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\u0160is tinklara\u0161\u010dio \u012fra\u0161as skirtas ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovams, kurie nori susitikin\u0117ti ir tuoktis. Kaip jums tai padaryti gerai, kai vadovaujate ba\u017eny\u010diai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Kaip vaik\u0161\u010dioti \u012f pasimatymus ir vis dar gerbti Diev\u0105 kaip ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovas, kad viskas nesusipainiot\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160tai penki b\u016bdai, kaip galite susitikin\u0117ti kaip ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovas, kad pagerbtum\u0117te Diev\u0105 ir tuo pat metu pasitelktum\u0117te i\u0161mint\u012f ir \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Pasimatymas su ketinimu, o ne d\u0117mesiu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Nustatykite ribas prie\u0161 tai, kai j\u0173 prireiks<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Kvieskite Diev\u0105 \u012f kiekvien\u0105 pokalb\u012f<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Nesisl\u0117pkite u\u017e pavadinimo<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Bendruomen\u0117 vir\u0161ija slaptum\u0105<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Tai n\u0117ra i\u0161samus s\u0105ra\u0161as, bet tai yra pradinis ta\u0161kas, kuris pad\u0117s jums tikslingai rinktis pasimatymus. B\u016bdami ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovai, turite nepamir\u0161ti, kok\u012f pavyzd\u012f rodote savo bendruomenei. Nesuderinama skatinti juos siekti tyrumo ir laukti iki santuokos, tuo pat metu pa\u010diam u\u017esiimant nesantuokiniais lytiniais santykiais. \u012esitikinkite, kad j\u016bs\u0173 asmeninis ir vie\u0161asis gyvenimas yra suderinti. Norite susitikin\u0117ti su \u0161varia s\u0105\u017eine, gal\u0117dami pateikti Dievo \u017eod\u012f, nesl\u0117pdami tiesos apie savo gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u012evadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Augdamas ba\u017eny\u010dioje ma\u010diau, kaip \u017emon\u0117s, ypa\u010d moterys, palieka ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105 po i\u0161siskyrimo su ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovais. Jie gal\u0117jo susitikin\u0117ti su pagrindiniu muzikantu, b\u016bgnininku ar net jaunimo pastoriumi. Kai reikalai nesusiklost\u0117, jos jaut\u0117si per daug emoci\u0161kai pa\u017eeid\u017eiamos, kad pasilikt\u0173, ir nusprend\u0117, kad geriausia i\u0161eiti ir susirasti kit\u0105 ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105. Kartais b\u016bna atvirk\u0161\u010diai: ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovas susitikin\u0117ja su kuo nors i\u0161 bendruomen\u0117s nari\u0173, o kai santykiai nutr\u016bksta, jis lieka matytis su tuo \u017emogumi kiekvien\u0105 sekmadien\u012f, o tai kelia nuolatin\u0119 \u012ftamp\u0105 ir diskomfort\u0105. Taigi, ar ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovai tur\u0117t\u0173 susitikin\u0117ti su savo bendruomen\u0117s nariais?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jei atsid\u016br\u0117te tokioje pad\u0117tyje, primygtinai rekomenduoju vadovautis \u012f\u017evalgumu. Net jei nesate vadovas, i\u0161mintinga s\u0105moningai rinktis, su kuo susitikin\u0117jate savo ba\u017eny\u010dioje. Kod\u0117l? Nes, kad ir kokia geranori\u0161ka b\u016bt\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dios \u0161eima, kai tik apie tai su\u017einoma, gali prasid\u0117ti spaudimas, ypa\u010d d\u0117l santuokos id\u0117jos. Gali b\u016bti, kad susitikin\u0117jate tik kelias savaites, bet dabar kiti tikisi vestuvi\u0173. Daugyb\u0117 santyki\u0173 nukent\u0117jo nuo tokio d\u0117mesio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    J\u016bs vedate kitus \u012f tik\u0117jim\u0105, bet kas atsitinka, kai \u012f tai \u012fsitraukia j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis? \"Esu susitikin\u0117j\u0119s su ba\u017eny\u010dios vaikinais, ir muzikantai yra patys blogiausi.\" Deja, ba\u017eny\u010dioje yra daugyb\u0117 pasimatym\u0173 istorij\u0173, susijusi\u0173 su vadovais ir nariais. Nors asmeni\u0161kai su tuo nesu susid\u016brusi, u\u017eaugau kaip pastoriaus dukt\u0117, ir kartais atrodo, kad gyvenu tarsi akvariume. Dauguma \u017emoni\u0173 nesupranta, kad m\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovai - pastoriai, diakonai ir kiti - taip pat yra \u017emon\u0117s. Jie trok\u0161ta meil\u0117s kaip ir visi kiti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pasimatymas su intencija, o ne d\u0117mesiu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
      <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      J\u016bs esate \u010dia ne d\u0117l \u017eaidim\u0173. Jei rimtai \u017ei\u016brite \u012f savo tik\u0117jim\u0105, rimtai \u017ei\u016br\u0117kite ir \u012f pasimatym\u0173 proces\u0105. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad turite i\u0161 karto \u017einoti, ar asmuo, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117jate, yra \"tas vienintelis\", ta\u010diau tai taip pat nerei\u0161kia, kad tur\u0117tum\u0117te atsitiktinai susitikin\u0117ti su visais savo bendruomen\u0117s nariais tik d\u0117l pramogos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Suprantama, kad ankstyvuoju etapu norite susipa\u017einti su vienu ar dviem \u017emon\u0117mis - juk vis dar esate reikl\u016bs. Ta\u010diau \u0161i\u0105 savait\u0119 susitikin\u0117ti su vienu \u017emogumi, kit\u0105 - su kitu, o dar kit\u0105 savait\u0119 - su tre\u010diu? Tai n\u0117ra laikysena \u017emogaus, nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai siekian\u010dio \u012f Krist\u0173 orientuot\u0173 santyki\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Savo bendruomen\u0117je<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      Jei jus domina kas nors i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dios, i\u0161 anksto nustatykite ai\u0161kius l\u016bkes\u010dius. Per greitai netapkite i\u0161skirtiniais - jums reikia laiko steb\u0117ti j\u0173 gyvenimo vaisius. Manau, visi galime sutikti, kad vien tik lankymasis ba\u017eny\u010dioje ar u\u017eimamos vadovaujan\u010dios pareigos automati\u0161kai nerei\u0161kia, kad \u017emogus nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai seka J\u0117zumi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Pirmiausia inventorizuokite savo eisen\u0105. \u012esitikinkite, kad esate suderintas su Dievu. Tuomet susitikin\u0117dami nepamir\u0161kite patikrinti, ar jus dominantis asmuo elgiasi taip pat. Man labai patinka pastoriaus D\u017eerio Floriso citata: \"Laikykite tai priva\u010diai, kol tai n\u0117ra visam laikui. Ta\u0161kas.\" V\u0117liau apie tai pla\u010diau papasakosiu, bet esm\u0117 yra tokia - visi ba\u017eny\u010dioje neturi \u017einoti, su kuo susitikin\u0117jate. Tai darote ne d\u0117l d\u0117mesio ar aplodisment\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Nustatykite ribas prie\u0161 tai, kai j\u0173 prireiks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
        <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Nelaukite, kol viskas \u012fsib\u0117g\u0117s, kad i\u0161siai\u0161kintum\u0117te, kur yra riba. Emocin\u0117s, fizin\u0117s ir dvasin\u0117s ribos<\/a> tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti ai\u0161kiai nustatyta, kai tik abu nusprend\u017eiate toliau susitikin\u0117ti. Ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovams d\u0117l j\u0173 u\u017eimam\u0173 pareig\u0173 taikomi auk\u0161tesni standartai. Naujajame Testamente i\u0161d\u0117styti konkret\u016bs reikalavimai, kuri\u0173 pastoriai - ir net diakonai - privalo laikytis, jei nori i\u0161laikyti savo vaidmen\u012f ba\u017eny\u010dioje. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad nedarysite klaid\u0173, net ir b\u016bdami vadovu. Ta\u010diau vadovavimas yra susij\u0119s su atskaitomybe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Deja, kai kurie ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovai piktnaud\u017eiauja savo vald\u017eia, naudodamiesi savo pad\u0117timi, kad pasinaudot\u0173 savo bendruomen\u0117s nariais. Galite rodyti kitok\u012f pavyzd\u012f praktikuodami tai, k\u0105 pamokslaujate, ir gyvendami biblin\u012f gyvenim\u0105, net ir savo pasimatymuose. Kaip min\u0117jau anks\u010diau, j\u016bs\u0173 asmeninis ir vie\u0161asis gyvenimas netur\u0117t\u0173 konfliktuoti. Galb\u016bt sekmadien\u012f sakysite galing\u0105 pamoksl\u0105, bet Dievas \u017eino j\u016bs\u0173 to vakaro planus - ir k\u0105 veik\u0117te nakt\u012f prie\u0161 tai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Dievas \u017eino<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vadovai mano, kad, kadangi Dievas j\u0173 dar nenubaud\u0117, jie gali gyventi dvigub\u0105 gyvenim\u0105. Ta\u010diau Dievas nieko nepastebi, net jei blog\u0173 pasirinkim\u0173 pasekm\u0117s n\u0117ra tiesiogin\u0117s. Naujajame Testamente Paulius nurod\u0117 Timotiejui \"b\u016bti tikintiesiems pavyzd\u017eiu \u017eod\u017eiu, elgesiu, meile, dvasia, tik\u0117jimu ir tyrumu\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Timotiejus buvo jaunas pastorius, kurio \u0161irdis buvo sutelkta \u012f tai, kad patikt\u0173 Dievui ir skelbt\u0173 ties\u0105. J\u016bs galite daryti t\u0105 pat\u012f - gerai vadovauti ir vaik\u0161\u010dioti \u012f pasimatymus su dievobaimingumu. Anksti prane\u0161kite apie savo ribas. Jei t\u0173 rib\u0173 nesilaikoma, tas \u017emogus jums netinkamas. \u012esitikinkite, kad jie supranta j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u0161aukim\u0105. Ne kiekvienas gali pakelti tok\u012f svor\u012f, koks tenka tarnaujan\u010diam \u017emogui, tod\u0117l jums reikia \u017emogaus, kuris visi\u0161kai gerbt\u0173 tai, kam Dievas jus pa\u0161auk\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Mano istorija<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        U\u017eaug\u0119s kaip pastoriaus dukt\u0117, neb\u016btinai nor\u0117jau vesti k\u0105 nors, kas dirba ministerijoje. Ne d\u0117l to, kad tur\u0117jau k\u0105 nors prie\u0161 pastorius, bet d\u0117l to, kad ma\u010diau, kaip tarnyst\u0117 paveik\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eim\u0105. Taip, tarnyst\u0117 teikia daugyb\u0119 palaiminim\u0173, ta\u010diau su ja susij\u0119s ir kitas dvasin\u0117s kovos lygmuo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Kai mano dabartinis vyras pasak\u0117, kad yra jaunimo pastorius, tur\u0117jau atsitraukti ir rimtai apsvarstyti, k\u0105 reik\u0161t\u0173 santykiai su juo. Mano atveju Dievas suteik\u0117 man ramyb\u0119 ir patvirtinim\u0105. Supratau, kad nuo pat vaikyst\u0117s buvau pasirengusi palaikyti pa\u0161aukim\u0105, kur\u012f Dievas skyr\u0117 mano vyro gyvenimui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Kvieskite Diev\u0105 \u012f kiekvien\u0105 pokalb\u012f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
          <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad j\u016bs ir asmuo, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117jate, turite prad\u0117ti studijuoti Biblij\u0105 nuo pirmos dienos. Dvasinis intymumas yra tikras, tod\u0117l nerekomenduoju per anksti kartu melstis. Ta\u010diau kai suart\u0117site ir tapsite rimtesni, malda gali tapti reik\u0161minga j\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 dalimi. Ji leid\u017eia pa\u017evelgti \u012f tai, kaip kitas \u017emogus ie\u0161ko Dievo d\u0117l j\u016bs\u0173. Ar jis pra\u0161o Dievo jus abu vesti ir vadovauti, ar jo maldos sutelktos tik \u012f tai, kas jie<\/em> nori, kad taptum\u0117te j\u0173 gyvenimo centru? U\u017emezgus santykius, svarbu u\u017eduoti klausimus, kurie pad\u0117s \u012fvertinti, ar tai yra \u017emogus, su kuriuo galite matyti nuolatin\u0119 ateit\u012f, pavyzd\u017eiui, santuok\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Ie\u0161kokite Dievo vadovavimo ir vis\u0105 pasimatym\u0173 kelion\u0119 b\u016bkite su \u0160vent\u0105ja Dvasia. Kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s tai daro iki kra\u0161tutinum\u0173, manydami, kad gali tik<\/em> kalb\u0117ti apie Diev\u0105, ypa\u010d jei jie susitikin\u0117ja su ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovu. Ta\u010diau nepamir\u0161kite, kad abu esate \u017emon\u0117s su unikaliais interesais. Ne nuod\u0117m\u0117 eiti \u0161okti, \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti film\u0105 ar pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti susikibus u\u017e rank\u0173. Susitikin\u0117dami galite m\u0117gautis \u012fvairiais pokalbiais - bet jei apie j\u016bs\u0173 tik\u0117jim\u0105 niekada nekalbama, tai raudona v\u0117liava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Mano patirtis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

          Nors pasimatym\u0173 metu su vyru kalb\u0117jom\u0117s apie bendrus interesus ir pom\u0117gius, m\u016bs\u0173 pagrindas buvo Dievo \u017eodis. Niekada neabejojau, kad jis myli J\u0117z\u0173 ir Ra\u0161tus. M\u016bs\u0173 santykiams augant, jis melsdavosi u\u017e mane ir pra\u0161ydavo Dievo palaiminti mano dien\u0105. Kai netekdavau mylim\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, jis skambindavo tik tam, kad pasimelst\u0173 u\u017e mano paguod\u0105 ir mano \u0161eimos ramyb\u0119. \u017dinoma, mes taip pat linksmindavom\u0117s - juokdavom\u0117s ir erzindavome vienas kit\u0105 d\u0117l maisto pom\u0117gi\u0173. K\u0105 a\u0161 noriu pasakyti? Dievas b\u016btinai turi b\u016bti j\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 centre - bet tai nerei\u0161kia, kad negalite d\u017eiaugtis kitais bendrais dalykais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Nesisl\u0117pkite u\u017e pavadinimo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
            <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

            Ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovui nelengva b\u016bti pa\u017eeid\u017eiamam su savo bendruomene. Daugelis pastori\u0173 ir vadov\u0173 yra nudeg\u0119 nuo savo ba\u017eny\u010dios nari\u0173, tod\u0117l jie ne\u017eino, kuo gali pasitik\u0117ti ir su kuo gali b\u016bti s\u0105\u017einingi. Jei ketinate susitikti su kuo nors i\u0161 savo ba\u017eny\u010dios, neskub\u0117kite \u012fvertinti, ar tas asmuo vertas pasitik\u0117jimo. Vadovavimas nereikalauja emocinio nepasiekiamumo. Vis dar galite rodytis santykiuose s\u0105\u017einingai ir skaidriai, kartu vadovaudamiesi i\u0161mintimi ir \u012f\u017evalgumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Daugelis ba\u017eny\u010dios vadov\u0173 tiesiog neskai\u010diuoja pasimatym\u0173 ir tikisi susituokti, ypa\u010d kai reikia apsvarstyti daugiau dalyk\u0173. Ta\u010diau kartu su Dievu \u012fvertinkite, ar tai j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 ribotumas, ar tik baim\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Nesate tobulas - ir tai yra gerai. Asmuo, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117jate, netur\u0117t\u0173 kelti jums nereali\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173 vien d\u0117l to, kad einate vadovaujan\u010dias pareigas. Kartu nesijauskite, kad turite sl\u0117ptis po savo titulu, kad i\u0161laikytum\u0117te nepriekai\u0161tingos i\u0161vaizdos \u012fsp\u016bd\u012f. Kai svars\u010diau, ar t\u0119sti santykius su savo dabartiniu vyru, mama man dav\u0117 patarim\u0105, kuris man \u012fstrigo. Ji sak\u0117: \"Turi myl\u0117ti \u017emog\u0173\", ypa\u010d kai kalbama apie pasimatymus su pastoriumi ar vadovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            J\u016bs esate \u017emogus<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

            Galb\u016bt esate ba\u017eny\u010dios vadovas, bet vis tiek esate \u017emogus, turintis nor\u0173 ir emocij\u0173, kaip ir visi kiti. Tegul j\u016bs\u0173 charakteris kalba pats u\u017e save, nes atspindite Krist\u0173, ir pasitik\u0117kite, kad Dievas atves \u012f j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kuris matys tikr\u0105j\u012f jus. Nereikia to daryti per prievart\u0105 - o jei ir darysite, grei\u010diausiai tai vis tiek nesuveiks. J\u016bs\u0173 titulas yra tik titulas. J\u016bs\u0173 tapatyb\u0117 pirmiausia kyla i\u0161 Dievo, kuris jus pa\u0161auk\u0117. Susitikite su \u017emogumi, kuris gerbia j\u016bs\u0173 pareigas, gerbia j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u0161aukim\u0105, bet, svarbiausia, mato ir vertina jus kaip asmen\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Bendruomen\u0117 vir\u0161ija slaptum\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
              <\/ol>\n\n\n\n

              Neprivalote skelbti apie savo pasimatymus visai bendruomenei, bet taip pat netur\u0117tum\u0117te j\u0173 visi\u0161kai sl\u0117pti. Anks\u010diau apie tai u\u017esiminiau sakydamas: \"Laikykite tai priva\u010diai, kol tai n\u0117ra nuolatinis dalykas\", ta\u010diau \u017eengkime dar vien\u0105 \u017eingsn\u012f toliau. Nors ne visi turi \u017einoti apie j\u016bs\u0173 santykius, i\u0161mintinga \u012f \u0161\u012f proces\u0105 pakviesti patikimus mentorius ar dvasinius vadovus. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad kiti j\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dios nariai ilgainiui nesu\u017einos, bet nesakykite nieko vie\u0161ai, kol jums abiem bus ai\u0161ku, ko norite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Kart\u0105 ba\u017eny\u010dioje susitikin\u0117jau su vaikinu ir, deja, viena i\u0161 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173, kod\u0117l jis nutrauk\u0117 santykius, buvo tai, k\u0105 pasak\u0117 kitas ba\u017eny\u010dios narys. Ji nekalb\u0117jo apie mane blogai - tiesiog pamin\u0117jo, kad esu pastoriaus dukt\u0117, nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai mylinti Vie\u0161pat\u012f. D\u0117l tos pastabos jis pasijuto nesaugus. Jis \u0117m\u0117 abejoti, ar jo tik\u0117jimas pakankamai stiprus, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti su tokiu \u017emogumi kaip a\u0161. Niekam nebuvau pasakojusi apie m\u016bs\u0173 santykius, bet net ir turint geriausi\u0173 ketinim\u0173 \u017emon\u0117s tai su\u017einos - ir reikia b\u016bti pasiruo\u0161usiam tai atlaikyti. Jei kas nors tiesiog smalsauja, neprivalote jiems atsakyti. Bet jei tai \u017emogus, kuriuo pasitikite, galite \u0161iek tiek pasidalyti, ai\u0161kiai nurodydami, kad dar anksti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Ie\u0161kokite i\u0161mintingo patarimo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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