{"id":262,"date":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=262"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","slug":"krikscionisku-pazinciu-ribos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/christian-dating-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Kaip toli yra per toli?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 ribos - tai dalykas, apie kur\u012f m\u016bs\u0173 klausia da\u017eniausiai. Kiek toli yra per toli, kai kalbama apie fizines ir emocines ribas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vienas i\u0161 mano stipriausi\u0173 prisiminim\u0173 apie gryn\u0105j\u012f malonum\u0105 - paauglyst\u0117je vyk\u0119s festivalis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buvau teatro vaikas dramos stovykloje. \u017dinau, taip \u0161aunu. Ta\u010diau a\u0161 ir mano draugas buvome... ne \"vieni\" su gamta. Mes buvome tarsi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=t7jZXt9luKQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Melmanas i\u0161 Madagaskaro<\/a>, jei supratote 2005 m. nuorod\u0105 (yikes).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l men\u0173 mes tai i\u0161tv\u0117r\u0117me. Ta\u010diau d\u0117l ne itin pageidaujamo maitinimo nor\u0117josi ka\u017eko daugiau.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ir \u0161tai, netoliese esan\u010diame prekybos centre buvo <em>Greggs<\/em>. D\u017eiaugsmingai nusipirkome karamelin\u012f kremo keksiuk\u0105, kad numal\u0161intume savo tro\u0161kim\u0105 ko nors tikrai gero.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017ekandau. Visi\u0161ka palaima. Saldus, lipnus, \u0161iek tiek lipnus. Buvo ne\u012ftik\u0117tina. Visi\u0161kas pasim\u0117gavimas po bemiegi\u0173 nakt\u0173 gamtoje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Su greituoju maistu yra taip. Jis skatina greit\u0105 pasitenkinim\u0105, kurio trok\u0161ta m\u016bs\u0173 pilvai ir protai. Ta\u010diau turiu pasakyti, kad net ra\u0161ydamas apie tai dabar \u0161iek tiek suvirpinu skrand\u012f. Tas atradimas apie keksiukus paskatino daugiau nei aps\u0117dim\u0105. Dabar jau\u010diuosi \u0161iek tiek nejaukiai, kai praeinu pro <em>Greggs<\/em>. Galiu dr\u0105siai sakyti, kad persivalgiau, nes nor\u0117jau pakartoti t\u0105 pirmojo k\u0105snio jausm\u0105 i\u0161 dramos stovyklos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160is palyginimas nesiskiria nuo t\u0173, kuriuos gird\u0117jau augdamas ba\u017eny\u010dioje ar jaunimo stovyklose. Visa tai buvo ka\u017ekaip susij\u0119 su sekso i\u0161saugojimu santuokai. \"Nesugadink to, kas gera, kol dar nev\u0117lu\" ir pan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip labai naiviam paaugliui buvo lengva \u012fsitraukti \u012f \u0161i\u0105 veikl\u0105. Ta\u010diau b\u016bdamas suaug\u0119s ir prad\u0117damas pa\u017eint\u012f, vis dar nor\u0117jau \u017einoti, kiek toli galiu nueiti, kol gr\u012f\u0161 tas blogas jausmas skrandyje.<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei su tuo susiduriate, esate ne vieni. Daugelis vieni\u0161\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 nori \u017einoti <strong>kaip toli yra per toli?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160iame tinklara\u0161tyje<strong> <\/strong>Papasakosiu, kas man pad\u0117jo ir kuo vadovavausi. Tikiuosi, kad Dievo balsas prabils \u012f jus, o visa kita - kaip ir pasaulis, kai suvalgiau t\u0105 keksiuk\u0105 - atsitrauks.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pakalb\u0117kime apie kai kuriuos <strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 ribos!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Noras laukti&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Padedantys dalykai<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nenaudingi pakaitalai&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Palengvinkite tai&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>K\u0105 daryti, jei jau per v\u0117lu?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Atsargiai elkit\u0117s atsargiai\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qy1yLQ12rHo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\u017di\u016br\u0117ti <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> pasikalb\u0117ti apie jos po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 ribas<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-far-is-too-far\">Kiek toli yra per toli?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 taisykli\u0173 s\u0105ra\u0161as b\u016bt\u0173 puikus, ar ne?! Ypa\u010d kai kalbama apie tai, kur tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti m\u016bs\u0173 fizinio intymumo riba.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Papildoma pastaba. Linksmai yra vienas i\u0161 j\u0173 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Set-Boundaries-in-Christian-Dating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\"WikiHow\"<\/a>. Ne viskas blogai, kad b\u016bt\u0173 teisinga!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau \u017einome, kad mums, kaip \u017emon\u0117ms, nelabai sekasi laikytis taisykli\u0173. Kai pasirodo \"daryti ir nedaryti\" s\u0105ra\u0161as, mes norime tik patikrinti, kiek galime i\u0161 \"nedaryti\" padaryti \"daryti\". Ak, \u017emogaus prigimtis...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161saugoti seks\u0105 santuokai yra ai\u0161ki riba, \u012f kuri\u0105 Dievas pa\u0161auk\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dionis. Jei esate vieni\u0161as, susitikin\u0117jate ar net susi\u017ead\u0117j\u0119s, galb\u016bt jau svarst\u0117te apie tai ir vis dar turite klausim\u0173. O kaip d\u0117l kit\u0173 dalyk\u0173?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar tur\u0117tume pasibu\u010diuoti? Ar galime b\u016bti vieni? O kaip d\u0117l v\u0117lyvo vakaro? K\u0105 daryti, jei \u0161iek tiek pasimyl\u0117sime?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikrai sunku rasti informacijos, kuri nesl\u0117pt\u0173 konkre\u010di\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Kai \u017emon\u0117s atkreipia d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f smulkmenas, jie da\u017enai prie\u0161tarauja kitai nuomonei. Sunku pasakyti, koks i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra teisingas atsakymas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-conclusion\">Mano i\u0161vada<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mano i\u0161vada yra tokia. Sunku pagr\u012fsti, kad noras intymiai bendrauti su \u017emogumi, kuris (dar) n\u0117ra j\u016bs\u0173 sutuoktinis, yra visi\u0161kai motyvuotas meil\u0117s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giliai \u0161irdyje, kai \u012f fizin\u012f intymum\u0105 \u017ei\u016brime su nuostata \"kaip toli galiu nueiti\", taip yra tod\u0117l, kad esame arba:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pavyd\u017eiu tiems, kurie neturi \u0161i\u0173 rib\u0173 ir gali daryti, k\u0105 nori.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">arba<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Savaranki\u0161kai siekia malonumo ir pasitenkinimo.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tikra meil\u0117 yra pasiaukojanti, o ne savanaudi\u0161ka. Tai \u017einome d\u0117l to, k\u0105 J\u0117zus padar\u0117 ant kry\u017eiaus. Taigi seksas ir intymumas gali palaukti pasimatym\u0173 ir su\u017ead\u0117tuvi\u0173, nes meil\u0117 kvie\u010dia mus aukotis. I\u0161si\u017ead\u0117ti sav\u0119s d\u0117l kito ir savo meil\u0117s jam.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei \"kiti dalykai\" apsunkina j\u016bs\u0173 pasirinkim\u0105 laukti arba pakei\u010dia artum\u0105 ir malonum\u0105, kur\u012f teikt\u0173 seksas, - taip, saky\u010diau, kad tai tikriausiai yra per daug.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau prie\u0161 pradedant nagrin\u0117ti konkre\u010dius dalykus, verta pagalvoti apie tai, kod\u0117l. Tada gal\u0117sime b\u016bti prakti\u0161kesni!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"ribas \u017eymintis \u017eenklas &quot;Stov\u0117ti draud\u017eiama\" class=\"wp-image-95\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-the-will-to-wait\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Noras laukti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Olimpie\u010diai vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 dirba ir aukojasi, kad pasiekt\u0173 puiki\u0173 rezultat\u0173 savo sporto \u0161akoje. J\u0173 atsidavimas ir susitelkimas padeda jiems atlikti fizinius \u017eygdarbius, kuri\u0173 daugelis i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 net ne\u012fsivaizduoja.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2021 m. Japonijos \u017eaidyni\u0173 metu skland\u0117 gandai apie olimpinio kaimelio sekso kult\u016br\u0105. Istorijos apie jaunuolius, kurie fizi\u0161kai pa\u010diame j\u0117g\u0173 \u017eyd\u0117jime, pagaliau pasibaigus var\u017eyboms, laukia ne tik medalio. J\u0173 pasiekimai ved\u0117 \u012f dar primityvesn\u012f... i\u0161leidim\u0105. Nenuostabu, kad nuo 1988 m. sportininkams buvo dalijami prezervatyvai (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.gqindia.com\/get-smart\/content\/history-of-sex-in-the-olympic-village\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">daugiau apie tikr\u0105j\u0105 prie\u017east\u012f skaitykite \u010dia!<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti gera analogija krik\u0161\u010dionims, tiesa? B\u0117kite lenktyn\u0117se, \u017ei\u016br\u0117kite \u012f J\u0117z\u0173 ir b\u016bsite apdovanoti super seksualiniu gyvenimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne visai. Kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys viengungiai turime prisiminti, kad seksas n\u0117ra svarbiausias prizas. Jis n\u0117ra ka\u017ekas, k\u0105 turime gauti ar gauti kaip atlyg\u012f u\u017e tai, kad esame geri. Jis taip pat nesutvarko santyki\u0173 ir i\u0161 karto nepadaro santuokos s\u0117kmingos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seksas yra dovana. Jos verta laukti, nes taip pasak\u0117 Dievas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Manau, kad galiausiai b\u016btent tod\u0117l n\u0117ra taisykli\u0173 knygos apie pasimatym\u0173 ribas. Esame pa\u0161aukti vaik\u0161\u010dioti tik\u0117jimu, o ne reg\u0117jimu. Tik\u0117ti, kad tai, k\u0105 Dievas sako esant geriausia, i\u0161 ties\u0173 yra geriausia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas nori, kad Jo valia tapt\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 valia. Valia laukti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kod\u0117l?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Kaip tik\u0117jimo \u017eenklas <\/strong>- Tikiu, kad tai, k\u0105 Dievas sako, yra tiesa.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Kaip liudijimas pasauliui <\/strong>- Tikiu, kad verta sekti Dievu ir nesiklausyti abejoni\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 kult\u016broje.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Gerbti savo (b\u016bsim\u0105) sutuoktin\u012f<\/strong> - Noriu myl\u0117ti tave net tada, kai n\u0117ra sekso.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dovana sau -<\/strong> Mano k\u016bnas svarbus ir esu vertas tikros meil\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-things-that-help\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Kokie dalykai padeda<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esu tikras, kad daugeliui vieni\u0161\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 sprendimas laukti ne visada yra lengvas. Nesvarbu, ar potencialus sutuoktinis yra horizonte, ar ne.  Pasirinkimas paklusti Dievo numatytam seksui santuokoje neapsieina be pagund\u0173, nusivylim\u0173 ar sumai\u0161ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kas padeda?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-setting-boundaries\"><strong>Rib\u0173 nustatymas<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 nustatykite tam tikras ribas. Tai daryti, kol esate vieni\u0161i, taip pat yra i\u0161mintinga. Skirkite laiko maldai ir \u012fsipareigokite laikytis rib\u0173, \u012f kurias, kaip jau\u010diate, Dievas jus kvie\u010dia.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taip bus daug lengviau bendrauti santykiuose. Be to, nuo ko prad\u0117ti, o ne nuo scenarijaus \"kaip manai, kas geriausia?\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-talking-about-it-nbsp\"><strong>Kalb\u0117jimas apie tai&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Krik\u0161\u010dionyb\u0117je jau turime sud\u0117ting\u0105 kult\u016br\u0105, kai kalbama apie seks\u0105. Tai rei\u0161kia, kad mes retai tai darome.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Svarbu kalb\u0117tis apie intymum\u0105 su savo mergina, vaikinu ar su\u017ead\u0117tiniu. Jei norite bandyti laikytis rib\u0173, labai svarbu b\u016bti s\u0105\u017einingiems ir susitarti d\u0117l j\u0173. Nevenkite ir nepalikite to per v\u0117lai. Pa\u017eeid\u017eiamumas, kurio reikia tokiems pokalbiams, yra puikus b\u016bdas stiprinti pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 ir ger\u0105 bendravim\u0105 ir j\u016bs\u0173 santykiuose. Daria kalba apie tai, kaip veiksmingai prane\u0161ti apie savo ribas <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QyOdTBXIMqM\">\u010dia<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-having-accountability\"><strong>Atskaitomyb\u0117<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne\u017einau, kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s j\u016bs, bet jei netur\u0117\u010diau kassavaitin\u0117s Biblijos studijavimo grup\u0117s, \u012f kuri\u0105 tur\u0117\u010diau ateiti, tikrai ma\u017eiau skaity\u010diau Biblij\u0105. \u017dinojimas, kad turiu pasirodyti ir pasikalb\u0117ti apie \u0160ventojo Ra\u0161to skaitym\u0105, motyvuoja mane tomis dienomis, kai mieliau negai\u0161\u010diau laiko daugyb\u0117s i\u0161trauk\u0173 skaitymui. Atskaitomyb\u0117 padeda!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<br>Tas pats ir su fizin\u0117mis ribomis m\u016bs\u0173 santykiuose. Pasikvieskite krik\u0161\u010dion\u012f, kuriuo pasitikite, kad jis pasitarnaut\u0173 jums - ba\u017eny\u010dios vadov\u0105, asmenin\u012f draug\u0105, \u0161eimos nar\u012f ar mentori\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-more-than-physical-boundaries\"><strong>Daugiau nei fizin\u0117s ribos<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas ragina mus b\u016bti tyrus ne tik k\u016bnu, bet ir mintimis (\u017er. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/geismas-pries-trauka\/\">Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105 Tinklara\u0161tis<\/a>) ir m\u016bs\u0173 emocijos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mokymasis savikontrol\u0117s krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kuose pasimatymuose neapsiriboja tik seksu ir intymumu. Reikia saugoti ir m\u016bs\u0173 mintis bei jausmus. Savikontrol\u0117s praktikavimas ir ugdymas visose \u0161iose srityse paruo\u0161ia jus visam gyvenimui. \u012eskaitant seksualin\u012f gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-cutting-to-the-chase\"><strong>Per\u0117jimas prie reikalo<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt nustebsite perskait\u0119 raginim\u0105 krik\u0161\u010dionims tiesiog susituokti. Atrodo, kad m\u016bs\u0173 reputacija yra ankstesn\u0117 u\u017e \u0161i\u0105 mint\u012f. Vis d\u0117lto manau, kad yra daug por\u0173, kurios i\u0161tempia savo laukim\u0105. Tam gali b\u016bti keletas prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galiausiai, kuo ilgiau tenka laukti, ypa\u010d kuo labiau suart\u0117jate kaip pora, tuo sunkiau laikytis nustatyt\u0173 rib\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ma\u017eiau jaudinkit\u0117s d\u0117l to, k\u0105 galvoja ar sako kiti \u017emon\u0117s. Jei radote dievot\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kur\u012f mylite, ir \u017einote, kad ketinate su juo susituokti, n\u0117ra nieko blogo, jei kalb\u0117site apie tai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-accepting-the-imperfection\"><strong>Susitaikymas su netobulumu<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mes galime suklupti. Meld\u017eiuosi, kad taip nenutikt\u0173. Meld\u017eiuosi, kad Dievas jus saugot\u0173 ir sutelkt\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f \u012f sekim\u0105 paskui J\u012f. Ta\u010diau daugeliui i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 tai gali b\u016bti (jau) netobulas \u0117jimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prie\u0161 prad\u0117dami pernelyg grie\u017etai vertinti save, prisiminkite, kad turime mylint\u012f Diev\u0105, kuris greitai atleid\u017eia ir padeda mums prad\u0117ti visk\u0105 i\u0161 naujo. Daugiau apie tai toliau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"922\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg\" alt=\"pora art\u0117ja\" class=\"wp-image-85\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-300x270.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-768x691.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1536x1382.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-2048x1843.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-unhelpful-substitutes\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Neveiksmingi pakaitalai<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai nusprend\u017eiame nustatyti fizines ribas susitikin\u0117dami, da\u017enai galime ie\u0161koti alternatyv\u0173, kad u\u017epildytume \"tu\u0161tum\u0105\". \u0160tai keletas nenauding\u0173 elgesio b\u016bd\u0173 ir nuostat\u0173, \u012f kurias reik\u0117t\u0173 atkreipti d\u0117mes\u012f.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-playing-with-the-line-nbsp\"><strong>\u017daidimas su \"linija&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nustatydami sau ribas, o v\u0117liau leisdami laik\u0105 ir besivar\u017eydami ar art\u0117dami prie \"ribos\", patirsite kan\u010di\u0105 ir kalt\u0117s jausm\u0105. Nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai pasimelskite su Dievu apie tai, kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s, ir papra\u0161ykite, kad Jis vest\u0173 jus Jo keliu, o ne savo impulsais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-masturbation\"><strong>Masturbacija<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kult\u016broje masturbacija laikoma sveiku seksualinio potraukio \u012fveikimo b\u016bdu. Greitas b\u016bdas patenkinti savo pagrindinius poreikius tikrai yra geras b\u016bdas i\u0161laikyti mus tyrumo kelyje, tiesa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daugiau apie tai ra\u0161au \u0161iuose dviejuose tinklara\u0161\u010diuose: <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/lytinis-potraukis\/\">Lytinis potraukis<\/a> kaip vien\u0105 ir <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/geismas-pries-trauka\/\">geismas prie\u0161 trauk\u0105<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trumpai tariant, masturbacija nukreipta \u012f greit\u0105 pasitenkinim\u0105 ir asmenin\u0119 naud\u0105, tarnaujant asmeniui, o ne santykiams. Tai nesukuria ger\u0173 s\u0105lyg\u0173 seksui santuokoje ar dabartiniams santykiams. Atminkite, kad tikra meil\u0117 yra pasiaukojanti, o ne savanaudi\u0161ka.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-or-never-talking-about-sex-sexual-desires-nbsp\"><strong>Visada arba niekada nekalb\u0117ti apie seks\u0105 ir seksualinius tro\u0161kimus.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip Godlilockas, valgantis trij\u0173 me\u0161k\u0173 ko\u0161\u0119 - \u010dia naudinga i\u0161laikyti pusiausvyr\u0105. Pernelyg daug pokalbi\u0173 apie seks\u0105 paprastai sukelia dar daugiau pagund\u0173. Niekada nekalb\u0117jimas ma\u017eina pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 ir gali sukelti g\u0117dos jausm\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-others-voice-over-god-s-voice\"><strong>Kit\u0173 balsas vir\u0161ija Dievo bals\u0105<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Turime nor\u0117ti nustatyti \u0161ias ribas ir rinktis skaistum\u0105 i\u0161 meil\u0117s ir paklusnumo Dievui. Jei tai renkam\u0117s nor\u0117dami \u012ftikti, \u012ftikinti ar bijodami kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pasmerkimo - niekada to nesilaikysime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiti \u017emon\u0117s taip pat mus nuvyl\u0117. Prisimenu, kaip su\u017einojau, kad pora, \u012f kuri\u0105 \u017ei\u016br\u0117jau, tur\u0117jo lytini\u0173 santyki\u0173 su\u017ead\u0117tuvi\u0173 metu. D\u0117l \u0161io atradimo jau\u010diausi \u0161iek tiek nusivyl\u0119s. Net jie nelauk\u0117...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau Dievas niekada m\u016bs\u0173 nenuvilia ir Jo pa\u017eadai yra teisingi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Dievas n\u0117ra \u017emogus, kad meluot\u0173, n\u0117ra \u017emogus, kad keist\u0173 savo nuomon\u0119. Ar jis kalba, o paskui nesiima veiksm\u0173? Ar jis pa\u017eada, o paskui nevykdo?<\/em><br>(Skai\u010di\u0173 23:19)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012e savo ribas \u017evelkite su pagarba ir baime Vie\u0161pa\u010diui, o ne \u017emon\u0117ms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-make-it-easy\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Padarykite tai lengviau<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0117l kai kuri\u0173 dalyk\u0173 seksualin\u0117s pagundos situacij\u0173 lengviau i\u0161vengti. Kod\u0117l tur\u0117tum\u0117te sau apsunkinti situacij\u0105? Tik\u0117kim\u0117s, kad \u0161ie patarimai palengvins dal\u012f na\u0161tos, kuri\u0105 jau\u010diate ar apie kuri\u0105 galvojate, ir pad\u0117s d\u017eiaugsmingiau laukti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-wondering\"><strong>Visada \u012fdomu<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei vis klausiate Dievo ar sav\u0119s, \"kaip toli yra per toli\", galb\u016bt nor\u0117tum\u0117te pam\u0117ginti pakeisti savo m\u0105stym\u0105. Naudinga b\u016bt\u0173 klausti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar galiu dalytis tokia intymumo forma su kitu \u017emogumi ir nesijausti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>G\u0117da?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tarsi tur\u0117\u010diau sl\u0117pti savo elges\u012f?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bijote, k\u0105 Dievas gali pagalvoti?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tai naudinga, nes padeda mums i\u0161tirti savo \u0161ird\u012f ir pasirinkti elges\u012f, kuris gerbia Diev\u0105, mus pa\u010dius ir m\u016bs\u0173 partner\u012f.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-prioritise-romance\"><strong>Teikite pirmenyb\u0119 romantikai<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U\u017euot galvoj\u0119 apie tai, ko negalite padaryti, galvokite apie tai, k\u0105 galite padaryti. Pasimatymai - tai toks jaudinantis laikas, kai galima pasinerti \u012f naujos meil\u0117s d\u017eiaugsm\u0105 ir \u0161ird\u012f drebinan\u010di\u0105 romantik\u0105. Svajokite ir planuokite, kaip gal\u0117tum\u0117te paskatinti daugiau romantikos savo santykiuose. Para\u0161ykite meil\u0117s lai\u0161k\u0105, padainuokite jiems dain\u0105, kartu steb\u0117kite saul\u0117lyd\u012f. M\u0117gaukit\u0117s gyvenimu i\u0161 kli\u0161i\u0173!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-curbing-temptations\"><strong>Pagund\u0173 pa\u017eabojimas<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kartais mes patys sau padarome gyvenim\u0105 per daug viliojant\u012f. Keletas paprast\u0173 \u017eingsni\u0173, kaip suma\u017einti pagundas, gali b\u016bti \u0161ie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Komendanto valandos laiko atstatymas&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Negalima ilgai b\u016bti vienam (automobilyje, namuose, lovoje ar ant sofos).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Taisykl\u0117 \"joki\u0173 antklod\u017ei\u0173\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 ribos: nuo vieni\u0161o iki susituokusio\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/INPJFQnn8uY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: Vieni\u0161as vs. susituok\u0119s.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-what-if-it-s-too-late\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ribos: K\u0105 daryti, jei jau per v\u0117lu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apie tai u\u017esiminiau anks\u010diau, nes \u017einau, kad tai daugelio \u017emoni\u0173 gyvenimi\u0161ka patirtis. Galb\u016bt nu\u0117jome per toli ir stebim\u0117s, kur esame Dievo akyse.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar dabar yra prasm\u0117 rinktis ribas? Ar tai tur\u0117s \u012ftakos mano santykiams ateityje? Ar Dievas pyksta ant man\u0119s?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Geriausia \u017einia ta, kad su J\u0117zumi niekada n\u0117ra per v\u0117lu. Jis jau sumok\u0117jo kain\u0105 u\u017e m\u016bs\u0173 nuod\u0117mes ir g\u0117d\u0105 ir kvie\u010dia mus sekti Juo net tada, kai klystame.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas jus myli ir nesvarbu, ar j\u016bs\u0173 kova susijusi su lytiniu tyrumu, ar su kuo nors kitu, Jis nepasidav\u0117, bet jau turi jums puik\u0173 plan\u0105! Radau \u0161\u012f <a href=\"https:\/\/joycemeyer.org\/everydayanswers\/ea-teachings\/its-never-too-late\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">trumpas dienora\u0161tis i\u0161 Joyce Meyer puikus padr\u0105sinimas<\/a> - Tikiuosi, kad tai palaimins ir jus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai buvau jaunas paauglys, kartu su kitais krik\u0161\u010dionimis paaugliais buvau labai ma\u017eame susitikime ka\u017ekieno namuose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neprisimenu visos prie\u017easties, kod\u0117l ten buvome. Nelabai prisimenu ir suaugusiojo, kuris vadovavo susirinkimui. Visi\u0161kai i\u0161 mano atminties i\u0161krito, kaip mes prad\u0117jome kalb\u0117ti apie seks\u0105. Ta\u010diau ai\u0161kiai kaip dien\u0105 prisimenu \u0161io krik\u0161\u010dionio patarimus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>\"Tinkamas \u017emogus palauks. Jei jie nenori laukti, jie n\u0117ra tinkamas \u017emogus.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u012e\u017eeng\u0119s \u012f krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 pasaul\u012f, pasteb\u0117jau, kad i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis yra ne tiek rasti tinkam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. Labiau - tapti tinkamu \u017emogumi pa\u010diam...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiekvienas i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 turime galimyb\u0119. Suderinti savo vali\u0105 su Dievo valia, \u017eengti \u017eingsnius, kurie padeda, o ne ie\u0161koti pakaital\u0173, atsisakyti pagund\u0173 palengvinti gyvenim\u0105 ir pasakyti \"taip\" naujai prad\u017eiai, kuri\u0105 Dievas mums si\u016blo kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Juose klausimas \"kiek toli yra per toli\" bus tolimas, o laisv\u0119 atrasite \u0161velniame mylin\u010dio Dievo vedime. Tegul, \u012fgyvendindami \u0161ias pasimatym\u0173 ribas savo santykiuose, atrasite gyvenimo pilnatv\u0119. Bus verta laukti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ie\u0161kote tikros meil\u0117s? Prisijunkite prie <a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">SALT<\/a> \u0161iandien!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christian dating boundaries are the thing we get asked about the most. How far is too far when it comes to physical and emotional boundaries? One of my strongest memories of pure pleasure was from a festival in my teens.&nbsp; I was a theatre kid at drama camp. I know, so cool. 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