012bdz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<br>Tas pats attiecas ar\u012b uz fiziskaj\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m m\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Uzaiciniet k\u0101du kristieti, kuram uzticaties, lai vi\u0146\u0161 ar jums aprun\u0101jas - vai tas b\u016btu k\u0101ds no draudzes vad\u012bbas, person\u012bgs draugs, \u0123imenes loceklis vai mentors.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-more-than-physical-boundaries\"><strong>Vair\u0101k nek\u0101 fizisk\u0101s robe\u017eas<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Dievs aicina m\u016bs b\u016bt \u0161\u0137\u012bstiem ne tikai ar savu \u0137ermeni, bet ar\u012b ar sav\u0101m dom\u0101m (sk. \u0161o <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/iekare-pret-pievilcibu\/\">Lust vs. Pievilc\u012bba Blogs<\/a>) un m\u016bsu emocijas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pa\u0161kontroles m\u0101c\u012b\u0161an\u0101s krist\u012bg\u0101s iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s neaprobe\u017eojas tikai ar seksu un intimit\u0101ti. Ir j\u0101aizsarg\u0101 ar\u012b m\u016bsu domas un j\u016btas. Pa\u0161kontroles praktiz\u0113\u0161ana un att\u012bst\u012b\u0161ana vis\u0101s \u0161aj\u0101s jom\u0101s sagatavo j\u016bs dz\u012bvei. Ar\u012b seksu\u0101laj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-cutting-to-the-chase\"><strong>P\u0101rejot pie lietas b\u016bt\u012bbas<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tagad j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, b\u016bsiet p\u0101rsteigti, lasot pamudin\u0101jumu kristie\u0161iem vienk\u0101r\u0161i apprec\u0113ties. \u0160\u0137iet, ka m\u016bsu reput\u0101cija ir pirms \u0161\u012bs domas. Tom\u0113r es dom\u0101ju, ka ir daudz p\u0101ru, kas izstiepj savu gaid\u012b\u0161anas laiku. Tam var\u0113tu b\u016bt vair\u0101ki iemesli.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Galu gal\u0101, jo ilg\u0101k jums j\u0101gaida, jo \u012bpa\u0161i, kad j\u016bs k\u0101 p\u0101ris k\u013c\u016bstat tuv\u0101ki, jo gr\u016bt\u0101k ir iev\u0113rot savas robe\u017eas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maz\u0101k uztraucieties par to, ko dom\u0101 vai saka citi cilv\u0113ki. Ja esi atradis dievbij\u012bgu cilv\u0113ku, kuru m\u012bli, un zini, ka gatavojies ar vi\u0146u prec\u0113ties - nav nek\u0101 slikta, ja run\u0101 uz priek\u0161u.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-accepting-the-imperfection\"><strong>Nepareiz\u012bbas pie\u0146em\u0161ana<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s varam kaut k\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 paklupt. Es l\u016bdzos, lai jums tas nenotiek. Es l\u016bdzos, lai Dievs j\u016bs pasarg\u0101 un piev\u0113r\u0161 j\u016bsu sirdi seko\u0161anai Vi\u0146am. Bet daudziem no mums tas var neb\u016bt (jau) perfekts ce\u013c\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pirms esi p\u0101r\u0101k bargs pret sevi, atceries, ka mums ir m\u012blo\u0161s Dievs, kur\u0161 \u0101tri piedod un pal\u012bdz mums s\u0101kt no jauna. Vair\u0101k par to t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"922\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg\" alt=\"p\u0101ris tuvojas\" class=\"wp-image-85\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-300x270.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-768x691.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1536x1382.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-2048x1843.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-unhelpful-substitutes\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: Neveiksm\u012bgi aizvietot\u0101ji<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad m\u0113s izv\u0113lamies noteikt fiziskas robe\u017eas, tiekoties, m\u0113s bie\u017ei varam mekl\u0113t alternat\u012bvas, lai aizpild\u012btu \"tuk\u0161umu\". L\u016bk, da\u017ei nelietder\u012bgi uzved\u012bbas veidi un attieksme, kas b\u016btu j\u0101\u0146em v\u0113r\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-playing-with-the-line-nbsp\"><strong>Sp\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s ar \"l\u012bniju&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nosakot sev robe\u017eas un p\u0113c tam pavadot laiku, kad tu trauc\u0113 vai pietuvojies \"robe\u017eai\", j\u016bs noved\u012bs pie cie\u0161an\u0101m un vainas apzi\u0146as. Da\u017eas god\u012bgas l\u016bg\u0161anas ar Dievu par to, k\u0101 tu j\u016bties, un l\u016bdz Vi\u0146u vad\u012bt tevi, lai tu sekotu Vi\u0146a ce\u013cam, nevis saviem impulsiem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-masturbation\"><strong>Masturb\u0101cija<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kult\u016br\u0101 masturb\u0101cija tiek uzskat\u012bta par vesel\u012bgu veidu, k\u0101 tikt gal\u0101 ar seksu\u0101laj\u0101m tieksm\u0113m. \u0100trs risin\u0101jums\", lai apmierin\u0101tu savas pamatvajadz\u012bbas, noteikti ir labs veids, k\u0101 m\u016bs notur\u0113t uz \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bbas ce\u013ca, vai ne?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vair\u0101k par to es run\u0101ju \u0161ajos divos emu\u0101ros: <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/dzimumtieksme\/\">Dzimumtieksme<\/a> k\u0101 vienu un <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lv\/iekare-pret-pievilcibu\/\">iek\u0101re pret pievilc\u012bbu<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u012as\u0101k sakot, masturb\u0101cija nor\u0101da uz t\u016bl\u012bt\u0113ju apmierin\u0101jumu un person\u012bgo labumu, kas kalpo indiv\u012bdam, nevis attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Tas nenost\u0101da m\u016bs priek\u0161\u0101 seksam laul\u012bb\u0101 vai m\u016bsu pa\u0161reiz\u0113jam attiec\u012bbu statusam. Atcerieties, ka \u012bsta m\u012blest\u012bba ir upur\u0113jo\u0161a, nevis savt\u012bga.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-or-never-talking-about-sex-sexual-desires-nbsp\"><strong>Vienm\u0113r vai nekad nerun\u0101 par seksu\/seksu\u0101l\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u012bdz\u012bgi k\u0101 Godlikam, kas \u0113d tr\u012bs l\u0101\u010du putru - \u0161eit ir labi pan\u0101kt l\u012bdzsvaru. P\u0101r\u0101k daudz seksa t\u0113rz\u0113\u0161anas parasti izraisa v\u0113l liel\u0101ku k\u0101rdin\u0101jumu. Nekad nerun\u0101\u0161ana mazina uztic\u0113\u0161anos un var izrais\u012bt kauna izj\u016btu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-others-voice-over-god-s-voice\"><strong>Citu balss p\u0101r Dieva balsi<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Mums ir j\u0101v\u0113las noteikt \u0161\u012bs robe\u017eas un j\u0101izv\u0113las \u0161\u0137\u012bst\u012bba no m\u012blest\u012bbas un paklaus\u012bbas Dievam. Ja m\u0113s to izv\u0113lamies, lai izpatiktu, p\u0101rliecin\u0101tu vai baid\u0101mies no citu cilv\u0113ku nosod\u012bjuma - m\u0113s nekad pie t\u0101 nepietur\u0113simies.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar\u012b citi cilv\u0113ki m\u016bs piev\u012bla. Atceros, k\u0101 uzzin\u0101ju, ka p\u0101rim, uz kuru es raudz\u012bjos, saderin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101 bija sekss. \u0160is atkl\u0101jums mani nedaudz sar\u016bgtin\u0101ja. Pat vi\u0146i negaid\u012bja...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom\u0113r Dievs m\u016bs nekad nepievils un Vi\u0146a apsol\u012bjumi ir patiesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Dievs nav cilv\u0113ks, lai melotu, nav cilv\u0113ks, lai main\u012btu savas domas. Vai Vi\u0146\u0161 run\u0101 un p\u0113c tam ner\u012bkojas? Vai vi\u0146\u0161 sola un neizpilda?<\/em><br>(4. Mozus 23:19)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pieiet sav\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m ar bij\u012bbu un bij\u012bbu pret Kungu, nevis pret cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-make-it-easy\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: Padariet to viegli<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir lietas, kas tikai atvieglo izvair\u012b\u0161anos no seksu\u0101la k\u0101rdin\u0101juma situ\u0101cij\u0101m. K\u0101d\u0113\u013c sev v\u0113l vair\u0101k apgr\u016btin\u0101t situ\u0101ciju? Cerams, ka \u0161ie padomi atvieglos da\u013cu no sloga, ko j\u016bs j\u016btat vai dom\u0101jat, un \u013caus sagaid\u012bt ar liel\u0101ku prieku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-wondering\"><strong>Vienm\u0113r br\u012bn\u012bjos<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja j\u016bs nep\u0101rtraukti jaut\u0101jat Dievam vai sev \"cik t\u0101lu ir p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu\", iesp\u0113jams, vajadz\u0113tu m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t main\u012bt savu dom\u0101\u0161anu. Noder\u012bgs risin\u0101jums var\u0113tu b\u016bt jaut\u0101jums:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai es varu dal\u012bties \u0161aj\u0101 intimit\u0101tes form\u0101 ar otru cilv\u0113ku un nejusties:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kauns?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It k\u0101 man b\u016btu j\u0101sl\u0113pj sava uzved\u012bba?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vai baid\u0101ties no t\u0101, ko Dievs var\u0113tu dom\u0101t?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas ir noder\u012bgi, lai pal\u012bdz\u0113tu mums p\u0101rbaud\u012bt savu sirdi un izv\u0113l\u0113ties t\u0101du uzved\u012bbu, kas godina Dievu, m\u016bs pa\u0161us un m\u016bsu partneri.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-prioritise-romance\"><strong>Dodiet priorit\u0101ti romantikai<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai dom\u0101tu par to, ko nevarat izdar\u012bt, padom\u0101jiet par to, ko varat izdar\u012bt. Iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir tik aizraujo\u0161s laiks, kad var apmald\u012bties jaunas m\u012blest\u012bbas priek\u0101 un sirdi ploso\u0161\u0101 romantik\u0101. Sap\u0146ojiet un pl\u0101nojiet, k\u0101 j\u016bs varat veicin\u0101t vair\u0101k romantikas sav\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Uzrakstiet m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stuli, nodziediet vi\u0146iem dziesmu, kop\u0101 v\u0113rojiet saulrietu. Izbaudiet, k\u0101 izdz\u012bvojat kli\u0161ejas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-curbing-temptations\"><strong>K\u0101rdin\u0101\u0161anas k\u0101rdin\u0101jumi<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017ereiz m\u0113s pa\u0161i sev padar\u0101m dz\u012bvi p\u0101r\u0101k k\u0101rdino\u0161u. Da\u017ei vienk\u0101r\u0161i so\u013ci k\u0101rdin\u0101jumu mazin\u0101\u0161anai var\u0113tu b\u016bt \u0161\u0101di.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Policijas stundas laika atjauno\u0161ana&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ilgsto\u0161a atra\u0161an\u0101s vienatn\u0113 (automa\u0161\u012bn\u0101, m\u0101j\u0101s, gult\u0101\/gu\u013camviet\u0101).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>noteikums \"bez seg\u0101m\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Robe\u017eas krist\u012bgajos randi\u0146os: no neprec\u0113tiem uz prec\u0113tiem\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/INPJFQnn8uY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: Prec\u0113tas laul\u012bbas attiec\u012bbas: neprec\u0113jies vs prec\u0113jies: neprec\u0113jies vs prec\u0113jies<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-what-if-it-s-too-late\">Kristie\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas: Ko dar\u012bt, ja ir par v\u0113lu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Es jau iepriek\u0161 par to run\u0101ju, jo zinu, ka t\u0101 ir daudzu cilv\u0113ku dz\u012bves pieredze. Iesp\u0113jams, m\u0113s esam aizg\u0101ju\u0161i p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu un br\u012bn\u0101mies, kur m\u0113s atrodamies Dieva priek\u0161\u0101.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai tagad ir j\u0113ga izv\u0113l\u0113ties robe\u017eas? Vai tas ietekm\u0113s manas turpm\u0101k\u0101s attiec\u012bbas? Vai Dievs ir dusm\u012bgs uz mani?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lab\u0101k\u0101 zi\u0146a ir t\u0101, ka ar J\u0113zu nekad nav par v\u0113lu. Vi\u0146\u0161 jau ir samaks\u0101jis cenu par m\u016bsu gr\u0113ku un kaunu un aicina m\u016bs sekot Vi\u0146am pat tad, kad m\u0113s k\u013c\u016bd\u0101mies.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dievs tevi m\u012bl, un neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai tava c\u012b\u0146a ir saist\u012bta ar seksu\u0101lo t\u012br\u012bbu vai ar ko citu, Vi\u0146\u0161 nav padevies, bet Vi\u0146am jau ir liels pl\u0101ns tev! Es atradu \u0161o <a href=\"https:\/\/joycemeyer.org\/everydayanswers\/ea-teachings\/its-never-too-late\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u012bss blog no Joyce Meyer liels iedro\u0161in\u0101jums<\/a> - Es ceru, ka tas sv\u0113t\u012bs ar\u012b j\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Nosl\u0113gsim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad es biju jauns pusaudzis, es kop\u0101 ar citiem krist\u012bgiem pusaud\u017eiem piedal\u012bjos \u013coti neliel\u0101 sapulc\u0113 k\u0101da cilv\u0113ka m\u0101j\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es nevaru atcer\u0113ties visu iemeslu, k\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s tur bij\u0101m. Es nevaru atcer\u0113ties neko daudz par pieaugu\u0161o, kur\u0161 vad\u012bja \u0161o sapulci. Tas, k\u0101 m\u0113s non\u0101c\u0101m pie t\u0113mas par seksu, man ir piln\u012bb\u0101 izpl\u016bdis no atmi\u0146as. Bet es skaidri k\u0101 dienu atceros \u0161\u012b krist\u012bg\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161a padomu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\"\u012astais cilv\u0113ks pagaid\u012bs. Ja vi\u0146i nav gatavi gaid\u012bt, vi\u0146i nav \u012bstais cilv\u0113ks.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad es iest\u0101jos krist\u012bgaj\u0101 iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pasaul\u0113, es atkl\u0101ju, ka izaicin\u0101jums ir ne tik daudz atrast \u012bsto cilv\u0113ku. Bet vair\u0101k par to, k\u0101 pa\u0161am k\u013c\u016bt par pareizo cilv\u0113ku...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Katram no mums ir iesp\u0113ja. Saska\u0146ot savu gribu ar Dieva gribu, spert so\u013cus, kas pal\u012bdz, nevis mekl\u0113t aizvietot\u0101jus, atteikties no k\u0101rdin\u0101jumiem atvieglot dz\u012bvi un teikt \"j\u0101\" jaunam s\u0101kumam, ko Dievs mums pied\u0101v\u0101 katru dienu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tajos jaut\u0101jums \"cik t\u0101lu ir p\u0101r\u0101k t\u0101lu\" b\u016bs t\u0101lu, un m\u0113s atrad\u012bsim br\u012bv\u012bbu m\u016bsu m\u012blo\u0161\u0101 Dieva maigaj\u0101 vad\u012bb\u0101. Lai j\u016bs atrodat dz\u012bves piepild\u012bjumu, dz\u012bvojot \u0161\u012bs iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s robe\u017eas sav\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Tas b\u016bs t\u0101 v\u0113rts!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mekl\u0113jat \u012bstu m\u012blest\u012bbu? Pievienojies <a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">SALT<\/a> \u0161odien!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christian dating boundaries are the thing we get asked about the most. How far is too far when it comes to physical and emotional boundaries? 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