{"id":147,"date":"2024-03-11T14:18:35","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T14:18:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=147"},"modified":"2026-03-03T13:57:42","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T13:57:42","slug":"cervene-vlajky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/red-flags\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010cerven\u00e9 vlajky na k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch seznamk\u00e1ch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V tomto p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvku uv\u00e1d\u00edme 3 \u010derven\u00e9 vlajky v k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 chodit s n\u011bk\u00fdm, \u017ee byste m\u011bli b\u011b\u017eet od 2026. Nav\u00edc uv\u00e1d\u00edme 3 zelen\u00e9 vlajky, kter\u00e9 ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee jste na\u0161li skv\u011bl\u00e9ho partnera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-794e3cfa wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\"><strong>TL;DR: Shrnut\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zde jsou \u010derven\u00e9 a zelen\u00e9 vlajky, kter\u00fdmi se budeme zab\u00fdvat v tomto p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvku. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 um\u011bt rozpoznat ob\u011b strany, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m pomohou rozli\u0161it, zda je pro v\u00e1s vztah vhodn\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-red-flag-1-they-re-shady-and-secretive\">\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka 1: Jsou pochybn\u00ed a tajn\u016fstk\u00e1\u0159\u0161t\u00ed<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-red-flag-2-they-re-self-centred\">\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka 2: Jsou sebest\u0159edn\u00ed<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-red-flag-3-they-re-inconsistent\">\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka 3: Jsou nekonzistentn\u00ed<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-green-flag-1-they-re-kind-and-emotionally-available\">Zelen\u00e1 vlajka 1: Jsou laskav\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u011b p\u0159\u00edstupn\u00ed.<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-green-flag-2-they-are-solution-focused-and-willing-to-compromise\">Zelen\u00e1 vlajka 2: Zam\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed se na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed a jsou ochotni ke kompromis\u016fm.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-green-flag-3-they-point-you-to-jesus\">Zelen\u00e1 vlajka 3: Ukazuj\u00ed ti na Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"3 \u010derven\u00e9 vlajky, kter\u00e9 by v k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 seznamce nem\u011bl nikdo ignorovat\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUVfeBbdOtk?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Zde jsou <a href=\"https:\/\/laurenwindle.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Windle'<\/a>\u010derven\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, na kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba si d\u00e1t pozor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">\u00davodn\u00ed str\u00e1nka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Term\u00edn \"\u010derven\u00e1 vlajka\" se pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 pom\u011brn\u011b voln\u011b a n\u011bkdy m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 rychl\u00ed v odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed lid\u00ed v seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed. ALE ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 nezpochybniteln\u00e9 hodnoty a je nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bt, jak\u00e9 to jsou. Jak\u00e9 jsou \u010derven\u00e9 vlajky, na kter\u00e9 byste si m\u011bli d\u00e1vat pozor p\u0159i k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9m rand\u011bn\u00ed?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zn\u00e1te ten pocit, kdy\u017e v\u00e1m v\u00e1\u0161 nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1d za\u010dne vypr\u00e1v\u011bt o sv\u00e9m nov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edteli\/p\u0159\u00edtelkyni a v\u00e1s sev\u0159e \u017ealudek, kter\u00fd nezmiz\u00ed, proto\u017ee jste <em>jen v\u011bd\u011bt <\/em>\u017ee se k sob\u011b nehod\u00ed. I kdy\u017e to nen\u00ed ide\u00e1ln\u00ed situace, je to skv\u011bl\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad rozli\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Je to n\u011bco, co se n\u00e1m mnohem sn\u00e1ze \u0159e\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e nejsme my ti, kdo se zm\u00edt\u00e1 ve v\u0161ech pocitech, kter\u00e9 se na vztahu pod\u00edlej\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017en\u00e1 nastal \u010das, abyste se pono\u0159ili do sv\u011bta k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9ho rand\u011bn\u00ed. St\u00e1hli jste si <a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">SALT<\/a>, str\u00e1vili jste hodiny vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00edm sv\u00e9ho profilu a nyn\u00ed jste p\u0159ipraveni za\u010d\u00edt proch\u00e1zet. Ale jak proj\u00ed\u017ed\u00edte jeden profil za druh\u00fdm s profilem skv\u011bl\u00fdch kluk\u016f\/d\u00edvek, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1te si uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee naj\u00edt to, co si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee hled\u00e1te, nen\u00ed tak snadn\u00e9. Uv\u011bdom\u00edte si, \u017ee stejn\u00e1 rozli\u0161ovac\u00ed schopnost, jakou okam\u017eit\u011b poci\u0165ujete u sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele (o kter\u00e9m jste p\u0159irozen\u011b p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010deni, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00ed sv\u011bt), se neprojev\u00ed, kdy\u017e se shodujete s t\u00edm jedn\u00edm profilem, na kter\u00fd nem\u016f\u017eete p\u0159estat myslet. No, nebojte se! Sepsali jsme rychl\u00e9ho pr\u016fvodce pro rozli\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed v seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zeptejte se sami sebe: S k\u00fdm byste cht\u011bli chodit se sv\u00fdm nejlep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edtelem? Jak\u00e9 vlastnosti byste hledali u \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00e9ho si va\u0161e dcera vezme? To je vysok\u00e1 la\u0165ka, kterou v\u00e1m klademe! V tomto p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvku na blogu se budeme zab\u00fdvat t\u0159emi \u010derven\u00fdmi a t\u0159emi zelen\u00fdmi vlajkami pro rozli\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159i rand\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-red-flag-1-they-re-shady-and-secretive\"><strong>\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka #1: Jsou pochybn\u00ed a tajn\u016fstk\u00e1\u0159\u0161t\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Efezsk\u00fdm 4,25 je v\u00fdzvou k poctiv\u00e9mu \u017eivotu, proto\u017ee n\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \"Proto ka\u017ed\u00fd z v\u00e1s mus\u00ed odlo\u017eit le\u017e a mluvit pravdiv\u011b se sv\u00fdm bli\u017en\u00edm, nebo\u0165 v\u0161ichni jsme \u00fady jednoho t\u011bla. Pokud jeho\/jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed neodpov\u00edd\u00e1 jeho\/jej\u00edmu m\u00edstu v t\u011ble c\u00edrkve, je to jist\u00e9 znamen\u00ed, \u017ee nen\u00ed pro v\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I kdy\u017e se zak\u00e1zan\u00e1 l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t romantick\u00e1. <em>Romeo a Julie<\/em>, v\u0161ichni v\u00edme, jak to dopadlo. Pokud je v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel\/p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b odhodlan\u00fd\/\u00e1 udr\u017eet v\u00e1s v tajnosti p\u0159ed svou rodinou a p\u0159\u00e1teli, pak se d\u011bje n\u011bco divn\u00e9ho. V\u017edycky se najde n\u011bjak\u00e1 v\u00fdmluva, kterou si vymysl\u00ed, ale vy si mus\u00edte stanovit vlastn\u00ed hranici s v\u011bdom\u00edm, \u017ee kdyby v\u00e1s opravdu milovali, v\u00edtali by v\u00e1s v ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota a ukazovali v\u00e1m to!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dal\u0161\u00edm d\u016fvodem, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt varovn\u00fdm sign\u00e1lem, je neochota otev\u0159\u00edt se ostatn\u00edm, kdy\u017e \u010del\u00edte dilematu. Hledat moudrost u n\u011bkoho v c\u00edrkvi ohledn\u011b toho, zda je spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das na to, abyste s n\u011bk\u00fdm chodili, nebo zda jste p\u0159ipraveni na man\u017eelstv\u00ed, je zdrav\u00e9 a je to podporov\u00e1no biblick\u00fdm u\u010den\u00edm. Pokud nejsou ochotni se nikomu otev\u0159\u00edt, pak pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b nejsou na vztah p\u0159ipraveni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e1m nic netajili, ale vy v\u00edte, \u017ee s pravdou hospoda\u0159\u00ed, a to u\u017e p\u0159esahuje r\u00e1mec toho, \u017ee maj\u00ed n\u00e1dech tajemstv\u00ed. Vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed se ur\u010dit\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm. V komunikaci s v\u00e1mi jsou ned\u016fsledn\u00ed a vy m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee je pod povrchem vlastn\u011b nezn\u00e1te. Pokud k v\u00e1m nejsou transparentn\u00ed a jde o v\u00edc ne\u017e jen o to, \u017ee jsou soukromou osobou, pak je \u010das to zabalit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-red-flag-2-they-re-self-centred\"><strong>\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka #2: Jsou sebest\u0159edn\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je \u010derven\u00e1 vlajka zklam\u00e1n\u00ed. Jsou kr\u00e1sn\u00ed, m\u00e1te podobn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy a maj\u00ed obrovskou chu\u0165 se sej\u00edt a pozvat v\u00e1s na ve\u010de\u0159i. Ale dojde na dezert a vy si uv\u011bdom\u00edte, \u017ee o nich v\u00edte v\u0161echno a oni o v\u00e1s nic. V\u00edte v\u0161echno o jejich ned\u00e1vn\u00e9 dovolen\u00e9 na Mallorce, poznali byste jejich kolegy podle jm\u00e9na, kdybyste se zastavili v jejich kancel\u00e1\u0159i, a m\u011bli byste b\u00fdt ocen\u011bni za to, \u017ee jste napl\u00e1novali posledn\u00ed detaily rozlu\u010dky se svobodou jejich nejlep\u0161\u00edho kamar\u00e1da. Nen\u00ed to ide\u00e1ln\u00ed, proto\u017ee o v\u00e1s nev\u011bd\u00ed v\u00edc, ne\u017e co mohou vy\u010d\u00edst z va\u0161eho profilu SALT.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017en\u00e1 se to zd\u00e1 trochu extr\u00e9mn\u00ed (je to tak?). Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee kdy\u017e jste spolu za\u010dali chodit, m\u011bli z\u00e1jem v\u00e1s vyslechnout. Byli ochotni investovat \u010das do va\u0161ich z\u00e1jm\u016f, ochladli, kdy\u017e jste nab\u00eddli n\u00e1zor, kter\u00fd je v rozporu s jejich vlastn\u00edm. Te\u010f m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee vy jste vedlej\u0161\u00ed postavou a oni hlavn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-me-explain\"><strong>Dovolte mi, abych v\u00e1m to vysv\u011btlil.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve Filipsk\u00fdm 2,3 \u010dteme: \"Ne\u010di\u0148te nic ze sobeck\u00e9 cti\u017e\u00e1dosti nebo marniv\u00e9 dom\u00fd\u0161livosti. Sp\u00ed\u0161e si v poko\u0159e va\u017ete druh\u00fdch v\u00edce ne\u017e sebe\". Romantick\u00e9 vztahy jsou snad nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed zkou\u0161kou a nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k prok\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed pokory, nesobeckosti a slu\u017eebnosti. Pokud si pomalu uv\u011bdomujete, \u017ee v\u00e1s \"miluj\u00ed\" jen tehdy, kdy\u017e zapad\u00e1te do jejich obrazu, pak slou\u017e\u00ed sami sob\u011b, ne v\u00e1m a rozhodn\u011b ne Bohu. Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e1m nikdy nekladou osobn\u00ed ot\u00e1zky, a pokud ano, tak v\u00e1m ve skute\u010dnosti nenaslouchaj\u00ed. Pokud na v\u00e1s neust\u00e1le nal\u00e9haj\u00ed, abyste zru\u0161ili sv\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny s p\u0159\u00e1teli, abyste mohli tr\u00e1vit \u010das spole\u010dn\u011b. Sna\u017e\u00ed se ovliv\u0148ovat, jak se obl\u00e9k\u00e1te nebo co j\u00edte. Pokud se diskuse o budoucnosti st\u00e1le v\u00edce podobaj\u00ed jejich ambic\u00edm a st\u00e1le m\u00e9n\u011b t\u011bm va\u0161im, pak je \u010das vyb\u011bhnout ze dve\u0159\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na takov\u00e9m vztahu je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 to, \u017ee bude pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b p\u0159ikr\u00e1\u0161len\u00fd a\u017e nechutn\u011b sladk\u00fdm mno\u017estv\u00edm slovn\u00edch lichotek a mo\u017en\u00e1 i p\u0159em\u00edrou d\u00e1rk\u016f\/gest. Po\u017e\u00e1dejte o radu p\u0159\u00e1tele a d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u00e9 bl\u00edzk\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed mohou v\u00e1\u0161 vztah vid\u011bt zven\u010d\u00ed. Bude t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 to sly\u0161et, ale mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed je toxick\u00fd vztah zni\u010dit v z\u00e1rodku ne\u017e ho pro\u017e\u00edvat a doufat, \u017ee se to jednou zlep\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e1\u0161 dobr\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ainsleybritain.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Ainsley B<\/a> napsal skv\u011blou knihu o tom, jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah. A tak\u00e9 o tom, jak s Bo\u017e\u00ed pomoc\u00ed p\u0159ekonat citov\u00e9 zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"K\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed \u010cERVEN\u00c9 VLAJKY\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/RHJG7ryH9h8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Kdybyste pot\u0159ebovali dal\u0161\u00ed \u010derven\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, na kter\u00e9 byste si m\u011bli d\u00e1t pozor, <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/delphinechui\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine Chui<\/a> sd\u00edl\u00ed v\u00edce!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-red-flag-3-they-re-inconsistent\"><strong>\u010cerven\u00e1 vlajka #3: Jsou nekonzistentn\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Korintsk\u00fdm 15,58 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \"Proto, moji milovan\u00ed brat\u0159i, bu\u010fte pevn\u00ed, neochv\u011bjn\u00ed, v\u017edycky vytrval\u00ed v P\u00e1nov\u011b d\u00edle, proto\u017ee v\u00edte, \u017ee v P\u00e1nu nen\u00ed va\u0161e pr\u00e1ce marn\u00e1.\" V tomto ver\u0161i vid\u00edme Bo\u017e\u00ed v\u00fdzvu k d\u016fslednosti. Bohu slou\u017e\u00edme, kdy\u017e se sna\u017e\u00edme b\u00fdt st\u00e1l\u00ed ve zp\u016fsobu, jak\u00fdm milujeme druh\u00e9, stejn\u011b jako on nem\u011bnn\u011b miluje n\u00e1s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel nebo p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b pravideln\u011b m\u011bn\u00ed sv\u00e9 n\u00e1zory na v\u00e1s, pak v\u00e1s nemiluj\u00ed tak, jak n\u00e1s B\u016fh vyzval, abychom se navz\u00e1jem milovali. Mohou se vyh\u00fdbat rozhovor\u016fm o budoucnosti va\u0161eho vztahu. Nebo mo\u017en\u00e1 r\u00e1di mluv\u00ed o va\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 spole\u010dn\u00e9 budoucnosti, ale v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti v\u00e1s pravideln\u011b zklam\u00e1vaj\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se p\u0159istihnete, \u017ee poka\u017ed\u00e9, kdy\u017e je vid\u00edte, sledujete jejich n\u00e1ladu a upravujete sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed, abyste se jim pokusili zal\u00edbit a p\u0159im\u011bt je, aby v\u00e1s v\u00edce milovali. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se k v\u00e1m chovaj\u00ed dob\u0159e, kdy\u017e jste sami, ale jakmile jste s jejich p\u0159\u00e1teli, m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee v\u00e1s odsunuli na vedlej\u0161\u00ed kolej. Toto st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed horka a chladu je hlavn\u00ed varovn\u00fd sign\u00e1l. Jakkoli mohou b\u00fdt \u00fa\u017easn\u00ed <em>n\u011bkdy<\/em>, hraj\u00ed si s va\u0161\u00edm srdcem, pokud tyto sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e odpov\u00eddaj\u00ed va\u0161im zku\u0161enostem s rand\u011bn\u00edm. Vzlety nikdy nebudou st\u00e1t za p\u00e1dy, \u0161et\u0159ete se na n\u011bco lep\u0161\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-green-flag-1-they-re-kind-and-emotionally-available\"><strong>Zelen\u00e1 vlajka #1: Jsou laskav\u00ed a emocion\u00e1ln\u011b dostupn\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je opravdu n\u011bco p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd se v\u00e1s zept\u00e1 \"jsi v po\u0159\u00e1dku?\" a mysl\u00ed to v\u00e1\u017en\u011b? Nebo ten chlap\u00edk, kter\u00e9ho jste vid\u011bli kle\u010det na zemi, aby si promluvil s bezdomovcem? Nebo ta \u017eena, kter\u00e1 se zastavila, aby pomohla, kdy\u017e vid\u011bla porouchan\u00e9 auto? Tr\u00e1vte \u010das s \u010dlov\u011bkem, s n\u00edm\u017e chod\u00edte, a bu\u010fte sv\u011bdky jeho interakce s lidmi kolem sebe: s ciz\u00edmi lidmi, p\u0159\u00e1teli i rodinou. Pokud je to s gr\u00e1ci\u00ed a laskavost\u00ed, je to jist\u00e1 zelen\u00e1 vlajka. Ukazuje to, \u017ee i kdy\u017e za sv\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed nez\u00edsk\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou sl\u00e1vu, sna\u017e\u00ed se b\u00fdt jako Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nejde jen o to, jak se chovaj\u00ed k ostatn\u00edm, ale tak\u00e9 o to, jak se chovaj\u00ed k v\u00e1m. Efezsk\u00fdm 4,32 n\u00e1s u\u010d\u00ed: \"Bu\u010fte k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem laskav\u00ed, dobrosrde\u010dn\u00ed, odpou\u0161t\u011bjte si navz\u00e1jem, jako B\u016fh v Kristu odpustil v\u00e1m\". Laskavost je tak podce\u0148ovan\u00e1. Jak vypad\u00e1? Vypad\u00e1 jako partner, kter\u00fd je v\u00e1m citov\u011b k dispozici, aby s v\u00e1mi sed\u011bl v jak\u00fdchkoli vzestupech a p\u00e1dech, kter\u00fdmi proch\u00e1z\u00edte. N\u011bkdo, kdo chce skute\u010dn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, jak se v\u00e1m da\u0159\u00ed, n\u011bkdo, kdo naslouch\u00e1, kdy\u017e m\u00e1te \u0161patn\u00fd den, a raduje se, kdy\u017e m\u00e1te dobr\u00fd den. \u010clov\u011bka, kter\u00fd je schopen mluvit o sv\u00fdch pocitech a p\u0159iznat, \u017ee se pot\u00fdk\u00e1 s probl\u00e9my. N\u011bkoho, kdo je schopen po\u017e\u00e1dat o pomoc, kdy\u017e ji pot\u0159ebuje. N\u011bkdo, kdo se k v\u00e1m vrhne, aby v\u00e1s (obrazn\u011b i doslova) objal, kdy\u017e jste rozru\u0161en\u00ed, m\u00edsto aby utekl jinam, proto\u017ee mu to p\u0159ipad\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \"trapn\u00e9\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-ideal\"><strong>Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Va\u0161e osoba je dostate\u010dn\u011b emocion\u00e1ln\u011b vysp\u011bl\u00e1, aby znala sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed hranice a limity, a je ochotn\u00e1 poznat i ty va\u0161e. Tato zelen\u00e1 vlajka je dobr\u00fdm znamen\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 partner bude st\u00e1t po va\u0161em boku ve zkou\u0161k\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m \u017eivot p\u0159inese, a\u0165 u\u017e je va\u0161e spole\u010dn\u00e1 budoucnost jakkoli dlouh\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Rozli\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159i rand\u011bn\u00ed\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rq2apcwOw9I?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UC2Mj_o-J-dVIzhnw7xiWZ_g\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Rae Fitz<\/a> tak\u00e9 poskytuje sv\u016fj pohled na rozli\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed v seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-green-flag-2-they-are-solution-focused-and-willing-to-compromise\"><strong>Zelen\u00e1 vlajka #2: Zam\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed se na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed a jsou ochotni ke kompromis\u016fm.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku se jako p\u00e1r nevyhnuteln\u011b dostanete do pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se poh\u00e1d\u00e1te. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se rozhodnete, \u017ee je \u010das \u0159e\u0161it, \u017ee je pro v\u00e1s vztah na d\u00e1lku p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jim v pr\u00e1ci nab\u00eddli pov\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed, co\u017e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee se s v\u00e1mi nebudou moci tolik v\u00eddat. A\u0165 u\u017e je to jakkoli, opravdu souc\u00edt\u00edme s t\u00edm, \u017ee je to bolestn\u00e9, je to skute\u010dn\u00e1 zkou\u0161ka pevnosti va\u0161eho vztahu a va\u0161\u00ed individu\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry v Bo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n. Ale je tu i sv\u011btl\u00e1 str\u00e1nka. Pr\u016fchod t\u011bmito situacemi nab\u00edz\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost zjistit, zda je v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel\/p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b zam\u011b\u0159en na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. A zda je ochoten p\u0159istoupit na kompromis, kdy\u017e spole\u010dn\u011b hled\u00e1te cestu vp\u0159ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jeremi\u00e1\u0161 29,11-13 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \"V\u017edy\u0165 j\u00e1 zn\u00e1m pl\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1m s v\u00e1mi,\" prohla\u0161uje Hospodin, \"pl\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m maj\u00ed prosp\u011bt a ne u\u0161kodit, pl\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m maj\u00ed d\u00e1t nad\u011bji a budoucnost. Tehdy m\u011b budete vz\u00fdvat, p\u0159ijdete a budete se ke mn\u011b modlit a j\u00e1 v\u00e1s vysly\u0161\u00edm. Budete m\u011b hledat a najdete m\u011b, kdy\u017e m\u011b budete hledat cel\u00fdm sv\u00fdm srdcem.\" Partner, kter\u00fd vid\u00ed, \u017ee existuje cesta vp\u0159ed, a aktivn\u011b o ni usiluje, je str\u00e1\u017ece.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-does-this-look\"><strong>Jak to vypad\u00e1?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e se objev\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017ee, v\u00e1\u0161 partner je neignoruje v nad\u011bji, \u017ee zmiz\u00ed, ale zah\u00e1j\u00ed s v\u00e1mi otev\u0159enou a jasnou komunikaci. K t\u011bmto rozhovor\u016fm p\u0159istupuje s modlitbou a d\u016fv\u011brou, \u017ee je nakonec nem\u00e1 pod kontrolou on, ale B\u016fh. B\u011bhem obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch rozhovor\u016f je ochoten naslouchat i nab\u00eddnout sv\u016fj pohled na v\u011bc. Sna\u017e\u00ed se naj\u00edt kompromis, m\u00edsto aby v\u00e1m vnucovali sv\u016fj program. V kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby vztah fungoval, co\u017e znamen\u00e1 sp\u00ed\u0161e hled\u00e1n\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed ne\u017e poukazov\u00e1n\u00ed na probl\u00e9my. D\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji zjist\u00edte, \u017ee kompromis je z\u00e1chrannou vestou man\u017eelstv\u00ed a rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed. Je to tedy d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 slo\u017eka, kterou byste m\u011bli u sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele\/p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b hledat pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-green-flag-3-they-point-you-to-jesus\"><strong>Zelen\u00e1 vlajka #3: Ukazuj\u00ed ti na Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tato posledn\u00ed zelen\u00e1 vlajka by m\u011bla b\u00fdt na va\u0161em seznamu \"ide\u00e1ln\u00edch man\u017eel\u016f\" neoddiskutovateln\u00e1. Pokud jste sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed c\u00edrkevn\u00ed rodiny, m\u00e1te n\u011bkoho, kdo v\u00e1m ukazuje na Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e. Takov\u00e9ho moudr\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele, kter\u00e9mu se m\u016f\u017eete sv\u011b\u0159it s \u010d\u00edmkoli, dobr\u00fdm i zl\u00fdm, a on v\u00e1s v\u017edy v\u0159ele a jemn\u011b nasm\u011bruje k Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161i. A te\u010f si vzpome\u0148te na toho problematick\u00e9ho nek\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9ho kamar\u00e1da, se kter\u00fdm se sch\u00e1z\u00edte, abyste si popov\u00eddali, co\u017e se t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u017edy zvrhne v obrovskou drb\u00e1rnu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se kter\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edtelem byste cht\u011bli \u017e\u00edt? Od koho odch\u00e1z\u00edte s pocitem, \u017ee jste nabit\u00ed energi\u00ed? Kter\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edteli se chcete st\u00e1le v\u00edce podobat? Nyn\u00ed si p\u0159edstavte, \u017ee si m\u00e1te vybrat jednoho z nich za sv\u00e9ho \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera. Byli byste bl\u00e1zni, kdybyste si nevybrali sv\u00e9ho zbo\u017en\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele z kostela, \u017ee?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-think-about-it\"><strong>P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte o tom<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e s n\u011bk\u00fdm chod\u00edte, zkoum\u00e1te mo\u017enost, \u017ee by s v\u00e1mi mohl b\u00fdt. <em>po zbytek \u017eivota<\/em>. Chv\u00edli o tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte. Mohlo by to b\u00fdt 30, 40, 50, 60 let sd\u00edlen\u00ed domova, rodiny, c\u00edrkve, \u017eivota pro Bo\u017e\u00ed sl\u00e1vu. Ve 2. Timoteovi 4,2 stoj\u00ed: \"K\u00e1zat slovo, b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraven v prav\u00fd \u010das i mimo n\u011bj, k\u00e1rat, k\u00e1rat a napom\u00ednat s plnou trp\u011blivost\u00ed a u\u010den\u00edm.\" V\u0161ichni, kdo se o to pokou\u0161ej\u00ed, jsou p\u0159ipraveni na to, aby se jim da\u0159ilo. To bychom m\u011bli m\u00edt na pam\u011bti, kdy\u017e se sch\u00e1z\u00edme k man\u017eelstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S touto osobou budete mluvit \u010dast\u011bji ne\u017e s k\u00fdmkoli jin\u00fdm. Budete se s n\u00edm v\u00eddat \u010dast\u011bji ne\u017e s k\u00fdmkoli jin\u00fdm. Budete se s n\u00edm modlit a uct\u00edvat ho v\u00edce ne\u017e kohokoli jin\u00e9ho. Proto se pros\u00edm ujist\u011bte, \u017ee je pro v\u00e1s prioritou jejich schopnost a ochota uk\u00e1zat v\u00e1m na Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e. Je obrovsk\u00fdm potvrzen\u00edm jejich vhodnosti jako man\u017eel\u016f, pokud je jejich rozhovor oko\u0159en\u011bn sol\u00ed. Ka\u017edou ned\u011bli by m\u011bli m\u00edt v di\u00e1\u0159i naps\u00e1no, \u017ee chod\u00ed do kostela. Iniciuj\u00ed modlitbu, kdy\u017e jste spolu, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed, \u017ee se za v\u00e1s budou modlit, kdy\u017e spolu nejste. Opravdu neexistuje nic p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u011bj\u0161\u00edho a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 vlastnost d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\"><strong>Poj\u010fme uzav\u0159\u00edt<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak jste se dostali a\u017e sem. Bu\u010f se vnit\u0159n\u011b radujete, proto\u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 partner m\u00e1v\u00e1 jen zelen\u00fdmi vlaje\u010dkami. Nebo v\u00e1s mo\u017en\u00e1 t\u00ed\u017e\u00ed v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 vztah nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Modl\u00edme se, abyste poznali Bo\u017e\u00ed pokoj, kdy\u017e s v\u00e1mi kr\u00e1\u010d\u00ed v jak\u00e9koli budoucnosti va\u0161eho vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ibli\u017ete se k t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed znaj\u00ed v\u00e1s a va\u0161eho p\u0159\u00edtele\/p\u0159\u00edtelkyni. Obra\u0165te se na n\u011b s prosbou o modlitbu a moudrost, kdy\u017e o t\u011bchto v\u011bcech uva\u017eujete. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel um\u00edr\u00e1 touhou \u0159\u00edct v\u00e1m, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00edte. <em>mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed<\/em>. Mus\u00edte p\u0159iznat, \u017ee v\u00edte, \u017ee byste k nim c\u00edtili tot\u00e9\u017e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud jste si mysleli, \u017ee to byla dobr\u00e1 rada, p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si na\u0161e dal\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky, nap\u0159. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/cs\/uspech-seznamovaci-aplikace\/\">Tipy pro \u00fasp\u011bch v seznamovac\u00edch aplikac\u00edch<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this post we lay out 3 Red Flags in Christian dating that you should run from in 2026. Plus we give 3 Green Flags that show you&#8217;ve found a great partner. TL;DR: The Summary Here are the red flags and green flags that we&#8217;ll be covering in this post. 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