{"id":3159,"date":"2026-01-29T11:03:41","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T11:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3159"},"modified":"2026-01-29T11:03:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-29T11:03:42","slug":"krikscionys-tuokiasi-per-greitai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/christians-get-married-too-fast\/","title":{"rendered":"Krik\u0161\u010dionys tuokiasi per greitai!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 tikisi susituokti iki trisde\u0161imties met\u0173. Net kai kurie jaunesni dvide\u0161imtme\u010diai krik\u0161\u010dionys galvoja, kad ka\u017ekas negerai, jei jie nesusituok\u0117 b\u016bdami dvide\u0161imt penkeri\u0173. I\u0161 kur mums tokie terminai? Kas sak\u0117, kad yra ka\u017ekoks galiojimo laikas susituokti arba kad per\u017eengus penkiasde\u0161imties met\u0173 rib\u0105 jau per v\u0117lu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip su\u017einoti, ar skubate prie altoriaus? \u0160tai keli b\u016bdai, kaip tai nustatyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-1-you-re-ignoring-red-flags\">1. Ignoruojate raudon\u0105sias v\u0117liavas<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-2-you-confuse-chemistry-with-calling\">2. Painiojate chemij\u0105 su skambinimu<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-3-you-re-spiritually-guilt-tripped\">3. Esate dvasi\u0161kai kaltas.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-4-you-don-t-know-their-fruit\">4. J\u016bs nepa\u017e\u012fstate j\u0173 vaisi\u0173<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#h-5-god-s-peace-is-missing\">5. Tr\u016bksta Dievo ramyb\u0117s<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad prie\u0161 santuok\u0105 tur\u0117site visk\u0105 i\u0161siai\u0161kinti, ta\u010diau \u012f \u0161\u012f proces\u0105 tur\u0117tum\u0117te \u012ftraukti Diev\u0105. Jis \u017eino, kas jums tinka, tod\u0117l neignoruokite nerimo, kur\u012f galite jausti savo dvasioje. Jei Jis ai\u0161kiai sako: \u201cTai ne man; tai ne mano valia\u201d, neignoruokite to, manydami, kad galite pakeisti kit\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. Tik Dievas gali pakeisti \u017emogaus \u0161ird\u012f, tod\u0117l netik\u0117kite melu, kad esate i\u0161imtis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ar krik\u0161\u010dionys tuokiasi per greitai?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/M9Jb1GD8lOU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">\u012evadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Manau, kad krik\u0161\u010dionys tiki, jog jiems reikia greitai susituokti, ir tai yra keli\u0173 dalyk\u0173 derinys. Dauguma ba\u017eny\u010di\u0173 santuok\u0105 laiko \u201cviskuo, kas turi b\u016bti\u201d, tod\u0117l dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 viengungi\u0173 jau\u010diasi atstumti arba tarsi sirgt\u0173 nepagydoma liga. Priklausomai nuo to, kurioje pasaulio vietoje gyvenate, visuomen\u0117je santuoka skamba kaip kitas gyvenimo \u017eingsnis. J\u016bs einate \u012f mokykl\u0105, darote karjer\u0105, tuokiat\u0117s ir susilaukiate vaik\u0173. \u012e santuok\u0105 tiesiog \u017ei\u016brima kaip \u012f gyvenimo dal\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt u\u017eaugote kult\u016broje, kurioje santuoka yra vertinama, tod\u0117l jau\u010diate \u0161eimos nari\u0173 spaudim\u0105. Norite tik\u0117ti, kad jie nori gero, bet neken\u010diate gr\u012f\u017eti namo per \u0161ventes vienas, nes jau \u017einote, kad tarp mamos ir tet\u0173 kas nors paklaus: \u201cAr tu su kuo nors susitikin\u0117ji? Tau reikia paskub\u0117ti.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieni\u0161os krik\u0161\u010dion\u0117s moterys jau\u010dia spaudim\u0105, nes dauguma j\u0173 nori tapti motinomis ir mano, kad turi tai padaryti, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 susilaukti vaik\u0173. Nesakau, kad Dievas nori, jog kiekviena moteris susilaukt\u0173 k\u016bdikio po trisde\u0161imt penkeri\u0173 ar net keturiasde\u0161imties met\u0173, ta\u010diau ma\u010diau, kaip Dievas laimina vyresnio am\u017eiaus moteris su sveikais k\u016bdikiais. Galb\u016bt tai nebuvo tai, ko jos tik\u0117josi, bet jos n\u0117 u\u017e k\u0105 nekeist\u0173 savo vaiko, net jei d\u0117l to reik\u0117t\u0173 palaukti \u0161iek tiek ilgiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deja, visi \u0161ie i\u0161oriniai ir net vidiniai spaudimai paskatino daugum\u0105 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 priimti neapgalvotus sprendimus. Jie skuba i\u0161tarti \u201ctaip\u201d, kad patekt\u0173 \u012f santuok\u0105, kurios Dievas niekada nenumat\u0117. Dalyvauju jaunaved\u017ei\u0173 Facebook grup\u0117je ir negaliu apsakyti istorij\u0173, kuriomis dalijosi paskubomis i\u0161tek\u0117jusios moterys. Dabar joms gresia skyrybos, kurios, kaip visi \u017einome, yra pra\u017e\u016btingos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-you-re-ignoring-red-flags\">1. Ignoruojate raudon\u0105sias v\u0117liavas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs tai matote, bet nenorite to matyti. Galb\u016bt jie atmeta j\u016bs\u0173 \u012fsitikinimus, nesilaiko to, k\u0105 sako, arba rodo kontrol\u0117s ar nenuoseklumo blyksnius, bet j\u016bs tai nu\u0161luostote. Sakote sau: \u201cNiekas n\u0117ra tobulas\u201d arba \u201cDievas gali juos pakeisti\u201d. Taip, Jis gali - bet j\u016bs nesate \u0160ventoji Dvasia, o santuoka nei\u0161taiso disfunkcijos. Ji j\u0105 padidina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei j\u016bs\u0173 \u017earnynas nerimsta ir jums vis tenka nutildyti savo diskomfort\u0105, sul\u0117tinkite temp\u0105. Raudonos v\u0117liav\u0117l\u0117s n\u0117ra tik \u012fsp\u0117jimai. Jos kvie\u010dia sustoti ir melstis. Neatmeskite \u012fsp\u0117jam\u0173j\u0173 \u017eenkl\u0173 tik tod\u0117l, kad norite, jog istorija vykt\u0173 grei\u010diau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paauglyst\u0117je maniau, kad jei susitikin\u0117jau su vaikinu ba\u017eny\u010dioje, tai buvo viskas, ko reik\u0117jo. Klydau. Daugelis vaikin\u0173, su kuriais susitikin\u0117jau, papras\u010diausiai atlikdavo judesius, bet jie nebuvo atsidav\u0119 Dievui. Didysis i\u0161bandymas buvo, kai reik\u0117jo u\u017esiimti ikivedybiniais lytiniais santykiais, ir daugelis j\u0173 nemat\u0117 tame nieko blogo. A\u0161 taip pat, tod\u0117l giliai \u0161irdyje \u017einojau, kad tai nepad\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai sutikau savo vyr\u0105, jis jau buvo pasiry\u017e\u0119s gyventi tyrai. Jis vadovavo \u0161ioje srityje, tod\u0117l man nereik\u0117jo ai\u0161kinti savo rib\u0173. Tai ir yra skirtumas. Norite \u017emogaus, kuris jau s\u0105moningai vaik\u0161to su Vie\u0161pa\u010diu. Jis nebraukia dalyk\u0173 i\u0161 savo religini\u0173 darb\u0173 s\u0105ra\u0161o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ignoring-red-flags\">Raudon\u0173 v\u0117liav\u0173 ignoravimas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai kod\u0117l ignoruoti raudonas v\u0117liav\u0117les yra labai pavojinga. Nes da\u017eniausiai tai, k\u0105 i\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 bandote pateisinti, laikui b\u0117gant tampa vis garsiau girdima. Kai kieno nors gyvenimo b\u016bdas prie\u0161tarauja \u012fsitikinimams, kuriais remiat\u0117s kurdami savo gyvenim\u0105, jis \u201csavaime nei\u0161sispr\u0119s\u201d po to, kai pasakysite \u201ctaip\u201d. J\u012f tik dar sunkiau ne\u0161ti. \u017dmon\u0117s netampa stebuklingai dievobaimingi, nuosekl\u016bs ar brand\u016bs d\u0117l to, kad susituok\u0117. Santuoka nekei\u010dia charakterio - ji j\u012f atskleid\u017eia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kartais sunkiausia yra ne pasteb\u0117ti <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/raudonos-veliavos\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"147\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">raudona v\u0117liava<\/a>. Tai pripa\u017einimas, kad tai ka\u017ek\u0105 rei\u0161kia. Ta\u010diau Dievas nesiekia sugriauti j\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117s istorijos - Jis stengiasi j\u0105 apsaugoti. Jo \u201cne\u201d arba \u201cdar ne\u201d n\u0117ra bausm\u0117. Tai saugumas, tai gailestingumas. Tai Jis apsaugo jus nuo b\u016bsimos sav\u0119s versijos, kai nor\u0117site, kad b\u016btum\u0117te paklaus\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Raudonos v\u0117liavos neatima i\u0161 \u017emogaus Dievo meil\u0117s, bet gali atimti galimyb\u0119 vesti jus \u012f sandoros santykius. Atkreipkite d\u0117mes\u012f. Ignoruoti tai, k\u0105 Dievas jums rodo, niekada nesibaigia gerai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-confuse-chemistry-with-calling\">2. Painiojate chemij\u0105 su skambinimu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai, kad yra kibirk\u0161tis, dar nerei\u0161kia, kad yra ateitis. Magnetin\u0117 trauka, bendras garbinimo grojara\u0161tis, mieli vidiniai juokeliai - tai puiku. Ta\u010diau chemija be charakterio - tai tik laukianti avarija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas ne tik suporuoja \u017emones pagal aistr\u0105. Jis suderina tiksl\u0105. Ar j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimai nukreipti ta pa\u010dia kryptimi, kai niekas nemato? Ar j\u016bs\u0173 ry\u0161ys turi pa\u0161aukimo svor\u012f, ar tik suderinamumo \u0161ilum\u0105? Santuokai reikia daugiau nei vibracijos. Jai reikia vizijos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-0\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pa\u017eindama savo vyr\u0105 \u017einojau, kad mes kartu dirbsime tam tikra forma, kad patiktume Dievui. Dabar mes dirbame vienas \u0161alia kito tarnaudami, vadovaudami m\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dios podkastui. Diskutuodami apie Ra\u0161tus, mes dirbame komandoje, ir a\u0161 matau, kaip Dievas veikia per m\u016bs\u0173 santuok\u0105, kad palaimint\u0173 kitus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar mums smagu? Taip, vienas m\u0117gstamiausi\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 u\u017esi\u0117mim\u0173 kartu - \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti dokumentinius filmus arba kvailus filmukus \"Facebook\". Tai m\u016bs\u0173 santuokos dalis, bet ne pagrindas. Kai prad\u0117jome kalb\u0117tis, prad\u0117jome nuo savo tik\u0117jimo ir Dievo \u017eod\u017eio. Nuo to viskas peraugo i\u0161 dvasinio \u012f emocin\u012f ry\u0161\u012f. Kai Dievas tai padarys, j\u016bs \u017einosite, nes viskas vyks palaipsniui ir sveiku tempu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tempted-to-rush\">Pagunda skub\u0117ti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cia krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai da\u017enai panikuoja. Jie sutinka \u017emog\u0173, pajunta kibirk\u0161t\u012f ir staiga pagalvoja: \u201cTai turi b\u016bti Dievas.\u201d Ta\u010diau emocijos gali b\u016bti garsios. Trauka gali b\u016bti stipri. Chemija gali u\u017etemdyti ai\u0161kum\u0105, jei nesustosite pakankamai ilgai, kad patikrintum\u0117te po ja slypint\u012f dvasin\u012f pagrind\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chemija yra paprasta. Nereikia \u012f\u017evalgumo, kad m\u0117gautumeisi kieno nors asmenybe, juoktumeisi i\u0161 jo pok\u0161t\u0173 ar jaustumeisi prie jo prisiri\u0161\u0119s. Ta\u010diau pa\u0161aukimui reikia laiko. Pa\u0161aukimas atskleid\u017eia, kaip atrodys j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimas po penkeri\u0173, de\u0161imties, dvide\u0161imties met\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Skambinant u\u017eduodami tokie klausimai kaip: Ar galite melstis kartu? Ar galite augti kartu? Ar galite kartu i\u0161gyventi audras? Ar kartu auginsite vaikus Kristuje? Chemija neatsakys \u012f \u0161iuos klausimus u\u017e jus. Atsakys charakteris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai Dievas i\u0161 ties\u0173 pa\u0161aukia du \u017emones kartu, atsiranda ne tik trauka, bet ir suderinamumas. Yra ai\u0161kumas, o ne sumai\u0161tis. Augimas, o ne kompromisas. Chemija gali prad\u0117ti santykius, bet pa\u0161aukimas palaiko santuok\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-re-spiritually-guilt-tripped\">3. Esate dvasi\u0161kai kaltas.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt ka\u017ekas yra pasak\u0119s: \u201cJei vis lauksi, praleisi palaiminim\u0105.\u201d Arba dar blogiau: \u201cDievas man pasak\u0117, kad tu esi mano sutuoktinis.\u201d Tai n\u0117ra \u012f\u017evalgumas. Tai manipuliacija, ypa\u010d jei i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 atima laisv\u0105 vali\u0105 ir ver\u010dia rinktis. Ra\u0161tu pridengtas spaudimas vis tiek yra spaudimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neleiskite, kad kieno nors skuba tapt\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 laiko juosta. Dievo valia niekada n\u0117ra priverstin\u0117 ar skubota. Kai ka\u017ekas tikrai yra i\u0161 Jo, nereikia, kad baim\u0117 jus \u012ftikint\u0173. Galite neskub\u0117ti, u\u017eduoti sud\u0117tingus klausimus ir pasitraukti, jei n\u0117ra ramyb\u0117s - nesvarbu, kaip \u201cdvasingai\u201d tai atrodyt\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-1\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nors mano vyras tik\u0117jo, kad Dievas jam pasak\u0117, jog esu jo \u017emona, jis man to nepasak\u0117, kol nebuvome susi\u017ead\u0117j\u0119. Kod\u0117l? Jis nenor\u0117jo, kad jaus\u010diausi spaud\u017eiama. Jis nor\u0117jo, kad pati padary\u010diau i\u0161vadas ir pati ie\u0161ko\u010diau Dievo patarimo. Laikui b\u0117gant Dievas tai patvirtino, ir a\u0161 labai d\u017eiaugiuosi, kad mano vyras buvo kantrus ir palauk\u0117 man\u0119s. \u0160tai koks skirtumas. Dievas labai gerai gali jums parodyti, bet nenaudokite to kaip ginklo prie\u0161 kit\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kad priverstum\u0117te j\u012f daryti tai, ko norite. Jie turi laisv\u0105 vali\u0105, tod\u0117l neatimkite i\u0161 j\u0173 jos ir nepamir\u0161kite, kad galima suklysti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt manote, kad Dievas jums sako, jog \u201cjis yra tas vienintelis\u201d, ta\u010diau i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 tai j\u016bs\u0173 emocijos ir tro\u0161kimai. Man taip nutiko su vaikinu, kur\u012f sutikau prie\u0161 savo vyr\u0105. Gal\u0117jau prisiekti, kad Dievas man sak\u0117, jog jis yra mano vyras, bet kai viskas nesusiklost\u0117, tur\u0117jau nuryti sunki\u0105 piliul\u0119, kad visa tai buvo mano galvoje. Kai tai tikrai Dievas, Jis tai patvirtins su kitu \u017emogumi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-danger-of-over-spiritualizing\">Per didelio dvasingumo pavojus<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai kod\u0117l dvasinis spaudimas yra toks pavojingas. Jis aplenkia j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105. Jis bando sutrumpinti proces\u0105, kur\u012f Dievas suk\u016br\u0117 jums apsaugoti. Kai kas nors naudojasi Dievo vardu, kad apeit\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 ribas, i\u0161mint\u012f, laik\u0105 ar santykius su Juo, tai n\u0117ra \u0161venta. Tai \u017ealinga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievui niekada nereikia baim\u0117s taktikos, kad \u012fvykdyt\u0173 savo vali\u0105. Jei kas nors jus skuba, naudoja \u0160vent\u0105j\u012f Ra\u0161t\u0105, kad jus kaltint\u0173, arba bando priversti jus jaustis taip, tarsi \u201cnepaklustum\u0117te Dievui\u201d, nes visk\u0105 darote l\u0117tai, atsitraukite. Meil\u0117 laukia. I\u0161mintis laukia. Pats Dievas laukia. Manipuliavimas neturi b\u016bti santuokos pagrindas. O jei tai vyksta prie\u0161 vestuves... po j\u0173 tai tik stipr\u0117ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-you-don-t-know-their-fruit\">4. J\u016bs nepa\u017e\u012fstate j\u0173 vaisi\u0173<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dinote j\u0173 m\u0117gstamiausi\u0105 \u0160ventojo Ra\u0161to viet\u0105 ir kaip jie elgiasi sekmadien\u012f. Bet ar pa\u017e\u012fstate j\u0173 vaisius? Kaip jie susidoroja su nusivylimu, pataisymu ar konfrontacija? Kaip jie elgiasi su \u017emon\u0117mis, kurie negali b\u016bti jiems naudingi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u0117zus sak\u0117, kad \u017emones pa\u017einsime i\u0161 j\u0173 vaisi\u0173, o ne i\u0161 to, kaip garsiai jie garbina ar kaip da\u017enai pasninkauja. Jums reikia daugiau nei dvasinio triuk\u0161mo. Jums reikia brandos, nuolankumo, nuoseklumo - ir atgailos, kai jie suklysta. Vaisiams u\u017eaugti reikia laiko. Jei jo dar nematote, nesusiekite savo gyvenimo su tuo, kas gali i\u0161sivystyti v\u0117liau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-2\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mano vyro tik\u0117jimas neapsiriboja vien sekmadieniais. Jis juo gyvena kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105. Kiekvien\u0105 ryt\u0105 atsik\u0117l\u0119s jis skaito ir meld\u017eiasi. Kai Dievas duoda jam \u017eali\u0105 \u0161vies\u0105, jis be problem\u0173 meld\u017eiasi u\u017e k\u0105 tik sutikt\u0105 nepa\u017e\u012fstam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. J\u0117zus yra jo gyvenimo b\u016bdas, ir a\u0161 tai i\u0161kart pama\u010diau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Net kai kalb\u0117davom\u0117s, jis nutraukdavo pokalb\u012f po tam tikro laiko, nes nenor\u0117jo, kad m\u016bs\u0173 pokalbiai tapt\u0173 netinkami. Anks\u010diau vaikinams, su kuriais susitikin\u0117jau, tai ner\u016bp\u0117jo. Jiems niekada netrukd\u0117 pasakyti man k\u0105 nors jausmingo telefonu. Ta\u010diau mano vyras buvo kitoks, nes jis netgi nor\u0117jo, kad m\u016bs\u0173 pokalbiai patikt\u0173 Vie\u0161pa\u010diui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taigi paklauskite sav\u0119s. Ar \u0161io \u017emogaus gyvenimas ai\u0161kiai rodo J\u0117z\u0173? Jei ne, tai did\u017eiul\u0117 raudona v\u0117liava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-progress-not-perfection\">Pa\u017eanga, o ne tobulumas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai \u010dia daugelis krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pasimeta. Mes manome, kad vaisius rei\u0161kia tobulum\u0105. Taip n\u0117ra. Vaisiai rei\u0161kia augim\u0105. Vaisiai rei\u0161kia nuolankum\u0105. Tai rei\u0161kia s\u0105\u017einingum\u0105, kai niekas nemato. Vaisiai rei\u0161kia atskaitomyb\u0119, kai jie klysta. Vaisiai rei\u0161kia nuoseklius pasirinkimus, atspindin\u010dius J\u0117z\u0173, o ne tobul\u0105 veikl\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Negalite pa\u017einti \u017emogaus vaisi\u0173 po dviej\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 pokalbio. Taip, galite \u012f\u017evelgti j\u0173 asmenyb\u0119. Galite pa\u017einti j\u0173 \u017eaves\u012f. Galite pa\u017einti j\u0173 buvim\u0105 socialin\u0117je \u017einiasklaidoje. Bet vaisiams reikia laiko. Vaisiams reikia met\u0173 laik\u0173. Vaisi\u0173 reikia matyti, kaip jie reaguoja:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jie nusivyl\u0119<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jie nusivyl\u0119<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jie i\u0161taisyti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jie yra gundomi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jie patiria stres\u0105<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jie \u012fsi\u017eeid\u0117<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei kas nors nesugeba Kristaus brandos b\u016bdu susidoroti su realiame gyvenime patiriamais sunkumais prie\u0161 santuok\u0105, jis nesugeb\u0117s stebuklingai susidoroti su jais ir po santuokos. Vaisiai jus apsaugo. Jis \u012frodo pasirengim\u0105. Vaisiai atskleid\u017eia, ar \u017emogus i\u0161 ties\u0173 seka Kristumi, ar tik seka vibracijomis.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesituok su potencialu. Nesituokite su spektakliais. Susituokite su vaisiais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-god-s-peace-is-missing\">5. Tr\u016bksta Dievo ramyb\u0117s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nerimaujate, daug galvojate ir negalite u\u017emigti, bet vis kartojate sau, kad b\u016btent u\u017e tai meld\u0117t\u0117s. Padarykite pauz\u0119. Dievo ramyb\u0117 nesukelia panikos. Jo buvimas nereikalauja, kad \u012ftikin\u0117tum\u0117te save, jog tai teisinga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ramyb\u0117 ne visada skamba garsiai, bet ji visada yra. Ir kai Dievas i\u0161 ties\u0173 yra j\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 centre, tai matosi i\u0161 to, kaip j\u016bs abu judate, o ne tik i\u0161 to, k\u0105 kalbate. Jei n\u0117ra ramyb\u0117s, j\u016bs\u0173 atsakymas gali b\u016bti ne \u201ceik\u201d, o \u201cpalauk\u201d. Arba net \u201cne\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-3\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taip, nerimas prie\u0161 santuok\u0105 yra normalus dalykas, ta\u010diau yra skirtumas. Nervinausi d\u0117l savo paties nesaugumo. Ar buvau pasiruo\u0161\u0119s santuokai, kaip maniau? Ar turiu visk\u0105, ko reikia, kad b\u016b\u010diau \u017emona? Visa tai kilo i\u0161 man\u0119s, ta\u010diau visa kita, kas mane supo, patvirtino, kad mano vyras i\u0161 ties\u0173 yra tas vyras, u\u017e kur\u012f meld\u017eiausi. Sakyti, kad patvirtinimai kartojosi, b\u016bt\u0173 per ma\u017ea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas net paklaus\u0117 man\u0119s maldoje: \u201cAr, tavo manymu, man patikt\u0173, jei tu u\u017e jo i\u0161tek\u0117tum?\u201d Mano nuo\u0161irdus atsakymas buvo \u201ctaip\u201d. Tai buvo viskas, ko man reik\u0117jo. Tur\u0117jau laisv\u0105 vali\u0105 arba pasitraukti, bet \u017einojimas, kad \u0161ie santykiai patiks Vie\u0161pa\u010diui, nuramino mano baimes. Vestuvi\u0173 dien\u0105 i\u0161tariau \"taip\" be jokio at\u0161alimo, be baim\u0117s, be apgailestavimo. Dievas buvo ir teb\u0117ra m\u016bs\u0173 santykiuose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-peace-means\">K\u0105 rei\u0161kia taika<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai kod\u0117l taika tokia svarbi. Taika nerei\u0161kia, kad lengva. Taika nerei\u0161kia tobul\u0173 aplinkybi\u0173. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad n\u0117ra joki\u0173 nerv\u0173. Ramyb\u0117 rei\u0161kia atitikim\u0105 Dievo valiai. Ji rei\u0161kia ai\u0161kum\u0105, kai j\u016bs\u0173 emocijos yra garsios. Ramyb\u0117 rei\u0161kia, kad j\u016bs\u0173 dvasia jau\u010diasi rami, net jei j\u016bs\u0173 protas apdoroja svarb\u0173 sprendim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai Dievas suteikia ramyb\u0119, ji yra pastovi. Kai ka\u017ekas neveikia, ramyb\u0117s tr\u016bkumas tampa signalu, kurio negalima ignoruoti. Kartais Dievas leid\u017eia nepatogumus ne tam, kad jus nubaust\u0173, bet kad atitraukt\u0173 jus nuo ka\u017eko, kas tur\u0117jo jums pakenkti. Ramyb\u0117 saugo j\u016bs\u0173 \u017eingsnius lygiai taip pat, kaip ir juos veda. \u012esiklausykite, kai ji yra. Dar labiau \u012fsiklausykite, kai jos tr\u016bksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievo geriausiam nereikia skub\u0117ti. Jis nekabina j\u016bs\u0173 ateities kaip morkos. Jis j\u0105 saugo. Prie\u0161 eidami prie altoriaus, per\u017ei\u016br\u0117kite \u0161\u012f s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105. Ne su baime, bet su tik\u0117jimu - \u017einodami, kad Dievo laikas niekada nev\u0117luoja ir Jo kelias visada vertas laukimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Joks laikas, am\u017eius, spaudimas, ba\u017enytin\u0117 kult\u016bra ar \u0161eimos l\u016bkes\u010diai n\u0117ra verti to, kad susituoktume ne pagal Dievo vali\u0105. J\u016bs nusipeln\u0117te <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\">santykiai, pagr\u012fsti Kristumi<\/a>, paremtas tiesa ir vedamas taikos, o ne panikos. Jei sul\u0117tinsite temp\u0105, kad ai\u0161kiai i\u0161girstum\u0117te Diev\u0105, Jis jus ves. Jis visada veda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasiruo\u0161\u0119 susitikti su kai kuriais <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u012e Krist\u0173 orientuoti vieni\u0161iai<\/a>? Atsisi\u0173skite SALT program\u0117l\u0119 dar \u0161iandien!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Christian singles hope they&#8217;re married before age thirty. Even some younger Christians in their early twenties think something is wrong if they&#8217;re not married at twenty-five. Where do we get these timelines from? Who says that there&#8217;s an expiration date on getting married or that it&#8217;s too late once you&#8217;re past fifty? 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