{"id":12,"date":"2025-03-10T11:06:17","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T11:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=12"},"modified":"2026-07-02T11:24:24","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T11:24:24","slug":"krikscioniski-pazinciu-patarimai-kurie-nuejo-perniek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/christian-dating-advice-gone-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai, kurie nu\u0117jo perniek!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group has-base-background-color has-background has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:600\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160iame \u012fra\u0161e pateikiame 6 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarim\u0173 pavyzd\u017eius, kuri\u0173 niekada nereik\u0117t\u0173 sakyti vieni\u0161am krik\u0161\u010dioniui 2026 m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR - santrauka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesvarbu, ar skaitote tai kaip vieni\u0161as asmuo, kuris gavo kelet\u0105 \u0161i\u0173 nepageidaujam\u0173 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarim\u0173, ar turite draug\u0105, kuriam norite i\u0161mintingai patarti jo vienatv\u0117s laikotarpiu, \u0161is tinklara\u0161\u010dio \u012fra\u0161as skirtas jums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Skaitykite toliau ir su\u017einokite \u0161e\u0161is blogiausius patarimus, kuriuos galima duoti vieni\u0161am \u017emogui. Be to, kaip kovoti su tuo, kad neliktum\u0117te j\u0173 gav\u0117ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-1-you-re-not-trying-praying-hard-enough\">Nepakankamai stengiat\u0117s, melskit\u0117s dar labiau.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-you-re-being-too-picky-lower-your-standards\">Esate per daug i\u0161rank\u016bs, suma\u017einkite savo standartus<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-god-has-got-someone-for-you-just-hold-on\">Dievas tau k\u0105 nors turi, laikykis<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-marriage-isn-t-all-it-s-cracked-up-to-be\">Santuoka - tai ne viskas, k\u0105 ji rei\u0161kia, ver\u010diau b\u016b\u010diau vieni\u0161as kaip tu.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-3-insert-classic-anecdote-of-someone-you-know-who-stopped-looking-for-the-one-and-immediately-found-the-one\">*\u012fterpkite klasikin\u012f anekdot\u0105 apie pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kuris nustojo ie\u0161koti to vienintelio ir i\u0161kart j\u012f rado*<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-4-you-re-not-getting-any-younger-you-re-so-young\">Jaunesnis jau nebesijau\u010diate, laikas \u012fsikurti. Arba esi toks jaunas, kad tau nereikia d\u0117l to jaudintis.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Nenaudingi dalykai, kuriuos susituok\u0119 \u017emon\u0117s sako vieni\u0161iams\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1FenXduIgWA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\u017di\u016br\u0117kite \u0161\u012f juoking\u0105 film\u0105. <a href=\"https:\/\/laurenwindle.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Windle<\/a> savo knygoje turi tiek daug kit\u0173 dalyk\u0173. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Notes-Love-Single-Marriage-Obsessed\/dp\/0281085552\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Pastabos apie meil\u0119<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-794e3cfa wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-e4606f40 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">\u012evadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left has-base-background-color has-background has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ar pa\u017e\u012fstate k\u0105 nors, kas <em>myli <\/em>klausin\u0117ti apie j\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117s gyvenim\u0105? Ar jie taip pat naudojasi kiekviena proga, kad apipilt\u0173 jus krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kais pasimatym\u0173 patarimais, kuri\u0173 j\u016bs nepra\u0161\u0117te? Mane apima baim\u0117, kai tik d\u0117mesys nukrypsta \u012f mane ir \u017einau, kad ateis klausimai apie pasimatymus. \u017dinau, kad patarimai pripildys mane pyk\u010dio ir g\u0117dos. Ne\u017einosiu, kaip atsakyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"draugas, teikiantis krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kus pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimus\" class=\"wp-image-64\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Padr\u0105sinanti ranka ant peties!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suteikti patarim\u0105 ir paguod\u0105 draugui, kuris kovoja d\u0117l savo vienatv\u0117s, yra sud\u0117tinga. M\u016bs\u0173 visuomen\u0117 yra orientuota \u012f sprendimus ir siekia juos greitai rasti. Jei mums skauda galv\u0105, galime i\u0161gerti paracetamolio. Jei esame nepatenkinti savo i\u0161vaizda, galime laikytis dietos, nusipirkti nauj\u0173 drabu\u017ei\u0173 ar net pasidaryti plastin\u0119 operacij\u0105. Jei pasiilgstame ko nors kitame pasaulio kra\u0161te, galime jam paskambinti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta\u010diau yra dalyk\u0173, kuri\u0173 ne\u012fmanoma i\u0161spr\u0119sti \u017emogaus rankomis. Vienas i\u0161 toki\u0173 dalyk\u0173 yra desperati\u0161kas noras rasti meil\u0119. Kad ir kaip entuziastingai pasinertume \u012f krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117li\u0173 ir akl\u0173j\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 rengini\u0173 pasaul\u012f, ry\u0161io, kuris \u012fsi\u017eiebia tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, ne\u012fmanoma sukurti. Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarim\u0173 dalijimas gali atrodyti kaip kitas geriausias b\u016bdas i\u0161spr\u0119sti kieno nors \u0161irdies skausm\u0105, ta\u010diau tai ne visada yra pats dievobaimingiausias b\u016bdas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-worst-advice-to-give-single-christians\"><strong>Blogiausias patarimas vieni\u0161iems krik\u0161\u010dionims<\/strong><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-1-you-re-not-trying-praying-hard-enough\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pasimatym\u0173 patarimai #1: J\u016bs nepakankamai stengiat\u0117s \/ meld\u017eiat\u0117s<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esate gird\u0117j\u0119: \"Pabandykite prisijungti prie krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kos pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117l\u0117s (<a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">DRUSKA?!<\/a>), pabandykite persikelti \u012f kit\u0105 ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105, \u012fstoti \u012f klub\u0105.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario\"><strong>Scenarijus:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nuostabus draugas, kuris yra mat\u0119s kiekvien\u0105 SALT profil\u012f savo apylink\u0117se, dalyvav\u0119s 100 pirm\u0173j\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ir noriai susitikin\u0117ja su visais, kuriuos pasi\u016blo jo draugai, ta\u010diau niekas jam n\u0117ra pakankamai geras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sutuoktinio pasirinkimas yra antras pagal svarb\u0105 sprendimas po sprendimo sekti Kristumi. Tai labai svarbu. Svarbiausia, kad j\u016bs\u0173 draugas (-\u0117) nustatyt\u0173, kokius standartus jis (ji) kelia kiekvienam potencialiam vaikinui \/ merginai. Jei j\u0173 standartai yra dievi\u0161kosios savyb\u0117s, kurios palaikomos Ra\u0161tuose, tuomet j\u0173 nereik\u0117t\u0173 nuleisti. Geriau b\u016bti vieni\u0161am, nei nuleisti savo standartus ir vesti \u017emog\u0173, kuris atitolina juos nuo dievi\u0161ko gyvenimo. <em>Ta\u010diau,<\/em> gali b\u016bti, kad j\u016bs\u0173 patarime d\u0117l pasimatym\u0173 yra tiesos, jei j\u016bs\u0173 draugas laikosi savybi\u0173, kurios neturi biblinio svorio. Jei jie prisiekin\u0117ja, kad susitikin\u0117s tik su \u017emogumi, auk\u0161tesniu nei 180 cm \u016bgio, arba su \u017emogumi, kuris taip pat sutaupyt\u0173 t\u016bkstan\u010dius, kad nusipirkt\u0173 pirm\u0105j\u012f knygos leidim\u0105. <em>Hobitas<\/em> tuomet j\u016bs\u0173 patarimas gali b\u016bti pagr\u012fstas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pirmiausia melskit\u0117s u\u017e savo \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105, kad gal\u0117tum\u0117te \u012fvertinti, ar j\u0173 nustatyti standartai atitinka Biblijos mokym\u0105. Pam\u0105stykite apie Efezie\u010diams 5:22-33, kur apra\u0161omi Dievo nustatyti vyro ir \u017emonos vaidmenys. Tai yra savyb\u0117s, kuri\u0173 tur\u0117tume ie\u0161koti sutuoktinyje. \u010cia galima daug k\u0105 i\u0161ai\u0161kinti ir yra daug klaiding\u0173 \u0161ios i\u0161traukos supratim\u0173, kuriuos gali tekti i\u0161sklaidyti. Galb\u016bt pasi\u016blykite, kad tai gal\u0117tum\u0117te apm\u0105styti kartu? \u0160tai keletas ger\u0173 knyg\u0173, kurios gali b\u016bti naudingos: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female\/dp\/0310337267\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"><em>Pasen\u0119s <\/em>pagal Jonathan Pokluda<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female\/dp\/0310337267\"><em>Loveology <\/em>John Mark Comer<\/a> ir <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Meaning-Marriage-Facing-Complexities-Commitment\/dp\/1594631875\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"><em>Santuokos prasm\u0117<\/em> Timothy Keller ir Kathy Keller<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasimelskite ir pagalvokite, ar nustatote tinkamus reikalavimus b\u016bsimam sutuoktiniui? B\u016bkite tikri, kad tur\u0117tum\u0117te kelti auk\u0161tus reikalavimus, nes tai svarbus dalykas.  \u0160tai 20 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/20-padrasinanciu-biblijos-eiluciu-vienisiams\/\">Padr\u0105sinan\u010dios Biblijos eilut\u0117s<\/a> pad\u0117ti jums per j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 kelion\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-2-you-re-being-too-picky-lower-your-standards\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai #2: <strong>Esate per daug i\u0161rank\u016bs, suma\u017einkite savo standartus<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-0\"><strong>Scenarijus:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nuostabus draugas, kuris yra mat\u0119s kiekvien\u0105 SALT profil\u012f savo apylink\u0117se, dalyvav\u0119s 100 pirm\u0173j\u0173 pasimatym\u0173 ir noriai susitikin\u0117ja su visais, kuriuos pasi\u016blo jo draugai, ta\u010diau niekas jam n\u0117ra pakankamai geras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sutuoktinio pasirinkimas yra antras pagal svarb\u0105 sprendimas po sprendimo sekti Kristumi. Sutuoktinio paie\u0161ka n\u0117ra lengvas procesas. Svarbiausia, kad j\u016bs\u0173 draugas (-\u0117) nustatyt\u0173, kokius standartus jis (ji) kelia kiekvienam potencialiam vaikinui (merginai). Jei j\u0173 standartai yra dievi\u0161kosios savyb\u0117s, kurias palaiko \u0160ventasis Ra\u0161tas, j\u0173 nereik\u0117t\u0173 nuleisti. Geriau b\u016bti vieni\u0161am ir gyventi d\u0117l J\u0117zaus, negu nuleisti savo standartus ir vesti \u017emog\u0173, kuris atitolina juos nuo dievi\u0161ko gyvenimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ta\u010diau,<\/em> j\u016bs\u0173 patarime gali b\u016bti tiesos, jei j\u016bs\u0173 draugas laikosi savybi\u0173, kurios neturi biblinio svorio. Jei jis prisiekia, kad susitikin\u0117s tik su \u017emogumi, auk\u0161tesniu nei 180 cm, arba \u017emogumi, kuris taip pat sutaupyt\u0173 t\u016bkstan\u010dius, kad nusipirkt\u0173 pirm\u0105j\u012f knygos leidim\u0105. <em>Hobitas<\/em> tuomet j\u016bs\u0173 patarimas gali b\u016bti pagr\u012fstas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-0\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pirmiausia melskit\u0117s u\u017e savo pa\u010di\u0173 \u012f\u017evalgum\u0105 \u0161ioje situacijoje, kad gal\u0117tum\u0117te \u012fvertinti, ar j\u0173 nustatyti standartai atitinka Biblijos mokym\u0105. Paskaitykite Efezie\u010diams 5:22-33, kur apra\u0161omi Dievo nustatyti vyro ir \u017emonos vaidmenys, t. y. savyb\u0117s, kuri\u0173 tur\u0117tume ie\u0161koti savo sutuoktiniuose. \u010cia yra daug dalyk\u0173, kuriuos reikia i\u0161ai\u0161kinti, ir daug klaiding\u0173 \u0161ios i\u0161traukos supratim\u0173, kuriuos gali tekti i\u0161sklaidyti. Galb\u016bt pasi\u016blykite, kad tai gal\u0117tum\u0117te apm\u0105styti kartu? \u0160tai keletas ger\u0173 knyg\u0173, kurios gali b\u016bti naudingos: <em>Pasen\u0119s <\/em>Jonathan Pokluda, <em>Loveology <\/em>John Mark Comer ir <em>Santuokos prasm\u0117<\/em> Timothy Keller ir Kathy Keller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-0\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasimelskite ir pagalvokite, ar \u0161iame komentare yra tiesos: ar nustatote tinkamus reikalavimus b\u016bsimam sutuoktiniui? B\u016bkite tikri, kad tur\u0117tum\u0117te kelti auk\u0161tus reikalavimus, nes tai svarbus dalykas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-3-god-has-got-someone-for-you-just-hold-on\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai #3: <strong>Dievas turi tau skirt\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, tik laikykis<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-1\"><strong>Scenarijus:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs pasivijote draug\u0105, kuris nevilties apimtas jau\u010diasi vieni\u0161as. O gal draug\u0105, kuris k\u0105 tik patyr\u0117 skaud\u0173 \u0161irdies sm\u016bg\u012f. Jau\u010diate desperati\u0161k\u0105 nor\u0105 juos paguosti ramindami, kad vien\u0105 dien\u0105 jie susituoks, tik reikia i\u0161silaikyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this-0\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problema, kai sakome \u017emogui, kad Dievas turi k\u0105 nors, kas jo laukia u\u017e kampo, yra ta, kad jis gali to ir nedaryti. Tai sunku perskaityti, ar ne? Dar sunkiau tai priimti. Kai kurie i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 pa\u0161aukti gyventi vienatv\u0117je, ir j\u016bs\u0173 draugas gali b\u016bti vienas i\u0161 j\u0173. Taigi negalime sakyti, kad j\u0173 ka\u017ekas laukia. Sunkiausia tai sakyti d\u0117l to, kad \u017emogus, su kuriuo kalbi, nori tai i\u0161girsti. Mes visi to norime. Tai gali <em>jaustis <\/em>kaip maloniausias dalykas, kur\u012f galite pasakyti, bet, deja, i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra prie\u0161ingai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-1\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kai pajusite nor\u0105 i\u0161tarti \u017eod\u017eius, kuriuos j\u016bs\u0173 draugas nori i\u0161girsti, atsikv\u0117pkite. Padarykite pauz\u0119 ir priminkite sau ir jam, kad Dievas valdo ir turi ger\u0105 plan\u0105 \u0161iam \u017emogui (tik n\u0117 vienas i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 ne\u017eino konkre\u010di\u0173 detali\u0173). Pasidalykite su jais \u0161ia eilute: \"Vie\u0161pats yra tas, kuris eina pirma tav\u0119s. Jis bus su jumis; jis j\u016bs\u0173 nepaliks ir neapleis. Nebijokite ir nesijaudinkite.\" Pakartoto \u012estatymo 31:8. Priminkite jiems, kad Dievas \u0117jo priekyje ir suplanavo keli\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-1\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Melskit\u0117s, kad Dievas suteikt\u0173 jums ramyb\u0119 d\u0117l savo tobulo plano jums. Tik\u0117kite, kad j\u016bs\u0173, kaip Dievo vaiko, tapatyb\u0117 yra daug didesn\u0117 u\u017e bet kok\u012f \u017eemi\u0161k\u0105 vaikino, merginos, \u017emonos, vyro vaidmen\u012f. J\u016bs esate laisvi Kristuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-4-marriage-isn-t-all-it-s-cracked-up-to-be\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai #4: Santuoka n\u0117ra viskas, k\u0105 ji rei\u0161kia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-2\"><strong>Scenarijus:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Akivaizdu, kad tu esi ved\u0119s, o tavo vieni\u0161as draugas - ne. Kai matote juos, jau\u010diat\u0117s blogai, kad turite ka\u017ek\u0105, ko jie neturi, ir dar blogiau - jie to nori. Jau\u010diate, kad juos paguostum\u0117te, jei sumenkintum\u0117te savo santuok\u0105 \"atverdamas jiems akis\" \u012f jos sunkumus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this-1\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieni\u0161am \u017emogui galima s\u0105\u017einingai pasakyti, kad santuoka n\u0117ra tobula, bet tai nesuma\u017eins jo noro j\u0105 sudaryti. Savo santuokos dovanos sumenkinimas gali juos \u012fskaudinti, kai susidarys \u012fsp\u016bdis, kad nesate d\u0117kingi u\u017e sutuoktinio palaiminim\u0105. (\u017dinoma, pasitik\u0117jimas draugui, kai turite tikr\u0173 santuokini\u0173 problem\u0173, nepatenka \u012f \u0161i\u0105 kategorij\u0105).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-2\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Venkite tiesiogiai lyginti savo gyvenimus. Jei tai nei\u0161vengiama, pasistenkite nukreipti pokalb\u012f \u012f \u012fvairias j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimo sritis, kurios yra bendros. Kalb\u0117kite apie darb\u0105, apie tai, k\u0105 pastaruoju metu klausot\u0117s, arba apie ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105. Su kiekvienu krik\u0161\u010dioniu turite bendr\u0173 s\u0105ly\u010dio ta\u0161k\u0173, tad per tai juos ugdykite. Prisiminkite Jono 6, 35: \"Tada J\u0117zus paskelb\u0117: 'A\u0161 esu gyvyb\u0117s duona. Kas ateina pas mane, niekada neliks alkanas, ir kas mane tiki, niekada nebus i\u0161tro\u0161k\u0119s\". Dievas i\u0161pild\u0117 giliausius j\u016bs\u0173 abiej\u0173 \u0161ird\u017ei\u0173 poreikius, ir j\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 statusas su tuo neturi nieko bendra!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-2\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atminkite, kad kiekvienas Dievo sukurtas \u017emogus yra unikalus, o tai rei\u0161kia, kad ir kiekviena santuoka yra unikali. N\u0117ra dviej\u0173 vienod\u0173 por\u0173. Kad ir k\u0105 apie savo santuok\u0105 jums pasakot\u0173 j\u016bs\u0173 draugas, tai neturi jokios reik\u0161m\u0117s jums, j\u016bs\u0173 vienatvei ar galimai b\u016bsimai santuokai. Nereikia nerimauti d\u0117l lyginimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ver\u010diau sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/20-budu-kaip-krikscionims-rasti-dziaugsmo-vienatveje\/\">vienatv\u0117s privalumai<\/a> kol vis dar esate tame sezone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0173 draug\u0173 patarimai\" class=\"wp-image-47\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1536x1026.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-2048x1368.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-5-insert-classic-anecdote-of-someone-you-know-who-stopped-looking-for-the-one-and-immediately-found-the-one\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai #5: *\u012fterpkite klasikin\u012f anekdot\u0105 apie pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kuris nustojo ie\u0161koti to vienintelio ir i\u0161kart rado t\u0105 vienintel\u012f*<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-3\"><strong>Scenarijus: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u016bs\u0173 draugas negali nustoti kalb\u0117ti apie savo vienatv\u0119. Jie bando <em>tikrai sunku <\/em>ir meld\u017eiasi <em>tikrai sunku <\/em>sutuoktiniui. Prisimenate beproti\u0161k\u0105 istorij\u0105 apie savo brolio draugo sesers draug\u0117s vyr\u0105 ir manote, kad ji gali b\u016bti taikoma jiems, tod\u0117l dalijat\u0117s ja, tarsi tai b\u016bt\u0173 puikus krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this-0\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vieno asmens meil\u0117s istorijos pritaikymas kitam asmeniui yra normatyvinis. Dievas nenaudoja sausaini\u0173 formato m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimams kurti. Jei u\u017esiminsime, kad Jis gal\u0117t\u0173 tai daryti, \u017emon\u0117s gali tur\u0117ti klaiding\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-3\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dinoma, galima dalytis anekdotais su gerais draugais, ta\u010diau i\u0161mintingai \u012fvertinkite savo moment\u0105, kad tai neb\u016bt\u0173 pateikta kaip patarimas, kaip jiems <em>tur\u0117t\u0173 <\/em>ie\u0161koti sutuoktinio. Vietoj to pasisemkite stipryb\u0117s i\u0161 Tesalonikie\u010diams 5:11. \"Padr\u0105sinkite vieni kitus ir vieni kitus stiprinkite, kaip tai darote veiduose\". Patik\u0117kite, kad tarnaujate savo draugui jau vien tuo, kad leid\u017eiate su juo laik\u0105. Jums nereikia tur\u0117ti vis\u0173 atsakym\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-3\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasitik\u0117kite, kad kai draugas jus lygina su kuo nors kitu, Dievas nedaro to paties. D\u0117kokite Dievui, kad Jis suk\u016br\u0117 jus unikal\u0173 ir turi jums tiksl\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-6-you-re-not-getting-any-younger-you-re-so-young\"><strong>Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pasimatym\u0173 patarimai #6: Tu netapsi jaunesnis \/ Tu toks jaunas<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-4\"><strong>Scenarijus: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neturite krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarim\u0173, bet desperati\u0161kai norite duoti patarim\u0173. Lengviausia i\u0161eitis i\u0161 \u0161io sud\u0117tingo pokalbio - pakomentuoti j\u0173 am\u017ei\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this-1\"><strong>Su tuo susijusi problema: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galb\u016bt jums taip neatrodo, kai tai sakote, bet tai yra toks smerkiantis komentaras. Galb\u016bt tai sakote tik juokais, bet vis tiek atrodo nejautriai. Jis paneigia j\u016bs\u0173 draugo jausmus, nes leid\u017eia suprasti, kad jis netur\u0117t\u0173 taip jaustis arba tur\u0117t\u0173 taip elgtis. I\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 am\u017eius neturi nieko bendra su j\u0173 santyki\u0173 statusu. Kai kurios poros susipa\u017e\u012fsta b\u016bdamos paaugl\u0117s, kitos neranda \"to vienintelio\", kol nesulaukia pensinio am\u017eiaus. Dievas sprend\u017eia, kokius palaiminimus ir kada gaus j\u016bs\u0173 draugas. Laikas ir meil\u0117 yra du dalykai, kuriuos kontroliuoja tik Dievas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-4\"><strong>K\u0105 sakyti vietoj to: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Priminkite draugui (ir sau!), kad Dievas yra k\u016brinijos autorius ir laiko suk\u016br\u0117jas. Jeremijo 29:11 ra\u0161oma: \"A\u0161 \u017einau, kokius planus turiu su tavimi, - skelbia Vie\u0161pats, - planus, kaip tau klest\u0117ti, o ne pakenkti, planus, kaip suteikti tau vilt\u012f ir ateit\u012f\". \u017dinojimas, kad Dievas visk\u0105 kontroliuoja, teikia toki\u0105 vilt\u012f ir ramyb\u0119. \u0160ia gyvyb\u0119 teikian\u010dia tiesa galite d\u017eiaugtis kartu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-4\"><strong>Jei esate gav\u0117jas: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jei kas nors jums tai pasak\u0117, atsipra\u0161au. Tai nei\u0161mintingas komentaras. J\u016bs\u0173 jausmai n\u0117ra negaliojantys tik tod\u0117l, kad ka\u017ekas bando juos paneigti. Nukreipkite savo skriaud\u0105 \u012f Diev\u0105 ir priminkite sau apie Jo tobul\u0105 laik\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"STOP sakyti tai vieni\u0161iems krik\u0161\u010dionims\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mBHaSL319qw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\u017di\u016br\u0117kite daugiau baisi\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kuriuos \u017emon\u0117s sako vieni\u0161iems krik\u0161\u010dionims, pavyzd\u017ei\u0173.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\"><strong>Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u016bti \u0161alia draugo, kai jis nerimauja ar i\u0161gyvena \u0161irdies skausm\u0105 d\u0117l savo vienatv\u0117s, yra sunkus vaidmuo. \u012esid\u0117m\u0117kite, kad j\u016bs\u0173 draugyst\u0117, j\u016bs\u0173 maldos ir \u0161velnus, i\u0161klausantis buvimas, kur\u012f galite pasi\u016blyti, savaime yra palaiminimas. Patarli\u0173 16, 24 sakoma: \"Malon\u016bs \u017eod\u017eiai yra kaip medus - sald\u016bs sielai ir sveiki k\u016bnui\". Patik\u0117kite, kad j\u016bs\u0173 geri \u017eod\u017eiai yra daug veiksmingesni u\u017e bet kokius <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/pazinciu-patarimai-moterims-is-vyru\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161ki pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimai<\/a> galite pasi\u016blyti. Jums nereikia taisyti situacijos, jums tereikia vesti savo draug\u0105 pas J\u0117z\u0173. Tam tikrai esate pasireng\u0119.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this post we give 6 examples of Christian dating advice that should never be uttered to a single Christian in 2026. 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