{"id":2290,"date":"2025-02-04T11:33:35","date_gmt":"2025-02-04T11:33:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2290"},"modified":"2025-02-04T11:33:37","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T11:33:37","slug":"ka-daryti-krikscionims-jei-ju-partneris-smurtauja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/what-should-christians-do-if-their-partner-is-abusive\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0105 daryti krik\u0161\u010dionims, jei j\u0173 partneris smurtauja?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niekas nepradeda santyki\u0173 tik\u0117damasis prievartos. B\u016bdami krik\u0161\u010dionys, siekiame meil\u0117s, kuri atspindi Kristaus charakter\u012f - malonios, kantrios ir nesavanaudi\u0161kos. Ta\u010diau kas atsitinka, kai asmuo, kuris tur\u0117t\u0173 jus branginti ir saugoti, yra tas, kuris jums kenkia? Jei esate smurtaujan\u010diuose santykiuose, galite jaustis \u012fkalintas, sutrik\u0119s ar net kaltas. Ta\u010diau nor\u0117\u010diau ai\u0161kiai pasakyti: Dievas nekvie\u010dia savo vaik\u0173 k\u0119sti prievartos. Jis kvie\u010dia mus \u012f i\u0161mint\u012f, i\u0161gydym\u0105 ir pilnatv\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-abuse-in-a-relationship\">Kas yra smurtas santykiuose?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smurtas - tai ne tik fizinis smurtas. Jis gali b\u016bti emocinis, \u017eodinis, finansinis, seksualinis ar dvasinis. Jei partneris jus menkina, izoliuoja, kontroliuoja j\u016bs\u0173 sprendimus arba ver\u010dia jaustis bever\u010diu, tai yra rimtas pavojaus signalas. Smurtas i\u0161kreipia Dievo sukurt\u0105 meil\u0119 santykiams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kart\u0105 konsultavau jaun\u0105 moter\u012f, kuri jaut\u0117si susiprie\u0161inusi tarp savo tik\u0117jimo ir prievartos santyki\u0173 realyb\u0117s. Ji man\u0117, kad pasilikti yra \"krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ka\". Ta\u010diau \u0160ventasis Ra\u0161tas niekada ne\u012fsako mums likti kenksmingoje pad\u0117tyje. Dievas yra teisingumo, meil\u0117s ir apsaugos Dievas. Jei patiriate prievart\u0105, turite imtis veiksm\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-should-christians-do-if-their-partner-is-abusive\">K\u0105 daryti krik\u0161\u010dionims, jei j\u0173 partneris smurtauja?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pateikiame ai\u0161k\u0173, biblin\u012f ir praktin\u012f vadov\u0105, kaip \u012fveikti \u0161i\u0105 skausming\u0105 situacij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-acknowledge-that-abuse-is-not-love\">1. Pripa\u017einkite, kad prievarta n\u0117ra meil\u0117<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Meil\u0117 neskaudina, nemanipuliuoja ir nekontroliuoja. 1 Korintie\u010diams 13:4-7 meil\u0117 apib\u016bdinama kaip kantri ir maloni, o ne kaip prievarta ar baim\u0117. Jei j\u016bs\u0173 partnerio elgesys prie\u0161tarauja biblinei meilei, tai visai n\u0117ra meil\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-reject-the-lie-that-god-wants-you-to-stay\">2. Atmeskite mel\u0105, kad Dievas nori, jog pasiliktum\u0117te<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niekur \u0160ventajame Ra\u0161te Dievas ne\u012fsako pasilikti su smurtautoju. Nors santuoka yra \u0161venta, prievarta yra \u0161ios sandoros pa\u017eeidimas. Dievas neragina j\u016bs\u0173 kent\u0117ti tylomis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-recognize-that-abuse-is-sin\">3. Pripa\u017einkite, kad piktnaud\u017eiavimas yra nuod\u0117m\u0117<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smurtautojai da\u017enai i\u0161kraipo \u0160vent\u0105j\u012f Ra\u0161t\u0105, kad pateisint\u0173 savo elges\u012f. Nesileiskite apgaunami. Smurtas yra nuod\u0117m\u0117, ir Dievas yra prie\u0161 j\u012f (Ps 11, 5; Kol 3, 19).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-pray-for-strength-and-clarity\">4. Melskit\u0117s u\u017e stipryb\u0119 ir ai\u0161kum\u0105<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Malda yra galinga. Pra\u0161ykite Dievo i\u0161minties ir dr\u0105sos \u017eengti teisingus \u017eingsnius. Jis mato j\u016bs\u0173 skausm\u0105 ir jus ves (Jok 1, 5).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-talk-to-a-trusted-christian-mentor-or-leader\">5. Pasikalb\u0117kite su patikimu krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 glob\u0117ju ar vadovu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neprivalote to i\u0161gyventi vieni. Kreipkit\u0117s patarimo \u012f brand\u0173 tikint\u012fj\u012f, kuris supranta \u0161io klausimo svor\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-set-boundaries-to-protect-yourself\">6. Nustatykite ribas, kad apsisaugotum\u0117te<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs nesate atsakingas u\u017e smurtautojo pataisym\u0105. Jei jis atsisako atgailauti ir pasikeisti, turite apsaugoti save. Nustatykite tvirtas ribas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-seek-professional-christian-counseling\">7. Kreipkit\u0117s d\u0117l profesionalaus krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ko konsultavimo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Piktnaud\u017eiavimas giliai su\u017eeid\u017eia \u0161ird\u012f ir prot\u0105. Apmokytas krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 konsultantas gali pad\u0117ti jums i\u0161gyventi savo patirt\u012f ir pasveikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-document-everything\">8. Visk\u0105 dokumentuoti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei jau\u010diat\u0117s nesaugiai, registruokite smurto atvejus. Tai gali b\u016bti naudinga, jei prireikt\u0173 imtis teisini\u0173 veiksm\u0173 arba priimti apsaugos \u012fsakym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-don-t-let-shame-or-fear-keep-you-silent\">9. Neleiskite, kad g\u0117da ar baim\u0117 jus nutyl\u0117t\u0173<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Piktnaud\u017eiavimas klesti slaptai. Kreipkit\u0117s \u012f patikimus draugus, \u0161eim\u0105 arba paramos grup\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-consider-a-safe-exit-plan\">10. Apsvarstykite saugaus i\u0161\u0117jimo plan\u0105<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei reikia i\u0161vykti, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kaip-krikscioniui-iveikti-skyrybas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">kruop\u0161\u010diai suplanuokite i\u0161vykim\u0105<\/a>. Kreipkit\u0117s pagalbos \u012f vietines smurto \u0161eimoje organizacijas arba ba\u017eny\u010dios bendruomen\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-understand-that-forgiveness-doesn-t-mean-staying\">11. Suprasti, kad atleidimas nerei\u0161kia, kad reikia likti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys esame pa\u0161aukti atleisti, bet tai nerei\u0161kia, kad turime toleruoti nuod\u0117m\u0119 ar pakenkti sau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"vaizdas \u012f j\u016br\u0105\" class=\"wp-image-2224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mina-martinovic-dupe-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-seek-legal-protection-if-necessary\">12. Jei reikia, kreipkit\u0117s teisin\u0117s apsaugos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei jums gresia pavojus, gaukite teismo \u012fsakym\u0105 arba kreipkit\u0117s \u012f vald\u017eios institucijas. J\u016bs\u0173 saugumas yra prioritetas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-lean-on-god-s-promises\">13. Pasikliaukite Dievo pa\u017eadais<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas yra j\u016bs\u0173 prieglobstis (Ps 46, 1). Jis niekada tav\u0119s nepaliks ir neapleis (Pakartoto \u012estatymo 31, 6).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-build-a-support-system\">14. Sukurkite paramos sistem\u0105<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apsupkite save \u017emon\u0117mis, kurie pakyl\u0117ja ir palaiko jus sveikimo kelion\u0117je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-join-a-faith-based-community-that-supports-healthy-relationships\">15. Prisijunkite prie tik\u0117jimo bendruomen\u0117s, kuri palaiko sveikus santykius<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei ie\u0161kote <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u012e Krist\u0173 orientuota pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 bendruomen\u0117<\/a>, apsvarstykite galimyb\u0119 naudoti SALT. Tai pasaulin\u0117 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ka pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117l\u0117, skirta sujungti pana\u0161iai m\u0105stan\u010dius tikin\u010diuosius, kurie vertina sveik\u0105, <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Diev\u0105 gerbiantys santykiai<\/a>. Yra net speciali SALT grup\u0117, kuri susitinka\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/table.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tiesioginis garso renginys<\/a>\u00a0pavadinimu \"Pasimatymai po tamsos\", kuriame kalbama apie j\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 po skyryb\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-trust-god-s-plan-for-your-future\">16. Pasitik\u0117kite Dievo planu savo atei\u010diai<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs\u0173 vert\u0117s neapibr\u0117\u017eia j\u016bs\u0173 praeitis ar smurtautojo \u017eod\u017eiai. Dievas turi tau gra\u017e\u0173 plan\u0105 (Jeremijo 29:11).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-heal-before-pursuing-another-relationship\">17. Pasveikti prie\u0161 pradedant kitus santykius<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prie\u0161 v\u0117l susitikin\u0117dami skirkite laiko pasveikti ir i\u0161 naujo atrasti savo tapatyb\u0119 Kristuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-18-encourage-others-who-may-be-struggling\">18. Padr\u0105sinkite kitus, kuriems gali b\u016bti sunku<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs\u0173 istorija gali b\u016bti paskatinimas, kurio reikia kam nors kitam, kad i\u0161sivaduot\u0173 i\u0161 smurto situacijos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-19-pray-for-your-abuser-but-from-a-distance\">19. Melskit\u0117s u\u017e smurtautoj\u0105 (bet per atstum\u0105)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maldos u\u017e smurtautojo atgail\u0105 yra biblinis dalykas (Mt 5, 44), bet tai nerei\u0161kia, kad reikia susitaikyti ar rizikuoti dar labiau nukent\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-remember-you-are-not-alone\">20. Atminkite: j\u016bs nesate vieni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dievas jus mato, myli ir neapleido. Kreipkit\u0117s pagalbos ir gyvenkite laisv\u0117je, kurios Jis jums trok\u0161ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei j\u016bs arba j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstamas asmuo yra smurtaujan\u010diuose santykiuose, rimtai imkit\u0117s \u0161i\u0173 veiksm\u0173. Po skausmo yra viltis, i\u0161gijimas ir ateitis. Esate labai mylimi ir vertinami Kristuje. Neleiskite baimei ar kalt\u0117s jausmui laikyti j\u016bs\u0173 suvar\u017eyto - ie\u0161kokite pagalbos \u0161iandien.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No one enters a relationship expecting abuse. As Christians, we strive for love that reflects Christ\u2019s character\u2014kind, patient, and selfless. But what happens when the person who should cherish and protect you is the one causing you harm? If you\u2019re in an abusive relationship, you may feel trapped, confused, or even guilty. But let me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":1754,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[30,12,9],"class_list":["post-2290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","tag-all","tag-break-ups","tag-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.7 (Yoast SEO v27.8) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>What should Christians do if their partner is abusive? - SALT &amp; Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Abusive relationships are not ok. 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