{"id":3335,"date":"2026-06-04T12:22:43","date_gmt":"2026-06-04T12:22:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3335"},"modified":"2026-06-04T12:22:46","modified_gmt":"2026-06-04T12:22:46","slug":"atsitiktines-pazintys-kaip-krikscionys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/casual-dating-as-christians\/","title":{"rendered":"Atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys su krik\u0161\u010dionimis: Kaip to i\u0161vengti?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys tarp krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 - ar tai apskritai \u012fmanoma? Dar svarbiau, ar tai i\u0161mintinga? Manau, kad pirmiausia turime apibr\u0117\u017eti, kas yra atsitiktiniai pasimatymai. Paprastai dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 susitikin\u0117ja siekdami galutinio tikslo - santuokos. Jie nesiekia \u0161vaistyti savo ar kito asmens laiko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jei kas nors to nedaro, vadinasi, susitikin\u0117ja tik tam, kad susitikin\u0117t\u0173. Galvoje n\u0117ra galutinio tikslo. Jie arba susitikin\u0117ja i\u0161 vienatv\u0117s, arba i\u0161 nuobodulio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atsitiktiniai pasimatymai taip pat gali b\u016bti laikomi papras\u010diausiu pasimatymu, kai norima susipa\u017einti su prie\u0161ingos lyties atstovais. Pasimatymai tapo tokie sud\u0117tingi, kad dauguma vyr\u0173 ir moter\u0173 net nebe\u017eino, kaip susikalb\u0117ti. Tod\u0117l kai kurie renkasi pasimatymus vien tam, kad v\u0117l \u012fgyt\u0173 pasitik\u0117jimo savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar krik\u0161\u010dionys tur\u0117t\u0173 apskritai vengti atsitiktini\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Manau, kad viskas priklauso nuo motyv\u0173. Jei nesate pasireng\u0119s rimtiems santykiams, prane\u0161kite apie tai asmeniui, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117jate, kad jo l\u016bkes\u010diai b\u016bt\u0173 realisti\u0161ki. Jei susitikin\u0117jate d\u0117l nuobodulio arba nor\u0117dami \u017eaisti su \u017emoni\u0173 \u0161irdimis vien d\u0117l to, kad jums patinka d\u0117mesys, tai netinkamas motyvas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taigi ap\u017evelkime penkias prie\u017eastis, kod\u0117l atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys krik\u0161\u010dionims gali b\u016bti \u017ealingos j\u016bs\u0173 \u0117jimui su Kristumi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Atsitiktinumas supainioja ai\u0161kum\u0105<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Tai moko jus nusileisti<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Tai atitraukia d\u0117mes\u012f nuo tikslo<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Emociniai saitai vis dar jus sieja<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Ji blokuoja Dievo laik\u0105<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Nepamir\u0161kime, kad \u017emogus, s\u0117dintis prie\u0161ais jus per pasimatym\u0105, yra sukurtas pagal Dievo paveiksl\u0105. J\u0173 \u0161irdys neskirtos tam, kad b\u016bt\u0173 trypiamos ar jomis manipuliuojama. Ar nor\u0117tum\u0117te, kad su jumis b\u016bt\u0173 elgiamasi taip pat, jei vaidmenys pasikeist\u0173? K\u0105 daryti, jei kas nors neb\u016bt\u0173 rimtai nusiteik\u0119s j\u016bs\u0173 at\u017evilgiu, bet elgt\u0173si taip, tarsi b\u016bt\u0173 rimtai nusiteik\u0119s? B\u016bdami vieni\u0161i krik\u0161\u010dionys, geriau elkim\u0117s su kitais taip, kaip norime, kad su mumis elgt\u0173si - net ir per pasimatymus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. Atsitiktinumas supainioja ai\u0161kum\u0105<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Kas mes esame? Kur tai vyksta? Atsitiktiniai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pasimatymai retai atsako \u012f \u0161iuos klausimus. Vietoj to jie sukuria emocin\u0119 migl\u0105, kai viena \u0161irdis tikisi, o kita plaukia pasroviui. Dievo sukurtas meil\u0117s planas apima ai\u0161kum\u0105, o ne sumai\u0161t\u012f (1 Korintie\u010diams 14:33). J\u016bs nesate sukurti gyventi ne\u017einioje. Nesvarbu, ar jums 25, ar 55 metai, j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis nusipelno krypties. Viskas, kas jus pernelyg ilgai laiko ne\u017einioje, gali b\u016bti si\u0173sta ne Dievo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ai\u0161kumas svarbus, nes saugo j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f. Patarli\u0173 4:23 sakoma: \u201cVis\u0173 pirma, saugokite savo \u0161ird\u012f<\/a>, nes viskas, k\u0105 darote, kyla i\u0161 jo.\u201d Kai \u012f santykius \u017ei\u016brime atsitiktinai, galiausiai galime palikti savo \u0161irdies gabal\u0117lius \u017emon\u0117ms, kuriems niekada nebuvo lemta j\u0173 ne\u0161ioti. Ir kuo labiau supainiotos m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdys, tuo sunkiau tampa ai\u0161kiai i\u0161girsti Diev\u0105 apie tai, k\u0105 Jis i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 mums turi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Prisimenu paskutin\u012f vyr\u0105, su kuriuo bendravau prie\u0161 sutikdama savo vyr\u0105. Vienu metu jis man pasak\u0117, kad nenori bendrauti per atstum\u0105, nors mus skyr\u0117 tik keturiasde\u0161imt penkios minut\u0117s kelio. Vis d\u0117lto kelis m\u0117nesius jis mane viliojo, priversdamas manyti, kad tarp m\u016bs\u0173 yra ka\u017ekas perspektyvaus. D\u0117l to a\u0161 tik sutrikau, tarsi b\u016b\u010diau \u012fstrigusi aklaviet\u0117je. \u017dvelgdama atgal, tur\u0117jau nustatyti ai\u0161kias ribas ir pripa\u017einti, kad nesveika vesti emocij\u0173 kupinus pokalbius, kai jis nemat\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 ateities. Vietoj to leidau savo jausmams u\u017ego\u017eti mano sprendim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tik tada, kai galiausiai pri\u0117miau sprendim\u0105 visi\u0161kai nutraukti ry\u0161ius, gal\u0117jau jud\u0117ti \u012f priek\u012f ir \u017eengti \u012f tai, k\u0105 Dievas man buvo paruo\u0161\u0119s. Daugelis krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 viengungi\u0173 stengiasi prane\u0161ti kitam asmeniui apie tai, k\u0105 jau\u010dia, ta\u010diau visada geriau atvirai pasakyti, kur esate ir kur, j\u016bs\u0173 manymu, viskas krypsta. Kai kurie nusprend\u017eia i\u0161saugoti vilt\u012f, nes gauna nevienareik\u0161mi\u0161k\u0173 signal\u0173. Tai taip pat n\u0117ra s\u0105\u017eininga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kod\u0117l? Tod\u0117l, kad papras\u010diausiai vedate juos \u012f priek\u012f, o tai tik pablogina situacij\u0105. N\u0117ra nieko skaudesnio, kaip suvokti, kad j\u016bs esate visi\u0161koje \u012ftampoje, o kitas \u017emogus - ne. Pokalbis gali b\u016bti nelengvas, bet jie bent jau labiau gerbs jus u\u017e tai, kad esate s\u0105\u017einingas, o ne vilkinate reikalus ir slepiate ties\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    2. Tai moko jus nusileisti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Kuo daugiau pramogaujate su \u201ckol kas\u201d \u017emon\u0117mis, tuo sunkiau laukti \u201cDievo si\u0173st\u0173\u201d. Atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys kaip krik\u0161\u010dionims gali suma\u017einti j\u016bs\u0173 standartus po vien\u0105 ma\u017e\u0105 kompromis\u0105. Tai, kas prasideda nuo \u201ctai tik kava\u201d, gali virsti m\u0117nesiais i\u0161\u0161vaistytos energijos. O kai tai baigsis, j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis bus pavargusi, o dvasia nusivylusi. D\u0117l to, kas geriausia Dievui, nereikia nusileisti - reikia atsiduoti. Neleiskite atsitiktinumui i\u0161mokyti j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f priimti trupinius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nusistov\u0117jimas ne\u012fvyksta per nakt\u012f. Tai \u012fvyksta pama\u017eu, kai pradedate pateisinti elges\u012f, kuris, kaip \u017einote, n\u0117ra sveikas. Kai ignoruoti raudonas v\u0117liavas<\/a> nes bent jau \u201cturite k\u0105 nors\u201d. Taip nutinka, kai nuolaid\u017eiaujate savo standartams vien tam, kad i\u0161vengtum\u0117te vienatv\u0117s. Prisimenu krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 grup\u0117s \u201cCasting Crowns\u201d dain\u0105 \u201cSlow Fade\u201d. Vienoje i\u0161 dainos eilu\u010di\u0173 sakoma: \"\u017dmon\u0117s niekada nesubyra per vien\u0105 dien\u0105. Tai l\u0117tas nykimas. Tai l\u0117tas nykimas, kai atiduodi save. Bus sumok\u0117ta kaina\".\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kai taip susikoncentruojate \u012f savo norus ir poreikius, nepastebite, kas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 vyksta prie\u0161ais jus, arba, jei esate tas, kuris veda \u017emog\u0173 \u012f priek\u012f, papras\u010diausiai matote j\u012f kaip pramogos \u0161altin\u012f. Klausiausi podkasto epizodo, kuriame kalb\u0117josi vyras ir \u017emona Prestonas Peris (Preston Perry) ir D\u017eek\u0117 Hil Peris (Jackie Hill Perry). Prestonas pasidalijo, kad dauguma jo pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 vyr\u0173, kurie jau seniai gal\u0117jo b\u016bti ved\u0119, nenor\u0117jo \u012fsipareigoti vien tod\u0117l, kad jiems patiko d\u0117mesys, kur\u012f jie gaudavo i\u0161 keli\u0173 moter\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Daugiau moter\u0173 nei vyr\u0173<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Ne paslaptis, kad moter\u0173 planetoje yra daugiau nei vyr\u0173. Dauguma vyr\u0173 tai \u017eino ir, deja, kai kurie tai i\u0161naudoja savo naudai, laikydami save prizu ir tik\u0117damiesi, kad moterys d\u0117l j\u0173 var\u017eysis. Tai \u017eemi\u0161kas ir k\u016bni\u0161kas m\u0105stymas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jei susitikin\u0117jate tik tam, kad sulauktum\u0117te prie\u0161ingos lyties atstov\u0173 d\u0117mesio ir jaustum\u0117t\u0117s pripa\u017eintas, tai yra klaidingas motyvas ir turite atgailauti. Mes turime reikal\u0105 su \u017emoni\u0173 \u0161irdimis, ir Dievas lengvab\u016bdi\u0161kai ne\u017ei\u016bri \u012f \u017eaidim\u0105 su savo s\u016bn\u0173 ar dukter\u0173 \u0161irdimis. Galb\u016bt i\u0161 karto nesusidursite su pasekm\u0117mis, ta\u010diau toks elgesys visada turi pasekmi\u0173. Susitikin\u0117kite s\u0105\u017einingai ir dorai. Tai geriausias b\u016bdas ir tas, kuris ilgainiui pagerbia Diev\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0160tai tiesa: Dievas niekada j\u016bs\u0173 nepaskambino, kad apsistotum\u0117te. Efezie\u010diams 3, 20 mums primena, kad Dievas \u201cgali padaryti nei\u0161matuojamai daugiau, negu mes pra\u0161ome ar \u012fsivaizduojame\u201d. Tai apima ir j\u016bs\u0173 santykius. Jei kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys dalyvaujate atsitiktiniuose pasimatymuose, rizikuojate i\u0161mokyti savo \u0161ird\u012f priimti ma\u017eiau nei geriausia, k\u0105 Dievas si\u016blo. O kai j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis i\u0161moksta nusileisti, daug sunkiau v\u0117l pakilti iki standarto, kurio Dievas jums trok\u0161ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    3. Tai atitraukia d\u0117mes\u012f nuo tikslo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    J\u016bs\u0173 laikas, energija ir emocijos yra brang\u016bs. Kai atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys atitraukia j\u016bs\u0173 d\u0117mes\u012f, da\u017enai nuken\u010dia j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u0161aukimas. Tas ne vis\u0105 darbo dien\u0105 trunkantis i\u0161sibla\u0161kymas gali atitolinti vis\u0105 darbo dien\u0105 trunkant\u012f tiksl\u0105. Pradedate ma\u017eiau melstis, planuoti ir svajoti, nes \u012fsisukate \u012f \u201ckas mes esame?\u201d ciklus. Dievas nepakviet\u0117 tav\u0119s nuolat apdoroti sumai\u0161ties - Jis pa\u0161auk\u0117 tave ramybei. Santykiai su Juo priartins jus prie j\u016bs\u0173 u\u017eduoties, o ne atitrauks nuo jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad visi santykiai bla\u0161ko d\u0117mes\u012f. Dievobaimingi santykiai tur\u0117t\u0173 jus paa\u0161trinti, kelti jums i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius ir pad\u0117ti dar labiau siekti Dievo. Ta\u010diau atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys krik\u0161\u010dionims d\u0117l kryptingumo ir tikslingumo stokos linkusios daugiau atimti nei duoti. Jos jus emoci\u0161kai i\u0161sunkia, nesuteikdamos tikro partneryst\u0117s ar augimo jausmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kai esate i\u0161sibla\u0161k\u0119s<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Kai esate i\u0161sibla\u0161k\u0119s, sunkiau eiti savo tikslu. O kai nevaik\u0161\u010diojate pagal savo tiksl\u0105, negalite geriausiai atpa\u017einti tinkamo \u017emogaus, kai jis atsiranda. Ar kada nors mat\u0117te \u017emog\u0173, kuris b\u0117ga lenktyn\u0117se ir \u017ei\u016bri tik \u012f nuo\u0161al\u0119? Jei per ilgai \u017ei\u016br\u0117s \u012f nuo\u0161al\u0119, arba suklups ant savo koj\u0173, arba \u012fb\u0117gs \u012f kieno nors kito eismo juost\u0105 ir privers visus kitus nukristi. Dievas pa\u0161auk\u0117 mus b\u0117gti savo lenktynes. Nors santuoka yra gra\u017ei dovana, ji n\u0117ra galutinis gyvenimo tikslas. Dievas reikalaus i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 atsakomyb\u0117s u\u017e tai, kad u\u017ebaigtume misij\u0105, kuriai Jis mus pa\u0161auk\u0117, per tuos metus, kuriuos Jis mums dav\u0117 \u010dia, \u017eem\u0117je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Taigi, jei esate pasimatym\u0173 aplinkoje, kuri, kaip \u017einote, bla\u0161ko j\u016bs\u0173 d\u0117mes\u012f, turite nuo jos pasitraukti. Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 grup\u0117se da\u017enai gird\u017eiu vyr\u0173 ir moter\u0173 klausimus, kuriuose jie klausia, k\u0105 tur\u0117t\u0173 daryti d\u0117l pasimatym\u0173, nors giliai \u0161irdyje jie jau \u017eino atsakym\u0105. Jie \u017eino, kad santykiai niekur neveda, kad jie bla\u0161ko d\u0117mes\u012f arba kad \u0161is asmuo neatitinka j\u0173 interes\u0173. N\u0117ra jokios problemos pra\u0161yti tikin\u010di\u0173j\u0173 koleg\u0173 patarimo, ta\u010diau giliai \u0161irdyje jie jau \u017eino, k\u0105 daryti. Jei \u017einote, k\u0105 daryti, eikite pirmyn, veikite pagal tai ir b\u016bkite paklusn\u016bs - tik\u0117dami, kad Dievas laiku jums atlygins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    4. Emociniai saitai vis dar jus sieja<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Net ir be sekso galite u\u017emegzti sielos ry\u0161ius. Emociniai ry\u0161iai, pokalbiai v\u0117lai vakare ir \u201ctiesiog vibruojan\u010dios\u201d akimirkos i\u0161lieka. O kai tai baigiasi? J\u016bs liekate tvarkyti emocin\u0119 netvark\u0105, kurios Dievas jums niekada nesak\u0117 ne\u0161iotis. Saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f rei\u0161kia ne tik fizines ribas - tai rei\u0161kia ir emocin\u0119 drausm\u0119. Neleiskite savo \u0161ird\u017eiai pratintis prisiri\u0161ti prie to, ko jai niekada nebuvo skirta saugoti. Kiekvienas ry\u0161ys palieka p\u0117dsakus. \u012esitikinkite, kad jis yra i\u0161 Dievo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Krik\u0161\u010dionims tai ypa\u010d svarbu, nes emociniai ry\u0161iai gali paveikti j\u016bs\u0173 dvasin\u012f keli\u0105. Jie gali drumsti j\u016bs\u0173 prot\u0105, i\u0161bla\u0161kyti j\u016bs\u0173 maldas ir net sukelti kalt\u0117s ar g\u0117dos jausm\u0105. Kai dal\u012f sav\u0119s emoci\u0161kai atiduodate keliems \u017emon\u0117ms, tampa sunkiau \u012f\u017eengti \u012f b\u016bsimus santykius visi\u0161kai sveikam ir pasirengusiam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Atsitiktiniai pasimatymai moko, kaip lengvai elgtis su emocijomis, ta\u010diau emocijos n\u0117ra lengvos. Dievas dav\u0117 mums emocijas kaip b\u016bd\u0105 u\u017emegzti gil\u0173, o ne pavir\u0161utini\u0161k\u0105 ry\u0161\u012f. Nuolat kurdami ir nutraukdami \u0161iuos ry\u0161ius, susikraunate baga\u017e\u0105, kur\u012f galiausiai teks i\u0161pakuoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Prisimenu, kaip gird\u0117jau pastori\u0173 Jerry Flowers\u0105 sakant: \u201cTavo \u0161irdis netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti kieno nors kito bandym\u0173 poligonas.\u201d Lygiai taip pat ir j\u016bs netur\u0117tum\u0117te naudotis kieno nors kito \u0161irdimi bandymams ar bandymams. Visi esame sukurti pagal Dievo paveiksl\u0105, ir Jis mus laiko vertingais ir vertais meil\u0117s. Jei teigiame esantys tikintieji, esame pa\u0161aukti su kitais elgtis taip pat - su meile ir pagarba. Emocijos yra galingos, tod\u0117l nesusid\u0117kite su kuo nors, jei j\u016bs\u0173 ketinimai n\u0117ra nuo\u0161ird\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    5. Ji blokuoja Dievo laik\u0105<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Kartais v\u0117lavim\u0105 lemia ne Dievas, o j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 apva\u017eiavimas. Jei pramogaujate su klastote, ant j\u016bs\u0173 likimo u\u017ededamas \u017eenklas \u201cNetrukdyti\u201d. Dievas gali b\u016bti pasiruo\u0161\u0119s jud\u0117ti, bet j\u016bs vis dar esate susipyk\u0119 su \u017emogumi, kuriam niekada nebuvo lemta pasilikti. Atminkite: Dievas n\u0117ra l\u0117tas - Jis yra strateginis. Ta\u010diau j\u016bs turite b\u016bti pasiekiami. Neleiskite, kad atsitiktin\u0117 situacija pavogt\u0173 laiko tam vieninteliam dalykui, u\u017e kur\u012f meld\u017eiat\u0117s: tikra, Diev\u0105 gerbianti meil\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Izaijo 55:8-9 sakoma: \u201cNes mano mintys n\u0117ra j\u016bs\u0173 mintys ir j\u016bs\u0173 keliai n\u0117ra mano keliai, skelbia Vie\u0161pats.\u201d Dievo laikas yra tobulas, bet jei esate \u012fsipainioj\u0119 \u012f ka\u017ek\u0105 atsitiktinio, galite u\u017edelsti ar net praleisti tai, k\u0105 Jis nori jums duoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pasitik\u0117jimas Dievo laiku<\/a> rei\u0161kia nor\u0105 atsisakyti to, kas \u0161iuo metu yra gerai, d\u0117l to, kas geriausia ilgalaik\u0117je perspektyvoje. Tai rei\u0161kia b\u016bti kantriam, net kai u\u017eklumpa vienatv\u0117. Galb\u016bt pasakyti \u201cne\u201d i\u0161sibla\u0161kymui, kad gal\u0117tum pasakyti \"taip\" likimui. Galb\u016bt skamba banaliai: \"Pasitik\u0117ti Dievo laiku\", bet nieko negali b\u016bti tikresnio. Dievas tiksliai \u017eino, kada \u012f j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 atvesti tinkam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. Tai gali \u012fvykti \u0161iais metais arba po de\u0161imties met\u0173. Ne m\u016bs\u0173 u\u017eduotis \u017einoti Dievo plano laik\u0105 - to niekada iki galo nesuprasime. M\u016bs\u0173 darbas - tarnauti ir likti i\u0161tikimiems ten, kur esame, pasitikint, kad Jis ra\u0161o mums tobul\u0105 istorij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I\u0161likite i\u0161tikimi laukimo metu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    \u017dinau, kad tai n\u0117ra lengva, ir tikriausiai tod\u0117l daugelis krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 svarsto apie atsitiktines pa\u017eintis - tiesiog nor\u0117dami b\u016bti su kuo nors \u0161alia. Ta\u010diau jei susitikin\u0117jate tik tam, kad pramogautum\u0117te ar pab\u0117gtum\u0117te nuo nuobodulio, tai n\u0117ra tinkamas motyvas. Jei pasteb\u0117jote, kad taip elgiat\u0117s, kreipkit\u0117s \u012f Vie\u0161pat\u012f ir papra\u0161ykite, kad Jis i\u0161tirt\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f. Leiskite Jam atskleisti prie\u017easties \u0161aknis ir pakeisti savo tro\u0161kimus. Ra\u0161tai mums primena, kad visa, k\u0105 darome, tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti skirta Dievo garbei. Daugelis i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 nemano, kad tai apima pasimatymus, ta\u010diau net ir santykiuose viskas, k\u0105 darome, galiausiai tur\u0117t\u0173 daryti Jo garbei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Taigi, ar krik\u0161\u010dionys tur\u0117t\u0173 vengti atsitiktini\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Galiausiai taip - atsitiktiniai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pasimatymai da\u017enai padaro daugiau \u017ealos nei naudos. Jos supainioja ai\u0161kum\u0105, moko nusistov\u0117ti, atitraukia nuo tikslo, sukuria emocinius ry\u0161ius ir gali u\u017eblokuoti Dievo laik\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ta\u010diau \u010dia kalbama ne apie legalizm\u0105 ar taisykli\u0173 laikym\u0105si. Tai susij\u0119 su j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdimi. Kalbama apie tai, kaip elgtis i\u0161mintingai ir saugoti meil\u0117s dovan\u0105, kuri\u0105 Dievas \u012fd\u0117jo \u012f jus. Jei nesate pasiruo\u0161\u0119s rimtiems santykiams, viskas gerai - priimkite savo vienatv\u0119. I\u0161naudokite \u0161\u012f laik\u0105 augti, gydytis ir ruo\u0161tis. Ne\u0161vaistykite jo santykiams, kurie veda tik \u012f sumai\u0161t\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    O jei esate pasireng\u0119 santykiams, ie\u0161kokite j\u0173 maldoje. B\u016bkite s\u0105\u017einingi d\u0117l savo ketinim\u0173. Ie\u0161kokite \u017emogaus, kuris dalijasi j\u016bs\u0173 tik\u0117jimu ir vertyb\u0117mis. Labiausiai pasitik\u0117kite Dievu, kad jis atves tinkam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 tinkamu laiku. Pasimatymai neturi b\u016bti sud\u0117tingi ir neturi b\u016bti atsitiktiniai. Kai data su ai\u0161kumu<\/a>, tikslas ir Dievas centre, rasite ramyb\u0119 \u0161iame procese - net prie\u0161 ateinant pa\u017eadui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Da\u017enai u\u017eduodami klausimai<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Ar atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys yra krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 nuod\u0117m\u0117?<\/strong> Biblijoje nevartojama fraz\u0117 \u201catsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys\u201d, ta\u010diau \u0160ventajame Ra\u0161te ai\u0161kiai sakoma, kad reikia saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f (Patarli\u0173 4:23), garbingai elgtis su kitais ir siekti s\u0105\u017eining\u0173 santyki\u0173. Ar atsitiktin\u0117s pa\u017eintys krik\u0161\u010dionims yra per\u017eengiama riba, priklauso nuo motyv\u0173, ta\u010diau d\u0117l painiavos, emocinio susipainiojimo ir atitraukimo nuo tikslo dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 tur\u0117t\u0173 j\u0173 vengti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ar krik\u0161\u010dionys gali susitikin\u0117ti be \u012fsipareigojim\u0173?<\/strong> Krik\u0161\u010dionys gali eiti \u012f pasimatymus i\u0161 karto ne\u012fsipareigodami santykiams, ta\u010diau pasimatymai be jokio ketinimo ar krypties gali padaryti daugiau \u017ealos nei naudos - abiem dalyvaujantiems \u017emon\u0117ms. Atsitiktiniai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pasimatymai da\u017enai sukelia emocin\u012f baga\u017e\u0105, d\u0117l kurio sunkiau u\u017emegzti santykius, kuriuos Dievas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 jums yra numat\u0119s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    K\u0105 Biblija sako apie atsitiktinius pasimatymus?<\/strong> Biblijoje tiesiogiai apie pasimatymus nekalbama, ta\u010diau tokie principai kaip saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f, myl\u0117ti kitus kaip save ir b\u0117gti i\u0161 situacij\u0173, kurios pa\u017eeid\u017eia j\u016bs\u0173 vientisum\u0105, galioja. Krik\u0161\u010dionims kyla klausimas ne tik \u201car tai leistina?\u201d, bet ir \u201car tai yra garb\u0117 Dievui ir asmeniui, su kuriuo esu?\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    pasiruo\u0161\u0119 per\u017eengti atsitiktini\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 ribas kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys ir rasti tikr\u0105, s\u0105moning\u0105 ry\u0161\u012f.<\/a>? Atsisi\u0173skite SALT program\u0117l\u0119 dar \u0161iandien!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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