{"id":2877,"date":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2877"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","slug":"co-nesnasim-na-tom-ze-jsem-svobodny-krestan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/things-i-hate-about-being-a-single-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u011bci, kter\u00e9 nen\u00e1vid\u00edm na tom, \u017ee jsem svobodn\u00fd k\u0159es\u0165an"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vyr\u016fstala jsem s rodi\u010di sv\u00e9ho otce. Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m si, jak prarodi\u010de chodili na moje divadeln\u00ed p\u0159edstaven\u00ed, jak se o m\u011b a o bratra starali o n\u011bkter\u00fdch v\u00edkendech a jak obrovsk\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed j\u00eddla p\u0159inesli, kdykoli jsme je nav\u0161t\u00edvili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e jsem byla v pubert\u011b, m\u016fj d\u011bde\u010dek bohu\u017eel zem\u0159el a z\u016fstala jen babi\u010dka. To ona m\u011b nau\u010dila, jak spr\u00e1vn\u011b p\u0159evl\u00e9kat lo\u017en\u00ed pr\u00e1dlo, jak dostat pe\u0159inu a\u017e do roh\u016f prost\u011bradla.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ed n\u011bkolika lety onemocn\u011bla. Bydlel jsem mnohem d\u00e1l, sotva jsem ji vid\u011bl. Na cest\u011b dom\u016f jsem se dozv\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee p\u0159i n\u00e1vratu z nemocnice proj\u00ed\u017ed\u00ed na\u0161\u00edm m\u011bstem. Nem\u011bla moc energie, tak jsme ji vy\u0161li rychle pozdravit, kdy\u017e sed\u011bla v aut\u011b.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pov\u00eddaly jsme si a pak se zeptala, a j\u00e1 bych m\u011bla dodat, \u017ee laskav\u011b: \"U\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 hodn\u00e9ho kluka?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Potom odjeli a to bylo naposledy, co jsem ji vid\u011bl. Vzpom\u00ednka na jej\u00ed ot\u00e1zku mi z\u016fstala v hlav\u011b, kdy\u017e jsem zpracov\u00e1val sv\u016fj z\u00e1rmutek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Shrnut\u00ed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesn\u00e1\u0161ela jsem ten pocit, v\u00edm, \u017ee babi\u010dka cht\u011bla jen v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee jsem \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, co\u017e jsem byla. V\u00edm, \u017ee se s d\u011bde\u010dkem m\u011bli moc r\u00e1di, cht\u011bla jsem to taky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale ta ot\u00e1zka m\u011b na chv\u00edli roz\u010d\u00edlila. V\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka pro nezadan\u00e9: \"U\u017e sis n\u011bkoho na\u0161el?\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To a mnoho dal\u0161\u00edch drobnost\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobit, \u017ee b\u00fdt svobodn\u00fdm k\u0159es\u0165anem je opravdu t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Existuj\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/vyzvy-svobodneho-zivota\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u010d\u00e1sti svobodn\u00e9ho \u017eivota, kter\u00e9 jsou na nic<\/a> a my o nich budeme mluvit.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak se na to pod\u00edvejme a bu\u010fme up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zde jsou <strong>V\u011bci, kter\u00e9 nen\u00e1vid\u00edm na tom, \u017ee jsem svobodn\u00fd k\u0159es\u0165an.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Samostatn\u00fd let<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd plus jeden&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Finan\u010dn\u00ed frustrace&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nedostatek dotyku&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Touha po rand\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The single blues<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-flying-solo\">Samostatn\u00e9 l\u00e9t\u00e1n\u00ed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Miloval jsem po\u0159ad BBC <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=v3ZgFUSAAGQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Miranda<\/a>. Miranda pochopila, co znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt svobodn\u00e1. Vym\u00fd\u0161lela zp\u016fsoby, jak si co nejl\u00e9pe u\u017e\u00edt samoty, \u010dasto s komick\u00fdmi v\u00fdsledky. Jako nap\u0159\u00edklad ve\u010de\u0159e. Jej\u00ed snaha splynout s davem t\u00edm, \u017ee p\u0159edst\u00edrala, \u017ee je podnikatelka, co\u017e n\u011bjak vy\u00fastilo v to, \u017ee vedla konferenci a byla obvin\u011bna z kr\u00e1de\u017ee identity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, co v\u0161echno d\u011bl\u00e1me, abychom zakryli svou osam\u011blost. Ale d\u011blat v\u011bci s\u00e1m nen\u00ed n\u011bkdy \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 legrace. Pro svobodn\u00e9 k\u0159es\u0165any je to n\u00e1\u0161 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ij\u00edt na ve\u010d\u00edrek s\u00e1m, rozpa\u010dit\u011b si potvrdit, \u017ee ano, je to st\u016fl pro jednoho, zoufale se dr\u017eet lokty ve vlaku, proto\u017ee vedle v\u00e1s te\u010f m\u00edsto spolucestuj\u00edc\u00edho sed\u00ed ciz\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jako k\u0159es\u0165an\u0161t\u00ed singles m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt v \u017eivot\u011b s\u00f3lo vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed. To n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee odradit od v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 chceme d\u011blat. Mo\u017en\u00e1 si rozmluv\u00edte n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu toho filmu, muzea, koncertu, festivalu, hodiny t\u011blocviku... Ale to je v\u0161echno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m nel\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1me v\u011bci sami, nem\u016f\u017eeme to nechat, aby n\u00e1m to zabr\u00e1nilo \u017e\u00edt sv\u016fj \u017eivot. Vezm\u011bte si p\u0159\u00edklad z knihy Haven, kter\u00e1 zkou\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci jako svobodn\u00e1 k\u0159es\u0165anka a bere n\u00e1s na cestu s sebou, nap\u0159\u00edklad na v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed trhy a na s\u00f3lo ve\u010de\u0159i.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jen proto, \u017ee jste mo\u017en\u00e1 svobodn\u00ed a <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hled\u00e1 zbo\u017en\u00e9ho mu\u017ee nebo \u017eenu<\/a> neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee mus\u00edte \u010dekat, a\u017e se objev\u00ed, abyste mohli za\u010d\u00edt \u017e\u00edt! P\u0159ijm\u011bte trapnost a d\u011blejte to, co chcete d\u011blat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Odv\u00e1\u017en\u00fd svobodn\u00fd k\u0159es\u0165ane, ud\u011blej krok v\u00edry\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUg3inUX21Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-plus-one\">\u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd Plus One<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud by v\u00e1m nesta\u010dily ka\u017edodenn\u00ed v\u011bci, necht\u011bjte, abych za\u010dal s velk\u00fdmi ud\u00e1lostmi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00e1noce, narozeniny, cokoli si vzpomenete - nezadanost m\u016f\u017ee tyto zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti znep\u0159\u00edjemnit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jako kdy\u017e jde\u0161 s\u00e1m na svatbu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za\u010d\u00e1tek nen\u00ed tak \u0161patn\u00fd, proto\u017ee samotn\u00fd s\u0148atek je strukturovanou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed dne. Ale kdy\u017e p\u0159ijde na \u0159adu pit\u00ed a lid\u00e9 se fot\u00ed se svou osobou... p\u0159ejete si m\u00edt vedle sebe n\u011bkoho, s k\u00fdm byste si mohli popov\u00eddat o v\u0161ech mali\u010dkostech, kter\u00fdch jste si b\u011bhem dne v\u0161imli, s k\u00fdm byste si mohli d\u00e1t v\u00edc prosecca nebo naj\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9 klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed m\u00edsto, kde byste se mohli odpoutat od bl\u00e1zniv\u00e9ho svatebn\u00edho ruchu. Pak je tu tanec, s k\u00fdm tancujete???<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nov\u00fd rok je tam, odkud poch\u00e1z\u00edm, velkou ud\u00e1lost\u00ed. S p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u011bkem se oslavy n\u011bjak prom\u011bnily a zd\u00e1lo se, \u017ee se jedn\u00e1 o jednu velkou noc, kter\u00e1 zm\u011bn\u00ed m\u016fj \u017eivot. Moji nek\u0159es\u0165an\u0161t\u00ed kamar\u00e1di tr\u00e1vili ve\u010der vyzn\u00e1n\u00edm l\u00e1sky sv\u00e9 zamilovanosti a l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00edm se v n\u00e1hradn\u00ed lo\u017enici, zat\u00edmco j\u00e1 sed\u011bl s\u00e1m a jen doufal, \u017ee se do\u010dk\u00e1m zvon\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je snadn\u00e9, aby tyto velk\u00e9 okam\u017eiky vyvolaly hr\u016fzu, kdy\u017e se pod\u00edv\u00e1te na pozv\u00e1nku bez doprovodu nebo si nejste jisti, jak zvl\u00e1dnete dal\u0161\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1s obt\u011b\u017euj\u00ed ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abychom si mohli u\u017e\u00edvat \u017eivota a neprop\u00e1sli tyto v\u011bci, mus\u00edme n\u011bkdy zm\u011bnit perspektivu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nap\u0159\u00edklad na Valent\u00fdna. Mnoz\u00ed, v\u011bt\u0161inou nezadan\u00ed, ho nen\u00e1vid\u00ed, a to z dobr\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu. Ale je to sou\u010d\u00e1st na\u0161ich kalend\u00e1\u0159\u016f a jako <a href=\"https:\/\/www.boundless.org\/blog\/why-singles-shouldnt-write-off-valentines-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Dunnov\u00e1 ve sv\u00e9 knize Tou\u017e\u00edm po Bohu poukazuje na to, \u017ee<\/a> \u010dl\u00e1nek, pro svobodn\u00e9 k\u0159es\u0165any je to p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost k oslav\u011b a sv\u011bdectv\u00ed druh\u00fdm.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Valent\u00fdn m\u016f\u017ee sv\u011btu p\u0159ipomenout, \u017ee k\u0159es\u0165an\u00e9 si v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a biblick\u00e9ho man\u017eelstv\u00ed. A \u017ee se m\u00e1me r\u00e1di bez ohledu na to, jak rozd\u00edln\u00e9 jsou na\u0161e \u017eivoty.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Tak a\u0165 je Valent\u00fdn Valent\u00fdnem. Zva\u017ete hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed pro vdan\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dky nebo pozv\u011bte nezadanou kamar\u00e1dku na ve\u010de\u0159i. Najd\u011bte si sv\u016fj obl\u00edben\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak oslavit l\u00e1sku, kterou jste pro\u017eili.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Slavit mohou i nezadan\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg\" alt=\"d\u00edvka s k\u00e1vou\" class=\"wp-image-2495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg 801w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-235x300.jpg 235w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-768x982.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1201x1536.jpg 1201w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1601x2048.jpg 1601w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 2002w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-financial-frustrations\">Finan\u010dn\u00ed frustrace<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00fdt svobodn\u00fd je drah\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0165 u\u017e bydl\u00edte ve spole\u010dn\u00e9m byt\u011b, nebo m\u00e1te vlastn\u00ed byt, \u017eivot s jedn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edjmem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pro svobodn\u00e9 slo\u017eit\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tyto p\u00e1ry s dvoj\u00edm p\u0159\u00edjmem a bez d\u011bt\u00ed (DINK) ani netu\u0161\u00ed, jak dob\u0159e se maj\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V boji proti tomu se pot\u00fdk\u00e1me s n\u00e1klady na neust\u00e1l\u00e9 spole\u010densk\u00e9 aktivity, cestov\u00e1n\u00ed a podobn\u011b, co\u017e m\u016f\u017ee prov\u011b\u0159it rozpo\u010dtov\u00e9 omezen\u00ed n\u00e1s nezadan\u00fdch. Chceme b\u00fdt s lidmi, ale to n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t pen\u00edze i \u010das.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pak je tu rozd\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00e1rk\u016f, kdy se m\u016f\u017ee stup\u0148ovat tlak na oslavu partner\u016f a d\u011bt\u00ed t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou n\u00e1m nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nehled\u011b na to, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina v\u011bc\u00ed je v\u00fdhodn\u00e1, pokud jste p\u00e1r, nap\u0159\u00edklad levn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ubytov\u00e1n\u00ed na dovolen\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samota m\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobit mnoho finan\u010dn\u00edch frustrac\u00ed a obav. P\u0159esto se m\u016f\u017eeme rozhodnout, \u017ee budeme dobr\u00fdmi spr\u00e1vci toho, co n\u00e1m B\u016fh dal, a budeme \u0161t\u011bdr\u00fdmi d\u00e1rci.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkolik v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba zm\u00ednit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pokud m\u00e1te dluhy a pot\u0159ebujete pomoc, vyhledejte m\u00edstn\u00ed dluhov\u00e9 poradenstv\u00ed, nap\u0159. <a href=\"https:\/\/capuk.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">CAP <\/a>dluhov\u00e9 centrum nebo se obra\u0165te na n\u011bkoho, komu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zva\u017ete, jak hospoda\u0159\u00edte s pen\u011bzi a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenpastures.co.uk\/resources\/6-ways-to-be-a-good-steward-of-your-money-in-the-current-climate\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">tyto tipy<\/a> jak se dob\u0159e starat o sv\u00e9 pen\u00edze.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A\u010dkoli je ps\u00e1n pro snoubence, nenechte se odradit - p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si n\u00e1\u0161 blog ve spolupr\u00e1ci se spole\u010dnost\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stewardship.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Spr\u00e1vcovstv\u00ed <\/a>na n\u011bkter\u00fdch <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/financni-dary\/\">ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba zv\u00e1\u017eit v souvislosti s darov\u00e1n\u00edm<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-touch\">Nedostatek dotyku<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je to n\u011bco, o \u010dem jako svobodn\u00ed k\u0159es\u0165an\u00e9 moc nemluv\u00edme. Vad\u00ed mi, \u017ee se v\u00e1s nikdo nikdy po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nedotkne.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obecn\u011b jsem dost specifick\u00e1 v tom, koho chci, aby se m\u011b dot\u00fdkal. R\u00e1d obj\u00edm\u00e1m lidi na pozdrav, ale s p\u0159\u00e1teli nechci, aby se obj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed prodlu\u017eovalo, pokud jedna ze stran nepl\u00e1\u010de a nepot\u0159ebuje \u00fat\u011bchu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dlouho jsem pracovala v odv\u011btv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 bylo jako kultura docela citliv\u00e9, tak\u017ee dot\u00fdkat se lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed nebyli mou rodinou\/partnerem, bylo norm\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Byl jsem tak\u00e9 sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed c\u00edrkv\u00ed, kde se dotek stal norm\u00e1ln\u00edm, p\u0159i zdraven\u00ed, vkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rukou p\u0159i modlitb\u011b atd.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To v\u0161ak nen\u00ed standardem pro v\u0161echny. Mnoz\u00ed singles, jak c\u00edt\u00edm, mohou snadno str\u00e1vit dny, t\u00fddny, mo\u017en\u00e1 i d\u00e9le, ani\u017e by se jich n\u011bkdo dotkl.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nemluv\u00edm zde o romantick\u00e9m nebo sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm doteku. Ty v \u017eivot\u011b k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch singles \"chyb\u00ed\", ale sp\u00ed\u0161e d\u00edky volb\u011b rand\u011bn\u00ed s \u00famyslem uzav\u0159\u00edt man\u017eelstv\u00ed a zdr\u017eet se sexu. Chci se zam\u011b\u0159it na norm\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, p\u0159\u00e1telskou str\u00e1nku konsensu\u00e1ln\u00edho doteku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zd\u00e1 se to b\u00fdt zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, ale je za t\u00edm v\u011bda. Jsme p\u0159ece spole\u010densk\u00e9 bytosti, kter\u00e9 B\u016fh stvo\u0159il k tomu, aby \u017eily v \u00fazk\u00e9m spole\u010denstv\u00ed s ostatn\u00edmi. Ve skute\u010dnosti <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/science\/2024\/apr\/08\/touch-reduce-pain-depression-anxiety-mental-physical-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">dotek m\u016f\u017ee zm\u00edrnit bolest, depresi a \u00fazkost.<\/a> podle v\u00fdzkumn\u00edk\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli jste n\u011bkdy o tom, jak Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 pou\u017e\u00edval tak\u00e9 fyzick\u00fd dotek? I kdy\u017e je Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 B\u016fh v lidsk\u00e9m t\u011ble, nebr\u00e1nilo mu to dot\u00fdkat se lid\u00ed. Vkl\u00e1dal ruce, aby uzdravil (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke%204&amp;version=NIV\">Luk\u00e1\u0161 4:40<\/a>) a umyl nohy sv\u00fdm u\u010dedn\u00edk\u016fm (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2013%3A1-17&amp;version=NIV\">Jan 13,1-17<\/a>). Dotek byl kl\u00ed\u010dovou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ova zprost\u0159edkov\u00e1n\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sky jeho lidu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak tedy m\u016f\u017eeme zvl\u00e1dnout sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby dot\u00fdkat se nezadan\u00fdch? Zde je n\u011bkolik n\u00e1pad\u016f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Rezervace relaxa\u010dn\u00ed mas\u00e1\u017ee.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chodit ke kade\u0159n\u00edkovi, kter\u00fd v\u00e1m myje vlasy.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ujistit se, \u017ee obj\u00edm\u00e1me sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele a rodinu, kdy\u017e je vid\u00edme.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mo\u017en\u00e1 investujte do z\u00e1t\u011b\u017eov\u00e9 deky, abyste se c\u00edtili pohodln\u011b a klidn\u011b.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Pocit neviditelnosti svobodn\u00e9ho k\u0159es\u0165ana\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oQNin-BcyS8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-desire-to-date\">Touha datovat<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jednou z v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 nesn\u00e1\u0161\u00edm na tom, \u017ee jsem svobodn\u00fd chrisit\u00e1n, je to, \u017ee nechci b\u00fdt svobodn\u00fd! M\u00e1m touhu randit a n\u011bkdy to vy\u00fastilo v to, \u017ee se opravdu sna\u017e\u00edm s mal\u00fdm \u00fasp\u011bchem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 c\u00edt\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00fd klid, kdy\u017e s nik\u00fdm nechod\u00ed, a p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed svou svobodnost s takovou milost\u00ed. Mn\u011b to v\u011bt\u0161inou p\u0159ipad\u00e1 jako ch\u016fze bahnem a modl\u00edm se, abych se brzy vyno\u0159il na druh\u00e9m konci.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e opravdu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">chci chodit s k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdm mu\u017eem nebo \u017eenou<\/a> ale z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu se to prost\u011b ned\u011bje - je to frustruj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016f\u017eete ud\u011blat v\u0161e pro to, abyste tuto realitu zm\u011bnili - nap\u0159\u00edklad podle n\u011bkter\u00fdch na\u0161ich tip\u016f, jak m\u00edt. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/uspech-seznamovaci-aplikace\/\">\u00dasp\u011bch k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 seznamovac\u00ed aplikace<\/a>, nebo <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/presunout-kostely-najit-svobodne-krestany\/\">zva\u017eujete, zda byste m\u011bli p\u0159est\u011bhovat kostely, abyste na\u0161li dal\u0161\u00ed nezadan\u00e9.<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z n\u00e1s by se v\u0161ak m\u011bli zlep\u0161it v \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/pripraven-na-schuzku\/\">Mo\u017en\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b nejsme p\u0159ipraveni na rande<\/a>, i kdy\u017e m\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee ano. Nebo se mus\u00edme soust\u0159edit na jin\u00e1 rozpt\u00fdlen\u00ed, kter\u00e1 je t\u0159eba \u0159e\u0161it jako prvn\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed poku\u0161en\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pro ostatn\u00ed, i kdy\u017e jsme opravdu <em>ne <\/em>cht\u00edt b\u00fdt svobodn\u00fd <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/kdy-si-mam-dat-pauzu-od-seznamovacich-aplikaci\/\">jsme opravdu <em>do <\/em>si mus\u00ed\u0161 d\u00e1t pauzu na rand\u011bn\u00ed.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0165 u\u017e jsme v situaci, kdy se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me s nezadan\u00fdmi k\u0159es\u0165any, nebo ne, v\u0161em by n\u00e1m mohlo prosp\u011bt, kdybychom si procvi\u010dili spokojenost.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Udr\u017eujte sv\u016fj \u017eivot bez l\u00e1sky k pen\u011bz\u016fm a bu\u010fte spokojeni s t\u00edm, co m\u00e1te, proto\u017ee B\u016fh \u0159ekl: \"Nikdy t\u011b neopust\u00edm, nikdy t\u011b neopust\u00edm.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u017did\u016fm 13:5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-single-blues\">The Single Blues<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkdy se probud\u00edte a c\u00edt\u00edte t\u00edhu nebo pocit osam\u011blosti, kter\u00e9ho je opravdu t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 se zbavit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Blues jako singl je pocit, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee zas\u00e1hnout z ni\u010deho nic nebo m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vyvol\u00e1n spou\u0161t\u011b\u010dem. T\u011bmito spou\u0161t\u011b\u010di mohou b\u00fdt v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 vid\u00edte venku, rozhovory, kter\u00e9 vedete, nebo v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 sledujete.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zp\u016fsob, jak to zvl\u00e1dnout jako svobodn\u00fd Chrisitan hled\u00e1 l\u00e1sku, je b\u00fdt v\u011bdomi spou\u0161t\u011b\u010d\u016f jste ch\u016fze p\u0159\u00edmo do, jako je bezmy\u0161lenkovit\u00e9 rolov\u00e1n\u00ed na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch m\u00e9di\u00edch nebo \u00fatuln\u00e9 se d\u00edvat na nejnov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rom com s kbel\u00edkem zmrzliny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tyto pocity p\u0159ijdou a odejdou, a i kdy\u017e je to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, mus\u00edme si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee nakonec pominou. Je v po\u0159\u00e1dku dovolit si c\u00edtit sv\u00e9 pocity, ale je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nezab\u0159ednout p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 daleko do sebel\u00edtosti, kterou si sami zt\u011b\u017eujeme \u017eivot.  N\u011bkdy v\u0161ak b\u00fdt svobodn\u00fd <em>Christian <\/em>je to, s \u010d\u00edm se pot\u00fdk\u00e1me nejv\u00edce. V\u00edme, \u017ee B\u016fh nikomu partnera nedlu\u017e\u00ed, ale kdy\u017e je touha a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed tak velkou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed na\u0161ich p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed a B\u016fh n\u00e1m takov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka je\u0161t\u011b nep\u0159ivedl, vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 to spoustu ot\u00e1zek. Jak p\u00ed\u0161e . <a href=\"https:\/\/www.praise.com\/articles\/struggle-christian-single-is-real\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Joy Beth Smith<\/a> odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Pokud B\u016fh nezadr\u017euje mu\u017ee, aby m\u011b p\u0159ipravil, na co \u010dek\u00e1? A co to o Bohu vypov\u00edd\u00e1, \u017ee mi navzdory m\u00fdm vrouc\u00edm touh\u00e1m zadr\u017euje dobrou v\u011bc?<\/em> <em>Jak m\u00e1m ct\u00edt a slou\u017eit Bohu, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 moc zm\u011bnit m\u00e9 pom\u011bry, ale rozhodne se to neud\u011blat, co\u017e mi zp\u016fsobuje nesm\u00edrnou osam\u011blost a bolest?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tyto my\u0161lenky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u011btlo na\u0161im obav\u00e1m - z mo\u017enosti z\u016fstat nav\u017edy s\u00e1m. Nejen to, ale i to, \u017ee nikdy neza\u017eijeme sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed intimitu, \u017ee nebudeme m\u00edt rodinu (pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 je tato my\u0161lenka p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 t\u011b\u017eko snesiteln\u00e1). A nav\u00edc, co kdy\u017e ztrat\u00edte n\u011bkoho z bl\u00edzk\u00fdch a nebudete m\u00edt partnera, kter\u00fd by v\u00e1m v t\u011bchto t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch pomohl. My\u0161lenka, \u017ee budete \u010delit \u017eivotu bez sv\u00e9 osoby, m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k mnoha zdrcuj\u00edc\u00edm starostem a rozzlobit v\u00e1s na Boha.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00edm, \u017ee B\u016fh m\u00e1 s n\u00e1mi trp\u011blivost a \u010dek\u00e1, a\u017e si v\u0161ichni uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee a\u0165 u\u017e jsme svobodn\u00ed, vdan\u00ed, rozveden\u00ed nebo ovdov\u011bl\u00ed, On je st\u00e1le s n\u00e1mi. Nikdy nejsme sami.  Ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1m to proto, abychom se ot\u0159eli o sv\u00e9 pocity, ale abychom z\u00edskali kotvu nad\u011bje, kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m zd\u00e1, \u017ee vlna blues je p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 na to, abychom po n\u00ed \u0161lapali.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0158ekn\u011bte Bohu p\u0159esn\u011b, jak se c\u00edt\u00edte, a uct\u00edvejte ho i ve strachu nebo bolesti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aleluja, nejsem s\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to m\u016fj Comfort,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u017edycky m\u011b dr\u017e\u00ed u sebe<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8OlMGnPUAdw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u017dalm 23 (Nejsem s\u00e1m) - Lid\u00e9 a p\u00edsn\u011b<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud se pr\u00e1v\u011b nach\u00e1z\u00edte v t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 situaci, je pro m\u011b velkou \u00fat\u011bchou tento blog Samanthy Kellerov\u00e9. Posa\u010fte se se sv\u00fdmi pocity a nechte jej\u00ed slova zazn\u00edt <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/blog\/being-single-hurts-today-and-thats-okay\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">B\u00fdt single dnes bol\u00ed, a to je v po\u0159\u00e1dku<\/a> aby v\u00e1s vedl v modlitb\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Poj\u010fme uzav\u0159\u00edt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve skute\u010dnosti m\u00e1m te\u010f odpov\u011b\u010f pro babi\u010dku, ano, na\u0161la jsem toho nejhez\u010d\u00edho kluka - ned\u00e1vno jsem se vdala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tato zpr\u00e1va v\u00e1s jako svobodn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd \u010dte tento \u010dl\u00e1nek, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b na\u0161tve. 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