{"id":2877,"date":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2877"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","slug":"dalykai-kuriu-nekenciu-budamas-vienisas-krikscionis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/things-i-hate-about-being-a-single-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"Dalykai, kuri\u0173 neken\u010diu b\u016bdamas vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017eaugau kartu su t\u0117\u010dio t\u0117vais. Prisimenu, kaip seneliai atvykdavo \u012f mano dramos spektaklius, kai kuriais savaitgaliais r\u016bpinosi manimi ir mano broliu, ir kaip jie atne\u0161davo daugyb\u0119 maisto, kai tik pas juos apsilankydavome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai buvau ankstyva paaugl\u0117, mano senelis, deja, mir\u0117, ir liko tik mo\u010diut\u0117. Ji buvo ta, kuri mane i\u0161mok\u0117, kaip tinkamai keisti patalyn\u0119, kaip antklod\u0119 \u012fki\u0161ti tiesiai \u012f paklod\u0117s kampus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prie\u0161 kelerius metus ji susirgo. Gyvenau daug toliau, jos beveik nema\u010diau. Keliaudamas namo i\u0161girdau, kad ji, gr\u012f\u017edama i\u0161 ligonin\u0117s, va\u017eiuoja per m\u016bs\u0173 miest\u0105. Ji netur\u0117jo daug j\u0117g\u0173, tod\u0117l i\u0161\u0117jome greitai su ja pasisveikinti, kai ji s\u0117d\u0117jo automobilyje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mes \u0161nek\u0117jom\u0117s, o paskui ji maloniai paklaus\u0117: \"Ar jau turi gra\u017e\u0173 berniuk\u0105?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0117liau jie i\u0161va\u017eiavo, ir tai buvo paskutinis kartas, kai j\u0105 ma\u010diau. Atmintis apie jos klausim\u0105 i\u0161liko mano mintyse, kai apdorojau savo sielvart\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neken\u010diau to jausmo, \u017einau, kad mo\u010diut\u0117 tiesiog nor\u0117jo \u017einoti, jog esu laiminga, o a\u0161 buvau. \u017dinau, kad jie su seneliu labai myl\u0117jo vienas kit\u0105, a\u0161 irgi to nor\u0117jau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau \u0161is klausimas kur\u012f laik\u0105 mane pykd\u0117. Am\u017einas klausimas vieni\u0161iams: \"Ar jau k\u0105 nors radai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l to ir daugyb\u0117s kit\u0173 smulkmen\u0173 b\u016bti vieni\u0161am krik\u0161\u010dioniui gali b\u016bti labai sunku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yra <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/vienatves-issukiai\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">vienatv\u0117s dalys, kurios kelia \u0161leik\u0161tul\u012f<\/a> ir mes apie juos kalb\u0117sime.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taigi pa\u017evelkime \u012f tai ir b\u016bkime s\u0105\u017einingi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cia yra <strong>Dalykai, kuri\u0173 neken\u010diu b\u016bdamas vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Skrydis savaranki\u0161kai<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>N\u0117ra plius vienas&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Finansiniai nusivylimai&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nepakankamas prisilietimas&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Noras susitikti<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vieni\u0161as bliuzas<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-flying-solo\">Skrydis savaranki\u0161kai<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Man patiko BBC televizijos laida <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=v3ZgFUSAAGQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Miranda<\/a>. Miranda suprato, k\u0105 rei\u0161kia b\u016bti vieni\u0161ai. Ji sugalvojo b\u016bd\u0173, kaip kuo geriau i\u0161naudoti buvim\u0105 vienai, da\u017enai su komi\u0161kais rezultatais. Pavyzd\u017eiui, vakarieniauti. Jos pastangos \u012fsilieti \u012f visuomen\u0119 apsimetant verslininke, kurios ka\u017ekaip peraugo \u012f vadovavim\u0105 konferencijai ir kaltinim\u0105 tapatyb\u0117s vagyste.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Juokinga, k\u0105 mes darome, kad pasl\u0117ptume vienatv\u0119. Bet kartais daryti visk\u0105 vienam tiesiog n\u0117ra smagu. Vieni\u0161am krik\u0161\u010dioniui tai yra m\u016bs\u0173 kasdienyb\u0117!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atvykti \u012f vakar\u0117l\u012f vienam, nepatogiai patvirtinti, kad taip, tai staliukas vienam, bevilti\u0161kai laikyti alk\u016bnes traukinyje, nes dabar \u0161alia tav\u0119s yra nepa\u017e\u012fstamas \u017emogus, o ne kelion\u0117s draugas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai, savaranki\u0161kas gyvenimas gali b\u016bti varginantis. Tai gali atbaidyti mus nuo dalyk\u0173, kuriuos norime daryti. Galb\u016bt atkalb\u0117site save nuo filmo, muziejaus, koncerto, festivalio, sporto pamokos...&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nors ir nem\u0117gstame daryti dalyk\u0173 vieni, negalime leisti, kad tai mus sustabdyt\u0173 nuo gyvenimo. Imkite pavyzd\u012f i\u0161 Haven, kuri, b\u016bdama vieni\u0161a krik\u0161\u010dion\u0117, i\u0161bando \u012fvairius dalykus ir kartu su mumis keliauja, pavyzd\u017eiui, keliauja \u012f kal\u0117dines muges ir vakarieniauja viena.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vien d\u0117l to, kad galb\u016bt esate vieni\u0161as ir <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ie\u0161ko dievobaimingo vyro ar moters<\/a> iki \u0161iol, tai nerei\u0161kia, kad turite laukti, kol jie pasirodys, kad prad\u0117tum\u0117te gyventi! Priimkite nepatogum\u0105 ir darykite tai, k\u0105 norite daryti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Dr\u0105sus vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis, \u017eengti tik\u0117jimo \u017eingsn\u012f\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUg3inUX21Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-plus-one\">N\u0117ra plius vienas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei neu\u017etenka kasdieni\u0173 dalyk\u0173, neprad\u0117kite apie didelius renginius.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kal\u0117dos, gimtadieniai - b\u016bdamas vieni\u0161as gali paversti \u0161ias ypatingas progas nelaimingomis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip ir \u012f vestuves, \u012f kurias eini vienas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prad\u017eia n\u0117ra labai bloga, nes faktin\u0117 santuokos dalis yra strukt\u016bruota dienos dalis. Bet kai prasideda g\u0117rim\u0173 pri\u0117mimas ir \u017emon\u0117s fotografuojasi su savo asmeniu... norisi, kad \u0161alia tav\u0119s b\u016bt\u0173 kas nors, su kuo gal\u0117tum pasikalb\u0117ti apie visas smulkmenas, kurias pasteb\u0117jai per dien\u0105, su kuo gal\u0117tum pasi\u0161neku\u010diuoti, su kuo gal\u0117tum i\u0161gerti daugiau prosecco ar surasti ramesn\u0119 viet\u0105, kur gal\u0117tum atsiriboti nuo beproti\u0161ko vestuvi\u0173 \u0161urmulio. Tada \u0161okiai, su kuo \u0161okti????<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mano gimtin\u0117je Naujieji metai yra didelis \u012fvykis. Su am\u017eiumi vakar\u0117liai ka\u017ekaip pasikeit\u0117 ir atrod\u0117, kad viskas susij\u0119 su tuo, kad tai gali b\u016bti viena didel\u0117 gyvenimo poky\u010di\u0173 naktis. Mano nekrik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki draugai praleisdavo vakar\u0105 prisipa\u017eindami meil\u0119 savo simpatijai ir bu\u010diuodamiesi atsarginiame miegamajame, o a\u0161 s\u0117d\u0117davau vienas ir tik\u0117davausi, kad pavyks sulaukti varp\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l \u0161i\u0173 svarbi\u0173 akimirk\u0173 lengva bijoti, nes \u017ei\u016brite \u012f kvietim\u0105 be pliusiuko arba nesate tikri, kaip i\u0161gyvensite dar vien\u0105 \u0161eimos susib\u016brim\u0105, kai \u017emon\u0117s jus kamantin\u0117s apie j\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117s gyvenim\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kartais, kad gal\u0117tume d\u017eiaugtis gyvenimu ir nepraleisti \u0161i\u0173 dalyk\u0173, turime pakeisti savo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavyzd\u017eiui, Valentino diena. Daugelio, da\u017eniausiai vieni\u0161i\u0173, neken\u010diama ir ne veltui. Ta\u010diau ji yra m\u016bs\u0173 kalendori\u0173 dalis ir kaip <a href=\"https:\/\/www.boundless.org\/blog\/why-singles-shouldnt-write-off-valentines-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Dunn savo knygoje \"Trok\u0161damas Dievo\" nurodo, kad<\/a> straipsnis, vieni\u0161iems krik\u0161\u010dionims tai proga \u0161v\u0119sti ir liudyti kitiems.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Valentino diena gali b\u016bti priminimas pasauliui, kad krik\u0161\u010dionys vertina tikr\u0105 meil\u0119 ir biblin\u0119 santuok\u0105. Ir kad mes mylime vienas kit\u0105, kad ir kokie skirtingi b\u016bt\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimai.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Tad tegul Valentino diena b\u016bna Valentino diena. Apsvarstykite galimyb\u0119 pri\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti vaikus susituokusiems draugams arba pakvieskite vieni\u0161\u0105 draug\u0105 vakarien\u0117s. Raskite m\u0117gstam\u0105 b\u016bd\u0105 \u0161v\u0119sti patirt\u0105 meil\u0119.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160v\u0119sti gali ir vieni\u0161iai!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg\" alt=\"mergina su kava\" class=\"wp-image-2495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg 801w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-235x300.jpg 235w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-768x982.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1201x1536.jpg 1201w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1601x2048.jpg 1601w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 2002w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-financial-frustrations\">Finansiniai nusivylimai<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u016bti vieni\u0161u yra brangu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesvarbu, ar gyvenate viename bute, ar turite nuosav\u0105 b\u016bst\u0105, gyvenimas i\u0161 vien\u0173 pajam\u0173 gali b\u016bti sud\u0117tingas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160ios dvigubas pajamas gaunan\u010dios ir vaik\u0173 neturin\u010dios poros net ne\u017eino, kaip gerai joms sekasi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kovodami su tuo, susiduriame su nuolatin\u0117s socialin\u0117s veiklos, kelioni\u0173 ir kt. i\u0161laidomis, kurios gali tapti i\u0161bandymu m\u016bs\u0173, vieni\u0161i\u0173, biud\u017eeto ribotumui. Mes norime b\u016bti su \u017emon\u0117mis, ta\u010diau tai gali kainuoti ne tik m\u016bs\u0173 pinigus, bet ir laik\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir dar dovan\u0173 dalijimas, kai jau\u010diame spaudim\u0105 \u0161v\u0119sti artimiausi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 partnerius ir vaikus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jau nekalbant apie tai, kad dauguma dalyk\u0173, pavyzd\u017eiui, pigesnis b\u016bstas atostogoms, yra naudingi, jei esate pora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vienatv\u0117 gali kelti daug finansini\u0173 nusivylim\u0173 ir baimi\u0173. Ta\u010diau mes vis tiek galime pasirinkti b\u016bti gerais Dievo mums duoto turto valdytojais ir dosniais dav\u0117jais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pamin\u0117tina keletas dalyk\u0173:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jei turite skol\u0173 ir jums reikia pagalbos, ie\u0161kokite vietos skol\u0173 konsultacij\u0173, pvz. <a href=\"https:\/\/capuk.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">CAP <\/a>skol\u0173 centre arba pasikalb\u0117kite su \u017emogumi, kuriuo pasitikite.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Apsvarstykite, kaip valdote savo pinigus ir <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenpastures.co.uk\/resources\/6-ways-to-be-a-good-steward-of-your-money-in-the-current-climate\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u0161ie patarimai<\/a> kaip gerai pri\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti savo pinigus.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nors ra\u0161oma susi\u017ead\u0117jusioms poroms, neapsigaukite - perskaitykite m\u016bs\u0173 tinklara\u0161t\u012f, parengt\u0105 bendradarbiaujant su <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stewardship.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Valdymas <\/a>apie kai kuriuos <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/finansine-parama\/\">klausimai, kuriuos reikia apsvarstyti apie dovanojim\u0105<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-touch\">Prisilietimo tr\u016bkumas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Manau, kad tai yra ka\u017ekas, k\u0105 mes tikrai nekalbame apie daug kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys, kurie yra vieni\u0161as. Man nepatinka, kad tav\u0119s niekas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 niekada nelie\u010dia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apskritai esu gana konkreti, kai noriu, kad mane liest\u0173. Man patinka apkabinti \u017emones, kad pasisveikin\u010diau, bet su draugais nenoriu, kad tas apkabinimas b\u016bt\u0173 prat\u0119stas, nebent viena i\u0161 \u0161ali\u0173 verkia ir jai reikia paguodos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilg\u0105 laik\u0105 dirbau pramon\u0117je, kurios kult\u016bra buvo gana jautri, tod\u0117l prisilietimas prie \u017emoni\u0173, kurie nebuvo mano \u0161eimos nariai ir (arba) partneriai, tapo normalesnis. Taip pat esu dalyvav\u0119s ba\u017eny\u010diose, kuriose prisilietimai taip pat tapo normal\u016bs: pasisveikinant, meld\u017eiantis ir t. t.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau tai n\u0117ra standartas visiems. Daugelis vieni\u0161i\u0173, kuriuos jau\u010diu, lengvai gali i\u0161b\u016bti dienas, savaites, o gal ir ilgiau, niekam prie j\u0173 neprisilietus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cia nekalbu apie romanti\u0161k\u0105 ar seksualin\u012f prisilietim\u0105. To \"tr\u016bksta\" krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kame vieni\u0161i\u0173 gyvenime, bet labiau d\u0117l to, kad jie renkasi pasimatymus ketindami tuoktis ir susilaikydami nuo sekso. Noriu sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f normalesn\u012f, draugi\u0161kesn\u012f prisilietim\u0105 abipusiu sutikimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atrodo, kad tai keistas dalykas, bet u\u017e jo slypi mokslas. Juk esame social\u016bs padarai, Dievo sukurti gyventi glaud\u017eioje bendruomen\u0117je su kitais. I\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/science\/2024\/apr\/08\/touch-reduce-pain-depression-anxiety-mental-physical-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">prisilietimas gali suma\u017einti skausm\u0105, depresij\u0105 ir nerim\u0105.<\/a> teigia tyr\u0117jai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar kada nors pagalvojote apie tai, kad J\u0117zus taip pat naudojo fizin\u012f prisilietim\u0105? Nors J\u0117zus yra Dievas \u017emogaus k\u016bne, tai nesutrukd\u0117 jam liesti \u017emones. Jis d\u0117jo rankas, kad i\u0161gydyt\u0173 (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke%204&amp;version=NIV\">Luko 4:40<\/a>) ir nuplov\u0117 mokiniams kojas (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2013%3A1-17&amp;version=NIV\">Jono 13:1-17<\/a>). Prisilietimas buvo pagrindin\u0117 J\u0117zaus meil\u0117s perteikimo Jo tautai dalis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taigi, kaip vieni\u0161iams valdyti savo poreikius liesti? \u0160tai keletas id\u0117j\u0173:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>U\u017esisakykite atpalaiduojant\u012f masa\u017e\u0105.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Eiti \u012f kirpykl\u0105, kuri plauna plaukus.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u012esitikinkite, kad apkabiname savo draugus ir \u0161eimos narius, kai juos pamatome.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kad jaustum\u0117t\u0117s patogiai ir ramiai, galb\u016bt investuokite \u012f svertin\u0119 antklod\u0119.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis jau\u010diasi nematomas\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oQNin-BcyS8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-desire-to-date\">Noras susitikin\u0117ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vienas i\u0161 dalyk\u0173, kuri\u0173 neken\u010diu b\u016bdamas vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis, yra tai, kad nenoriu b\u016bti vieni\u0161as! 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A\u0161 da\u017eniausiai jau\u010diuosi lyg vaik\u0161\u010diodamas per purv\u0105 ir meld\u017eiuosi, kad netrukus i\u0161ei\u010diau \u012f kit\u0105 pus\u0119.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai tikrai <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">noriu susitikin\u0117ti su krik\u0161\u010dioniu vyru ar moterimi<\/a> bet d\u0117l koki\u0173 nors prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 tai nevyksta - tai vargina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galite padaryti visk\u0105, k\u0105 galite, kad pakeistum\u0117te \u0161i\u0105 realyb\u0119, pavyzd\u017eiui, vadovaudamiesi kai kuriais m\u016bs\u0173 patarimais, kaip tur\u0117ti <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/pazinciu-programeles-sekme\/\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117l\u0117s s\u0117km\u0117<\/a>, arba <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/perkelkite-baznycias-kad-surastumete-vienisu-krikscioniu\/\">svarstote, ar tur\u0117tum\u0117te persikelti \u012f kit\u0105 ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105 ir susirasti kit\u0173 vieni\u0161i\u0173.<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau kai kuriems i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 gali tekti geriau i\u0161mokti laukti. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/pasiruose-pasimatymui\/\">Galb\u016bt net nesame pasireng\u0119 susitikin\u0117ti<\/a>, nors ir manome, kad taip yra. Arba turime sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f kitus trikd\u017eius, su kuriais pirmiausia reikia susidoroti, pavyzd\u017eiui, seksualines pagundas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir kitiems, nors mes tikrai <em>ne <\/em>nori b\u016bti vieni\u0161as <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kada-tureciau-padaryti-pertrauka-nuo-pazinciu-programeliu\/\">mes tikrai <em>daryti <\/em>reikia padaryti pertrauk\u0105 pasimatymams.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nepriklausomai nuo to, ar esame nusiteik\u0119 susitikti su vieni\u0161ais krik\u0161\u010dionimis, ar ne, mums visiems b\u016bt\u0173 naudinga praktikuoti pasitenkinim\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Saugokite savo gyvenim\u0105 nuo meil\u0117s pinigams ir b\u016bkite patenkinti tuo, k\u0105 turite, nes Dievas yra pasak\u0119s: \"Niekada tav\u0119s nepaliksiu, niekada tav\u0119s neapleisiu\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hebrajams 13:5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-single-blues\">Vieni\u0161as bliuzas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai kuriomis dienomis atsibundi ir pajunti vienatv\u0117s jausm\u0105, kurio labai sunku atsikratyti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Bliuzas\" kaip vieni\u0161ius - tai jausmas, kuris gali u\u017eklupti i\u0161 niekur nieko arba kilti d\u0117l trigeri\u0173. Tai gali b\u016bti dalykai, kuriuos matote aplinkui, pokalbiai arba stebimi dalykai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u016bdas, kaip tai suvaldyti kaip vieni\u0161am meil\u0117s ie\u0161kan\u010diam krizitanui, - b\u016bti atid\u017eiam ir nepamir\u0161ti, \u012f kokius dirgiklius, pavyzd\u017eiui, beprasmi\u0161k\u0105 slinkim\u0105 socialin\u0117je \u017einiasklaidoje ar jauk\u0173 \u012fsitaisym\u0105 \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti naujausi\u0105 rom kom su kibir\u0117liu led\u0173, einate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160ie jausmai ateis ir praeis, ir net jei sunku, turime prisiminti, kad jie galiausiai praeis. Gerai leisti sau jausti savo jausmus, bet svarbu nenuklysti per toli \u012f savigail\u0105, kad patys sau apsunkintume gyvenim\u0105.  Vis d\u0117lto kartais, b\u016bdamas vieni\u0161as <em>Christian <\/em>yra tai, su kuo mes labiausiai kovojame. \u017dinome, kad Dievas niekam n\u0117ra skolingas partnerio, bet kai \u0161is tro\u0161kimas ir tro\u0161kimas yra tokia didel\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 nor\u0173 dalis, o Dievas dar neatved\u0117 to \u017emogaus, kyla daugyb\u0117 klausim\u0173. Kaip <a href=\"https:\/\/www.praise.com\/articles\/struggle-christian-single-is-real\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Joy Beth Smith<\/a> atspindi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Jei Dievas nelaiko vyro, kad mane paruo\u0161t\u0173, tai ko Jis laukia? Ir k\u0105 apie Diev\u0105 sako tai, kad Jis slepia nuo man\u0119s ger\u0105 dalyk\u0105, nepaisant mano kar\u0161t\u0173 tro\u0161kim\u0173?<\/em> <em>Kaip gerbti ir tarnauti Dievui, kuris turi gali\u0105 pakeisti mano aplinkybes, bet nusprend\u017eia to nedaryti, sukeldamas man did\u017eiul\u0119 vienatv\u0119 ir skausm\u0105?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir \u0161ios mintys nu\u0161vie\u010dia m\u016bs\u0173 baimes, kad galime am\u017einai likti vieni. Ne tik tai, bet ir tai, kad niekada nepatirsime seksualinio artumo, kad netur\u0117sime \u0161eimos (kai kuriems \u0161i mintis per sunki). Ir dar daugiau - kas bus, jei neteksite kai kuri\u0173 jums brangi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 ir netur\u0117site partnerio, kuris pad\u0117t\u0173 jums tais sunkiais momentais. Mintis, kad teks susidurti su gyvenimu be savo \u017emogaus, gali sukelti daugyb\u0119 slegian\u010di\u0173 r\u016bpes\u010di\u0173 ir priversti pykti ant Dievo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dinau, kad Dievas yra kantrus su mumis ir laukia, kol mes visi suprasime, kad nesvarbu, ar esame vieni\u0161i, susituok\u0119, i\u0161siskyr\u0119, ar na\u0161liai, Jis visada yra su mumis. Mes niekada nesame vieni.  Tai sakau ne tam, kad u\u017eglaisty\u010diau m\u016bs\u0173 jausmus, bet kad suteikt\u0173 mums vilties inkar\u0105, kai bliuzo banga atrodo pernelyg sunki, kad ja b\u016bt\u0173 sunku \u017eengti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasakykite Dievui, kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s, ir garbinkite J\u012f net ir jausdami baim\u0119 ar skausm\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aleliuja, a\u0161 nesu vienas<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jis - mano Paguoda,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visada laiko mane \u0161alia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8OlMGnPUAdw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">23 psalm\u0117 (A\u0161 nesu vienas) - \u017dmon\u0117s ir dainos<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei esate toje sunkioje vietoje dabar, Radau \u0161\u012f dienora\u0161t\u012f Samantha Keller puikus paguoda. Pas\u0117d\u0117kite su savo jausmais ir leiskite jos \u017eod\u017eiams <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/blog\/being-single-hurts-today-and-thats-okay\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">B\u016bti vieni\u0161u \u0161iandien skauda, ir tai yra gerai<\/a> vadovauti jums maldoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161 ties\u0173 dabar turiu atsakym\u0105 savo mo\u010diutei, taip, radau pat\u012f gra\u017eiausi\u0105 berniuk\u0105 - neseniai i\u0161tek\u0117jau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160i \u017einia tikriausiai erzina jus kaip vieni\u0161\u0105 asmen\u012f, kuris tai skaito. Neken\u010diau vedusi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, kurie kalb\u0117jo su manimi apie vienatv\u0119, dabar tapau tokiu \u017emogumi - tfu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tod\u0117l galite nekreipti d\u0117mesio \u012f tai, k\u0105 pasakiau. Tai teisingas atsakas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau jei jums sunku, \u017einokite, kad nesate vienintelis. Daugelis i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 jaut\u0117 ar jau\u010dia b\u016btent tokius dalykus ir \u017eino, k\u0105 rei\u0161kia susidurti su praktiniais, emociniais ir dvasiniais vieni\u0161o krik\u0161\u010dionio nusivylimais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lengvo sprendimo n\u0117ra, kartais tenka atlaikyti audr\u0105. Turime pasirinkti nauj\u0105 po\u017ei\u016br\u012f, net jei tai sunku. Arba turime b\u016bti s\u0105\u017einingi su Dievu d\u0117l to, kaip jau\u010diam\u0117s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kartais tiesiog turime pripa\u017einti dalykus, kuri\u0173 neken\u010diame, i\u0161mesti juos i\u0161 galvos, kad gal\u0117tume jud\u0117ti \u012f priek\u012f \u017einodami, jog esame ne tik vieni\u0161i.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I grew up with my dad\u2019s parents in my life. 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