{"id":118,"date":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=118"},"modified":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","slug":"geismas-pries-trauka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/lust-vs-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105: Ar per\u017eengiau rib\u0105?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys, gyvenantys 2026 m., turime \u017einoti skirtum\u0105 tarp geismo ir traukos.<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/skirtumas-tarp-meiles-ir-geismo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">: kaip su\u017einoti, ar per\u017eeng\u0117me rib\u0105?<\/a>? Kaip galime \u012f\u017eiebti t\u0105 kibirk\u0161t\u012f savo pasimatymuose ir kartu gerbti Diev\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\"><strong>TL;DR: Santrauka<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Visi gavome savo <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kaip-vienisiems-krikscionims-valdyti-lytini-potrauki\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sekso ir intymumo tro\u0161kimas.<\/a> Dievas. Norint tai gerai valdyti, reikia pastang\u0173 ir atviros \u0161irdies.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Geras krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kas pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 patarimas - b\u016bti s\u0105\u017einingiems sau ir savo veiksmams.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iame tinklara\u0161tyje ap\u017evelgsime, kur baigiasi traukos realyb\u0117 ir prasideda geismo teritorija.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-and-its-lies\">Geismas ir jo melas.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\">Fantazija ir gro\u017ein\u0117 literat\u016bra.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#Lust vs. Attraction: Responding to attraction\">Reagavimas \u012f trauk\u0105.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">Kova su pagundomis.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\">Ar per\u017eengiau rib\u0105?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Geismas ir susijaudinimas: Kaip i\u0161vengti seksualin\u0117s nuod\u0117m\u0117s #shorts\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zCOlqp0c4ko?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/smr.fm\/about\/\">Dr. Corey<\/a> kalbasi su SALT vieni\u0161iais apie seks\u0105 ir geism\u0105<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-or-attraction\"><strong>Geismas ar trauka?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Visada \u0161iek tiek m\u0117gau Zac\u0105 Efron\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar 2006 m. jam tr\u016bko dainavimo geb\u0117jim\u0173? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/874198\/high-school-musical-2-turns-10-so-let-s-revisit-zac-efron-s-bet-on-it-sequence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Jo kultinis \"\u0161okis\" golfo aik\u0161tyne?<\/a> Ar tai, kad jis ne\u012ftik\u0117tinai gerai paseno?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nepaisant to, niekada nebuvau susim\u0105st\u0119s apie \u0161\u012f \"\u012fsimyl\u0117jim\u0105 \u012f \u012f\u017eymyb\u0119\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau neseniai man buvo prane\u0161ta, kad mano simpatijos E. Efronui gali b\u016bti ne tokios nekenksmingos, kaip atrodo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Susitikimas ar pasimatymas su garsiu aktoriumi akivaizd\u017eiai n\u0117ra pasiekiama realyb\u0117. Arba ka\u017ekas, ko i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 kada nors nor\u0117jau. Tod\u0117l mano mintys apie min\u0117t\u0105 aktori\u0173 buvo nereik\u0161mingos. \u0160iek tiek pramogos, b\u016bdas praleisti laik\u0105 (ir vienatv\u0119).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pa\u017evelgus \u012f j\u012f kitaip, i\u0161kilo keletas a\u0161tri\u0173 klausim\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar tai kuo nors skiriasi nuo traukos jausmo pa\u017e\u012fstamam \u017emogui? Ar mano vaikyst\u0117s simpatija i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 slepia nuod\u0117m\u0119 mano \u0161irdyje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u0117mesio sutelkimas \u012f patraukl\u0173 vyr\u0105, kuris yra \"nepasiekiamas\", patenka \u012f \u0161iek tiek pilk\u0105j\u0105 zon\u0105. Tai yra geismas ir patrauklumas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai privert\u0117 mane susim\u0105styti - ar a\u0161 per\u017eengiau rib\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nesvarbu, ar esate vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis, ar vaik\u0161tote \u012f pasimatymus (ar net esate susituok\u0119s), riba gali b\u016bti \u0161iek tiek nery\u0161ki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Myliu Diev\u0105 ir noriu tapti pana\u0161esnis \u012f J\u0117z\u0173. Ta\u010diau kai \u012f \u0161\u012f proces\u0105 \u012fsilieja susijaudinimo ir traukos jausmai, lengva nukreipti \u017evilgsn\u012f nuo Dievo \u012f savo \u017emogi\u0161kus norus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad savo meil\u0117s gyvenime kaip krik\u0161\u010dionys eitume Dievo valia, turime atskirti, kas yra Dievo duota, o kas - nuod\u0117minga.  Mes \u017einome, kad <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/kodel-seksas-skirtas-santuokai\/\">seksas skirtas santuokai<\/a> ir mes norime kreiptis \u012f Diev\u0105 \u0161varia s\u0105mone.  Taigi mes ketiname pa\u017evelgti \u012f <strong>Geismas prie\u0161 trauk\u0105<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-is-a-sin\"><strong>Geismas yra nuod\u0117m\u0117<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Neabejotina, kad geismas yra nuod\u0117m\u0117, kuri nei\u0161nyksta ir tada, kai pradedate susitikin\u0117ti (tur\u0117site <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/20-budu-kaip-atsispirti-seksualinei-pagundai-per-pasimatymus\/\">\u012fveikti seksualin\u0119 pagund\u0105 per pasimatymus<\/a> taip pat!). Biblijoje tai labai ai\u0161kiai i\u0161d\u0117styta. Many\u010diau, kad tai taip pat yra nuod\u0117m\u0117, nes matome, kaip \u017emonija su ja kovoja per vis\u0105 istorij\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/GEN.39.NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Fotifaro \u017emona ir jos geidulingi pra\u0161ymai apsunkina Juozapo gyvenim\u0105<\/a>. Yra garsioji istorija apie <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/2SA.11.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Dovydas ir Beteba.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apa\u0161talai ra\u0161\u0117 daugeliui ba\u017eny\u010di\u0173, ragindami jas nusigr\u0119\u017eti nuo seksualin\u0117s nuod\u0117m\u0117s. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/1TH.4.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Kaip Tesalonikie\u010di\u0173 ba\u017eny\u010dia.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien turime daugyb\u0119 televizijos laid\u0173 - konkurs\u0173, realyb\u0117s \u0161ou, fantastikos ir periodini\u0173 dram\u0173. Visos jos sensacingai perteikia geism\u0105, kad suteikt\u0173 pramog\u0105 ir pad\u0117t\u0173 pab\u0117gti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau da\u017enai klystame kurdami nuod\u0117m\u0117s hierarchij\u0105. Vienos nuod\u0117m\u0117s yra didesn\u0117s ar blogesn\u0117s u\u017e kitas. Viena i\u0161 toki\u0173 \"did\u017ei\u0173j\u0173\" nuod\u0117mi\u0173 yra geismas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suprantu, kod\u0117l. Pasekm\u0117s yra didel\u0117s. Ne tik santykiams, bet ir dvasine prasme. Tro\u0161kimas i\u0161stumia m\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117s Dievui erdv\u0119. Jis ignoruoja Jo sumanym\u0105 ir plan\u0105, kaip meil\u0119 i\u0161gyventi ir \u0161ioje am\u017einyb\u0117s pus\u0117je.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau J\u0117zus mir\u0117 ant kry\u017eiaus d\u0117l vis\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 nuod\u0117mi\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...nes visi nusid\u0117jo ir stokoja Dievo \u0161lov\u0117s.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Romie\u010diams 3:23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daugelis jau\u010dia nuod\u0117m\u0117s ir g\u0117dos na\u0161t\u0105, ypa\u010d geismo srityje. Tai ver\u010dia \u017emones sl\u0117ptis, kartoti savo elges\u012f ir tolti nuo Dievo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u0117zus at\u0117jo i\u0161laisvinti m\u016bs\u0173 i\u0161 nuod\u0117m\u0117s ir g\u0117dos. Kiekviena nuod\u0117m\u0117 tur\u0117jo b\u016bti nugal\u0117ta J\u0117zaus krauju, pralietu ant kry\u017eiaus. Ar tai b\u016bt\u0173 apkalbos, ar svetimavimas. Jis nugal\u0117jo nuod\u0117m\u0119 ir kvie\u010dia mus gyventi laisv\u0117je, kuri\u0105 mums atpirko.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai atpa\u017einsite skirtum\u0105 tarp geismo ir traukos, b\u016bkite atsarg\u016bs. Nenaudokite to kaip lazdos, kuria gal\u0117tum\u0117te save mu\u0161ti. Nei kaip b\u016bdo i\u0161sisukti nuo kabliuko. Ateikite pas Diev\u0105, i\u0161pa\u017einkite, kas slegia j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u012f, ir imkit\u0117s \u017eingsni\u0173, kad sekdami Juo eitum\u0117te Jo laisve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Jau\u010diasi \u012fkalintas geismo\" class=\"wp-image-91\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-and-its-lies\"><strong>Geismas ir jo melas<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai manome, kad geismas - tai tik veiksmai, kuri\u0173 imamasi d\u0117l traukos jausmo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau geismas taip pat skiriasi nuo traukos. Taip, seksualin\u0117s traukos jausmas gali virsti geismu. Ta\u010diau geismas yra labai toli nuo to, kuo Dievas suk\u016br\u0117 patrauklum\u0105. Tai turi b\u016bti ka\u017ekas kita.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Geismas paima mint\u012f, jausm\u0105, veiksm\u0105 ar asmen\u012f ir paver\u010dia j\u012f objektu. Jis \"k\u0105 nors\" paver\u010dia \"ka\u017ekuo\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tro\u0161kimas skatina sav\u0105j\u012f \"a\u0161\". \"A\u0161 noriu \u0161ito.\" \"Man to reikia.\" \"A\u0161 negaliu be to i\u0161siversti.\" Jis negalvoja apie kit\u0105. Jis siekia savanaudi\u0161k\u0173 tiksl\u0173.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Geismas naudojasi aps\u0117dimu, kad paskatint\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 tro\u0161kim\u0105 tur\u0117ti.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160tai kod\u0117l geismas yra melas. Dievo k\u016brinys n\u0117ra daiktas, kuriuo galima naudotis. Dievas nesuk\u016br\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 tam, kad pasim\u0117gautume savo asmeniniais interesais. Dievas nesuteik\u0117 mums laisvos valios, kad suteiktume sau \u0161lov\u0119 ar gali\u0105.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160ie i\u0161kraipymai ai\u0161kiai parodo, kad prie\u0161as naudojasi geismu, kad atitraukt\u0173 mus nuo Dievo ir padaryt\u0173 \u017ealos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai atpa\u017e\u012fstate kai kuriuos i\u0161 pirmiau i\u0161vardyt\u0173 ketinim\u0173, galite nustatyti, kada \u012f \u017eaidim\u0105 \u012fsitrauk\u0117 geismas. Lygiai taip pat geismas pasirei\u0161kia, kai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jau\u010diat\u0117s jo valdomi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>J\u016bs tikite melu, o ne Dievo tiesa.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jau\u010diate, kad kitos i\u0161eities n\u0117ra.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dinau, kad tai sunkus dalykas. Ta\u010diau geismas ne visada kyla didel\u0117mis bangomis ar dramati\u0161komis aplinkyb\u0117mis. Ma\u017eos mintys ir veiksmai taip pat gali \u012fsileisti geism\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\"><strong>Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105:<\/strong> <strong>Fantazija ir gro\u017ein\u0117 literat\u016bra<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Labiausiai geism\u0105 skatina fantazijos ar fikcijos i\u0161galvojimas m\u016bs\u0173 mintyse.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Geismas yra malonumo ir d\u017eiaugsmo siekimas i\u0161 to, kas mums nepriklauso. Tai gali b\u016bti tikrai sud\u0117tinga, kai \u012f pasimatym\u0173 scen\u0105 \u012f\u017eengsite kaip vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis arba jei nusprend\u0117te seks\u0105 pasilikti santuokai. Ta\u010diau \u017emon\u0117s kovoja su geismu \u012fvairiais atvejais.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip yra tod\u0117l, kad m\u016bs\u0173 pasaulis nuolat tai skatina!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasaulis mums sako, kad turime nuolat siekti to, ko norime. Kad absoliu\u010diai viskas, ko trok\u0161tame, gali b\u016bti m\u016bs\u0173. Tai matome filmuose, \u017einiasklaidoje, \u017eurnaluose ir kitur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deja, moterys jau daugel\u012f met\u0173 taip maitinamos romantin\u0117se komedijose ir romanuose. Joms buvo sakoma, kad egzistuoja tobulas, \u017eavus, seksualiai atleti\u0161kas vyras. Jis padarys visk\u0105, kad b\u016bt\u0173 su jomis. Tod\u0117l mano smegenys dar nuo \"Vidurin\u0117s mokyklos miuziklo\" laik\u0173 yra prijungtos prie min\u010di\u0173 apie Zac\u0105 Efron\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iose istorijose beveik visada \u0161lovinama nei\u0161tikimyb\u0117. Tai pastebima visame kine. Pora, u\u017e kuri\u0105 mes sergame, - vienas arba abu i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 apgaudin\u0117ja. <em>\"You've Got Mail\", \"Enchanted\", \"Lai\u0161kai D\u017euljetai<\/em> ir daugiau.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paprastai vyrai skatinami \u012fgyvendinti \u0161i\u0105 fantazij\u0105 per pornografij\u0105 (daugiau apie tai v\u0117liau).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dievas mus, krik\u0161\u010dionis, kvie\u010dia:<em>Orientuokite savo mintis \u012f tai, kas auk\u0161tyb\u0117se, o ne \u012f \u017eemi\u0161kus dalykus'. <\/em>(Kolosie\u010diams 3,2). Labai sunku tai padaryti, kai leid\u017eiame savo mintyse fantazijai laisvai ir nevar\u017eomai reik\u0161tis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Emocin\u0117s ribos krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kose pa\u017eintyse: 5 patarimai, kaip u\u017etikrinti emocin\u012f skaistum\u0105: 5 patarimai, kaip i\u0161saugoti emocin\u012f skaistum\u0105\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SNNNfrBvq2c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Delphine \u010dia daugiau pasakoja apie m\u016bs\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 fantazijas<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-responding-to-attraction\"><strong>Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105: Reagavimas \u012f trauk\u0105<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Patrauklumas (\u0161iame kontekste - seksualinis patrauklumas) kyla i\u0161 Dievo. Jis suk\u016br\u0117 mus santykiams, o m\u016bs\u0173 traukos jausmai mus \u012f tai veda.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vienas i\u0161 svarbiausi\u0173 veiksni\u0173, lemian\u010di\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 traukos patirt\u012f, yra m\u016bs\u0173 poj\u016b\u010diai. Daugiau odos, kvepal\u0173 ar kolino kvapas, balso garsas. Kai mums kas nors atrodo patrauklus, m\u016bs\u0173 k\u016bnuose daug kas vyksta u\u017ekulisiuose. TED-Ed vaizdo \u012fra\u0161as apie <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=SNNNfrBvq2c\">Traukos mokslas<\/a> yra \u012fdomus laikrodis apie tai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nors gali atrodyti, kad mokslinis po\u017ei\u016bris gali panaikinti linksmybes ar romantik\u0105, jis turi daug prasm\u0117s. Dievas suk\u016br\u0117 seks\u0105 tam, kad \u012f pasaul\u012f ateit\u0173 nauja gyvyb\u0117. Tod\u0117l atrodo i\u0161mintinga rasti tinkam\u0105 partner\u012f, su kuriuo b\u016bt\u0173 galima daugintis. Ypa\u010d jei tai darome net nepasteb\u0117dami.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai taip pat paai\u0161kina, kod\u0117l \u0161ie fiziniai jausmai arba seksualin\u0117s traukos poj\u016b\u010diai gali b\u016bti tokie stipr\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feelings\">Jausmai<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Be to, patrauklumas susij\u0119s su dar dviem svarbiais veiksniais. Didel\u012f vaidmen\u012f atlieka m\u016bs\u0173 jausmai. Kai mus kas nors traukia, patiriame jausm\u0173 virtin\u0119. Jaudulys, adrenalinas, malonumas, laim\u0117, saugumas ar patvirtinimas. Jie skatina mus toliau ie\u0161koti to jausmo, kad gautume didesn\u012f pasitenkinim\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tada yra m\u016bs\u0173 tro\u0161kimas. Visi giliai \u0161irdyje trok\u0161tame b\u016bti mylimi. Dievas \u012fd\u0117jo \u0161\u012f tro\u0161kim\u0105 \u012f m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis, kad priart\u0117tume prie Jo. M\u016bs\u0173 tro\u0161kimas b\u016bti artimiems su kitu \u017emogumi yra m\u016bs\u0173 sumanymo dalis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tod\u0117l seksualin\u0117 trauka yra puikus dalykas. Mums kas nors gali b\u016bti patrauklus ir d\u0117l daugelio kit\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Akivaizd\u017eios fizin\u0117s savyb\u0117s, taip pat kieno nors asmenyb\u0117, bruo\u017eai, statusas ar tik\u0117jimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kaip mes reaguojame \u012f \u0161i\u0105 trauk\u0105, \u010dia ir kyla klausimas apie \"rib\u0105\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasaulyje yra patraukli\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 ir grei\u010diausiai savo gyvenime patirsite \u0161iuos traukos jausmus. Tik\u0117tina, kad jei ie\u0161kote pasimatym\u0173 kaip vieni\u0161as krik\u0161\u010dionis arba esate u\u017emezg\u0119s krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161k\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 santykius - jums tai jau pa\u017e\u012fstama.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dievas nori, kad savo gyvenime patirtum\u0117te laim\u0119, d\u017eiaugsm\u0105 ir malonum\u0105. Tai apima ir seks\u0105! Dievo planas yra toks, kad tai b\u016bt\u0173 patiriama santuokoje tik su vienu \u017emogumi. Ta\u010diau labai svarbu, kad tai b\u016bt\u0173 daroma su tinkama intencija.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seksualin\u0117s traukos atveju visada tur\u0117tume siekti gerbti, gerbti ir myl\u0117ti kit\u0105 asmen\u012f. Visa, kas tam prie\u0161tarauja, n\u0117ra Dievo planas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai tai rei\u0161kia, kad reikia atsisakyti savo tiesiogini\u0173 nor\u0173 ir tro\u0161kim\u0173 ir laukti, kol Dievas jus pastatys tinkamoje aplinkoje, kurioje gal\u0117site i\u0161reik\u0161ti \u0161\u012f patrauklum\u0105. Esame pa\u0161aukti veikti su intencija, o ne reaguoti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai imam\u0117s veiksm\u0173 d\u0117l savo seksualin\u0117s traukos jausmo, kol dar neat\u0117jo tinkamas laikas, sveika trauka virsta savanaudi\u0161kumu ir veda mus \u012f geism\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-wary\"><strong>B\u016bkite atsarg\u016bs<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tada lengva patik\u0117ti, kad geidulingos mintys yra gerai, jei tik j\u0173 nevykdome. Ar tikrai mintys yra gerai? Ta\u010diau \u0161ventasis Paulius mums primena, kad <em>\"paimti \u012f nelaisv\u0119 kiekvien\u0105 mint\u012f, kad ji tapt\u0173 klusni Kristui\". <\/em>(2 Korintie\u010diams 10:5). Vargingos mintys liepia pamir\u0161ti Dievo plan\u0105. Ta\u010diau seksualinio patrauklumo jausmus galima kontroliuoti ir valdyti pakl\u016bstant Dievui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"geismas vs. traukos aistra\" class=\"wp-image-81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Aistra mus atved\u0117 \u010dia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105: <strong>Kova su seksualine pagunda<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tampa ai\u0161ku, kad geismas yra realyb\u0117, su kuria gali susidurti arba susiduria daugelis. Pasaulis, \u017emon\u0117s, su kuriais susitikin\u0117jame, arba mes patys taip lengvai galime pasiduoti \u0161iam keliui.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai tai pastebime, turime pirmenyb\u0119 teikti kovai su pagunda.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-come-to-god-nbsp\"><strong>Ateikite pas Diev\u0105&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Jok\u016bbo knygoje ra\u0161oma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>...<\/em><\/strong><em>nusi\u017eeminkite Dievo akivaizdoje. Prie\u0161inkit\u0117s velniui, ir jis b\u0117gs nuo j\u016bs\u0173. Priart\u0117kite prie Dievo, ir Dievas priart\u0117s prie j\u016bs\u0173. Nusiplaukite rankas, nusid\u0117j\u0117liai, apvalykite savo \u0161irdis, nes j\u016bs\u0173 i\u0161tikimyb\u0117 padalinta tarp Dievo ir pasaulio.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Jok\u016bbo 4:7-8).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai suvokiame mus supan\u010dias pagundas, turime dvi galimybes. Likti tame kelyje arba atsigr\u0119\u017eti \u012f Diev\u0105. Pastarajame matome did\u012fj\u012f pa\u017ead\u0105. Dievas prie j\u016bs\u0173 priart\u0117s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Niekas, k\u0105 j\u016bs galvojote, sak\u0117te ar dar\u0117te, neatskirs j\u016bs\u0173 nuo Dievo d\u0117l to, k\u0105 J\u0117zus padar\u0117 ant kry\u017eiaus! Net jei tik nerimaujate, kad geismas gali tapti j\u016bs\u0173 problema, nusi\u017eeminkite prie\u0161 Diev\u0105. Melskit\u0117s ir pra\u0161ykite Jo malon\u0117s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai ateiname pas Diev\u0105, mums suteikiama j\u0117g\u0173 atsispirti prie\u0161o k\u0117slams!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-remove-the-source-nbsp\"><strong>Pa\u0161alinti \u0161altin\u012f&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160is klausimas yra sud\u0117tingas. Sunku pasirinkti gyvenimo b\u016bd\u0105, kuriuo Dievo valia gerbiama labiau nei pasaulio. Jei jau\u010diate, kad jus valdo geismas, svarbu pa\u0161alinti tai, kas jus skatina.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apsvarstykite galimyb\u0119 padaryti pertrauk\u0105 nuo pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117li\u0173, jei jos \u0161iuo metu nepadeda. \u017dinome, kad jos gali b\u016bti kli\u016btis. Daugiau informacijos apie<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/pazinciu-programeles-nuodeme\/\">Pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 program\u0117li\u0173 nuod\u0117m\u0117<\/a>\u2018.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei Dievas pra\u0161o j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime atsisakyti geismo, ar j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime esantys dalykai (mintys, veiksmai, turinys, \u017emon\u0117s ir t. t.) padeda ar apsunkina?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-heal-the-heart\"><strong>I\u0161gydykite \u0161ird\u012f<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tik\u0117tina, kad prireiks ir tam tikros \u017ealos kontrol\u0117s. Nuod\u0117m\u0117 atima i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 sielos d\u017eiaugsm\u0105, trukdo m\u016bs\u0173 santykiams su Dievu ir gali paveikti m\u016bs\u0173 savijaut\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai akivaizd\u017eiausiai matyti i\u0161 pornografijos naudojimo. Daugelis \u017emoni\u0173 naudoja pornografij\u0105, kad susidorot\u0173 su savo geidulingais tro\u0161kimais arba juos i\u0161gyvent\u0173. Tik\u0117damiesi, kad tai jiems suteiks malonum\u0105 ir seksualin\u012f pasitenkinim\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau pornografijos vartojimas susij\u0119s su prastesne psichikos sveikata, \u017eemesne saviverte, prastesniu k\u016bno \u012fvaizd\u017eiu ir didesne vienatve (pagal <a href=\"https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Kova su naujuoju narkotiku<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nesvarbu, ar m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis su\u017eeista d\u0117l pornografijos, ar d\u0117l kit\u0173 veiksm\u0173, ar d\u0117l geidulingo elgesio pasekmi\u0173 - mums reikia gydytis. Pirmasis \u017eingsnis - atsiskirti nuo melo, kuriuo tik\u0117jome ir gyvenome. Dievas nori atnaujinti ir pataisyti m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161irdis. Jis atkuria kiekvien\u0105 sudau\u017eyt\u0105 \u0161ird\u012f! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=uHz0w-HG4iU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Naudokite \u0161\u012f garbinim\u0105<\/a> giesm\u0119, skirt\u0105 j\u016bs\u0173 laikui su Dievu, ir leiskite Jam jums tarnauti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Per\u017ei\u016br\u0117kite kit\u0105 m\u016bs\u0173 tinklara\u0161t\u012f apie tai, kaip <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lt\/seksualines-pagundos-vienisam-krikscioniui\/\">\u012fveikti seksualin\u0119 pagund\u0105<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\"><strong>Trauka prie\u0161 geism\u0105:<\/strong> <strong>Ar per\u017eengiau rib\u0105?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tikim\u0117s, kad tai, k\u0105 aptar\u0117me \u0161iame tinklara\u0161tyje, pad\u0117jo jums apsispr\u0119sti, kurioje geismo ir traukos skal\u0117s vietoje esate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei \u017einote, kad per\u017eeng\u0117te rib\u0105, netyl\u0117kite. Gali b\u016bti, kad perskait\u0119 \u0161\u012f straipsn\u012f jaut\u0117te g\u0117d\u0105 d\u0117l \u012fkyri\u0173 min\u010di\u0173, pornografijos vartojimo ar net nei\u0161tikimyb\u0117s. Geriausia susirasti patikim\u0105 krik\u0161\u010dion\u012f, su kuriuo gal\u0117tum\u0117te pasikalb\u0117ti. Draugas, \u0161eimos narys arba kunigas \/ pastorius \/ mentorius gali keliauti su jumis maldoje, jei jums sunku.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Visi mes turime galimyb\u0119 priimti malon\u0119. Suma\u017einti baim\u0119 krik\u0161\u010dioni\u0161kose pa\u017eintyse. Vietoj to galime gerai myl\u0117ti kitus priimdami, kad nuod\u0117m\u0119 patiriame visi. Tapkime pana\u0161esni \u012f J\u0117z\u0173 ir pasakykime \"ne\" teismui!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Padarykime i\u0161vad\u0105<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nor\u0117\u010diau jus padr\u0105sinti, kad niekas n\u0117ra tobulas. Atminkite;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...visi nusid\u0117jo ir stokoja Dievo \u0161lov\u0117s.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Romie\u010diams 3:23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nor\u0117dami susidoroti su geismu, turime:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pa\u0161alinkite geismo ir fantazij\u0173 mel\u0105 i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 prot\u0173.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Priimkite Dievo mums duot\u0105 diding\u0105 lytinio patrauklumo plan\u0105 ir laikykit\u0117s Jo plano.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Su Dievo pagalba atkreipkite m\u016bs\u0173 d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f pagundas.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar geresn\u0117 \u017einia yra ta, kad esame nemokami!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Taigi, jei S\u016bnus jus i\u0161laisvina, i\u0161 ties\u0173 b\u016bsite laisvi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Jono 8:36)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi J\u0117zus nori, kad gyventum\u0117te be geismo, kad Jis gal\u0117t\u0173 palaiminti jus gyvenimo pilnatve!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Per pasimatymus sutelkite d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f garb\u0119, pagarb\u0105 ir meil\u0119, ir tegul jums tai taip pat visi\u0161kai atsilygina.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Christians living in 2026 we need to know the difference between lust vs. attraction: how do we know if we&#8217;ve crossed the line? 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