{"id":3156,"date":"2026-01-22T12:02:11","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T12:02:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3156"},"modified":"2026-01-22T12:02:13","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T12:02:13","slug":"kaip-susidoroti-su-isimylejimu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/how-to-deal-with-infatuation\/","title":{"rendered":"\u012esimyl\u0117jimas ir kaip su juo kovoti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas. Pagal apibr\u0117\u017eim\u0105 tai intensyvi arba trumpalaik\u0117 aistra ar susi\u017eav\u0117jimas kuo nors ar kuo nors. Nors b\u016bti fizi\u0161kai susi\u017eav\u0117jusiam kuo nors yra gerai, daug krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 pasijunta es\u0105 \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119. Kod\u0117l? Tod\u0117l, kad nesuskai\u010diuojam\u0105 daugyb\u0119 kart\u0173 ma\u010diau ir gird\u0117jau tai pokalbiuose, grupiniuose pokalbiuose ir grupiniuose prane\u0161imuose - \u017emon\u0117s klausia, <em>\u201cKaip man i\u0161mesti \u0161\u012f \u017emog\u0173 i\u0161 galvos? Negaliu nustoti apie j\u012f galvoti.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar susiduriate su \u012fsimyl\u0117jimu? Ar tai jaudina ir yra beveik draud\u017eiama? Ar sapnuojate \u017emog\u0173, kur\u012f vos pa\u017e\u012fstate, arba \u012ftikin\u0117jate save, kad jis yra \u201ctas vienintelis\u201d, dar net nesu\u017einoj\u0119 jo antrojo vardo? Kaip mums, tikintiesiems, susitvarkyti su \u0161ia stipria trauka, kad nepadarytume neatsargi\u0173 klaid\u0173 ir nepakenktume savo \u0117jimui su J\u0117zumi? \u0160tai penki dalykai, \u012f kuriuos tur\u0117tum\u0117te atsi\u017evelgti, kai keliausite \u0161iuo laikotarpiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-name-it-honestly\">S\u0105\u017einingai \u012fvardykite j\u012f<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-pause-before-pursuing\">Pauz\u0117 prie\u0161 t\u0119siant<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-check-it-with-scripture\">Patikrinkite tai pagal \u0160vent\u0105j\u012f Ra\u0161t\u0105<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-bring-it-to-community\">Pristatykite j\u012f bendruomenei<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-build-on-butterflies\">Nesistatykite ant drugeli\u0173<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">\u012evadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavyzdys - trisde\u0161imtmet\u0117 moteris, kuri steng\u0117si gyventi tyrai ir i\u0161saugoti save santuokai, bet bendravo su vyru, kuris sustiprino jos geism\u0105. Ji pasteb\u0117jo, kad vis labiau susijaudina, ir net \u0117m\u0117 abejoti, ar tikrai verta laukti - juolab kad ji, kaip ir visi kiti, turi seksualini\u0173 tro\u0161kim\u0173. Ji nenor\u0117jo to pripa\u017einti, bet buvo ai\u0161kiai \u012fsimyl\u0117jusi \u0161\u012f vyr\u0105. Tai, k\u0105 ji man\u0117 esant \u201cry\u0161iu\u201d, i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 buvo i\u0161sibla\u0161kymas, atitraukiantis j\u0105 nuo santyki\u0173 su Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0161 irgi iki santuokos buvau susi\u017eav\u0117jusi vyrais. Kartais d\u0117l j\u0173 asmenyb\u0117s, kartais d\u0117l j\u0173 fizini\u0173 savybi\u0173. V\u0117lgi, n\u0117ra nieko blogo, kai \u017emogus atrodo patrauklus ar \u017eavus, bet kai \u0161ie pavir\u0161iniai bruo\u017eai tampa <em>tik<\/em> d\u0117mes\u012f, nebematote ai\u0161kaus \u017evilgsnio. Net \u0160ventajame Ra\u0161te sakoma, kad gro\u017eis nyksta (Patarli\u0173 31, 30). Tai, kas i\u0161lieka - tai, kas i\u0161 ties\u0173 svarbu, - yra charakteris, pamaldumas ir tikslas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-name-it-honestly\">S\u0105\u017einingai \u012fvardykite pavadinim\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas klesti paslaptyje ir neigime. Kai nuolat apie k\u0105 nors galvojate, tikrinate telefon\u0105, tarsi jis b\u016bt\u0173 gyvyb\u0117s palaikymo priemon\u0117, arba \u012fsivaizduojate savo vestuvi\u0173 dien\u0105 po dviej\u0173 DM \u017einu\u010di\u0173, metas tai vadinti tuo, kas yra - emocine perkrova. Tai gali b\u016bti geras jausmas, bet tai nerei\u0161kia, kad jis yra nuo Dievo. \u012esimyl\u0117jimas da\u017enai kyla i\u0161 fantazijos, o ne i\u0161 fakt\u0173. Jis \u017eada ry\u0161\u012f, bet apakina mus, kad nematytume, kas tas \u017emogus yra i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai gali b\u016bti \u017eeminantis prisipa\u017einimas, <em>\u201cVie\u0161patie, a\u0161 nesu \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119s. Esu \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119s.\u201d<\/em> Ta\u010diau nuo tokio s\u0105\u017einingumo lygio prasideda laisv\u0117. \u012evardyti tai nerei\u0161kia, kad esate silpnas - tai rei\u0161kia, kad esate s\u0105moningas. Kvie\u010diate Diev\u0105 \u012f \u0161i\u0105 akimirk\u0105, u\u017euot band\u0119 j\u0105 valdyti vieni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dangers-of-infatuation\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimo pavojai<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekontroliuojamas \u012fsimyl\u0117jimas gali u\u017ego\u017eti j\u016bs\u0173 \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105. Pradedate pateisinti dalykus, kuri\u0173 paprastai nepateisintum\u0117te. Galb\u016bt nekreipiate d\u0117mesio \u012f raudonas v\u0117liav\u0117les, nes norite, kad jausmas t\u0119st\u0173si. Pradedate svajoti apie tai, kas gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti, u\u017euot atkreip\u0119 d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f tai, kas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra. Ir net nesp\u0117jus susivokti, j\u016bs prisiri\u0161ate emoci\u0161kai prie asmens, kuris galb\u016bt net nesutampa su j\u016bs\u0173 tik\u0117jimu ar ateitimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012evardydami tai, j\u016bs suteikiate Dievui leidim\u0105 parodyti jums ties\u0105. Taip pat i\u0161laisvinate save nuo iliuzijos, kad \u0161is asmuo gali kontroliuoti j\u016bs\u0173 emocijas. Tai ne g\u0117da; tai ai\u0161kumas. Pasakykite tai ai\u0161kiai: <em>\u201cVie\u0161patie, \u0161is \u017emogus dabar labiau traukia mano d\u0117mes\u012f nei Tu. Pad\u0117k man i\u0161 naujo sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai tai pripa\u017e\u012fstate, esate ne tik s\u0105\u017einingi, bet ir valdote savo emocijas. J\u016bs sakote: \u201cDieve, a\u0161 renkuosi vaik\u0161\u010dioti i\u0161mintimi, o ne fantazijomis.\u201d \u0160tai kur prasideda branda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Jie atrodo dievi\u0161ki... bet ar tikrai?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/71cI-hCnyEM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pause-before-pursuing\">Pauz\u0117 prie\u0161 vykdant<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas yra impulsyvus. Jis nori to, ko nori, ir nori to dabar. Tod\u0117l lengva supainioti skubum\u0105 su patvirtinimu. J\u016bs pradedate sau sakyti, <em>\u201cJei nesiimsiu skubi\u0173 veiksm\u0173, prarasiu savo \u0161ans\u0105.\u201d<\/em> Ta\u010diau b\u016bkime tikri - d\u0117l to, kas i\u0161 ties\u0173 yra i\u0161 Dievo, nereik\u0117s skub\u0117ti ar eiti \u012f kompromisus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vienas i\u0161 dvasingiausi\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kuriuos galite padaryti, yra laukti. Jei \u0161is \u017emogus tikrai yra nuo Dievo, laikas nenutrauks ry\u0161io - jis j\u012f patvirtins. Laukimas nerei\u0161kia, kad \u017eaid\u017eiate \u017eaidimus; tai rei\u0161kia, kad saugote savo \u0161ird\u012f iki tinkamo laiko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-wait\">Kaip laukti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasinaudokite \u0161ia pertrauka, kad \u012fvertintum\u0117te savo motyvus. Ar j\u0173 siekiate d\u0117l ramyb\u0117s, ar d\u0117l spaudimo? I\u0161 pa\u0161aukimo ar smalsumo? Ar jus traukia j\u0173 dvasia, ar tik j\u0173 i\u0161vaizda ir d\u0117mesys?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kartais Dievas leid\u017eia daryti pauzes, kad mus apsaugot\u0173. Jis \u017eino, kada m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdys labiau prisiri\u0161usios prie <em>id\u0117ja<\/em> meil\u0117s, o ne prie\u0161ais mus esant\u012f asmen\u012f. Tod\u0117l Jis leis laikui atskleisti tai, k\u0105 \u012fsimyl\u0117jimas bando pasl\u0117pti - nenuoseklum\u0105, dvigubus standartus, dvasin\u0117s brandos stok\u0105 ar net tiesiog nesuderinamum\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-learn-from-others\">Mokykit\u0117s i\u0161 kit\u0173<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esu mat\u0119s, kaip \u017emon\u0117s priver\u010dia ka\u017ek\u0105, kas niekada netur\u0117jo b\u016bti, nes supainiojo chemij\u0105 su patvirtinimu. Jie veik\u0117 per greitai, nepais\u0117 i\u0161minting\u0173 patarim\u0173 ir \u012fsimyl\u0117jim\u0105 vadino \u201cDievo laiku\u201d. Po keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 jie liko sugniu\u017edyta \u0161irdimi, galvodami, kaip tai, kas atrod\u0117 taip gerai, nutiko taip blogai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai kod\u0117l svarbu daryti pauzes. Ji suteikia Dievui erdv\u0117s kalb\u0117ti. Be to, ji suteikia erdv\u0117s j\u016bs\u0173 emocijoms atsikv\u0117pti. Ji atskiria tai, kas tikra, nuo to, kas romantizuojama. Jei nesate tikri, ar siekti ko nors, palaukite ir steb\u0117kite. Tyl\u0117dami apie \u017emog\u0173 su\u017einosite daugiau nei nuolat kalb\u0117dami. Steb\u0117kite, kaip jis susidoroja su nusivylimu, kaip elgiasi su kitais, kaip i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 nuoseklus jo santykis su Dievu. \u0160ie dalykai atsiskleis ne koketi\u0161kose SMS \u017einut\u0117se, bet laiko patikrintuose modeliuose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paklauskite sav\u0119s: <em>\u201cAr a\u0161 vejuosi akimirk\u0105, ar ruo\u0161iuosi tarnystei?\u201d<\/em> Nes meil\u0117, kai ji yra i\u0161 Dievo, yra ne tik apie du \u017emon\u0117s patinka vienas kitam - tai apie dviej\u0173 tiksl\u0173 derinimo Jo \u0161lov\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-check-it-with-scripture\">Patikrinkite pagal \u0160vent\u0105j\u012f Ra\u0161t\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas \u0161aukia, <em>\u201cMan tai atrodo teisinga.\u201d<\/em> Ta\u010diau \u0160ventasis Ra\u0161tas \u0161velniai klausia, <em>\u201cAr tai tiesa?\u201d<\/em> M\u016bs\u0173 emocijos gali b\u016bti galingos, ta\u010diau jos gali b\u016bti ir apgaulingos. Jausmai svyruoja. Dievo \u017eodis nesikei\u010dia. \u0160tai kod\u0117l labai svarbu suderinti tai, k\u0105 jau\u010diate, su tuo, kas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 para\u0161yta Biblijoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai u\u017eklumpa \u012fsimyl\u0117jimas, lengva pateisinti bet k\u0105. Kiekviena raudona v\u0117liav\u0117l\u0117 atrodo kaip \u201cgalb\u016bt\u201d. Kiekvien\u0105 sutapim\u0105 pradedate interpretuoti kaip dievi\u0161k\u0105 \u017eenkl\u0105. Kasdien skaitydami skaitinius pamatote eilut\u0119 apie meil\u0119 ir staiga esate \u012fsitikin\u0119, kad Dievas kalba apie t\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. B\u016bkite atsarg\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jeremijo 17:9 \u0160ventasis Ra\u0161tas mums primena, kad \u201c\u0161irdis apgaulinga labiau u\u017e visk\u0105\u201d. \u0160tai kod\u0117l Dievas mus ragina <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kaip-saugoti-savo-sirdi-bunant-vienisam\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"2976\">saugokite j\u012f.<\/a>. \u012esimyl\u0117jimas gali atrodyti kaip meil\u0117, ta\u010diau meil\u0117 - tikra, dievi\u0161ka meil\u0117 - remiasi kantrybe, tiesa ir \u012fsipareigojimu, o ne fantazijomis ar geismu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-the-bible-say\">K\u0105 sako Biblija?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taigi patikrinkite j\u012f pagal \u017dod\u012f. K\u0105 Dievas sako apie tyrum\u0105, \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105 ir savikontrol\u0119? K\u0105 Jis sako apie nelygiateis\u012f jung\u0105 ar pagund\u0173 vengim\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nereikia visko pernelyg dvasingai vertinti, bet reikia i\u0161minties. Nereikia melstis, kad \u017einotum\u0117te, jog po vidurnak\u010dio netur\u0117tum\u0117te eiti pas k\u0105 nors \u012f namus. Nereikia pasninkauti, kad i\u0161siai\u0161kintum\u0117te, ar i\u0161mintinga likti vienam su \u017emogumi, kuris jums kelia geism\u0105. J\u016bs jau \u017einote atsakym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas nesiekia, kad j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 gyvenimas b\u016bt\u0173 nelaimingas, - Jis stengiasi apsaugoti j\u016bs\u0173 tiksl\u0105. Jis \u017eino, kaip lengvai emocijos gali u\u017evaldyti \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105. Jis \u017eino, kaip greitai susi\u017eav\u0117jimo akimirka gali virsti apgailestavimu, jei nesiremsime tiesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prie\u0161 prad\u0117dami jud\u0117ti pirmyn, sustokite ir paklauskite: <em>\u201cAr \u0161ie santykiai atspindi Dievo standartus, ar mano norus?\u201d<\/em> Jei tai skatina jus eiti \u012f kompromis\u0105, vadinasi, tai ne i\u0161 Jo. Laikas. Kai patikrinsite tai su Ra\u0161tu, leisite \u017dod\u017eiui veikti kaip filtrui. Ir \u0161is filtras i\u0161gelb\u0117s jus nuo nereikalingo \u0161irdies sudau\u017eymo. \u012esimyl\u0117jimas i\u0161bl\u0117sta, kai j\u012f ap\u0161vie\u010dia tiesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-bring-it-to-community\">Atne\u0161kite \u012f bendruomen\u0119<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt nenor\u0117site niekam sakyti, kad sunkiai ir greitai krentate, bet turite tai padaryti. Dievas niekada nesuk\u016br\u0117 j\u016bs\u0173 tam, kad santykius tvarkytum\u0117te vieni. \u0160tai kod\u0117l Jis jus \u012fkurdino bendruomen\u0117je - ne tam, kad jus teist\u0173, bet kad apsaugot\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Patikimas draugas, mentorius ar pastorius da\u017enai gali pamatyti tai, ko nematote j\u016bs. Jie n\u0117ra \u012fsitrauk\u0119 \u012f drugelius, tekstus ar chemij\u0105. Jie gali pa\u017evelgti \u012f situacij\u0105 dvasin\u0117mis akimis ir pasi\u016blyti perspektyv\u0105, kurios jums gali pritr\u016bkti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai esate \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119, emocijos gali u\u017ego\u017eti prot\u0105. Pradedate sakyti tokius dalykus kaip, <em>\u201cTu nesupranti, tai kitoks jausmas.\u201d<\/em> Galb\u016bt taip ir yra, bet b\u016btent tod\u0117l jums reikia, kad kiti kalb\u0117t\u0173 ties\u0105 su meile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-community-brings\">K\u0105 duoda bendruomen\u0117<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievobaimingas draugas gali paklausti, <em>\u201cAr jums jie i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 patinka, ar patinka tai, kaip d\u0117l j\u0173 jau\u010diat\u0117s?\u201d<\/em> Vienas klausimas gali pakeisti vis\u0105 j\u016bs\u0173 po\u017ei\u016br\u012f. Nes da\u017enai susi\u017eav\u0117jimas n\u0117ra susij\u0119s su asmeniu, o su tuo, k\u0105 jis jumyse pa\u017eadina. Galb\u016bt tai patvirtinimas, d\u0117mesys, jaudulys ar net i\u0161sibla\u0161kymas nuo vienatv\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai savo jausmus i\u0161keliate \u012f bendruomen\u0117s \u0161vies\u0105, jie netenka galios apgauti. J\u016bs suteikiate kitiems leidim\u0105 reikalauti i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 atsakomyb\u0117s, priminti jums j\u016bs\u0173 standartus ir nukreipti jus atgal \u012f Krist\u0173, kai emocijos bando imtis iniciatyvos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad turite visiems prane\u0161ti apie savo pad\u0117t\u012f, bet jums reikia bent vieno patikimo \u017emogaus, kuris gal\u0117t\u0173 jums apie tai pasakyti, <em>\u201cTai nei\u0161mintinga,\u201d<\/em> arba, <em>\u201cSul\u0117tinkite temp\u0105.\u201d<\/em> Ir jei, kam nors pasi\u016blius tok\u012f patarim\u0105, pradedate gintis, tai \u017eenklas, kad emoci\u0161kai jau nu\u0117jote per toli. Brand\u016bs tikintieji d\u017eiaugiasi pataisomis, nes \u017eino, kad jos apsaugo juos nuo gilesnio skausmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ma\u010diau, kaip dievobaiminga bendruomen\u0117 gelbsti \u017emones nuo santyki\u0173, kurie i\u0161ori\u0161kai atrod\u0117 gerai, bet viduje buvo dvasi\u0161kai alinantys. Draugai negali priimti sprendim\u0173 u\u017e jus, bet jie gali pad\u0117ti jums \u012f\u017evelgti emocijas, kurios u\u017ego\u017eia \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105. Taigi atne\u0161kite j\u012f \u012f bendruomen\u0119. Pasikalb\u0117kite su \u017emogumi, kuris yra tvirtai tikintis ir nori, kad Dievas jums b\u016bt\u0173 geriausias. Galb\u016bt jie tiesiog pad\u0117s jums i\u0161vengti to, kad j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimas b\u016bt\u0173 paremtas tuo, kam niekada nebuvo lemta i\u0161likti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-build-on-butterflies\">Nesukurkite ant drugeli\u0173<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas yra jaudinantis. Tai svaiginantis jausmas. \u0160irdis dau\u017eosi, mintys klaid\u017eioja, o vaizduot\u0117 \u0161\u0117lsta. \u012etikinate save, kad j\u016bs\u0173 jausm\u0173 intensyvumas turi reik\u0161ti ka\u017ek\u0105 gilaus ir dvasinio. Ta\u010diau drugeliai i\u0161nyksta. Nuoseklumas nei\u0161nyksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikra meil\u0117 - tokia, kuri gerbia Diev\u0105, - n\u0117ra akimirkos jaudulys. Ji randama tylioje kantryb\u0117s, s\u0105\u017einingumo ir atsidavimo stipryb\u0117je. Kai esi \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119s, esi link\u0119s visk\u0105 romantizuoti. Matote tik geriausias \u017emogaus puses. Galb\u016bt nepastebite \u012fpro\u010di\u0173, po\u017ei\u016bri\u0173 ar \u012fsitikinim\u0173, kurie gali nesutapti su j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173. Susikuriate \u012fvaizd\u012f apie tai, kas jums <em>galvokite<\/em> jie yra, u\u017euot mat\u0119, kas jie i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau tiesa yra tokia: drugeliai negali sudaryti sutarties. Chemija negali palaikyti santuokos. Meil\u0119 stiprina bendras tik\u0117jimas, tikslas ir kasdienis pasirinkimas. Taigi prie\u0161 prad\u0117dami galvoje planuoti savo ateit\u012f, sul\u0117tinkite temp\u0105. Paklauskite sav\u0119s, ar apskritai mat\u0117te \u0161\u012f \u017emog\u0173 \u012fvairiais gyvenimo laikotarpiais. Ar mat\u0117te j\u012f supykus\u012f, nusivylus\u012f ar patiriant\u012f spaudim\u0105? Nes b\u016btent tada atsiskleid\u017eia charakteris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-purpose-of-christian-relationships\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 santyki\u0173 tikslas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikslas yra ne tik k\u0105 nors pajusti, bet ir <em>sukurti<\/em> k\u0105 nors. Ka\u017ek\u0105 stabilaus, ilgalaikio ir orientuoto \u012f Krist\u0173. Daugelis viengungi\u0173 baiminasi, kad jei paleis \u201ckibirk\u0161t\u012f\u201d, atsidurs nuobod\u017eioje santuokoje be meil\u0117s. Ta\u010diau tai netiesa. Dievi\u0161ka meil\u0117 n\u0117ra nuobodi. Ji tiesiog \u012fsi\u0161aknijusi tikrov\u0117je, o ne fantazijose. Kibirk\u0161tis vis dar gali egzistuoti - j\u0105 tiesiog turi palaikyti dvasin\u0117 gelm\u0117, o ne emociniai pakilimai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai pasirenkate kantryb\u0119, o ne aistr\u0105, neatmetate meil\u0117s - j\u016bs j\u0105 saugote. Leid\u017eiate Dievui paruo\u0161ti abi \u0161irdis ka\u017ekam, kas i\u0161liks ilgam. Nekeiskite ilgalaik\u0117s ramyb\u0117s \u012f trumpalaikius \u012fsp\u016bd\u017eius. Neverta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trusting-god-with-relationships\">Pasitik\u0117jimas Dievu santykiuose<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 \u010dia dvejoja, nes bijo, kad pritr\u016bks laiko. \u201cMan jau beveik 30, 40, 50 met\u0173... Turiu susitikti su sutuoktiniu dabar.\u201d A\u0161 giliai suprantu \u0161i\u0105 baim\u0119. Laukimas gali b\u016bti skausmingas, ypa\u010d kai j\u016bs\u0173 tro\u0161kimas bendrauti yra tikras ir tyras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bet leiskite paklausti - ar j\u016bs ketinate b\u016bti aps\u0117sti laikrod\u017eio, ar tik\u0117site, kad Dievo laikas vis dar geras? Kas bus, jei susituoksite b\u016bdami 35, 45 ar 55 met\u0173 - ar Dievas vis dar i\u0161tikimas? Absoliu\u010diai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Santuoka yra gra\u017ei<\/a>, ta\u010diau tai n\u0117ra did\u017eiausia dovana. I\u0161gelb\u0117jimas J\u0117zuje Kristuje yra. Ir net jei j\u016bs\u0173 kelion\u0117 \u012f meil\u0119 atrodo ilgesn\u0117, nei tik\u0117jot\u0117s, tai nerei\u0161kia, kad ji ma\u017eiau palaiminga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas nuo j\u016bs\u0173 nieko neslepia. Kartais Jis saugo jus nuo \u0161irdies sm\u016bgi\u0173, kuri\u0173 dar nematote. Jis tobulina j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f, suderina j\u016bs\u0173 tiksl\u0105 ir formuoja j\u016bs\u0173 standartus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galite trok\u0161ti santuokos ir b\u016bti patenkinti \u0161iuo sezonu. Esu tikras, kad galite pripa\u017einti trauk\u0105, neleisdami, kad jus valdyt\u0173 \u012fsimyl\u0117jimas. Galite tur\u0117ti tro\u0161kim\u0173 ir vis tiek vaik\u0161\u010dioti tyruose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Susi\u017eav\u0117jimas yra da\u017enas rei\u0161kinys, nesate vieni\u0161as. Ta\u010diau, remdamiesi juo, galite susikompromituoti savo meil\u0117s gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Geros naujienos? Nesate bej\u0117gis. Pasitelk\u0119 Diev\u0105, bendruomen\u0119 ir s\u0105\u017eining\u0105 apm\u0105stym\u0105, galite susidoroti su \u012fsimyl\u0117jimu, neleisdami, kad jis su\u017elugdyt\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 likim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160iandien paklauskite sav\u0119s: <em>Ar leid\u017eiu, kad mane vest\u0173 mano emocijos, ar leid\u017eiu, kad mane vest\u0173 Dievas?<\/em> Tiesa ta, kad Dievui r\u016bpi j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis, o ne tik tai, kam ji plaka. Jis nepra\u0161o j\u016bs\u0173 slopinti savo tro\u0161kim\u0173. Jis pra\u0161o j\u016bs\u0173 jiems atsiduoti. Ir kai tai padarysite, pamatysite, kad ramyb\u0117 vaik\u0161\u010diojant Jo laiku yra daug didesn\u0117 u\u017e skub\u0117jim\u0105 persekioti \u017emog\u0173, kuriam niekada nebuvo lemta pasilikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esimyl\u0117jimas i\u0161bl\u0117sta, bet Dievo meil\u0117 niekada nei\u0161bl\u0117sta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasiruo\u0161\u0119 susitikti su kai kuriais <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">nuostab\u016bs krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 viengungiai<\/a>? Atsisi\u0173skite SALT program\u0117l\u0119 dar \u0161iandien!\u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Infatuation. By definition, it&#8217;s an intense or short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something. While being physically attracted to someone is fine, a lot Christian singles find themselves infatuated. Why? 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