{"id":2974,"date":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2974"},"modified":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","slug":"situacijos-ir-kaip-ju-isvengti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/situationships-and-how-to-avoid-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Situacijos ir kaip j\u0173 i\u0161vengti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160is prane\u0161imas padeda krik\u0161\u010dionims atpa\u017einti ir i\u0161vengti situacij\u0173, kai jie yra su partneriu be \u012fsipareigojimo ar ai\u0161kumo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikiuosi, kad suprasite savo vert\u0119 ir niekada nepasitenkinsite kit\u0173 duonos trupiniais. Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai patenka \u012f situacijas i\u0161 baim\u0117s, manydami, <em>\"Tai geriau nei b\u016bti vienam.\"<\/em> Padarykime gal\u0105 tokiam m\u0105stymui! J\u016bs nusipeln\u0117te Dievo geriausio, ir jo verta laukti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip mums, krik\u0161\u010dionims, i\u0161vengti situacij\u0173? \u0160tai keletas patarim\u0173:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarify-intentions-early\">Anksti i\u0161siai\u0161kinkite ketinimus<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Nesitenkinkite \"beveik<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Saugokite savo \u0161ird\u012f ir emocijas<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Nustatykite ir \u012fgyvendinkite ribas<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Pasitik\u0117kite Dievu, o ne savo jausmais<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dinau, kad savo pasimatym\u0173 gyvenime norite gerbti Diev\u0105, ir suprantu, kad laukti tinkamo \u017emogaus gali b\u016bti sunku. Prie\u0161ais jus esantis asmuo gali atrodyti patrauklus, bet kai pa\u017evelgsite po jo pavir\u0161iumi, suprasite, kad jis n\u0117ra tai, ko i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 norite. Galb\u016bt dabar tai neturi prasm\u0117s, bet pasitik\u0117ti Dievo laiku yra geriausia, k\u0105 galite padaryti. Taip, atsiskleiskite ir susipa\u017einkite su naujais \u017emon\u0117mis, bet naudokit\u0117s \u012f\u017evalgumu, kad atpa\u017eintum\u0117te, kada \u0161vaistote savo laik\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kaip elgtis susidariusioje situacijoje?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4Vd8hU5XAR8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">\u012evadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar kada nors esate buv\u0119 tokioje situacijoje, ar pa\u017e\u012fstate k\u0105 nors, kas yra buv\u0119 tokioje situacijoje? Galb\u016bt esate buv\u0119 i\u0161or\u0117je, steb\u0117j\u0119, kaip j\u016bs\u0173 draugas priima i\u0161 ko nors trupinius, ir galvoj\u0119, <em>\"Jie nusipeln\u0117 daug daugiau.\"<\/em> Arba galb\u016bt atsid\u016br\u0117te situacijoje, kurioje pasilikote, nes man\u0117te, kad galite <em>\"pakeiskite \u017emog\u0173\".<\/em> Tik\u0117jote, kad b\u016bsite kitoks j\u0173 akyse ir kad jie pagaliau jums atsiduos. Ta\u010diau galiausiai viskas, k\u0105 \u0161is sprendimas tau paliko, buvo sudau\u017eyta \u0161irdis ir tikriausiai kvailumo jausmas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kas tiksliai yra santykiai su situacija? \u0160\u012f termin\u0105 i\u0161mokau tik prie\u0161 kelerius metus ir manau, kad jis gali b\u016bti glaud\u017eiai susij\u0119s su \"draugyste\". Situacin\u0117 draugyst\u0117 yra tada, kai jus su kuo nors sieja romanti\u0161kas ry\u0161ys, bet be \u012fsipareigojim\u0173. J\u016bs giliai bendraujate, leid\u017eiate laik\u0105 kartu, bet n\u0117ra jokio ai\u0161kumo. Galite net per\u017eengti ribas ir miegoti su tuo \u017emogumi, ta\u010diau n\u0117ra tikr\u0173 santyki\u0173 saugumo. Visada lieka dvejoni\u0173, <em>\"Kas mes esame?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Mano istorija<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dauguma krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173 s\u0105moningai neu\u017emezga toki\u0173 santyki\u0173. Jie nesuvokia, kad b\u016btent ma\u017ei kompromisai gali nuvesti juos \u012f tai, ko jie niekada nenor\u0117jo. Pana\u0161ioje situacijoje atsid\u016briau prie\u0161 sutikdama savo vyr\u0105 2019 metais. Maniau, kad \u0161is vyras yra laimikis, bet kai kalb\u0117jom\u0117s apie jud\u0117jim\u0105 \u012f priek\u012f, jis vis kartojo, kad atstumas yra per didelis. Pasakysiu ai\u0161kiai - abu gyvenome tame pa\u010diame mieste, mus skyr\u0117 tik ma\u017edaug keturiasde\u0161imt penkios minut\u0117s kelio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stengiausi gerbti jo norus, bet tur\u0117jau pasitraukti. Vietoj to toliau su juo kalb\u0117jausi, manydamas, kad jis persigalvos. Po to sek\u0117 gil\u016bs pokalbiai, ir nors tai atrod\u0117 kaip santykiai, taip nebuvo. Galiausiai Dievas liep\u0117 man nebeatsakin\u0117ti \u012f jo skambu\u010dius. Nors vis dar jau\u010diau jam jausmus, paklusau. Po dvej\u0173 met\u0173 sutikau savo vyr\u0105, kuris gyveno Niujorke. Atstumas jam buvo nesvarbus, nes buvau verta susitikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarify-intentions-early\">Anksti i\u0161siai\u0161kinkite ketinimus<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei susitikin\u0117jate nor\u0117dami susituokti, n\u0117ra prasm\u0117s ie\u0161koti \u017emogaus, kuris nenori \u012fsipareigoti. Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad jis yra blogas \u017emogus - tai tik rei\u0161kia, kad jis nesutinka su j\u016bs\u0173 tikslais. J\u016bs norite santuokos ir vaik\u0173, o jie nori likti ne\u012fsipareigoj\u0119. Kart\u0105 ma\u010diau, kaip viena moteris klaus\u0117 pokalbi\u0173 laidos ved\u0117jo, k\u0105 daryti su savo vieneri\u0173 met\u0173 draugu, kuris jai nepateik\u0117 pasi\u016blymo. Jie apsigyveno kartu, bet jis vis dar nepapra\u0161\u0117 jos susituokti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vyras atsak\u0117, kad jis mat\u0117 daugyb\u0119 nes\u0117kming\u0173 santyki\u0173 aplink save ir bijojo baigti taip pat. Jis nenor\u0117jo rizikuoti tuo atveju, jei reikalai nesusiklostyt\u0173. Nors tai buvo pasaulietin\u0117 laida, net ir krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai atsiduria pana\u0161iose situacijose. Ankstyvas savo ketinim\u0173 nustatymas padeda i\u0161vengti painiavos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-be-intense-about-it\">Neu\u017esiimkite intensyvia veikla<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai nerei\u0161kia, kad per pirm\u0105j\u012f pasimatym\u0105 turite pasidalyti savo gyvenimo tikslais. Ta\u010diau po keli\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ir prasming\u0173 pokalbi\u0173, jei jau\u010diate, kad einate skirtingais keliais, pasitik\u0117kite \u0161iuo jausmu ir eikite toliau. Negalite \u012ftikinti \u017emogaus, kad esate laimingas. Tik Dievas gali pakeisti \u017emogaus \u0161ird\u012f, tod\u0117l ne\u0161vaistykite laiko bandymams. Tinkamas \u017emogus i\u0161 karto pamatys j\u016bs\u0173 vert\u0119 ir padarys visk\u0105, kad u\u017ekariaut\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f. Nereik\u0117s \u012ftikin\u0117ti, kad jis pasirinkt\u0173 ar myl\u0117t\u0173 jus - jis tiesiog \u017einos, ir j\u016bs taip pat \u017einosite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tik nepamir\u0161kite, kad <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/pazintys-santuokai\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ai\u0161kiai i\u0161d\u0117stykite savo ketinimus.<\/a> yra rizika k\u0105 nors prarasti. Ar esate pasiruo\u0161\u0119 prireikus pasitraukti? Tai nelengva, bet ilgainiui gali i\u0161gelb\u0117ti jus nuo \u0161irdies skausmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Nesitenkinkite \"beveik<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pagalvoju, kad beveik apsistojau ties vyru, kuris nenor\u0117jo keliauti keturiasde\u0161imt penkias minutes. Beveik kiekvieno pokalbio metu jis apie tai kalb\u0117davo, <em>\"Tai gal\u0117t\u0173 pavykti, bet tu esi labai toli.\"<\/em> Po dvej\u0173 met\u0173 sutikau savo vyr\u0105, kuris nedvejodamas nusipirko l\u0117ktuvo biliet\u0105 i\u0161 Niujorko \u012f Teksas\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dvelgdamas atgal, dabar suprantu, kad 2019 m. vyras i\u0161 ties\u0173 ne\u017einojo, ko nori. Nors jis buvo krik\u0161\u010dionis, vis dar dirbo su savimi. Jis tur\u0117jo problem\u0173 d\u0117l apleistumo ir, nors myl\u0117jo Diev\u0105, nebuvo pasiruo\u0161\u0119s \u012fsipareigojantiems santykiams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Padariau klaid\u0105, kad pasilikau. Giliai \u0161irdyje jau\u010diau, kad toliau su juo kalb\u0117tis buvo bloga mintis, bet man nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai patiko m\u016bs\u0173 pokalbiai. Ta\u010diau nesupratau - kol Vie\u0161pats ai\u0161kiai nepaai\u0161kino - kad \u0161is vyras naudojosi manimi kaip slaugytoja. Jis tur\u0117jo daug traum\u0173 i\u0161 savo praeities ir, u\u017euot b\u0117g\u0119s pas Diev\u0105, b\u0117go pas mane ie\u0161koti emocin\u0117s paramos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-aware\">B\u016bkite s\u0105moningi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daugelis \u017emoni\u0173, ypa\u010d moter\u0173, taip elgiasi, nes i\u0161 prigimties esame aukl\u0117tojos. Dievas mus suk\u016br\u0117 tam, kad pad\u0117tume ir palaikytume, bet jei nesame atsarg\u016bs, galime tapti vyro slaugytojais. B\u016btent taip nutiko man. Daugeliu at\u017evilgi\u0173 buvau tapusi jo gyvenimo stabu. Niekada nepamir\u0161iu, kai jis paskambino ir pasak\u0117, kad atsitiko ka\u017ekas blogo. Jis nepasidalijo detal\u0117mis, bet a\u0161 numaniau, kad jis gr\u012f\u017eo prie sen\u0173 \u012fpro\u010di\u0173. Kit\u0105 nakt\u012f jis man paskambino 2 val. nakties. 2 val. nakties Vie\u0161pats buvo ai\u0161kus: <em>\"Neatsiliepkite \u012f telefono skambu\u010dius ir jam neperskambinkite.\"<\/em> Buvo sunku, bet paklusau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gal\u0117jau nusileisti, galvodamas, <em>\"Tokie jau tie santykiai. Niekas n\u0117ra tobulas.\"<\/em> Ir nors tiesa, kad n\u0117 vienas sutuoktinis nebus be tr\u016bkum\u0173, yra skirtumas tarp to, ar b\u016bti kieno nors slaugytoju, ar palaikyti j\u012f, kai jis pats sprend\u017eia klausimus su Dievu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dabar esu i\u0161tek\u0117jusi u\u017e vyro, kuris kiekvien\u0105 ryt\u0105 atsikelia prie\u0161 saul\u0117tek\u012f melstis ir ie\u0161koti Dievo \u0160ventajame Ra\u0161te. Nors a\u0161 j\u012f palaikau, prie\u0161 ateidamas pas mane jis pirmiausia ie\u0161ko Vie\u0161paties. Jis apgaubia mane malda ir stengiasi myl\u0117ti mane taip, kaip Kristus myli Ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105. Nereikia sutikti su ma\u017eiau i\u0161 baim\u0117s ar manyti, kad tai viskas, ko nusipeln\u0117te. Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai nusileid\u017eia, nes mano, kad praeities klaidos diskvalifikuoja juos nuo Dievo geriausio. Ta\u010diau ma\u017eiau nei Dievo geriausia niekada n\u0117ra j\u016bs\u0173 dalia. Jis yra paruo\u0161\u0119s jums nuostabi\u0173 dalyk\u0173 - jei pasitikite Juo ir Jo laiku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"725\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg\" alt=\"s\u0117d\u0117jimas su \u0161unimi\" class=\"wp-image-2528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg 725w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-768x1085.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-1087x1536.jpg 1087w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2.jpg 1415w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Saugokite savo \u0161ird\u012f ir emocijas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viena i\u0161 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173, kod\u0117l kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s \u012fsivelia \u012f situacijas, yra ta, kad jie mintyse jau yra \"susituok\u0119\" su tuo \u017emogumi. Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai, niekada nebuv\u0119 pasimatymuose arba ilgai buv\u0119 vieni\u0161i, gali pasprukti nuo pirmo \u017emogaus, kuris atkreips \u012f juos d\u0117mes\u012f. Jie \u012ftikina save, kad prad\u0117ti i\u0161 naujo n\u0117ra galimyb\u0117s, nes jiems jau per trisde\u0161imt, per keturiasde\u0161imt ar art\u0117ja prie penkiasde\u0161imties. Jie patiki melu, kad jiems \"tr\u016bksta laiko\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai didel\u0117 klaida. Pasimatymas yra tiesiog \u012fvykis - tai n\u0117ra \u012fsipareigojimas ar pasi\u016blymas tuoktis. Pasimatymo tikslas - surinkti informacijos apie kit\u0105 asmen\u012f. Po pasimatymo klausimas netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti toks, <em>\"Ar noriu juos vesti?\"<\/em> bet veikiau, <em>\"Ar noriu eiti \u012f antr\u0105 pasimatym\u0105?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-guard-your-heart\">Kaip saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Patarli\u0173 4:23 para\u0161yta, <em>\"Saugok savo \u0161ird\u012f su visu stropumu, nes i\u0161 jos kyla gyvenimo klausimai.\"<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0117liau Paulius ra\u0161o Lai\u0161ke filipie\u010diams 4,7, <em>\"O Dievo ramyb\u0117, pranokstanti bet kok\u012f supratim\u0105, saugos j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis ir protus Kristuje J\u0117zuje\".<\/em> Ta\u010diau saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f nerei\u0161kia statyti sienas. Kai kurie krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai, siekdami apsisaugoti, elgiasi kra\u0161tutini\u0161kai, laikydami visus per atstum\u0105. Ta\u010diau tai n\u0117ra sveika, nes i\u0161 esm\u0117s tai kyla i\u0161 baim\u0117s b\u016bti \u012fskaudintam ar apgautam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biblija mus moko saugoti savo \u0161irdis, t. y. turime b\u016bti budr\u016bs ir \u012f\u017evalg\u016bs. Turime b\u016bti atid\u016bs, k\u0105 \u012fsileid\u017eiame \u012f savo gyvenim\u0105, nes m\u016bs\u0173 emocijos kei\u010diasi, kai tik m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis su kuo nors prisiri\u0161a. Kai s\u0105moningai kontroliuojame savo emocijas, ma\u017eiau tik\u0117tina, kad b\u016bsime apgauti. Galime pra\u0161yti Dievo \u012f\u017evalgumo ir pra\u0161yti, kad Jis atskleist\u0173 tikruosius mus dominan\u010dio asmens ketinimus. Atsakymas ne visada gali b\u016bti toks, kok\u012f norime i\u0161girsti, bet kai pakviesime Diev\u0105 \u012f \u0161\u012f proces\u0105, Jis niekada m\u016bs\u0173 nei\u0161ves i\u0161 kelio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kaip saugoti savo \u0161ird\u012f per pasimatymus\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8H-NYeXDyHI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Nustatykite ir \u012fgyvendinkite ribas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei kas nors negerbia j\u016bs\u0173 rib\u0173 arba g\u0117dijasi j\u016bs\u0173 d\u0117l j\u0173, tai ai\u0161kus \u017eenklas, kad jis jums netinka. \u012esivaizduokite, kad jiems pasakote: <em>\"A\u0161 neprie\u0161tarauju kalb\u0117tis su tavimi, bet tokie gil\u016bs pokalbiai yra per daug, ypa\u010d kai tu i\u0161rei\u0161kei, kad nenori \u012fsipareigoti. Tai tik kelia sumai\u0161t\u012f. Tu elgiesi su manimi taip, tarsi mes b\u016btume kartu, bet taip n\u0117ra. Jei tai t\u0119sis, tur\u0117siu pasitraukti\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai gali nuskamb\u0117ti grie\u017etai, bet paklauskite sav\u0119s, kas svarbiau? Ar jiems gauti i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 tai, ko jie nori, ar apsaugoti savo gerov\u0119? Taip, j\u016bs rizikuojate juos prarasti, bet tiesa yra ta, kad i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 j\u0173 niekada netur\u0117jote. Jie nuolat jums kartoja, <em>\"Nesu pasiruo\u0161\u0119s santykiams,\"<\/em> ta\u010diau jie vis tiek kvie\u010dia tave pabendrauti. Jie nemato su jumis ateities, bet kartais sako tokius dalykus kaip, <em>\"Nor\u0117\u010diau i\u0161tek\u0117ti u\u017e tokio \u017emogaus kaip tu.\"<\/em> Nenoriu to sakyti, bet \u017eaid\u017eiama j\u016bs\u0173 emocijomis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-recognise-manipulation\">Atpa\u017einti manipuliacijas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne\u012fsipainiokite \u012f j\u0173 \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 sp\u0105stus - atkreipkite d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f j\u0173 veiksmus. Tai atskleis ties\u0105. Per daug moter\u0173 sako, <em>\"\u017dinau, kad jam patinku, bet jis nepasak\u0117, kad esu jo mergina.\"<\/em> arba, <em>\"Mes jau daugel\u012f met\u0173 nesimatome ir nesimatome.\"<\/em> Netur\u0117tum\u0117te b\u016bti <em>i\u0161jungti ir \u012fjungti<\/em> pad\u0117tis. Jei kas nors tikrai nori b\u016bti su jumis, jis jau yra apsisprend\u0119s. Tai tik laiko klausimas, kada visk\u0105 padarysite oficialiai. Pakeliui gali b\u016bti nesklandum\u0173, bet jie nesutrukdys tikram \u012fsipareigojimui. Susipa\u017einsite su j\u0173 \u0161eima ir draugais. Bus nustatyta vestuvi\u0173 data. Aptarsite, kur gyvensite kartu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tvirtai laikykit\u0117s savo rib\u0173. Nor\u0117damas ai\u0161kumo ir \u012fsipareigojimo nepra\u0161ote per daug. Jei jie nesutinka arba vilkina laik\u0105, n\u0117ra prasm\u0117s bandyti juos tempti prie altoriaus. Kai kas gali prie\u0161tarauti, <em>\"Na, santuoka tinka ne visiems.\"<\/em> ir a\u0161 suprantu \u0161\u012f po\u017ei\u016br\u012f. Ta\u010diau mes, krik\u0161\u010dionys, esame pa\u0161aukti laikytis auk\u0161tesni\u0173 standart\u0173. Noras naudotis sandoros privalumais be santuokos n\u0117ra malonus Vie\u0161pa\u010diui. Jei asmuo, su kuriuo kalbate, su tuo sutinka, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/zenklai-kad-reikia-issiskirti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">reikia pasitraukti<\/a>-nedelsiant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Pasitik\u0117kite Dievu, o ne savo jausmais<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesiruo\u0161iu sakyti, kad buvo lengva u\u017eblokuoti \u017emog\u0173, su kuriuo kalb\u0117jausi 2019 m. Vienu metu tikrai tik\u0117jau, kad jis yra mano vyras. Maniau, kad visur matau patvirtinimus, bet dabar \u017einau, kad tai nebuvo i\u0161 Vie\u0161paties. Kartais mes ka\u017eko taip stipriai norime, kad \u012ftikiname save, jog Dievas sako \"taip\", nors taip n\u0117ra. Savo norus supainiojame su Jo pritarimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei \u0161is \u017emogus tikrai b\u016bt\u0173 Dievo jums parinktas, nesijaustum\u0117te sutrik\u0119s. 1 Korintie\u010diams 14:33a para\u0161yta, <em>\"Juk Dievas yra ne sumai\u0161ties, bet ramyb\u0117s autorius.\"<\/em> Tad kod\u0117l Jis \u012f j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 atved\u0117 \u017emog\u0173, kuris vietoj ai\u0161kumo \u012fne\u0161a tik chaos\u0105? Nuo tada, kai susipa\u017einote su \u0161iuo \u017emogumi, j\u016bs tik per daug galvojate: <em>\"Ar \u0161iandien yra ta diena, kai jie pagaliau mane pasirinks?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nuolat stengiat\u0117s laim\u0117ti j\u0173 meil\u0119. Galb\u016bt i\u0161einate i\u0161 kelio, kad gautum\u0117te jiems dovan\u0173. Malon\u016bs gestai n\u0117ra nieko blogo, bet jei bandote <em>pirkti<\/em> j\u0173 meil\u0119, esate neteisus. Ar santykiai reikalauja darbo? Taip. Ta\u010diau skirtumas yra tas, kad <em>situacijos<\/em> yra vienpusi\u0161ki. Jei duodate jiems visk\u0105, k\u0105 turite geriausio, o jie jums duoda tik savo liku\u010dius, laikas pasitraukti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-trust-god\">Kaip pasitik\u0117ti Dievu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dinau, kad sunku, kai jau \u012fsivaizduoji ateit\u012f su jais. Bet jums reikia pasitik\u0117ti Dievu, o ne savo jausmais. Jie <em>ne<\/em> pakeis savo nuomon\u0119 apie jus. Tai ne romantin\u0117 komedija, kurioje jie staiga apsirei\u0161kia ir b\u0117ga per eism\u0105 prisipa\u017einti meil\u0117je. Mirusi Maya Angelou sak\u0117, <em>\"Kai kas nors parodo, kas jis yra, patik\u0117kite juo i\u0161 pirmo karto.\"<\/em> Ir kaip sakoma, <em>\"Apgaudin\u0117k mane vien\u0105 kart\u0105, g\u0117da tau. Apgaudin\u0117k mane du kartus - g\u0117da man.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neleiskite, kad jus apgaut\u0173 emocijos. Jausmai yra laikini. Jei pasaky\u010diau, kad j\u016bs\u0173 sutuoktinis jau visai netoli, ar tuoj pat paliktum\u0117te \u0161i\u0105 situacij\u0105? Manau, kad taip ir padarytum\u0117te - nes Dievo geriausia yra visai \u0161alia. A\u0161 ne\u017einau <em>kai<\/em> j\u016bs\u0173 laikas ateis, bet nesitenkinkite antruoju geriausiu, kai Dievas jums turi auk\u0161\u010diausios klas\u0117s plan\u0105. Patik\u0117kite Jam savo \u0161ird\u012f - Jam ji r\u016bpi labiau nei jums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paruo\u0161ta <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Susipa\u017einkite su ne\u012ftik\u0117tinais krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 viengungiais<\/a>? Atsisi\u0173skite SALT program\u0117l\u0119 ir <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ilgalaikiai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki santykiai<\/a>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post helps Christians recognise and avoid situationships &#8211; where they&#8217;re with a partner with no commitment or clarity. TL;DR: The Summary I hope you realize your worth and never settle for breadcrumbs from others. 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