{"id":274,"date":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=274"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","slug":"tyrumo-kultura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/purity-culture\/","title":{"rendered":"Grynumo kult\u016bra sugriov\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pa\u017eintis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grynumo kult\u016bra sugriov\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pa\u017eintis. Ta\u010diau kaip jauniems \u017emon\u0117ms primetami \u012fsitikinimai gal\u0117jo taip pakeisti kult\u016br\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mano t\u0117tis m\u0117gsta tiramisu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jis m\u0117gsta manyti, kad yra tiramisu \u017einovas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jis taip pat nori \"tikro\" tiramisu,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kinishiiii\/video\/7330778124503813377?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> kaip \u0161is<\/a> (grei\u010diausiai vis\u0105 duben\u0117l\u012f!) n\u0117 vienos atskiestos \u0161iuk\u0161l\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jis nenori, kad viskas b\u016bt\u0173 per daug dr\u0117gna ir kremin\u0117s konsistencijos, o \"ladyfinger\" biskvitas - per sausas ir tra\u0161kus. Jei n\u0117ra alkoholio, jam tai n\u0117ra tikra. O jei nesijau\u010dia kavos skonio, net neprad\u0117kite jo kalbinti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiekvien\u0105 kart\u0105, kai lankom\u0117s restorane, paprastai itali\u0161kame, \u017einoma, ir meniu pamatome tiramisu, jis apsid\u017eiaugia ir i\u0161kart nusiteikia skepti\u0161kai. Ar tai bus tikra?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jis netgi (mano g\u0117dai) paklaus\u0117 padav\u0117j\u0173, \"ar tai <em>tikras <\/em>tiramisu?\", d\u0117l ko varg\u0161as padav\u0117jas visada lieka \u0161iek tiek sutrik\u0119s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad ir kokia erzinanti b\u016bt\u0173 \u0161i jo savyb\u0117, suprantu, k\u0105 jis turi omenyje. Jis nori tikro tiramisu, gryno ir tobulo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">kur espreso kava yra stipri. Grietin\u0117l\u0117 tir\u0161ta, bet ne per daug, kad b\u016bt\u0173 tik grietin\u0117l\u0117. Saldus alkoholio dvelksmas.\u0160iek tiek biskvito...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Geriausias Tiramisu - \u0161tai ko verta laukti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grynumo kult\u016bra, be kita ko. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/20-pazinciu-issukiu-vienisiems-krikscionims\/\">pasimatym\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai krik\u0161\u010dionims<\/a>, paliko p\u0117dsak\u0105 kri\u0161ioni\u0161koje bendruomen\u0117je, naudodamas pavyzd\u017eius, kaip mano t\u0117tis, laukiantis tobulo tiramisu, kaip iliustratyv\u0173 patvirtinim\u0105, kad seks\u0105 reikia pasilikti santuokai.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau b\u016btent tokios netinkamos metaforos prisid\u0117jo prie to, kad kelios krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 kartos \u012f pasimatym\u0173 pasaul\u012f \u012f\u017eeng\u0117 labiau pa\u017eeisdamos nei nukreipdamos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieni\u0161am krik\u0161\u010dioniui jau ir taip sunku vaik\u0161\u010dioti \u012f pasimatymus, o tyrumo kult\u016bra ir jos pas\u0105moningai skleid\u017eiamos \u017einios dar prid\u0117jo nesveik\u0173 kli\u016b\u010di\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt esate gerai susipa\u017ein\u0119 su tyrumo kult\u016bros raginimu krik\u0161\u010dionims, o gal jums tai naujiena.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau pasinaudokite \u0161ia proga ir \u012fvertinkite savo m\u0105stymo apie seks\u0105, celibat\u0105 ir vienatv\u0119 model\u012f, nes svarstome, kaip <strong>5 b\u016bdai, kaip tyrumo kult\u016bra sugriov\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pa\u017eintis<\/strong>...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Pasimatymai su g\u0117da ir baime.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pasimatymai su nuosprend\u017eiu ir neatleidimu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pasimatymai su ne\u017einojimu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pasimatymai su baga\u017eu.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pasimatymai su hiperfiksacija.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Grynumo kult\u016bros problema\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/melquFBJGV4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> kalba apie \"Purity Culture\" i\u0161 savo perspektyvos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-purity-culture\">Kas yra tyrumo kult\u016bra?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Tyrumo kult\u016bra\" da\u017enai priskiriama Amerikos evangelikalinei krik\u0161\u010dionybei, o garsiausias jos pakilimas \u012fvyko 9-ajame de\u0161imtmetyje, kai jauni \u017emon\u0117s dav\u0117 tyrumo pasi\u017ead\u0117jimus ir dalyvavo tyrumo baliuose.Jaunesni t\u016bkstantme\u010dio ir vyresni Z kartos atstovai gali prisiminti tokius garsius atvejus kaip <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/jonas-brothers-purity-rings-b2339533.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Broliai D\u017eonai<\/a> pavyzd\u017eiui, su savo tyrumo \u017eiedais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nors tyrumo kult\u016bra n\u0117ra i\u0161skirtinai amerikieti\u0161ka ar taikoma tik krik\u0161\u010dionims, jos \u017einia vis dar paplitusi krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 bendruomen\u0117je, ta\u010diau grei\u010diausiai tai yra ma\u017eiau vie\u0161a ir labiau nei\u0161sakoma norma.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jos esm\u0117 - grynumo kult\u016bra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Skatina lytin\u012f tyrum\u0105 per susilaikym\u0105.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Skatina bet kokius ikivedybinius lytinius santykius.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kitaip tariant, jokio sekso iki santuokos. Daugumai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 tai gerai \u017einoma s\u0105voka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161pl\u0117tota tyrumo kult\u016bra taip pat linkusi mokyti, kad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Moter\u0173 k\u016bnai yra vyr\u0173 seksualini\u0173 nuod\u0117mi\u0173 prie\u017eastis.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vyr\u0173 seksualiniai tro\u0161kimai yra tokie nekontroliuojami, kad jie turi daryti visk\u0105, kad j\u0173 nesukelt\u0173.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lytin\u0117 netvarka da\u017enai laikoma nepaklusnumu Dievui ir savo tik\u0117jimui.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161 ties\u0173 Hannah Mayderry (LMHC), kalb\u0117dama su<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/purity-culture-impacts-mental-health-7564315\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> VeryWellMind<\/a> sak\u0117, kad tyrumo kult\u016bra moko \u017emones, kad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"(...) j\u0173 seksualumas yra ka\u017ekas, k\u0105 reikia u\u017edaryti \u012f butelius ir nuslopinti. Tai apima visk\u0105, pradedant tuo, kaip jie rengiasi, (...) tai, kaip jie vertina savo k\u016bn\u0105, ir j\u0173 lytin\u012f potrauk\u012f\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esu \u012fsitikin\u0119s, kad net skaitydamas \u0161iuos tekstus pradedate jausti kai kurias \u012fsp\u0117jam\u0105sias v\u0117liav\u0117les, ir ne veltui.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nors sekso i\u0161saugojimas santuokai yra \u012fprasta ir visuotinai priimtina krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kojo gyvenimo dalis, platesn\u0117 tyrumo kult\u016bros mokym\u0173 \u012ftaka l\u0117m\u0117 tam tikras toksi\u0161kas pasekmes, kurios \u0161iandien vis dar paplitusios krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kuose pasimatymuose.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ap\u017evelkime kai kuriuos i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 poveiki\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-shame-and-fear\">Pasimatymai su g\u0117da ir baime<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161tikimyb\u0117s kult\u016bra nesusituokusius krik\u0161\u010dionis pripild\u0117 ir tebepripildo g\u0117dos ir baim\u0117s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dmogaus lytinis potraukis nesantuokinio gyvenimo kontekste n\u0117ra nauja Ba\u017eny\u010dios \"problema\". Ir vis d\u0117lto, kai krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161koje sferoje pasigirsta raginimas \"i\u0161saugoti seks\u0105 santuokai\", atrodo, kad manome, jog u\u017etenka \u017eod\u017ei\u0173, kad sustabdytume \u0161iuos \u017emogi\u0161kus \"potraukius\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l \u0161io raginimo laikytis skaistumo jaunieji krik\u0161\u010dionys auga su giliu g\u0117dos jausmu d\u0117l savo k\u016bno, jausm\u0173 ir, kai kuriais atvejais, sprendim\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-body-shame\">K\u016bno g\u0117da<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei diet\u0173 kult\u016bros, nulinio dyd\u017eio modeli\u0173, valgymo sutrikim\u0173 sureik\u0161minimo ir nuolatinio \"patraukli\u0173 ir s\u0117kming\u0173\" \u017emoni\u0173 matymo socialin\u0117je \u017einiasklaidoje neu\u017etekt\u0173, tyrumo kult\u016bros \u017einia skatina g\u0117dytis savo k\u016bno i\u0161vaizdos ir to, kad d\u0117l to galime atsidurti situacijoje, kurioje netur\u0117tume b\u016bti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ra\u0161ydamas \u0161\u012f tekst\u0105 galvoju apie tai, kaip tai gali b\u016bti \u017ealinga, ypa\u010d jauniems \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie vis dar patiria lytinio brendimo pasekmes arba su jomis susitaiko. Audring\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173 ir hormon\u0173 antpl\u016bd\u017eio metu, kuris da\u017enai sukelia jausmus, kuri\u0173 negalime kontroliuoti, papildomas spaudimas sl\u0117pti savo k\u016bno seksualin\u0119 tikrov\u0119 vardan \"tyrumo ir kuklumo\" negali b\u016bti labai nesveikas dalykas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieni\u0161iai sutinka krik\u0161\u010dionis vyrus ir moteris, turin\u010dius daugyb\u0119 k\u016bno problem\u0173, kurios grei\u010diausiai susiformavo gerokai anks\u010diau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai daro \u012ftak\u0105 \u017emon\u0117ms, kai jie susitikin\u0117ja ir vaik\u0161to su Dievu, tai dvasinis klausimas. Cheryl savo tinklara\u0161tyje <a href=\"http:\/\/twentysixletters.org\/dear-christians-we-need-to-talk-about-body-image\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\"Brang\u016bs krik\u0161\u010dionys, mums reikia pasikalb\u0117ti apie k\u016bno \u012fvaizd\u012f <\/a>primena, kad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u016bs\u0173 santykis su savo k\u016bnu n\u0117ra toks paprastas, kaip tiesiog labai stengtis apie j\u012f negalvoti. Tai gali b\u016bti esmin\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 tapatyb\u0117s dalis ir tur\u0117ti \u012ftakos m\u016bs\u0173 dvasingumui.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feeling-shame\">G\u0117dos jausmas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012e pasimatymus atsine\u0161ame g\u0117d\u0105 d\u0117l to, k\u0105 jau\u010diame, nesvarbu, ar tai b\u016bt\u0173 trauka, ar susijaudinimas. D\u0117l \u0161io i\u0161mokto elgesio \u017emon\u0117s u\u017edaro mintis, nes jos laikomos \"netinkamomis\" arba kylan\u010diomis netinkamame kontekste.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012esivaizduoju, kad daugelis krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 por\u0173, nor\u0117damos i\u0161likti tyros, ne\u017eino, k\u0105 daryti su savo jausmais partneriui ar partnerei.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei pagal tyrumo kult\u016br\u0105 tur\u0117ti toki\u0173 min\u010di\u0173 yra \"blogai\", tuomet santykiuose nuolat vyksta nei\u0161sakyta patirtis. K\u0105 daryti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160is g\u0117dos jausmas suma\u017eins s\u0105\u017einingum\u0105 ir atvirum\u0105 naujuose santykiuose, o tai tikrai negali b\u016bti gerai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-continued-shame\">Nuolatin\u0117 g\u0117da<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O vieni\u0161iai gali g\u0117dintis, kad \"per\u017eeng\u0117 rib\u0105\", ir nerimauti d\u0117l to, ar papasakoti asmeniui, su kuriuo susitikin\u0117ja, apie savo praeit\u012f.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tik trumpas paguodos \u017eodis - seksualinis \"tyrumas\" ir geismas gali b\u016bti ne kiekvieno problema, bet pra\u0161au, suteikite sau \u0161iek tiek malon\u0117s. Niekas n\u0117ra tobulas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visa tai skatina baim\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-fear-factor\">Baim\u0117s veiksnys<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grynumo kult\u016bra krik\u0161\u010dionims liepia bijoti prarasti galimyb\u0119 tur\u0117ti mylin\u010dius santykius d\u0117l vienos savo minties, jausmo ar veiksmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar blogiau, kad tai kelia baim\u0119 tiems, kurie i\u0161\u0117jo u\u017e \"skaistumo\" rib\u0173 ne savo noru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neteisingai, <a href=\"https:\/\/shilohproject.blog\/sexual-abuse-in-the-context-of-christian-purity-culture-in-britain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">tyrumo kult\u016bra rei\u0161kia, kad d\u0117l sekso u\u017e santuokos rib\u0173 kaltas pats \u017emogus. <\/a>Tai baisiai kenkia \u017emogui, patyrusiam prievartos traum\u0105. Taip yra tod\u0117l, kad tyrumo kult\u016bra teigia, jog mes visada galime kontroliuoti savo veiksmus, kad tik m\u016bs\u0173 pasirinkimai lemia m\u016bs\u0173 tyrum\u0105. Tai \u017ealingas melas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be to, niekas niekada netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti kaltinamas d\u0117l to, kad tapo seksualin\u0117s prievartos auka. Dar daugiau, dr\u012fs\u010diau teigti, kad tokioje baisioje situacijoje pirmosios J\u0117zaus mintys yra ne \"A\u0161 tau atleisiu\", o \"Ateik pas mane, a\u0161 tave myliu\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"steb\u0117kite savo \u017eingsnius\" class=\"wp-image-44\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-judgement-and-unforgiveness\">Pasimatymai su nuosprend\u017eiu ir neatleidimu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0117liau \"suter\u0161ti\" tuos, kurie galb\u016bt kokiu nors b\u016bdu per\u017eeng\u0117 skaistumo ribas, suk\u016br\u0117 nesveik\u0105 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 smerkimo ir neatleidimo kult\u016br\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apm\u0105stydamas Joshua Harriso knyg\u0105 \"Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship\" (\"Vaikinas susitinka su mergina, <a href=\"https:\/\/calvarychapel.com\/posts\/purity-culture-its-a-different-gospel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Karissa Valadez <\/a>pati pastebi \u0161\u012f nuosprend\u012f ir neatleidim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Jis gal\u0117jo pad\u0117koti Dievui u\u017e tai, k\u0105 Jis padar\u0117 \u0160enon ir per \u0160enon, ir u\u017e tai, kad suformavo i\u0161 jos moter\u012f, kuri s\u0117d\u0117jo prie\u0161ais j\u012f.... Vietoj to D\u017eo\u0161ua verk\u0117, nes ji nebuvo mergel\u0117\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieni\u0161i krik\u0161\u010dionys, susitikin\u0117jantys su kitais krik\u0161\u010dionimis, susitelkdami \u012f tyrum\u0105, rizikuoja sugriauti santyki\u0173 prad\u017ei\u0105, nes manome, kad esame teis\u0117ti vertinti kito \u017emogaus veiksmus, ypa\u010d susijusius su seksu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-carrying-the-burden\">Ne\u0161ti na\u0161t\u0105<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atrodo, kad tyrumo kult\u016bra formuoja supratim\u0105, jog seksualiniai nusi\u017eengimai yra neatleistini, o did\u017eioji \u0161ios na\u0161tos dalis tenka moterims.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tarkime, jauna moteris, kuri praeityje vartojo pornografij\u0105, nepaisant kalt\u0117s ir g\u0117dos jausmo, apie kur\u012f kalb\u0117jome pirmuosiuose punktuose, i\u0161dr\u012fsta aptarti savo praeit\u012f su savo draugu ar naujuoju partneriu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tik\u0117tina, kad ji, kaip ir Shannon, bus sutikta su pasibjaur\u0117jimu ir neatleidimu d\u0117l to, koks neteisingas \u0161is \u017eingsnis buvo pabr\u0117\u017etas. Tik\u0117tina, kad i\u0161 \u017emogaus, kuris pats naudojosi pornografija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ready-and-willing\">Pasireng\u0119 ir norintys<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mes, J\u0117z\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstantys ir mylintys \u017emon\u0117s, negalime leisti, kad \u0161ie idealai sugriaut\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0105 pasimatym\u0105, nes tr\u016bksta atleidimo. I\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 tai tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti ka\u017ekas, kam esame pasireng\u0119 ir ko tikim\u0117s (nesvarbu, ar tai b\u016bt\u0173 susij\u0119 su seksu, ar su kuo nors kitu).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niekas, k\u0105 padar\u0117 kitas \u017emogus, mums n\u0117ra neatleistina, nes kaip<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/103229-to-be-a-christian-means-to-forgive-the-inexcusable-because\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> C. S. Lewisas<\/a> j\u012f: <em>\"B\u016bti krik\u0161\u010dioniu rei\u0161kia atleisti neatleistiniems, nes Dievas atleido neatleistinus jums.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Tada Petras pri\u0117jo prie J\u0117zaus ir paklaus\u0117: 'Vie\u0161patie, kiek kart\u0173 turiu atleisti savo broliui ar seseriai, kurie man nusideda? Iki septyni\u0173 kart\u0173? J\u0117zus atsak\u0117: \"Sakau tau, ne septynis kartus, bet septyniasde\u0161imt septynis kartus\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mato 18, 21-22<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ten, kur tyrumo kult\u016bra nori sugriauti poras grie\u017etais nuosprend\u017eiais ir neatleidimu, J\u0117zus rodo mums savo gili\u0105 ir berib\u0119 malon\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-ignorance\">Pasimatymai su ne\u017einojimu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kadangi tyrumo kult\u016bros esm\u0117 - pasakyti \"ne\" savo (Dievo duotam) seksualumui, ji augina seksualiai nei\u0161silavinusi\u0173 vieni\u0161\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 kartas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesakau, kad vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis tur\u0117t\u0173 susim\u0105styti apie lytinius santykius, nes tai b\u016bt\u0173 nenaudinga tiems, kurie pasirinko celibat\u0105 iki santuokos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau daugelis vieni\u0161i\u0173 net nesupranta, kaip veikia j\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 k\u016bnas, ir tai skatina g\u0117d\u0105 ir kalt\u0119, kuri\u0105 jau skatina tyrumo kult\u016bra.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l \u0161io ne\u017einojimo taip pat bus sunku priimti sprendim\u0105 pasilikti lytinius santykius santuokai. Jei negalite su partneriu kalb\u0117tis apie savo seksualum\u0105 arba aptarti fizin\u0117s realyb\u0117s, kuri\u0105 kartu i\u0161gyvenate priimdami sprendim\u0105 laukti, laukimas nebus lengvesnis. Grei\u010diausiai bus tik dar nepatogiau.   Ir nesvarbu, jei ketinate <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/susitikti-su-kitu-issiskyrusiu-asmeniu\/\">susitikti su i\u0161siskyrusiu vieni\u0161u krik\u0161\u010dioniu<\/a>, nes tai yra savoti\u0161ka ne\u017einojimo skyl\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016bs\u0173 tinklara\u0161tyje \"Kaip pasirengti geram seksui kaip krik\u0161\u010dioniui\", kuris tinka tiek vieni\u0161iams, tiek jaunaved\u017eiams, nagrin\u0117jame kai kurias gero lytinio \u0161vietimo sritis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nepamir\u0161kite, kad geras lytinis \u0161vietimas ir supratimas apie savo k\u016bn\u0105 neateis i\u0161 film\u0173 ir pornografijos. Jie tik \u012fne\u0161 papildomos sumai\u0161ties, nesveik\u0173 ir nereali\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173 sau ir b\u016bsimam partneriui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"577\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"ka\u010diukai glaustosi\" class=\"wp-image-56\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg 577w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-768x1364.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-865x1536.jpeg 865w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-1153x2048.jpeg 1153w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships.jpeg 1081w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 577px) 100vw, 577px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Emoci\u0161kai traumuotas d\u0117l tyrumo kult\u016bros baga\u017eo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-baggage\">Pa\u017eintys su baga\u017eu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many\u010diau, kad tyrumo kult\u016bra sugriov\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pa\u017eintys generuojant vis\u0105 kr\u016bv\u0105 papildomo baga\u017eo, kad mes tikrai nereikia pareik\u0161ti \u012f pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 \u012f pirm\u0105 viet\u0105.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pa\u017e\u012fstu jaun\u0173 moter\u0173, kurios verkia d\u0117l to, kad per pirmakursi\u0173 savait\u0119 pabu\u010diavo vaikin\u0105. Dabar kiekvienas nustatome savo ribas, bet ar ne d\u0117l neteising\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 apsunkiname savo gyvenim\u0105 ir j\u012f paver\u010diame nelaimingu?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ypa\u010d tod\u0117l, kad \u0161is baga\u017eas sutelktas \u012f tai, k\u0105 gali galvoti kiti \u017emon\u0117s, pavyzd\u017eiui, tie, kurie mok\u0117 jus apie tyrum\u0105 j\u016bs\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dioje. Da\u017enai tai neturi jokio ry\u0161io su Dievu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Manau, kad \u0161is baga\u017eas ver\u010dia mus manyti, jog santuoka yra Dievo atpirkimo vaistas nuo m\u016bs\u0173 klaid\u0173. M\u016bs\u0173 seksualiniai nusi\u017eengimai rei\u0161kia, kad nesame pakankamai geri santuokai. Bet tada, kai santuoka \u012fvyksta, Dievas atpirko m\u016bs\u0173 klystkelius ir padar\u0117 mus tyrus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0161 tiesiog to netikiu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau tai yra m\u016bs\u0173, vieni\u0161\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173, ie\u0161kan\u010di\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173, baga\u017eas ir atsilik\u0119s m\u0105stymas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-hyper-fixation\">Pasimatymai su hiperfiksacija<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar jums taip pat atrodo, kad kartais krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kos pa\u017eintys susijusios tik su seksu?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apverstine prasme tyrumo kult\u016bra ne atitrauk\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 vyr\u0173 ir moter\u0173 mintis nuo sekso, bet visi\u0161kai jas nukreip\u0117 \u012f seks\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir tai tiesiog n\u0117ra tai, k\u0105 Dievas yra apie. Did\u017eiausias m\u016bs\u0173, kaip J\u0117zaus sek\u0117j\u0173, \u012fsakymas - nesureik\u0161minti sekso. Tai - myl\u0117ti Diev\u0105 ir myl\u0117ti kitus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Myl\u0117k Vie\u0161pat\u012f, savo Diev\u0105, visa \u0161irdimi, visa siela ir visu protu\". Tai pirmasis ir did\u017eiausias \u012fsakymas. Ne ma\u017eiau svarbus ir antrasis: \"Myl\u0117k savo artim\u0105 kaip save pat\u012f\".<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mato 22, 37-38<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kose pa\u017eintyse pernelyg didelis d\u0117mesys seksui:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Seksualum\u0105 pavert\u0117me did\u017eiausia nuod\u0117me.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Santuok\u0105 pavert\u0117me geriausiu vaistu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jaunaved\u017eiams seksas tapo did\u017eiausiu spaudimu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mes pavert\u0117me vienatv\u0119 did\u017eiausiu prakeiksmu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tyrumo kult\u016bra seks\u0105 i\u0161k\u0117l\u0117 ant pjedestalo \"neliesk\", paversdama j\u012f pagrindiniu daugelio vieni\u0161i\u0173, einan\u010di\u0173 tik\u0117jimo keliu, min\u010di\u0173 objektu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt tur\u0117tume praleisti daugiau laiko <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f Diev\u0105 ir Jo charakter\u012f.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Grynumo jud\u0117jimas mok\u0117 apie Diev\u0105, kuris dav\u0117 mums moralines taisykles, kuri\u0173 turime laikytis, bet nepakankamai pabr\u0117\u017e\u0117 Jo atperkam\u0105j\u0105 prigimt\u012f.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Lygiai taip pat mes susitelkiame \u012f netinkam\u0105 dalyk\u0105. M\u016bs\u0173 lyti\u0161kumas yra Dievo duota tikrov\u0117, kuriai pasimatymai padeda rasti kontekst\u0105. Ta\u010diau u\u017euot j\u012f u\u017edar\u0119s, jis tur\u0117t\u0173 nukreipti mus \u012f tai, kam esame sukurti - bendryst\u0119, artum\u0105 su Dievu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apskritai tyrumo kult\u016bra d\u0117l savo \u0161alutini\u0173 g\u0117dos ir baim\u0117s produkt\u0173 prisid\u0117jo prie krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 \u017elugdymo, nes skatina vieni\u0161ius sl\u0117pti savo \"klaidas\", u\u017edaro bendravim\u0105 ir \u012fskiepija gili\u0105 baim\u0119, kad kitas \u017emogus su\u017einos apie j\u016bs\u0173 praeit\u012f.  Tai ver\u010dia mus net susim\u0105styti <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kur-susitikti-su-vienisais-krikscionimis-vyrais\/\">kur susitikti su vieni\u0161ais krik\u0161\u010dionimis vyrais<\/a> arba <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kur-susitikti-su-vienisomis-krikscioniskomis-moterimis\/\">kur susitikti su vieni\u0161omis krik\u0161\u010dion\u0117mis<\/a> bijodami sutikti \u017emog\u0173, kuris mus taip \u012fvertins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau da\u017eniausiai tai mus atitrauk\u0117 nuo Dievo tro\u0161kimo u\u017emegzti santykius su mumis, o ne nuo \u017emoni\u0173 sukurt\u0173 taisykli\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nemanau, kad galiu pasakyti geriau nei <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Juli Slattery savo straipsnyje...<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u0160i Biblijos istorija turi b\u016bti viso m\u016bs\u0173 mokymo, \u012fskaitant lyti\u0161kumo mokym\u0105, pirmame ir antrame plane. M\u016bs\u0173 tyrumas ir teisumas galiausiai nesusij\u0119s su m\u016bs\u0173 seksualiniais pasirinkimais ar kovomis, bet su m\u016bs\u0173 pad\u0117timi J\u0117zuje Kristuje.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Niekada negal\u0117sime pasiekti tyro gyvenimo be Jo nuolatinio veikimo mumyse per \u0160vent\u0105j\u0105 Dvasi\u0105. Dievas myli g\u0117jus, pastorius, merginas, viengungius, vedusius, prostitutes ir i\u0161siskyrusius. Kiekvienas turi pasirinkti, ar atsiliepti \u012f \u0161i\u0105 meil\u0119 atgaila, nuolankumu ir paklusnumu, ar ne.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Purity Culture ruined Christian dating. But how could a set of beliefs pushed on young people change culture so much? My dad loves tiramisu.&nbsp; He likes to think he\u2019s a tiramisu connoisseur actually.&nbsp; And he wants \u2018real\u2019 tiramisu too, like this (likely the whole bowl!) none of the watered down rubbish. 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