{"id":3152,"date":"2026-01-14T14:59:28","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T14:59:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3152"},"modified":"2026-01-14T14:59:30","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T14:59:30","slug":"ka-noreciau-zinoti-apie-pasimatymus-kaip-krikscionis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/what-i-wish-i-knew-about-dating-as-a-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0105 nor\u0117\u010diau \u017einoti prie\u0161 prad\u0117damas susitikin\u0117ti kaip krik\u0161\u010dionis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei nor\u0117\u010diau pakeisti vien\u0105 dalyk\u0105, tai b\u016bt\u0173 mano l\u016bkes\u010diai prie\u0161 pasimatym\u0105. Deja, mano mintys buvo pripildytos fantastini\u0173 istorij\u0173, toki\u0173 kaip Pelen\u0117, tod\u0117l vaizdinys, kad susitinku su vyru ir i\u0161 karto \u017einau, jog jis yra \u201ctas vienintelis\u201d, privert\u0117 mane galvoti, kad taip ir turi b\u016bti. Paauglyst\u0117je mano savivert\u0117 nebuvo sveika, tod\u0117l taip pat maniau, kad mano vert\u0117 kyla i\u0161 to, kad a\u0161 patinku vaikinui, o ne i\u0161 Dievo po\u017ei\u016brio \u012f mane. Taigi, k\u0105 nor\u0117\u010diau anks\u010diau \u017einoti apie pasimatymus kaip krik\u0161\u010dion\u0117?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt esate pasimatym\u0173 baseine ir j\u016bs\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010diai nepasiteisina. Ar kada nors sav\u0119s klaus\u0117te: \u201cKod\u0117l niekas man apie tai nepasak\u0117?\u201d. \u0160tai keletas dalyk\u0173, kuriuos nor\u0117\u010diau \u017einoti prie\u0161 prad\u0117damas susitikin\u0117ti kaip krik\u0161\u010dionis. Ar galite su tuo sutikti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-1-chemistry-confirmation\">Chemija \u2260 Patvirtinimas<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-2-prayer-isn-t-a-relationship-shortcut\">Malda n\u0117ra trumpasis kelias \u012f santykius<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-3-boundaries-don-t-replace-discipline\">Ribos nepakei\u010dia drausm\u0117s<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-4-stop-looking-for-a-savior\">Nustokite ie\u0161koti Gelb\u0117tojo<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-5-god-isn-t-testing-you\">Dievas j\u016bs\u0173 nebando<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deja, Biblijoje n\u0117ra skyriaus ir eilut\u0117s, kurioje b\u016bt\u0173 para\u0161yta \u201cPa\u017eintys 101 krik\u0161\u010dionims vieni\u0161iams\u201d. Ta\u010diau galime daryti i\u0161vad\u0105, k\u0105 Biblija sako apie tai, koki\u0105 draugij\u0105 tur\u0117tume palaikyti. \u0160ventoji Dvasia u\u017epildo spragas ten, kur n\u0117ra skyri\u0173 ir eilu\u010di\u0173. Gali atrodyti, kad vaik\u0161\u010diojate tamsoje, laikydami rankas prie\u0161ais save, bet Dievas yra su jumis ir ves jus, jei Jam leisite. Pasinerkime \u012f j\u012f, gerai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K\u0105 nor\u0117\u010diau \u017einoti prie\u0161 prad\u0117damas susitikin\u0117ti kaip krik\u0161\u010dionis\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mw8lXW0FjVM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-chemistry-confirmation\">1. Chemija \u2260 Patvirtinimas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai, kad pokalbis teka ir jums abiem patinka \u201cMaverick City\u201d ar \"Elevation Worship\", nerei\u0161kia, kad tai Dievo skirta. Anks\u010diau maniau, kad jaustis teisingai rei\u0161kia b\u016bti teisiam. Ta\u010diau emocinis pakilimas ir fizin\u0117 trauka gali u\u017etemdyti \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105. Taip, chemija yra svarbi. Ta\u010diau ji niekada netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti svarbesn\u0117 u\u017e charakter\u012f, patarimus ar \u012fsitikinimus. Prie\u0161as gali atsi\u0173sti \u017emog\u0173, kuris \"jau\u010diasi\" tobulas, bet atitraukia jus nuo j\u016bs\u0173 tikslo. Jei tai Dievas, ramyb\u0117 lyd\u0117s net tada, kai drugeliai i\u0161nyks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jums reikia daugiau nei kibirk\u0161ties - jums reikia dvasinio suderinamumo ir bendr\u0173 vertybi\u0173, kurios b\u016bt\u0173 tvirtos, kai gyvenimas tampa tikras. Dievas nepatvirtina savo valios \u017e\u0105sies oda. Jis patvirtina j\u0105 vaisiais, suderinamumu ir ai\u0161kumu, kuris nesikei\u010dia, kai jausmai pasikei\u010dia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-is-important\">Svarbu patrauklumas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0117lgi, tai nerei\u0161kia, kad tas asmuo negali j\u016bs\u0173 traukti. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad negalite su juo linksmintis, nes visa tai susij\u0119 su tikslu ir Dievo valios vykdymu. Nors Dievo valia ir \u0161lov\u0117 yra centre, vis tiek galite m\u0117gautis pasimatymu ir dalytis nuostabiais prisiminimais su jais. Taip pat filtruokite chemij\u0105 per \u0160vent\u0105j\u0105 Dvasi\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0117ra nieko blogo maldoje nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai sakyti: \u201cDieve, jie man patinka, bet labiau u\u017e visk\u0105 noriu Tavo valios.\u201d Taip, tai rizikinga malda, ir j\u016bs netgi galite prarasti \u017emog\u0173, jei jis jums netinka. Ta\u010diau galite pasitik\u0117ti, kad Dievas puikiai suderina j\u016bs\u0173 istorij\u0105. Galb\u016bt j\u016bs neturite vis\u0173 atsakym\u0173, bet Jis juos turi. Jis j\u016bs\u0173 nepalieka ir niekada j\u016bs\u0173 neapleis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-chemistry-shouldn-t-be-your-guide\">Chemija netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti j\u016bs\u0173 vadovas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gaila, kad anks\u010diau ne\u017einojau, jog chemija n\u0117ra likimo \u017eenklas. Gali b\u016bti, kad chemija tave sieja su \u017emogumi, kuris tau visi\u0161kai netinka. Kartais jau\u010diate trauk\u0105 \u017emogui tik tod\u0117l, kad jis patenkina emocin\u012f poreik\u012f, apie kur\u012f net nenutuok\u0117te. Galite akimirksniu u\u017emegzti ry\u0161\u012f su \u017emogumi, kuris neturi geb\u0117jim\u0173, brandos ar dvasinio pagrindo ilgalaikiam bendradarbiavimui su jumis. Chemija gali b\u016bti gra\u017ei prad\u017eia, bet ji negali pati savaime palaikyti santyki\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai susitikin\u0117jate kaip krik\u0161\u010dionis, chemija tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti <em>premija<\/em>, o ne projektas. J\u016bs\u0173 \u012f\u017evalgumas gali veikti tik tada, kai leisite Dievui pasverti santykius - ne savo impulsus, ne nor\u0105 nebeb\u016bti vieni\u0161am, ne savo laiko grafik\u0105. Kuo labiau leisite Dievui vadovauti, tuo lengviau bus atskirti emocin\u012f susijaudinim\u0105 nuo dvasin\u0117s ramyb\u0117s. Jaudulys gali b\u016bti garsus. Ramyb\u0117 yra pastovi. Vienas i\u0161 j\u0173 i\u0161bl\u0117sta. Kita i\u0161lieka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chemija gali jus suartinti, bet charakteris lemia, ar gal\u0117site likti kartu. To tur\u0117jau i\u0161mokti bandym\u0173 ir klaid\u0173 keliu. Ir s\u0105\u017einingai? Tai i\u0161gelb\u0117jo mane nuo pasilikimo situacijose, kuriose b\u016b\u010diau apsistoj\u0119s d\u0117l baim\u0117s, o ne d\u0117l tik\u0117jimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-prayer-isn-t-a-relationship-shortcut\">2. Malda n\u0117ra trumpasis kelias \u012f santykius<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anks\u010diau maniau, kad malda automati\u0161kai padaro santykius \u0161ventus. Spoileris: taip n\u0117ra. Malda yra galinga, bet jei ji naudojama siekiant u\u017emaskuoti sumai\u0161t\u012f, paskubinti ry\u0161\u012f ar i\u0161vengti nepatogi\u0173 pokalbi\u0173, ji tampa dvasiniu p\u016bku. Malda apie \u017emog\u0173, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117jate, arba su juo yra \u0161venta - kai tai daroma brand\u017eiai ir laikantis tinkam\u0173 rib\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017euot steng\u0119si mald\u0105 paversti klijais, paklauskite, koks i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra pagrindas. Ar galite vesti sunkius pokalbius nesisl\u0117pdami u\u017e \u201cpasimelskime apie tai\u201d? Ar galite melstis atskirai prie\u0161 melsdamiesi kartu? Tai daug daugiau pasakys apie santyki\u0173 dvasin\u0119 sveikat\u0105 nei tai, kaip gerai skamba \u0160ventojo Ra\u0161to citatos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-over-spiritualizing-dating\">Pernelyg dvasingos pa\u017eintys<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cia daug <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/per-daug-dvasingu-pazinciu\/\">Krik\u0161\u010dionys pernelyg sudvasina pasimatym\u0173 proces\u0105<\/a>. B\u016bti \u0161ioje erdv\u0117je pavojinga, nes galite manyti, kad esate Dievo valioje, bet taip n\u0117ra. Galite sakyti: \u201cA\u0161 meld\u017eiausi apie tai\u201d, bet ar lauk\u0117te Dievo atsakymo \u0161iuo klausimu? Ar dar\u0117te prielaid\u0105 ir jud\u0117jote pirmyn d\u0117l savo jausm\u0173? Neapsigaukite d\u0117l to, kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s. D\u0117l to gali b\u016bti sudau\u017eyta \u0161irdis, o kai kurie kaltina Diev\u0105 d\u0117l to, k\u0105 ai\u0161kiai padar\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience\">Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prisimenu, kaip meld\u017eiausi apie paskutin\u012f vaikin\u0105, su kuriuo bendravau prie\u0161 sutikdama savo vyr\u0105. Gal\u0117jau prisiekti, kad Dievas visk\u0105 patvirtino, bet, kaip paai\u0161k\u0117jo, buvau labiau pasin\u0117rusi \u012f savo jausmus. Tai buvo klaida, o kai viskas tarp m\u016bs\u0173 i\u0161iro, tur\u0117jau atgailauti, kad u\u017eb\u0117gau Dievui u\u017e aki\u0173. Nemaniau, kad stengiausi visk\u0105 paskubinti, bet taip ir buvo. D\u0117l savo am\u017eiaus maniau, kad \u0161is vyras turi b\u016bti jis. Jei neb\u016b\u010diau pakoregavusi kurso, viskas b\u016bt\u0173 baig\u0119si blogai ir b\u016b\u010diau praradusi nuostab\u0173 vyr\u0105, u\u017e kurio dabar esu i\u0161tek\u0117jusi. Ar verta? Vadovautis savo jausmais dabar ir praleisti ar atid\u0117ti tikr\u0105j\u012f Dievo palaiminim\u0105 v\u0117liau? Nemanau, kad taip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-prayer-do\">K\u0105 daro malda?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Malda n\u0117ra trumpas kelias \u012f suderinamum\u0105. Ji nepanaikina Dievo laiko. Malda nepriver\u010dia ai\u0161kumo. Malda nepaver\u010dia netinkam\u0173 santyki\u0173 tinkamais. Turime nustoti laikyti mald\u0105 patvirtinimo antspaudu ir prad\u0117ti j\u0105 vertinti kaip nuolatin\u012f pokalb\u012f su Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Malda tur\u0117t\u0173 atverti j\u016bs\u0173 akis, o ne jas u\u017emerkti. Ji tur\u0117t\u0173 jus sul\u0117tinti, o ne pagreitinti. Ji tur\u0117t\u0173 vesti jus \u012f i\u0161mint\u012f, o ne \u012f pageidavimus. Kai j\u016bs\u0173 tro\u0161kimas stiprus, net ir malda gali b\u016bti filtruojama per j\u016bs\u0173 emocijas. \u0160tai kod\u0117l svarbu laukti Dievo atsakymo. Ne atsakymo, kur\u012f <em>viltis<\/em> Jis duoda. Ne t\u0105, kur\u012f nori, kad Jis duot\u0173. . <em>tikras<\/em> vienas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Santyki\u0173, \u012fsi\u0161aknijusi\u0173 Dieve, nereikia versti maldomis. Jis augs, nes malda jau yra j\u016bs\u0173 abiej\u0173 dalis, o ne ka\u017ekas, k\u0105 naudojate, kad \u012ftikintum\u0117te save, jog esate suderinti. Dievo buvimo nereikia gaminti. Jis nat\u016braliai bus centre, kai Jis i\u0161 ties\u0173 vadovaus ry\u0161iui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-boundaries-don-t-replace-discipline\">3. Ribos nepakei\u010dia drausm\u0117s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u016btina nustatyti ribas. Ta\u010diau nor\u0117\u010diau, kad i\u0161 pat prad\u017ei\u0173 \u017eino\u010diau, jog ribos yra tik tiek tvirtos, kiek stipri j\u016bs\u0173 disciplina. Galite vis\u0105 dien\u0105 kalb\u0117ti apie tai, kad nakvyn\u0117s nebus, bet jei nesilaikysite <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/vengti-viliojanciu-situaciju-susitikinejant\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">savo laiko, dirgikli\u0173 ir emocij\u0173 valdymas.<\/a> su branda, j\u016bs krisite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drausm\u0117 - tai sprendimai, priimami prie\u0161 pasirei\u0161kiant tro\u0161kimui. Ar \u017einote savo silpn\u0105sias vietas? Ar esate susik\u016br\u0119 atskaitomyb\u0119 dar prie\u0161 akimirk\u0105? O gal pasikliaujate valios j\u0117ga akimirkos \u012fkar\u0161tyje? Dievas ragina mus ne tik nustatyti ribas - Jis ragina mus elgtis i\u0161mintingai (Efezie\u010diams 5, 15). Tai gyvenimo b\u016bdas, o ne tik taisykli\u0173 s\u0105ra\u0161as.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tai kod\u0117l labai svarbu suvokti save. Jei ne\u017einosite savo polinki\u0173, \u012f situacijas eisite aklai. \u0160tai kod\u0117l svarbu valdyti savo vienatv\u0119. Tu su\u017einai apie save daugiau dalyk\u0173, nei galb\u016bt \u012fsivaizdavai. Taip gal\u0117si gyventi gyvenim\u0105, kuris apsaugos tave nuo blogiausios sav\u0119s versijos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-boundaries-without-discipline\">Ribos be disciplinos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ribos be disciplinos yra tarsi spynos ant dur\u0173, kuri\u0173 niekada nesivarginate u\u017edaryti. J\u016bs sakote sau, kad esate saug\u016bs, nes yra spyna, bet jei nuolat paliekate duris praviras, pagunda \u012feis \u012f vid\u0173. Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pasimatymas reikalauja s\u0105\u017einingumo su savimi. Ne tik apie tai, ko norite, bet ir apie tai, su kuo kovojate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Negalite nustatyti rib\u0173 pagal tai, kas jums <em>viltis<\/em> J\u016bs esate. Ribas nustatote pagal tai, kas jums <em>\u017einoti<\/em> J\u016bs esate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt galvojate: \u201cDabar jau tur\u0117\u010diau b\u016bti pakankamai stiprus.\u201d<br>Arba: \u201cEsame suaug\u0119, galime su tuo susitvarkyti.\u201d<br>Arba: \u201cTai nieko tokio, mes \u017einome savo ribas.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau ribos n\u0117ra silpnumas. Jos rei\u0161kia i\u0161mint\u012f. Jos susijusios su pripa\u017einimu, kad emocijos stipr\u0117ja, trauka auga, o pa\u017eeid\u017eiamumas greitai atveria duris. Net stipriausias krik\u0161\u010dionis gali paslysti, jei manys, kad disciplina stebuklingai atsiras t\u0105 akimirk\u0105, kai jos prireiks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drausm\u0117 atsiranda gerokai anks\u010diau, nei pasirodo i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis. Ji kuriama per j\u016bs\u0173 \u012fpro\u010dius, maldos gyvenim\u0105, nuo\u0161irdum\u0105 ir \u017emones, kuriems leid\u017eiate b\u016bti atsakingais. Apribojimai ai\u0161kiai parodo keli\u0105. Drausm\u0117 padeda juo eiti. Nusipeln\u0117te santyki\u0173, kuriuose nuolat nekovotum\u0117te su kalt\u0117s jausmu, sumai\u0161timi ar dvasine migla. Drausm\u0117 sukuria erdv\u0119 ai\u0161kumui. Ji padeda susitikin\u0117ti su pasitik\u0117jimu, o ne su chaosu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-stop-looking-for-a-savior\">4. Nustokite ie\u0161koti Gelb\u0117tojo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tur\u0117jau i\u0161mokti: b\u016bsimasis sutuoktinis n\u0117ra j\u016bs\u0173 gydytojas, patar\u0117jas ar guod\u0117jas. Tai J\u0117zus. Sutuoktinis negali i\u0161taisyti j\u016bs\u0173 nesaugumo jausm\u0173, u\u017epildyti emocin\u0117s tu\u0161tumos ar jus papildyti. Tai per didelis spaudimas kitam \u017emogui, kuris jus abu nuteikia nes\u0117kmei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Norint eiti \u012f pasimatym\u0105, neb\u016btina b\u016bti tobulam, bet reikia b\u016bti visaver\u010diam. Tai rei\u0161kia, kad esate saugus Kristuje, o ne desperati\u0161kai trok\u0161tate, kad kas nors patvirtint\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 vert\u0119. Jei nor\u0117site, kad kas nors padaryt\u0173 tai, k\u0105 gali padaryti tik Dievas, galiausiai nusivilsite ir pasijusite sutrik\u0119 - ir tikriausiai kaltinsite j\u012f d\u0117l to, kad jis n\u0117ra pakankamas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Mano istorija<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai buvo didel\u0117 klaida, kuri\u0105 padariau susitikin\u0117damas, ypa\u010d paauglyst\u0117je. Maniau, kad esu ko nors verta tik tada, jei vaikinui patinku. Jei jam nepatiko, vadinasi, ka\u017ekas su manimi negerai. Arba jei vaikinas neskyr\u0117 man d\u0117mesio, vadinasi, buvau nuobodi. Jei jis nepasirinko man\u0119s vietoj kitos merginos, vadinasi, nebuvau verta niekieno laiko. Visa tai buvo melas. J\u016bs taip pat netur\u0117tum\u0117te jais tik\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esate sukurtas pagal Dievo paveiksl\u0105, tod\u0117l tai automati\u0161kai rei\u0161kia, kad esate ne\u012fkainojamas. Jis pasiunt\u0117 savo vienatin\u012f S\u016bn\u0173 mirti u\u017e jus, tod\u0117l esate vertas meil\u0117s. I\u0161sipildymas ateina i\u0161 to, kas esate Kristuje. Tur\u0117ti sutuoktin\u012f, jei to trok\u0161tate, yra tiesiog gyvenimo priedas. Li\u016bdna, kad kai kurios ba\u017eny\u010dios santuok\u0105 pavert\u0117 stabu ir daug krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 jau\u010diasi nepilnaver\u010diai be \u017eiedo. Netik\u0117kite \u0161iuo melu, kad ir koks tikras jis b\u016bt\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-people-are-your-savior\">Kai \u017emon\u0117s yra tavo gelb\u0117tojai...<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pa\u017eintys tampa pavojingos, kai tikit\u0117s, kad \u017emogus u\u017egydys \u017eaizd\u0105, kuri\u0105 Dievas nori gydyti. \u017dmon\u0117s negali i\u0161gydyti atst\u016bmimo, apleidimo, nesaugumo, vienatv\u0117s ar baim\u0117s. Jie gali jus palaikyti, padr\u0105sinti, eiti su jumis, myl\u0117ti, bet negali j\u016bs\u0173 u\u017ebaigti. Toks l\u016bkestis santykius paver\u010dia i\u0161gyvenimo \u012frankiais, o ne partneryste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ie\u0161kote \u017emogaus, kuris i\u0161gelb\u0117t\u0173 jus nuo praeities, i\u0161gelb\u0117t\u0173 jus nuo vienatv\u0117s, i\u0161gelb\u0117t\u0173 jus nuo jausmo, kad esate nematomas - n\u0117 vienas i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 tro\u0161kim\u0173 neveda \u012f sveik\u0105 meil\u0119. Jie veda \u012f priklausomyb\u0119, nusivylim\u0105 ir nereikaling\u0105 \u0161irdies sudau\u017eym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-jesus-is-your-savior\">Kai J\u0117zus yra tavo gelb\u0117tojas...<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs nusipeln\u0117te santyki\u0173, kurie b\u016bt\u0173 grind\u017eiami visaverti\u0161kumu, o ne neviltimi. Dievas niekada nesuk\u016br\u0117 pasimatym\u0173 tam, kad pakeist\u0173 J\u012f. Jis suk\u016br\u0117 jas tam, kad papildyt\u0173 tai, k\u0105 Jis jau daro jumyse. Kai santuoka i\u0161keliama auk\u0161\u010diau u\u017e tapatyb\u0119, kyla nusivylimas. Kai tapatyb\u0117 grind\u017eiama Kristumi, galite laisvai m\u0117gautis santykiais, j\u0173 nesureik\u0161mindami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-god-isn-t-testing-you\">5. Dievas j\u016bs\u0173 nei\u0161bando<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dionys vienatv\u0119 laiko bausme, o pasimatymus - baigiamuoju egzaminu, kur\u012f reikia i\u0161laikyti. Leiskite man jus i\u0161laisvinti: Dievas nekabina santyki\u0173 vir\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 galvos, kol neb\u016bsite \u201cpakankamai geri\u201d. Tai ne egzaminas. Tai partneryst\u0117, laikas ir tikslas. Jis d\u017eiaugiasi teikdamas geras dovanas. Jis ne\u017eaid\u017eia sl\u0117pyni\u0173 su tavo \u0161irdimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taip, b\u016bna laukimo laikotarpi\u0173. Taip, yra dalyk\u0173, kuriuos Jis tobulina. Ta\u010diau Jo \u0161irdis skirta j\u016bs\u0173 gerovei, o ne tik j\u016bs\u0173 augimui. Nereikia per daug analizuoti kiekvienos raudonos v\u0117liav\u0117l\u0117s ar manyti, kad sunkumai rei\u0161kia, jog \u201cDievas man duoda pamok\u0105\u201d. Kartais tai tiesiog nesutampa. Ir tai yra gerai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-learning-from-mistakes\">Mokymasis i\u0161 klaid\u0173<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne, negalime gr\u012f\u017eti atgal \u012f praeit\u012f ir i\u0161taisyti vis\u0173 klaid\u0173, kurias padar\u0117me susitikin\u0117dami, bet galime i\u0161 j\u0173 pasimokyti. \u017dinau, kad daug ko i\u0161mokau prie\u0161 sutikdama savo vyr\u0105. Atsp\u0117kite k\u0105? Niekada nenustojate mokytis net ir santuokoje, tod\u0117l nemanykite, kad prie altoriaus yra fini\u0161o tiesioji. Tai tiesiog nauja prad\u017eia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar pasitik\u0117site Dievo charakteriu ir \u0161irdimi? Ar tik\u0117site, kad Jis yra su jumis ir nori jums geriausio? \u017di\u016br\u0117kite \u012f J\u012f, net kai viskas atrodo tamsu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esate vieni\u0161as ne tod\u0117l, kad turite tr\u016bkum\u0173. Taip pat nelaukiate, nes jums ka\u017ekas nepavyko. Nesi pamir\u0161tas ne tod\u0117l, kad Dievas tave pamir\u0161o. Pasimatymai n\u0117ra atlygis u\u017e dvasin\u012f na\u0161um\u0105. Tai tiesiog dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 santykiai - vedami i\u0161tikimo Dievo, kuris tiksliai \u017eino, ko ir kada jums reikia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai nustojate laikyti kelion\u0119 i\u0161bandymu, i\u0161silaisvinate i\u0161 spaudimo ir \u012f\u017eengiate \u012f ramyb\u0119. Dievas nevertins j\u016bs\u0173 vert\u0117s. Jis nematuoja j\u016bs\u0173 vert\u0117s pagal j\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 status\u0105. Jis neatima meil\u0117s kaip bausm\u0117s. Jo laikas n\u0117ra pagr\u012fstas \u017eiaurumu - jis pagr\u012fstas r\u016bpes\u010diu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasiruo\u0161\u0119 susitikti su kai kuriais <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">nuostab\u016bs krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 viengungiai<\/a>? Atsisi\u0173skite <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT programa<\/a> \u0161iandien!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If there was one thing I wish I could change prior to dating would be my expectations. Unfortunately, my mind had been filled with fantasy stories like Cinderella, so this image of meeting a man and knowing he was &#8220;the one&#8221; instantly had me thinking that&#8217;s how it was supposed to be. 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